It Ain't Over: How One Woman's Bucket List Is Making A World Of Difference


First Posted: 09/19/2012 9:49 am Updated: 10/09/2012 3:28 pm

One of the reasons I started my website is that I wanted a place for women to come together and dream. We women need to know that we don't have to hang on to an old dream that has stopped nurturing us -- that there is always time to start a new dream. This week's story is about one woman who created a bucket list to fulfill her lifelong dreams and wound up creating jobs for over 60 women in Peru. -– Marlo, MarloThomas.com

By Lori Weiss

Before Terisa Brooks Huddleston’s feet could reach the pedals of her mother’s Singer 401 sewing machine, she was sitting on Mom’s lap, putting together the perfect little sundress. The sundress was so small it was made out of two kitchen towels with a ribbon that tied on the shoulders. So by the time she was old enough to handle a pair of scissors, her parents weren’t completely surprised when she got, well, creative.

“I thought the sleeves on my father’s dress shirt would make a lovely outfit for my cat,” she laughed. “I have to say, in my defense, it did come out pretty cute!”

And while her mother convinced her that shopping for fabric in the family closets probably wasn’t such a good idea, she continued to encourage the little designer’s interest, so much so, that by the third grade, Terisa was making all her own school clothes. What no one could have known was that 42 years later, those early lessons would change Terisa’s life and the lives of women around the world.

“When I was approaching 50, and my youngest was turning 18,” Terisa explained, “I decided I was going to redefine my life. I called it my year of jubilee. And I made a list of 100 dreams. They ranged from a book I wanted to read to seeing the Rose Bowl Parade in Pasadena. The first 25 were easy to come up with, but by the time I reached 60, I was really digging deep!”

But once the list was complete, Terisa realized it told a story. Everything on it fit into three categories: First, survival -- which to her meant finding ways to continue living the life she loved in Napa Valley, California. Next came creativity -- which was natural for a woman who had taken her childhood skills and spun them into a dressmaking business and the final thread she discovered was a deep hope to make society better.

And then, as if she’d written the script for her next chapter, the opportunities simply began to appear.

“The week before my 50th birthday,” Teresa recalled, “I was invited over to one of my client’s homes. She and her husband were doing amazing work in Peru with Project New Hope International and Creation Peru. The country was ruled by a communistic party until 12 years ago and the people there don’t have the history to know how to run businesses the way we do. They had gone over and helped to set up a dairy, a cuy (guinea pig) farm and a training program to teach textile arts to the women who lived in the barrios of Trujillo, a coastal city where the average income is $10 to $15 a month."

“The women were doing beautiful work, but the problem was, they had to go into the city to sell their scarves and sweaters, and their children were left alone.”

The United States established a free trade agreement with Peru in 2006, and Terisa’s friends were hoping that with her knowledge of fabric and design, they could find a way to help the women sell their unique wares to women in America.
“I knew immediately that this was what I was meant to do. I called my husband from their driveway and said, ‘Honey, I’m going to Peru!’ And all he said was, ‘Are you coming home first or should I just check the mailbox?’”

And with that, Terisa began her “year of jubilee.” She went to the barrios of Trujillo and met the women who were living in tiny huts. Many of their husbands had left to find work in the city and never returned -- leaving the women to care for their children alone. Terisa looked at their wares and knew if she could just make a few changes in the materials they used and tweak their designs, so they’d better suit the tastes of American women, she could help them build a brand and better lives.


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  • Immersed In Peruvian Culture

    Terisa poses in front of Totora reed fishing boats in Huanchaco, Peru.

  • 100 Dreams List

    When Terisa turned 50, she wrote out a bucket list of 100 dreams at the suggestion of her nephew. It was difficult, but it wound up transforming Terisa's life -- and the lives of others!

  • Women Working Together

    Terisa poses with business partner and founder of Creation Peru, Joanne Birtcher.

  • Getting The Hang Of It

    Terisa and her team held training workshops to teach the Peruvian women hand knitting. Other techniques that were taught included crochet, embroidery, macramé, horquilla and crewel.

  • Learning The Craft

    "Our Hands For Hope" Peruvian Project Coordinator, Violeta Ore Duclos, leads a training session.

  • Customizing For The Customer

    Terisa inspects the knits that her students have created. "Our Hands For Hope" acquainted these women with the colors and fibers that would sell in the United States.

  • Starting Small

    This is the original sundress and the original 401 Singer sewing machine that began Terisa's fascination with designing clothes.

  • Drawing On Formal Experience

    "Our Hands For Hope" isn't Terisa's first venture into the world of fashion. In the 1980s, she had a line of special occasion evening wear.

  • The Perfect Material

    This is the first postcard that was used to publicize "Our Hands For Hope." Alpaca fleece is as warm as wool and as soft as cashmere -- it is used to create many of the knits that the company produces.

  • Sustainable Skills

    The original training sessions took place in 2006, but many women still meet to share knitting styles and ideas.

  • A Means Of Survival

    Terisa met this young, widowed mother of five on one of her many trips to Peru. "Our Hands For Hope" provides a way for women like her to support their families.

  • Life In The Barrios

    Barrio homes are made from plastic, reeds for roofing and other found items. This is a barrio outside of Trujillo, Peru.

  • Trunk Show Debut

    This is a display of "Our Hands For Hope" products at their very first trunk show. Everything was well-received, and Terisa knew that the company was off and running.

  • Attention To Detail

    This is a close-up of the incredibly detailed crewel embroidery work done by the Peruvian women.

  • Giving Back

    Each time a CuddleGram™ is purchased, a blanket is donated to the children in the barrios on behalf of the buyer.

  • Appreciation From The Barrios

    A Peruvian mother and her children show off their new fleece blankets that were donated by "Our Hands For Hope."

  • Going Public

    Here, Terisa appears in an interview, wearing the most popular "Our Hands For Hope" item - the "Benita" hand-knit alpaca poncho.

  • Sewing In The Classroom

    Here, Terisa visits a Peruvian sewing school.

  • Paying It Forward

    One of Terisa's goals on her "100 Dreams List" was to give back, because of all of the blessings she had been given.

  • The Huddleston Clan

    The Huddleston family gathers for the wedding of Terisa's daughter last year.



That’s when she decided to go where no one -- not even her friends who had been working in Peru for years, had gone before. The program’s project coordinator, Violeta, had tracked down two “companies” in Lima, who were wholesaling Alpaca -- a material that’s as warm as wool and as soft as cashmere.

“When the taxi driver said he didn’t want to take us straight through a certain area, we were a little suspect,” Terisa remembered, “but we kept going. We passed through a set of gates and everywhere we looked, there were dilapidated buildings and heaps of garbage everywhere. And there was a group of skinny men, just staring at us. Then the gate we entered closed behind us. It was one of those moments where you think I’ve seen this in movies before and there’s never a good ending.

“Those same men surrounded us and walked us into the office, where a man came out with a spool of yarn and an old color card. On our way out, I turned around and saw someone on top of the roof with a gun, which kind of made me think they were selling more than just Alpaca. Needless to say, we decided to go take a look at the other company.”

Fortunately their next stop was a real yarn store, and with a micro-finance loan in place, Terisa was able to help the women acquire the materials they needed to take their knitting, crocheting, crewel and embroidery skills to a new level.
She then returned to Napa Valley and began working with their designs -- suggesting that they add or subtract a few inches or use a color that American women might like -- and then asked the women to set their own prices.

“These women can look at a sketch and reproduce it instantly,” Terisa said. “So Violeta brought them the yarn and the patterns and then sent us some finished pieces. And with a little back and forth, we knew we were ready to put them in business.”

So, in July of 2011, Terisa launched Our Hands For Hope, an ecommerce business, where she sells the scarves, shawls, sweaters, hats and throws created by the budding entrepreneurs. And with a special program that she calls “Cuddlegrams,” for every throw sold, Terisa donates a blanket to a child living in the barrios.

“So many people are helping us make this happen. Just a few weeks ago the postal service in Trujillo went on strike and we had 200 pounds of knits all ready to ship. Violeta found six people who were on their way back from a mission trip, people we’ve never met, and when they heard about our dilemma, they brought back the pieces in their own suitcases.”

With the help of so many hands, Terisa has been able to extend her reach to retail outlets in the Napa Valley area, including wineries like Robert Mondavi and Hess, as well as hotel boutiques such as Westend Napa in the Avia Hotel. Next on her list is to create a group of “Alpacateers,” women who will throw home parties and trunk shows around the country.

“We’ve been able to keep 60 women knitting and crocheting consistently over the last year,“ Terisa continued, “and they’ve all been able to raise their income to a level that’s considered close to middle-class in Peru. And they’re helping each other. One of the women needed surgery and couldn’t afford it, so the group sent us a note with the last order asking if each of them could knit one extra wrap, so they could donate the money to her. That tells the whole story -- this is about women helping women, and now with the 'Alpacateers' we’ll be able to help women here at home take care of their families too.

“When I started my list of 100 dreams, I had no idea where it would take me, but I’m hoping that it’s just the beginning of making many other women’s dreams come true as well.”




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