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Buddha Nature: 5 Tips In Tibetan Buddhism For Opening Your Heart And Mind

Posted: 04/14/2012 6:38 am

1. Remember Who You Are

Deep within all beings is a kind of spark that lights and warms our lives. It's been called by many names in many different traditions. In the Buddhist tradition it's known as "Buddha nature"-- which is often described in terms of three qualities: boundless wisdom, infinite capability, and immeasurable loving-kindness and compassion.

One of the core teachings of Buddhism is that we all possess this nature. You may think that you're an accountant, an executive, a teacher, a student, a parent, a child -- and indeed, on a mundane, every-day level, you are. But underneath a particular identity and all the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that may attach to it, what you are is the ever-evolving potential of a being who is capable not only of transcending suffering but of leading all other creatures out of darkness and pain, as well.

So all you really have to do in order to open your heart and your mind is to remember your Buddha nature!

2. Mind Your Body

Unfortunately that's not always easy. Throughout our lives we're urged to define ourselves and our experiences in particular ways. Over time, these definitions become so familiar that we end up identifying with them completely as the absolute truth of who we are.

We can, however, begin to break down our mundane, everyday identities into smaller pieces -- a process through which we begin to discover that who we think we are isn't quite as solid as we believe. One of the easiest ways to begin is to spend a little time with our bodies.

It's surprising how many of us forget our bodies. It's so easy to get caught up in thoughts and feelings and overlook this extraordinary system of muscles, bones, organs and so on that serves as a physical support for our thoughts, feelings and behaviors.

So one thing we can do -- preferably while sitting in a comfortable position with the spine straight and muscles relaxed -- is to start simply and gently appreciating that we have a body, a basic ground of experience. We can begin by simply noticing: "There is a leg. There is a toe." We can simply notice, too, that there is a heart that is beating; there are lungs that are expanding and contracting; there is blood coursing through veins. We can also notice physical sensations such as being cold or being warm, feeling pain in the knees, back or shoulders, and so on. The point of the practice is to simply allow ourselves to become alert to the physical aspect of our being in a very easygoing and gentle way, without judging it or identifying with it.

3. You Are Not Your Feelings, You Are Not Your Thoughts

We've become so used to the potency, frequency and variety of the thoughts and feelings that course through our awareness throughout the day that it's very easy to identify with and as them. This tendency is built into our very language. "I'm angry." "I'm afraid." "I'm happy. "I'm sad."

We can bring the same kind of attention we brought to our bodies to our thoughts and feelings -- gently noticing them as they arise, abide for a moment and, somewhat to our surprise perhaps, disappear. In so doing, we gently begin to recognize that our thoughts and feelings are only aspects of experience and not the totality. Our identities may be may be influenced by mental and emotional patterns in the subtle body, but we are not those patterns.

Try practicing this sort of gentle noticing the next time you feel a strong emotion. Allow the emotion to arise, but look at it as an event occurring within a broader frame of awareness. Tell yourself that what ever you're experiencing is not the total "you," that what you're feeling is only one piece of your experience.

We can also bring this same sort of attention to our thoughts which are often intimately linked to our identities. The speed with which thoughts appear and disappear across the screens of our minds are like out-of-control "breaking news update crawlers" that appear across television screens. We can hardly read one before another takes its place -- and another and another. Our awareness is overwhelmed by fleeting impressions, half-grasped notions, bits of sentences, ideas that have only begun to form before they disappear.

As we gradually turn attention to our thoughts, rather than being irritated, disturbed or carried away by them, we slowly find ourselves amazed by their coming and going. We begin to appreciate the entire process of thinking in and of itself.

4. Rest In Space

In time, we also begin to notice gaps between thoughts and feelings -- barely perceptible moments in which there is simply no thought, no feeling, just pure, open awareness. As these gaps grow longer -- and a little less startling -- we can begin to rest within them. For a brief second or so, we can have a direct experience of what in the Buddhist tradition is known as the essence of mind, or the nature of mind: a luminous, limitless awareness that is not chopped up into subject and object, self and other, perceiver and perceived. All distinctions between "the looker" and what was being "looked at" fall away, and for an instant we experience complete lack of separation between everything we feel, see, smell, and so on, and the awareness that sees, smells and feels. Our hearts and minds are completely open, and the spark that is our Buddha nature leaps up into a brilliant flame.

5. Share the Bliss

Unfortunately, it's easy to get caught up in the sense of well-being that arises when our hearts and minds open and to forget the most essential lesson that the Buddha tried to instill in us as the deepest of all teachings: that until all of us are free, none of us are free. Rather than rest in our own comfort zones, our contentment dimming our awareness of the pain and hardship that others around us may be feeling, we must remember that the ultimate goal of opening our hearts and minds is to free all living creatures from their patterns so that they can experience the openness, wisdom, and warmth that is the essence of our being.

Buddha nature is infinite; beings in need of awakening are infinite; and our journey, once begun, is never done.

 
 
 
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1. Remember Who You Are Deep within all beings is a kind of spark that lights and warms our lives. It's been called by many names in many different traditions. In the Buddhist tradition it's known ...
1. Remember Who You Are Deep within all beings is a kind of spark that lights and warms our lives. It's been called by many names in many different traditions. In the Buddhist tradition it's known ...
 
 
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04:41 AM on 06/14/2012
Why is Buddhism Becoming Popular?

Buddhism is becoming popular in western countries for a number of reasons, The first good reason is Buddhism has answers to many of the problems in modern materialistic societies. It also includes (for those who are interested) a deep understanding of the human mind (and natural therapies) which prominent psychologists around the world are now discovering to be both very advanced and effective.

• Who Was the Buddha?

Siddhartha Gotama was born into a royal family in Lumbini, now located in Nepal, in 563 BC. At 29, he realised that wealth and luxury did not guarantee happiness, so he explored the different teachings religions and philosophies of the day, to find the key to human happiness. After six years of study and meditation he finally found 'the middle path' and was enlightened. After enlightenment, the Buddha spent the rest of his life teaching the principles of Buddhism — called the Dhamma, or Truth — until his death at the age of 80.

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04:33 AM on 06/14/2012
Let’s face it: we all dwell on the past from time to time. That’s okay—we’re human beings with emotions. As we live life and experience it to its fullest, it’s only natural that we sometimes cling onto what once was.

But, when our desire to cling to the past affects our future, we begin a potentially unhealthy and seemingly endless battle with anchors that can hold us down and sink us.

For the past six years, I’ve dreaded spring. While many would embrace the rain, the newborn green, and the post-winter renaissance, I’d plead with the powers that be to skip past March and April.

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03:04 PM on 04/17/2012
Remembering who you are is the most important. Christians see themselves as sinners (which is good for business!!), where some Buddhists believe we can achieve enlightenment in this life time. It's very hard work. Guatama Buddha spent many lifetimes working on liberation. It's not something to trivialize. Think about it: who am I????
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01:07 AM on 04/22/2012
The nice thing about buddhism is that it doesn't necessarily have to contradict the religion you were brought up -- unless you're a fundamentalist. It can actually help you integrate and deepen your faith walk. Because most of it is sort of emotional and psychological technique as opposed to otherworldliness. Say you want to practice Christian forgiveness; hard to do if anger is defining you. You may ask Jesus to "erase" the anger, as if Jesus is a magic charm; but really, it takes some doing to learn how not to let anger define your experience. Maybe Jesus is doing it for you, maybe not; but it's still going to be an "action" felt within your experience.
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01:44 AM on 04/17/2012
Excellent teachings. the teachings of a space between thoughts is well thought out. ok my idea of humor.

Wisdom in about 1000 words.

No religion should be accepted as compete truth but buddhism is a religion that offers much to any seeker.

Shall the bliss teachings was and is a jewel of wisdom that the world indeed each individual could learn much from.
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01:52 PM on 04/17/2012
whoops share the bliss teachings not shall the bliss. :-)
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03:21 PM on 04/16/2012
The more i read about Buddhism and spirituality the more I want to know. unlike anything else it's all about inclusion hence why politicians are trying to suppress it.
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...lest my wife says I'm not.
10:44 PM on 04/15/2012
What a nice article to find amongst the turmoil...
04:28 AM on 04/16/2012
The thing I like so much about Buddhism is that it's all-inclusive.

Buddhists aim to save all sentient beings, without exception, from suffering.

Unlike most other religions, Buddhism doesn't divide the world into 'us' and 'them' - the saved and the damned. Buddhists don't gloat at the idea of a vengeful sadistic God sending non-believers to burn for all eternity in a lake of fire, and to have their skins repeatedly burned off and regrow, as graphically described in certain 'religious' scriptures.

If there is any religion that could unite humanity and put an end to the present epidemic of intolerance and terrorism, it must surely be Buddhism. Buddhism is based on reason and logic, it appeals across cultures and is applicable to any sentient being, anywhere, anytime... http://rational-buddhism.blogspot.com/2011/05/rational-buddhism.html
02:40 PM on 04/17/2012
If you listen to the rhetoric of religious fundamentalists in the "Abrahamic" traditions, your judgments are largely accurate. This is largely a product of a their dualist worldview and the pervasiveness of the egoic mind patterns. There is much value in the essence of the teachings, when read from a more enlightened state of awareness and an understanding of poetry and metaphor. An approach to any spiritual truth on the surface level with the 'reason and logic' of the ego is bound to create an us vs. them superior worldview. Yes, even if you are a Buddhist.
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03:10 PM on 04/17/2012
The Buddha didn't believe in hell per se, because (according to the Tibetan Book of the Dead) hell is temporary.

Christians believe in hell being eternal, but God did not create "hell". What God creates is eternal. Buddhists believe in karma: you reap what you sow. Maybe not in this lifetime, but in others to follow.
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04:18 PM on 04/22/2012
I was thinking the very same thing. This article came along at the exact right moment for me today.
03:47 PM on 04/15/2012
Just watching the breath is healing...giving mind a pause from its prison of incessant thoughts and wants, until looking at these as friendly reminders to just keep watching them in their ocean of breath...
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09:55 PM on 04/14/2012
I offer honor to you, Teacher Tsoknyi Rinpoche. Thank you for this article and for reminding us of the need to nurture our Buddha Nature. Your reminder on how to focus on resting in the Nature of the Mind has come at a time of difficulty for me. It has shown me where I was drifting off the Path. Thank you, Teacher. Namaste.
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03:12 PM on 04/17/2012
Namaste is Hindi, but I think Master will understand.
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01:31 AM on 04/18/2012
Namaste is the greeting of honor at my local Tibetan Center when speaking to the Lama. And most Buddhist centers I have been to also use the greeting as a way to honor the leaders or teachers.
01:34 PM on 04/14/2012
Meeting the moment with whatever understanding one has-without complaining, blaming, feeling guilty is the WAY and not comfort of surety of ideas.
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01:02 PM on 04/14/2012
thank you Rinpoche. lovely book. thanks for sharing the bliss with us. may all beings benefit.
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12:51 PM on 04/14/2012
Most Americans will only remember Tibetan Buddhism because of the Tibetans who have recently set themselves on fire.

Buddhism sounds like a lovely state of mind to be in tho. When I have more time I'd like to study it.
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05:45 PM on 04/14/2012
the only time you do have is now.
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...lest my wife says I'm not.
10:41 PM on 04/15/2012
...and so it is...
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03:14 PM on 04/17/2012
Time does not exist. Buddhism teaches you to wake up.
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12:49 PM on 04/14/2012
I'm Catholic and have been practicing Zen meditation with a group that is led by a Zen master in our church. It is changing me in a very profound way.It now is part of my daily morning prayer.

I love this article.
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09:49 PM on 04/14/2012
There's nothing wrong with using Buddhist techniques to deepen your Christian practice. The Dalai Lama even recommends it for those who are Christian. Although I practice Tibetan Mahayana/Vajrayana, I am glad that you have found something that helps you in your quest to become a better person. I found Tibetan Buddhism over 15 years ago now, which has been the same for me. I wish you peace and love on your journey.
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FreedToChoose
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10:43 PM on 04/15/2012
So true... and other practices as well... yoga... Huston Smith observes the five daily prayers of Islam... It 's a question of what brings one peace...
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09:55 AM on 04/14/2012
Buddhist teachings, coming from a vast richness of tradition & wisdom, continue to provide a treasure of human intelligence that can help guide happily anyone whose heart & mind are receptive. The greatest value, perhaps, is in its practicality devoid of an idealism that can divert focus and attention, such as an obsession with, for instance, matters of an afterlife.
09:54 AM on 04/14/2012
The road becomes a river.
The leaves begin to fall.

I watch and I await,
that which is in us all.

I strive for that which is beyond me;
and find it not at all.

My mind it bends and shapes me
until I let it go;

and find it there before me
in a mist above the snow...
07:41 AM on 04/14/2012
Lovely piece and right to the point. All thoughts that arise in the mind are just the natural and spontaneous energy of our pure and natural nature, out Rigpa mind. Neither become attached to them nor try to block therm. Watch them as if looking over your shoulder. This way they won't distract you, they will fall back from where they came from.
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03:17 PM on 04/17/2012
Thoughts are modifications of the mind. These must be eradicated, which might mean giving up the ego.