Maureen Dowd, Please Don't Shut Up

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Posted July 3, 2008 | 11:45 AM (EST)



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When I read New York Times Public Editor Clark Hoyt's dressing down of columnist Maureen Dowd, I was appalled. What a sterling example of how not to stand behind your man -- or woman, in this Times star columnist's case. This wussy editorial behavior came after some Hillary Clinton supporters complained about Ms. Dowd's columns. Oh, no. The gall of Maureen Dowd for doing what she does best. She dished out her opinion and wit, which is exactly what The New York Times pays her to do.

As Mrs. Clinton herself said during her recent campaign, invoking Harry Truman: "If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen." Mrs. Clinton knew what she was getting into when she entered the race. I have a sneaking suspicion she'd also read Ms. Dowd and other national columnists like her, so it wasn't a big surprise to Hillary that they'd be writing spirited commentary on her and the other candidates. In fact, the Clinton campaign managed the press like lap dogs most of the time. When Hillary's handlers threw a bone, the traditional media couldn't run any faster to pick it up -- including, yes, I'm going to say it, the bone of sexism.

Yes, there was sexism and racism and any other "ism" you can think of being batted about in this campaign, but Hillary and her gang of attack boys found that "sexism" played well on the street to a certain group of women, and so the claims were exaggerated and used as a hammer to try and beat down her opponent. The Clinton campaign played on female victimhood and whipped their supporters into a frenzy about it. They galvanized them with a "sexism" battle cry. But some was real, and some was spin.

So Ms. Dowd's colleague took the bait and criticized her for merely doing the same job she's done for years, when most of the candidates about whom she's written have been male. Was it Hillary or her supporters who wanted Hillary to be treated with kid gloves? Had she been male, the Democratic contingent of presidential candidates would have been much harder on her from the get-go. But she was a lady, and you don't beat up on ladies. She was also the wife of a (once) beloved Democratic president. Deference was shown.

For the last decade or so, I've been an on-and-off reader of Maureen Dowd. During some periods I've thought she was right on the money, and other times I've thought she was way off the mark -- just to show her cleverness. Before this political season began, my feeling was that Dowd had lost her touch. That she'd had a good run, but it might be time for someone else to freshen up the pages of The Times. But then, thanks to the human material she had in this race, Dowd hit her stride again.

Obviously, the Clinton cohort was unhappy that their candidate lost, and the victimized frenzy Hillary had whipped them into was about a decade too late. My question is, Why do we still want to be victims, of all things?

It's true that there have been times that most of us have accepted that role. I, personally, have found it doesn't help. Feeling like/being a victim has held me back. I know there are extenuating circumstances, and most have to do with economic pressures, children, and holding a family together. But if we women have learned anything, it ought to be that we should do what we need to do for ourselves--period. Being a victim isn't a progressive or empowering position for feminists to take. We are beyond this. In my vision, we're now smack in the middle of "I'm through whining, but I'll sure kick your ass." And I see Mr. Hoyt's attack of Ms. Dowd as, basically, "That woman should have held her tongue."

Where are these feminists who kicked up the ruckus about Hillary now?

I was happy to see Gail Collins, who herself writes an astute and entertaining column in The New York Times, defend Ms. Dowd in their own paper's pages. I was glad somebody at that venerable newspaper showed they had some balls in these sad days of over-the-top political correctness.

There's no question that sexism still exists. It probably always will, at least until some basic tenents, child-rearing practices, and infrastructures of our society are reconceived, reinterpreted, or taught in a more enlightened way (and one of the major sources of this conflict between the sexes is, no doubt, some versions of Christianity that are used to control the female sex). But sexism is not why Hillary lost. The buck has to stop somewhere (speaking of Harry Truman), and I say that's with the candidate herself. Besides the fact that she and her campaign made lots of mistakes, her timing was off. Our country and the world's consciousness had changed. Frankly, Hillary and Bill hadn't kept up. This was a sea change, and they were left in the wake.

Woe to us -- the public -- when we get the political spin the first time from the candidate and the second time from the press covering the candidate -- but who have now internalized the spin as real news and reported it back to us as such. If politicians would just be accountable for their actions, everyone would be better served.

In the meantime, Maureen Dowd was inducted into the National Organization of Women's Hall of Shame. Well, shame on NOW. Molly Ivins must be rolling in her grave. Ms. Ivins herself never pulled any punches, and she made it clear before she died that she wouldn't vote for Hillary--and it had nothing to do with sexism. But Ms. Dowd wasn't "nice" to Hillary, and some of Hillary's supporters cried foul, and the mighty New York Times sacrificed one of its own.

Where are Ab Fab's Patsy and Edina when you need them? Not in the USA. We're too dull and prudish. We have no sense of humor. We are Puritans.

There is the political correctness that means one is for all the right causes, and then there's the political correctness that allows only milquetoast. Among the many celebrations of this Independence Day, I have one additional to offer: Maureen Dowd, please don't shut up!

Beth Arnold lives and writes in Paris. To see more of her work, check out www.betharnold.com.

 
 

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- radiclib See Profile I'm a Fan of radiclib permalink

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Dowd's writing has become trite.
Too many old movie comparisons.
Her reporting is lazy, her attitude snide.
She's like one of the in-crowd clique in high school that picked on kids deemed lesser.
A new beat in a different city might revive her considerable talent.
But don't hold your breath waiting for that.
She must know how to charm her bosses, because they seem to like her just fine.
And how's business these days on the bottom line at the Times?
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    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:12 PM on 07/05/2008
- OtayPanky See Profile I'm a Fan of OtayPanky permalink

Beth Arnold: My question is, Why do we still want to be victims, of all things?

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Beth, you hit the nail on the head.

Like Molly Ivens (rest her soul), I'd sooner eat a box of thumbtacks than support Hillary - though I admit that had she won the primary I would have reluctantly voter for her against any repub in this critical cycle.

But for the life of me, I can't figure out how so many women have been suckered into taking the victim stance by Hillary's failed candidacy.

As you correctly point out, it is totally disempowering, and leaves those women who embrace it (starting with Hillary herself) sound like whining children, not ready on day one for a whole helluva lot other than having a good cry together.

That's one of the main reasons for the profound disconnect between so called "first wave" feminists, and their second and third wave sisters, when it came to this election. Not stuck in a mindset of perpetual victimhood, these young 'uns just didn't rise to the "us versus them" bait thrown down so exploitatively by Hillary and her surrogates. They preferred to judge her based on their own assessment of her voting record, and the demonstration she gave us all of the content of her character as she rolled out her "kitchen sink" campaign.

Molly - no member of the Perpetual Sisterhood of Victims herself - would have been proud of them.

Blog on, Beth. Blog on.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:52 AM on 07/05/2008
- Gib See Profile I'm a Fan of Gib permalink

On the subject of sexuality and sexism, I find it very strange when a female writer refers to another female's courageousness as "having balls". I'm a man, but the idea that courage is a specifically male attribute bothers me.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:40 PM on 07/05/2008
- SolontheDemocrat See Profile I'm a Fan of SolontheDemocrat permalink

Molly Ivins was a great wit and writer, but she didn't question people's sexuality. No one is saying Dowd shouldn't keep writing satirical columns about politicians, both male and female. But the ridiculous, over the top comments about people's sexuality should come to a screeching halt, regardless of whether she's claiming Al Gore lactates or Hillary Clinton has testicles.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:50 PM on 07/05/2008
- SolontheDemocrat See Profile I'm a Fan of SolontheDemocrat permalink

I've always liked Dowd, but was unaware of how she savaged Gore, and have been taken aback at the so-called "gender blending." Gore is a decent, well-meaning, brilliant man, who would have made such a difference had he won (and that includes 4000+ people still being alive), and she tried to paint him as a woman? There's no doubt that the press had a major impact on the perception of Gore as some kind of effete, snobbish jerk. And how far would Hillary Clinton have gotten in this world if she weren't aggressive? I applaud her for being a role model for women.

Wit and biting sarcasm are fine. Terms like Dr. No, the Black Adder, etc. are funny and telling. But constantly attacking good people's sexuality is "over the top." We all know that in our culture, issues of masculinity and femininity are profoundly visceral and as damning to a person's character as committing a felony. Of course Dowd's craven toady of a "boss" would claim all is well, as would her colleague, Gail Collins. But most of us in the real reality-based community don't make half a million bucks or whatever to write a couple of short essays each week, and neither do we like to see such incredibly venomous piling on of our public servants' sexuality in a mainstream publication. Dowd is too talented and perceptive a writer for that. Besides, we can listen to Savage or Limbaugh if we want trash.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:07 PM on 07/04/2008
- nunzia See Profile I'm a Fan of nunzia permalink

"what she does best" is write bitchy, mean-spirited, teeny-bopper tripe. She is well past her writing prime. Time to go away.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:23 PM on 07/04/2008
- Rockerbabe See Profile I'm a Fan of Rockerbabe permalink

The American media personalities have adopted the Bridgette Jones style of journalism. Dance around something until you get dizzy; Dowd does dance around a bit, throws a few rocks and when someone picks up the rock and throws it back at her, she gets her feelings hurt. If that someone is another woman, she gets nasty. Dowd, like Olberman, is just a mouthpiece for those who would keep women down. If she had made corresponding nasty comments in a racism manner, she would have been fired or demoted or made to apologyze; nothing of the sort happened when Senator Clinton was the object of uncalled for sexist comments. Dowd needs to go away somewhere, not just to Atlanta, that's were I live and we already have enough odd-balls as it is.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:43 PM on 07/04/2008
- Dianora See Profile I'm a Fan of Dianora permalink

As a woman and a proud feminist, I find Maureen Dowd to be one of the most sexist columnists of them all, actually. The problem wasn't remarks she made about Hillary, it was how she obsessively harped on them, distilling everything she hates about women into one convenient scapegoat. Her writing says a lot more about her own psyche than it does about Hillary's.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:53 AM on 07/04/2008
- BubbaC33 See Profile I'm a Fan of BubbaC33 permalink

No one with any sense can tolerate the "wit" of Dowd. She was a huge voice assisting the election of George W. Bush in 2000 and 2004. And the idea anyone would speak up for her dishonesty is appalling.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:06 AM on 07/04/2008
- Bulbul See Profile I'm a Fan of Bulbul permalink

Dowd does not need to shut up, she has lost her touch , the "Cobra" only can spit venom. Even that is not effective any more.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:51 AM on 07/04/2008
- StillAmused See Profile I'm a Fan of StillAmused permalink

"other times I've thought she was way off the mark -- just to show her cleverness."

You were right... those other times.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:41 AM on 07/04/2008
- Leda See Profile I'm a Fan of Leda permalink

still raging on the olde horse race--- Is it over? -- did I miss the climax?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:01 AM on 07/04/2008
- Leda See Profile I'm a Fan of Leda permalink

dont be so sure

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:58 AM on 07/04/2008
- Leda See Profile I'm a Fan of Leda permalink

Yeah Dowd was so right on about BUSH being Mr Personality-- & trashing Gore...
I REALLY TRUST her...she must be spot on about Hillary.
Now if we could just get Judith Miller back at the new york times-- Another times writer with marvelous judgment. Why are people still railing about Hillary anyways? Time to Focus on the guy who walks on water.
Aren't we moving forward? To the promised land.....

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:45 AM on 07/04/2008
- Ohsnap See Profile I'm a Fan of Ohsnap permalink

Props to my girl Hillary for showing the world that no matter how many people hate you, you still can get over 17 million votes. Read: women can be ruthless politicians just like men can. My one worry about a woman running was that she'd have to prove to everyone that she's so freaken' perfect that the bar would be ridiculously high for any woman running after her. Well, we all know how many mistakes Hillary had made in her campaign and she still kept it close.

That being said, I wouldn't have been able to stomach another Clinton presidency. It's kind of like high school...may be fun the first time around. But I would never want to do it again. Hillary would be better use where she can have some real impact on legislation.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:18 AM on 07/04/2008
- ladeyday See Profile I'm a Fan of ladeyday permalink

HRC's supporters make laugh when they try to flip off the race card from Mr Bill & Miss Hillary. They KNOW that the latter 2 pointed the finger @ Obama to make sure everybody knew (as if they couldn't see) that O was (HORRORS) black. Not that they're "racists", but they sure tried to appeal to those who are. The Clintons were the one who put it into gullible, malleable minds (like yours) that O started it. LIARS!
Ditto w/ the sexism lie: tell them anything, and becaus ethey think we speak the truth (how could you believe them after Monica?)
As for discrimination, that's another big laugh. Black people have a history of getting a VERY raw deal in this country other the american Indians. And, yes, there IS an attempt to move on and accomplish despite the barriers erected by your fellow countrymen (talk about flag lapel wearing patriots! HAH). However, I defy you as a non-black person to tell ME, a black person, that don not face any discrimination. How th f*** would YOU know?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:07 AM on 07/04/2008
- BillZBubb See Profile I'm a Fan of BillZBubb permalink

Maureen Dowd is pathetic. She's a closet right wing operative. Her whole family is right wing, yet she projects herself as a flighty liberal. She's great at sticking the shiv into the Democrat's candidate at just the right time.

She, to a large extent, helped Bush defeat Gore. Less so Kerry, but she did her part in painting him as an effete, elitist liberal. In the primary season she helped do in Hillary Clinton and got in her gratuitous smears of the Clinton presidency. We'll have to wait and see what mockery she has in store for Obama.

And remember this: Her modus operandi is to attack the Republican nominee on issues, but to emasculate the Democrat. That helps feed the Republican myth that the Democrats are too weak to lead. She's very good at this technique.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:19 PM on 07/03/2008
- NYed See Profile I'm a Fan of NYed permalink

Gore, Kerry and Hillary Clinton defeated themselves. All 3 were DOA. One no personality candidate after another. The democrats wounds were self-inflicted.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:52 AM on 07/04/2008
- Caddisfly See Profile I'm a Fan of Caddisfly permalink

Well we got personality in the White House right now....to bad it's an empty suit.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:48 AM on 07/04/2008
- KrazyKat See Profile I'm a Fan of KrazyKat permalink

"She's a closet right wing operative."

And you're delusional.

I don't always agree with her, but Maureen Dowd is hilarious. When she's on her game, there is no one funnier.

Why are there so many humorless, wimpy, thin-skinned self-proclaimed "Progressives" on this site?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:37 AM on 07/04/2008
- wanked See Profile I'm a Fan of wanked permalink

She's the first thing I read in the Wed. Times. Usually twice....

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:16 AM on 07/04/2008
- hudsuckerproxy See Profile I'm a Fan of hudsuckerproxy permalink

"We'll have to wait and see what mockery she has in store for Obama."

Actually, she's already got the ball rolling:

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/03/09/opinion/09dowd.html

http://gawker.com/353765/typically-insulting-dowd-quote-mysteriously-scrubbed-from-online-column

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:38 AM on 07/04/2008
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