01/16/2013 07:45 am ET

I Am Named In A Terrible Book

Hi Cary,

Several years ago, my cousin and his wife asked if I would put up one of their friends, a university professor, and his wife during their stay in Tokyo where I live. My apartment is very small and I was about to be visited by my ex and our daughter who were flying in from Italy. I nonetheless agreed as I figured friends of my cousins were friends of mine.


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