The holidays are supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year, but does that still ring true when you're newly divorced?

On Tuesday, HuffPost Live host Alicia Menendez sat down with guests Zoe Bergeal and divorce mentor Joanie Winberg to discuss how to survive that first holiday season after a split. Watch the video above to see what they had to say, then click through the slideshow below for 12 things you should never ask a divorced person around the holidays.

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