It Ain't Over: Two Curious Moms Answer The Million Dollar Question

First Posted: 08/29/2012 11:14 am EDT Updated: 10/18/2012 5:49 pm EDT

One of the reasons I started my website is that I wanted a place for women to come together and dream. We women need to know that we don't have to hold on to an old dream that has stopped nurturing us -- that there's always time to start a new dream. This week's story is about two women who found a way to answer the million dollar question on every pregnant mother's mind: is it a boy or a girl. --Marlo,

By Lori Weiss

Rebecca Griffin knew from the time she was a child, that she wanted to have children -- lots and lots of children. One hundred, to be exact. At least that’s what she told her mother when she was 10. And while her husband may not have agreed on the number, he was all on board with having a big family. So first came Joe, then Nick and Luke, and only three months later, she found out she was pregnant again. And each time, Rebecca’s curiosity led her to try anything she could find, that might give her a clue as to whether she was having a boy or a girl, long before she was ready for a sonogram.

“I’ve never been able to keep a secret and I’ve always peeked at my Christmas presents,” Rebecca laughed. "I tried the pencil test, where you tie the pencil to a string and hold it over your belly. I tried the Chinese gender chart which, by the way, was right all four times. I even went to an internet site that has you fill in where you conceived and what you had for dinner and it promised 99 percent accuracy!”

Her pregnancies, particularly the fourth time around, were the talk of the little cul-de-sac where all the neighbors would gather at night. After having three sons, Rebecca was eager to add a little girl to her family. And she and her friend Teresa Garland would spend the evenings chatting about the latest gender detection gimmick Rebecca had discovered.

“We were amazed that there wasn’t something on the market that could predict whether you were carrying a boy or a girl,” Teresa said. “And we thought, Whoever fills that niche is going to become a millionaire, because what a great product that would be.

It was one of those conversations we all have in which we say, "If only someone would…" But the difference this time, was that Rebecca and Teresa decided not to wait for someone else.

Rebecca worked in real estate and Teresa in accounting. Neither of them had any knowledge of science, but they both knew how to Google, and step by step they found not only what it might take to create a gender test, but they discovered that women had been trying to find this piece of the puzzle since the 17th century.

“Our real epiphany,” Rebecca explained “came when we saw that women used to go out into the field and pee on wheat and barley. If the wheat grew, they believed they’d have a girl. And if it was the barley, then it would be a boy. This is an answer women have been searching for, for centuries.”

So that’s when the pair went to work. They started calling friends and colleagues to see who might be able to help them develop a gender test and by the fourth phone call, they came across a lab right in their hometown of Dallas, Texas. And the owner was intrigued by their research.

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  • Teresa & Rebecca

    Teresa Garland, left, and Rebecca Griffin, right, knew what it was like to be expectant mother--anxious to discover the gender of their babies. And it used to be that a mother had to wait months before an ultrasound would tell them. But Teresa and Rebecca hated how long they had waited, so they decided to make a product that could accurately predict whether a mother was carrying a boy or a girl.

  • Coming Off The Production Line

    When Teresa and Rebecca set out to create IntelliGender, they were shocked that there wasn't already something on the market that could reveal the gender of a child earlier than a sonogram. They even thought, <em>Whoever fills that niche is going to be a millionaire.</em>

  • IntelliGender In Stores

    Today, IntelliGender is sold in drugstores worldwide and brings in more than two million dollars every year. And, Rebecca and Teresa have even expanded their product line to include IntelliCeuticals, a line of natural remedies for pregnant mothers.

  • Collecting Urine In The Mailbox

    When Teresa and Rebecca first decided to start their journey, they called their friends and co-workers to see if anyone they knew would be able to help them develop a gender test. After a few calls they found a lab in Texas that would be willing to help them out, but first they needed urine from pregnant women. Soon, Rebecca was receiving urine in her mailbox from dozens of moms interested in the project.

  • Early Stages of Testing

    Teresa and Rebecca started testing the various urine samples from women who were still weeks away from their ultrasound to women who had already found out the gender of their baby. Here, in the very early stages of testing the ladies observe the color changes as they use different amounts of chemicals and urine.

  • Working From Home

    When they weren't testing urine in the lab, Teresa and Rebecca experimented in Teresa's kitchen. With only a few layers of newspaper and computer paper as a barrier from the urine and the island, the ladies spent their weekends running tests.

  • Boy Or Girl

    After endless testing and development, Teresa and Rebecca developed a test that--in just a few minutes--could tell a mother the gender of the baby she was carrying. If the mother's urine turned a dark, smoky green when the chemicals were added, it was a boy. But if it turned orange, or there was little or no change, it was a girl. Here, the ladies continue to do quality control testing in the lab in preparation of expanding IntelliGender into the mass retail market.

  • Quality Control

    Teresa and Rebecca took quality control very seriously when developing IntelliGender. Here, Teresa examines the product as it is coming off the production line.

  • The Production Line

    Because nothing like IntelliGender really existed before Rebecca and Teresa created it, there were very few labs out there that could help them mass-produce their product. So, the ladies had a machine designed and engineered to fit the needs of their product.

  • IntelliGender Nationwide

    After showing at their first trade show, where drugstores from all over the world come together to check out newly invented products to stock their shelves, IntelliGender started to take off. At the show Walgreens signed up to see the product, and soon they were shipping 25,000 gender tests to Walgreens location across the country.

  • The Company's First Board Meeting

    Once they finally landed a deal with their first major retail chain, a regional grocery store in San Antonio, Texas, Teresa, Rebecca and their families took a board trip to Cabo San Lucas to celebrate and plan out their business strategy for the next year. Here, huddled around the "board table" are Kurt Griffin (far left), Teresa Garland (center left), Don Garland (center right), and Rebecca Griffin (far right).

  • Social Media Giveaways

    As of today, six years after Teresa and Rebecca first started out on the journey to create an at-home gender prediction test, they are a full-force business with several other lines of products. From time to time the company has promotions on their Facebook page where they give away some of their products like IntelliCeuticals and an IntelliGender kit to a few lucky ladies.

  • Taking A Break

    No matter how much IntelliGender expands to include other kinds of products, Teresa and Rebecca still like to make it feel like they are running a family business. Because they started everything in their kitchens and family rooms, the two ladies have designed their office to reflect the same environment. Here the ladies take a quick break on a comfy couch in the IntelliGender office.

  • Hard At Work

    Before she and Teresa launched IntelliGender, Rebecca worked in real estate. Today, she manages all of the company's advertising, so she spends a lot of time in her office on the phone with press contacts.

  • In The Office

    Before launching the company, Teresa used to be an accountant, so it was only fitting that she became IntelliGender's CFO when she started the company with Rebecca. Here, Teresa is hard at work, on the phone with the company's tax accountant.

  • Teresa & Garrett

    Like so many mothers who have anxiously waited to find out the gender of their child, Teresa had to wait until her sonogram in order to find out that she was carrying a son. Here, she is with her only child, Garrett, around the time she and her family first met Rebecca and her family.

  • The Griffin Family

    Rebecca knew from a very young age that she wanted to have lots and lots of children, and her husband, Kurt, certainly wasn't opposed to having a big family. Here, the Griffin family, Nick and Luke (left), Kurt (center left), Rebecca (center right) with Olivia on her lap, and Joe (right).

“He told us we had to start finding pregnant urine,” Teresa said, “which turned out to be the hardest part! We took the day off from work and went to the mall and thought we’d hang out in front of a maternity store. We’d written up a survey and brought cups and money, thinking that women would be willing to give us samples if we paid them $20. Security didn’t think that was such a great idea. I think we got three samples before we were thrown out.”

"But then I found a good resource through a mom-to-mom group at my church,” Rebecca added, “and that’s when the calls started coming in. Women wanted to know if they could leave urine samples in my mailbox! I was sure the neighbors would think I was dealing drugs and the mailman wouldn’t deliver my mail.”

Samples started arriving in just about anything the expectant moms could get it into. Rebecca would come home and find a mailbox full of water bottles and sandwich bags.

“Even when you go to the doctor,” Teresa continued, “it’s not easy to get it straight into that little cup, so we kind of wondered how they managed to capture it, but they did! It’s hot in Dallas, so it would get kind of stinky, but eventually we became immune to it. We’d just lay out newspapers on our kitchen islands and test the samples with a chemical solution the lab had helped us put together. We must have gone through a gallon of pee a week!”

The women tested a variety of samples, both in their kitchens and at the lab -- from women who were still weeks away from their sonogram and others who had already received their results. And what they found was that if the urine turned a dark smoky green when the chemicals were added, the baby was going to be a boy. If it turned orange or there wasn’t much change in color, it would be a girl. And 90 percent of the time, their gender test was right.

That million-dollar moment -- the one that everyone thinks about but rarely pursues -- was closer than they thought.

“Really, we thought it would be mailbox money,” Rebecca said, “that we’d keep our day jobs and this would just be an extra source of income. We’d put up a website and run the company through the mail.”

And that’s exactly where the two friends began. There was no need for FDA approval, because gender isn’t a medical condition and the results wouldn’t require any sort of change in behavior. So they built a website and named their gender prediction test IntelliGender, and within five days the orders started coming in. It wasn’t long before maternity boutiques began ordering the tests in bulk and the ladies were ready to take their show on the road. They began at a trade show called Mom To Mom.

“We really weren’t prepared,” Teresa said. “We hung up a banner and put out pink and blue M&Ms. We didn’t even have a mechanism to take orders. We just wrote down what they wanted, shipped the tests and invoiced the boutiques electronically. That was a big lesson. When you’re dealing with small Moms and Pops, get paid up front. We’re still trying to collect on some of those orders.”

But it was an accidental meeting that took the little idea that they had cultivated in their neighborhood cul-de-sac to the shelves of drugstores around the world. Rebecca had made an appearance on a television show and a sales rep, who happened to share office space with the producers, noticed their product sitting on a desk. He called the fledgling inventors and convinced them to bring their product to the Global Market Development Center, a trade show where drugstores look for new products to fill their shelves.

“Buyers signed up to meet with us,” Teresa recalled, “and when I saw Walgreens on that list, I was as nervous as a long-tail cat in a room full of rockers! But when their buyer said that it was the first new thing she’d seen in a long time, I was absolutely giddy. Then I called Rebecca and said, ‘Oh my gosh, now what are we going to do?’”

What they did was move into fast forward. With a commitment from Walgreens, the women were able to get a 60-day line of credit in the midst of the recession. They ordered custom-made manufacturing equipment and partnered with the lab owner who had helped them with their initial research. And four years from the time the two women first conceived of the idea, they were delivering 25,000 gender prediction tests to be distributed to every Walgreens in the country. Today, Intelligender can be found in drug stores around the world, and brings in more than two million dollars in revenue a year. And that fourth baby Rebecca was so curious about, her name is Olivia and she’s now 7-years-old.

“We’re giving moms and couples the opportunity to bridge the curiosity gap,” Rebecca said with a smile, “giving them another aspect of their pregnancy to enjoy. But we also hope that women will see what we’ve done and know that they can take an idea and make a career out of it.”

“We didn’t set out with great big aspirations,” Teresa added. “We just thought this was something that would bring in a little extra money. But it was like a carpet rolling out in front of us: it would roll out a few feet and we’d walk, then it would roll out a few more feet and we’d walk further. We just took it one step at a time.”

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