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Be Willing To Dream: Choosing A Life Of Greatness

Posted: 03/24/2012 9:00 am

It was so great to sit down and talk so sincerely with Oprah again concerning so many of the controversial ideas in Wishes Fulfilled. I recall so fondly our television conversations back in Baltimore, when Oprah was in her early 20s speaking to audiences so forthrightly, telling people they could indeed choose their own greatness if they were willing to live from their own personal power. There is no one like Oprah -- I knew it then and I know it today some 35 years later. It was stimulating back in that studio on People Are Talking, and even more so in the mist of Maui. I AM certain you will find our conversation provocative and informative. I loved it.

-- Wayne Dyer

My favorite definition of success, which I've cited on numerous occasions, was offered by Henry David Thoreau in the mid-19th century at Walden Pond: "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours." I've italicized two words in Thoreau's definition of success: dreams and imagined.

What Thoreau is saying is so important to you today. Be willing to dream, and imagine yourself becoming all that you wish to be. If you live from those imaginings, the universe will align with you in bringing all that you wish for -- and even more than you imagined when you were living at an ordinary level of consciousness, or what Thoreau calls "common hours." Keep in mind the basic axiom -- all that now exists was once imagined. It follows then that what you want to exist for you in the future must now be imagined.

You'll see as you read through these foundations for fulfilling your wishes that using your imagination involves more intensity on your part than just imagining an occasional wishful thought. You must first unlearn some of the ways that you've been misusing or squandering the capacity your imagination has for providing you with an unlimited ability to manifest all that you desire. Thoreau called it advancing confidently in the direction of your own dreams. Unfortunately, most of us have learned to do the opposite with our imagination, and instead regularly use it to develop mental habits of advancing in precisely the reverse direction of our highest dreams for ourselves.

In my book Wishes Fulfilled, I also address in depth how to utilize the "I ams" and live from your "I am God" awareness, beginning with your imagination. Recall that "I am God" doesn't refer to your body in any way. It refers to the birthless, deathless, changeless spirit that remains in all the changing forms your body takes every moment of your temporary life here on Earth.

It is important that you recognize a few of the imagination missteps that will block you from fulfilling your unique desires. Remember that your imagination is yours and yours alone. You have the inborn capacity to use it in any way that you choose. No one else is responsible for your imagination. Anything placed in your imagination and held there ultimately becomes your reality.

Nikos Kazantzakis reinforces this idea by giving these words to his fanciful character Zorba (in his book Zorba the Greek), who always lived his life to the fullest: "By believing passionately in something that does not yet exist we create it. The nonexistent is whatever we have not sufficiently desired." This is the power of your imagination, when what you desire is imagined sufficiently to make it your reality. Don't diminish this great gift by using it in a way that is antithetical to its "I am God" original nature.

Perhaps the most common misuse of imagination is stressing what you don't want for yourself. This is the largest category of misusing imagination. Start paying attention to general conversation, and you will be astounded at how incredibly prevalent it is. Imagining that finds expression in phrases like, "I don't deserve prosperity," "I am always so unlucky," "Things never work out for me," and "I am unhealthy and cannot be healed," are the kind of ideas that may have been entertained since childhood. Highly-functioning self-actualized people simply never imagine what it is that they don't wish to have as their reality.

Begin noticing and be careful about keeping your imagination free of thoughts that you do not wish to materialize. Instead, initiate a practice of filling your creative thoughts to overflow with ideas and wishes that you fully intend to manifest. Honor your imaginings regardless of others seeing them as crazy or impossible. Recall the words of Kazantzakis and passionately believe in that which is in your imagination and which does not yet exist on the physical plane.

Internationally-acclaimed, best-selling author and "Father of Motivation" Wayne Dyer will sit down with Oprah Winfrey for a candid interview to discuss his battle with leukemia and the controversial treatment he believes cured him. This all-new, two-hour special entitled "Living with Grace" will air on "Super Soul Sunday" this Sunday, March 25 at 11 a.m. ET/PT (check your local listings) on OWN: Oprah Winfrey Network. Filmed on location in Maui, Dyer reveals his battle with leukemia and his decision to seek controversial treatment from Brazilian healer "John of God" (João de Deus). Dyer describes his experiences and the reasons he believes he is now cancer-free.

 
It was so great to sit down and talk so sincerely with Oprah again concerning so many of the controversial ideas in Wishes Fulfilled. I recall so fondly our television conversations back in Baltimore,...
It was so great to sit down and talk so sincerely with Oprah again concerning so many of the controversial ideas in Wishes Fulfilled. I recall so fondly our television conversations back in Baltimore,...
 
 
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11:27 AM on 03/26/2012
I always enjoy reading your articles, but this one lost me with the "I am God" reference. Whoah. Perhaps you could explain in some detail about that. I recognize God and know that he lives within me, but I know that I am not God. I would just never try to put so many limitations on God...he is far more.

Thank you
12:17 PM on 03/26/2012
You should read Dr. Dyer's book. He explains it perfectly and it is a wonderful book. Blessings
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HowardFalco
Spiritual Teacher & Author of 'I AM'
02:42 PM on 03/30/2012
This may help www.thebookIAM.com :)
11:46 PM on 03/25/2012
I enjoyed reading it .
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Dan De Leon
dj remixer producer filmmaker at djdandeleon.com
07:35 PM on 03/25/2012
Amazing
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NotesFromME
10:37 AM on 03/25/2012
More good lives have been ruined by this kind of rubbish than have been helped, it is the opiate of the affluent. Everyone has to have a dream to get anywhere in life but the notion that "what the mind can conceive, it can achieve" is pure fantasy for all but a very small and very fortunate minority in this country.
The "I am God" nature? We are humans, not gods, and the universe is utterly indifferent. Set goals, work for them, do your best at all you do, but pour your love into your family and friends and enjoy ever step along the way. They are what really matters, and they are the only ones who will remember you with tears when you die.
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Norge
Rolf K. Artist, worker of metal, writer of poems
07:45 AM on 03/25/2012
Greatness by whos' definition? Oh yes, it is great as long as it is externally approved to be such. One aspect of people and the public I learned years ago for example with art, 99% are not qualified to judge fine from shit. And 70% of that 1% are addicted to Money and have set themselves up as experts.

Going for greatness and going it alone or being owned by something or someone who will build a name and finance a person, are two different planets.
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larry cifuentes
01:15 AM on 03/25/2012
Dear Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, if you have enough time to read these comments, do know that, that which transforms a man to man's innate potential, takes more than a child's imagination and a faint heart.
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soma77
Author, Speaker, Retreat Facilitator
02:25 PM on 03/24/2012
Thank you, I also believe that every person has within himself the undeveloped power to realize his most tender and grand goals, but it only comes to those that have the ability to visualize and hold onto their ideas until they become facts. First, a person must realize that the power is within his consciousness to accomplish whatever he or she sets out to do. Second, the objective or target must be visualized because this is the seed that will sprout, when put in a fertile environment. Finally, one must have faith that the dream will be manifest so the ideal will be manifested even in the face of severe opposition. Any material resistance or conflicting condition blocking the way is unrepresentative because it is generated with thought; therefore, it can be erased by thought. The conditions surrounding us are created with precision according to our minds, disposition and conviction. http://thinkunity.com
10:49 AM on 03/25/2012
Oh come on!
You read that some where!
Oh, I know..
On a bathroom wall....
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soma77
Author, Speaker, Retreat Facilitator
01:40 PM on 03/25/2012
Try it, but first you must stop reading the bathroom walls and go inside. There is nothing I can do, you must have the experience, but if you don't that is OK continue reading.
01:18 PM on 03/24/2012
I think about my life now and see that it is indeed a result of my imaginings. I can imagine a life that is more fully aligned with the inspired, unique, fulfilling life that could be mine. In my case I get stuck at this point trying to imagine financially how I would make the transition from a good job to the unknown. Fear of that failure stops me in my tracks. The problem is I can imagine what I would be doing but I *can't* imagine that it would lead to gainful income for my family of five. The thought of starting my own business is scary and full of unknowns.
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NotesFromME
10:45 AM on 03/25/2012
If you are going to start a business, just start doing and selling things now while you are employed. Sell on Ebay, do freelance writing, get the cash flow coming and accumulate it. You don't need all the money to build a factory to get going.
10:53 AM on 03/25/2012
Don't do it!!!!
Maintain is what is needed..
Don't read get rich quick books.
Stay out of Barnes & Noble..
Life is life, happiness comes from within..
Your family is important to you and that is fantastic.
So far you have done everything correct.