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Marina Keegan, Yale Student's Parents Say Sharing Of Essay Is A Comfort

Marina Keegan

BRIDGET MURPHY   05/29/12 10:41 PM ET  AP

WAYLAND, Mass. — "What we have to remember is that we can still do anything," Marina Keegan wrote to fellow Yale University graduates. "... We can't, we must not lose this sense of possibility because in the end, it's all we have."

Three days after the Yale alumna's death in a car crash, her parents, Tracy and Kevin Keegan, said from their Massachusetts home that it was comforting that even strangers were drawing inspiration from their daughter's words as her last newspaper column spread across the Internet.

"I would love my daughter's words, few as they may be, to be shared," Tracy Keegan said. "... That's all that's left of her now, her words."

Yale Daily News Editor Max de La Bruyere said Tuesday that the newspaper put Keegan's print column online as a tribute following her death Saturday on Cape Cod. He said it had gotten 400,000 hits on the newspaper's website after first spreading through Yale students' Facebook and Twitter accounts. The newspaper tracked readers as far away as Asia.

"It's a huge outpouring of sympathy," he said. "People are very moved by it."

The 22-year-old's column talked about anxiety that came with the feeling of losing the web of fellowship at Yale. She said what she wanted out of life was "the opposite of loneliness," and encouraged classmates by saying "the best years of our lives are not behind us."

"It's not quite love and it's not quite community," the English major wrote of her time at Yale. "It's just this feeling that there are people, an abundance of people, who are in this together."

The Keegans said their daughter's boyfriend, 22-year-old Michael Gocksch of Centerport, N.Y., fell asleep at the wheel while driving with her to their family's summer place in Wellfleet on Cape Cod.

The young couple had been to Brookline earlier in the day so their daughter could introduce her boyfriend and fellow 2012 graduate to her grandmother. The couple was heading to a birthday dinner for Keegan's father when she died. Gocksch was hospitalized in stable condition after the crash and later discharged.

Massachusetts State Police are still investigating the cause of the crash, which occurred on Route 6 in the town of Dennis. They said speed wasn't a factor and both were wearing seatbelts. The vehicle drifted off the road and into guardrails on both sides of the road before flipping.

Keegan's parents said she was about to start a job as an assistant to the general counsel at The New Yorker, where she interned last summer and got some of her work onto a magazine blog.

The New York Times also published a piece she wrote after another column she did for the Yale Daily News sparked a debate about why 25 percent of Yale graduates go into finance or consulting instead of pursuing employment more closely connected to their studies and aspirations.

Keegan had been the president of Yale College Democrats. She worked in New Hampshire in the summer of 2008 as one of the youngest paid staffers for the Obama presidential campaign, her parents said Tuesday while looking at a photo of their daughter with the president.

The Keegans spent graduation weekend with their daughter in New Haven, time they said they were grateful for as they prepare for her memorial Saturday at The First Parish in Wayland. They plan to spread her ashes in Cape Cod Bay.

Yale professor and literary critic Harold Bloom said Keegan had become like an adopted granddaughter to him after serving as his research assistant for the past two years. He taught her seminars in Shakespeare and American poetry and called her senior essay about the poet John Keats' influence on author F. Scott Fitzgerald's work "quite publishable."

In August, a musical that Keegan wrote will be staged in New York City as part of The New York International Fringe Festival, fellow 2012 Yale graduate and project collaborator Mark Sonnenblick said.

Called "Independents," the play is about a group of 20-somethings smuggling drugs on a Revolutionary War-era ship while posing as war re-enactors. When the posse's leader disappears, the friends try to become real re-enactors.

Sonnenblick, who wrote the show's lyrics, said the script is about transitioning to adulthood and maintaining community and relationships, themes that embodied much of Keegan's writing.

"These are things Marina didn't necessarily have answers for," Sonnenblick said. "She took on issues she was concerned about and happened to her and her friends."

The Yale graduate said it like this in her last column: "We're in this together, 2012. Let's make something happen to this world."

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Online:

Keegan's essay: http://www.yaledailynews.com/news/2012/may/27/keegan-opposite-loneliness/?cross-campus

Read Keegan's column here.
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05:40 PM on 06/03/2012
All the sour grapes on this thread is simply because she went to Yale. Envy and pettiness doesn't end even when a girl dies, apparently. The tone of the whiners about the coverage of this tragedy speaks volumes about them. I'm sure they don't bother to criticize all the worthless coverage written about celebrities' kids. We choose what we care about.
02:42 PM on 05/31/2012
igwalker66 if you don't like it, don't read it. Your dumb.
01:46 AM on 05/31/2012
Well sonofa-B if I didn't just lose this lengthy, loquatious but eloquent response about this. SO, to make a long, engrossing story short, SLEEP. Sleepy? Tired? Your body wants SLEEP. I have done enough long-distance trips (on motorcycle and in cars) to know how effective all those artificial options are, versus just stopping for a nap. The power boosts, energy drinks, caffeine, exercise, cold air, pain...none of it works in the long term. 30 minutes later, you're drowsing again.
So do some version of what I always do: throw a blanket under a tree at a busy rest stop, preferably with some kind of pillow - even if it's my riding jacket. Do not set an alarm. Awake naturally and refreshed. Of course, those who are paranoid and fearful about other people are going to say, "Oh My, what if someone attacks you!?" Whatever.
10:45 PM on 05/30/2012
I'll say it again. This is not news, it's an obituary. How does this girl rate all the attention?
03:11 PM on 06/02/2012
Go elsewhere if you don't want to read this.
03:17 PM on 06/03/2012
Go elsewhere? How profound. It's all over my computer. My daughter died in a car accident 3 years ago. It is the most painful thing imaginable but it is NOT news for the entire country and does not rate being on my computer screen every time I turn it on. She is a white, privileged, pretty girl that is being sensationalized to sell ad space. It's pathetic and wrong.
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pslcitizen
I intend to live forever. So far, so good.
08:12 PM on 05/30/2012
I am glad they can find some peace in their daughters words.
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bobcatt53
Only Jesus!
07:20 PM on 05/30/2012
What a beautiful young lady. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends.
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06:40 PM on 05/30/2012
A true tragedy. This kid would have made a big impact on whatever and wherever she went. God Bless her soul and her family.
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smp276dp
free us from the craziness
06:34 PM on 05/30/2012
That is so sad. Being a parent I could no imagine losing a child.
Don't even want to think about it. RIP young lady.
03:45 PM on 05/30/2012
It is very tragic that a young life was cut so short, but why the media fuss? If it had been some Jane Doe from community college, there never would have been anything in the news about it.
JManson
My rights trump your fears
04:02 PM on 05/30/2012
That's what I was wondering, too. I was waiting to read that she was somebody super-special. Yes, she did well in her life, but why should her life be worth more than any other woman's?
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bobcatt53
Only Jesus!
07:22 PM on 05/30/2012
I don't think that's fair.
03:43 PM on 05/30/2012
Odds are that he was texting when the accident happened.
gov111w
Truth-Justice-And the American way !
02:32 PM on 05/30/2012
It is always so important that BOTH people in a car on a long drive stay awake. Why so many people feel it is OK for the non-driver to sleep I'll never know or understand. If both were awake this most likely could have been prevented !!!
03:42 PM on 05/30/2012
Do authorities know that she was asleep? I must have missed something.
gov111w
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03:47 PM on 05/30/2012
No she was awake when her boy friend fell asleep and hit both guard rails and flipped the car over...I guess she just did not want to wake him...right ?
01:51 PM on 05/30/2012
This is not the first case where the driver fell asleep behind the wheel and ended up killing other passengers in their car or the driver/passengers in the other car. This can be easily prevented from happening in the first place. If you start dozing off at the wheel, please do us all a favor, pull over immediately and if possible, go to a rest area or convenience store, walk around, get some drinks and eat some food to give you the energy. If you are with another person of legal driving age, ask to change positions. Open the car window to give you fresh air as it helps you to stay alert. Just do everything you can to avoid falling asleep at the wheel. The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration reported that there are 56,000 crashes annually in which driver drowsiness/fatigue were cited by police. Roughly 40,000 cause injuries and 1,550 lead to fatalities. Just like drinking and driving or texting and driving don’t mix, sleep deprivation and driving could lead to the same serious consequences!
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Janenotdoe
truth be known...
01:13 PM on 05/30/2012
Hope Ms. Keegan's family/ friends don't read H-P.
Doubt some of these insensitive & unnecessary comments would be very appreciated :(
firstamendment3
It's all so ironic.
01:19 PM on 05/30/2012
Sorry, but why has aol been milking this story all week?
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Janenotdoe
truth be known...
08:41 AM on 05/31/2012
Think it's just the media's style, firstamendment3 ...BUT my thought is we don't have to read it--- especially if it's going to make us unkind to innocent folks. ya know?
01:06 PM on 05/30/2012
It's tragic about her death but there are many more young adults involved in unfortunate accidents who weren't as wealthy as she, didn't have the opportunities she did, did a lot more for their communities and don't get days and days of notoriety. For how intelligent she was, she should have realized her boyfriend was tired after their busy day -- sad, but preventable. So please, no more about her.
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BEATRIX KIDDO
how long does it take this sh*t to take effect?
03:00 PM on 05/30/2012
Then don't read or comment about her if you feel that way. All accidents are preventable but that's not a good reason to diminish this poor girls life....maybe you need to get one of your own.
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bobcatt53
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07:24 PM on 05/30/2012
Very cold. Would you tell her parents this??
12:53 PM on 05/30/2012
She sounded like she was a great person and was ready to get her career started what a sad, tragic day for her family Now her dad has to remember his daughter was on her way to his birthday dinner when she was killed that is going to burden him rest of his life I know it would me.! RIP MARINA KEEGAN