The Life Of A Hypochondriac

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KRISTEN A. LEE | July 7, 2008 05:10 PM EST | AP


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In this photo released by Riverhead Books shows the Jennifer Traig author of "Well Enough Alone". (AP Photo/Judith Traig,Riverhead Books)

"Well Enough Alone: A Cultural History of My Hypochondria" (Riverhead Books. 256 pages. $23.95), by Jennifer Traig: In our current age of anxiety, medical-themed TV shows and WebMD, most of us _ at one time or another _ have inflated a pimple into cancer or a stomachache into appendicitis.

But few of us can match Jennifer Traig's obsession with self-diagnosis. As we learn in "Well Enough Alone," Traig has imagined herself to have every fatal or debilitating disease known to medicine. "The skin cancer turned out to be ballpoint ink; the meningitis, hay fever; the pancreatitis, too many candy bars; the blood poisoning, ill-fitting shoes," Traig writes.

However, the subtitle of Traig's painfully frank and very funny memoir is somewhat misleading. Yes, Traig is a hypochondriac, but she also has plenty of very real problems. Readers of Traig's first memoir, "Devil in the Details: Scenes From an Obsessive Girlhood," know that Traig suffered from Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and eating disorders as an adolescent. In her latest book, we learn that she has since contended with tremors, severe eczema and irritable bowel syndrome, among other ailments.

Luckily for Traig, none of the illnesses she details in this book are life-threatening, but nearly all are both unpleasant and mortifying. Traig doesn't spare us the gruesome details of her symptoms or their treatments. (For readers with weak stomachs, this is not a book to pick up before dinner.)

She first guides her readers through a brief history of hypochondria, which flourished among the upper-classes during the Renaissance and then became stigmatized in the 19th century.

She tells her own story in a series of snapshots of different periods of her life, organized loosely around a medical theme or condition. In some cases, the connections she draws between her symptoms and her life feel slightly forced. Also, the somewhat nonlinear structure sometimes leaves the reader wanting more insight into our narrator.

But Traig's brutally honest and wickedly funny voice carries the story. She gives her readers an unflinching look at her physical imperfections without a trace of the self-pity that could have made the book insufferable. Traig is equally frank about her own character flaws, including her clumsy handling of other people's illnesses and death. "Hypochondriacs are great with terminal illness when it's imaginary and happening to them, terrible when it's real and happening to others," Traig writes.

As a bonus to readers, the book's "appendix" features a health horoscope and translations of handy phrases _ including "Hello! I think my spleen is infected." _ for hypochondriacs traveling abroad. Because, hey, you never know.

 
 

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- smugglerdurant See Profile I'm a Fan of smugglerdurant

I work with folks like this a lot - they are driven by very strong emotional issues. check out EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques), it can help take this apart so they don't need to express "hypochondria" anymore. Lucky for her, sounds like she's using humor to deal with it - more power to her! - Jade

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:50 AM on 07/11/2008
- Theda See Profile I'm a Fan of Theda

People like her make me sick! I was married to a man just like her for over 20 years. They are the most self-centered, self-absorbed people on earth. They think the entire world revolves around them and their so-called illnesses.
I think she suffers from a case of narcisscism.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:36 PM on 07/09/2008
- TheBlackCat See Profile I'm a Fan of TheBlackCat

So why didn't you leave them? You tell people with actual mental illnesses they can't help having to stop complaining, yet YOU then go and complain about a situation that was completely in your control to change. Your hypocracy is LAUGHABLE. Other people don't get to complain about mental disorders, but YOU get to complain about a living situation you CHOSE to stay in. Sounds like YOU'RE the sympathy seeking, self pitying brat!! Not to mention how completely ridiculous it is for you to judge anyone with any kind of mental illness because you had a bad experience with one person.

Ugh, you're gross.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:05 PM on 07/10/2008
- Theda See Profile I'm a Fan of Theda

I'm not gross! And my marriage did end. I didn't choose to stay in it. Jeez....chill out. As I pointed out in my prior comment, I WAS married to someone like that.
Are YOU a hypocondriac as well? Sounds like you're the one with the problem!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:10 AM on 07/11/2008
- watchingthings See Profile I'm a Fan of watchingthings

From the looks of it, a hypochondriac is someone with too much time on their hands, never had to work to provide for oneself and was a "spoiled brat" in childhood. In later life, this type of person does not seem fit to raise a family.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:29 AM on 07/09/2008
- newjerseybadger See Profile I'm a Fan of newjerseybadger

And your professional qualifications to judge this person 'not mentally ill, just spoiled' [please pardon my paraphrasing you] are... what?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:49 PM on 07/09/2008
- AtomiClash See Profile I'm a Fan of AtomiClash

While we can all find hypochondriacs horrifyingly annoying at times, it is important to remember that it's a legitimate disorder. hypochondria often goes hand-in-hand with OCD, also a legitimate psychological disorder, and both can be debilitating.
Obviously, this young woman is coping with her hypochondria via humor and transparency. Don't be so quick to judge. What gave you any impression she was a "spoiled brat?" Eating disorders don't only affect the wealthy and privileged, nor does hypochondria, despite its history as being an "upper-class" problem. In fact, many medical students experience bouts of hypochondria during their studies due to over-exposure, just as the public is experiencing now with all the medical shows, etc.
Have a little more compassion. Besides, her disorder won't affect you in any way. And no one said you had to buy her book or read this article.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:20 AM on 07/09/2008
- RJC See Profile I'm a Fan of RJC

I guess the ultimate symptom of Hypochondria is if you thought you were a Hypochondriac? hmmm

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:42 PM on 07/08/2008
- StrayTalk See Profile I'm a Fan of StrayTalk

This is why we (guys) watch sports. Take your pick.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:55 PM on 07/08/2008
- Theda See Profile I'm a Fan of Theda

I don't find this woman even remotely interesting or amusing......I was married for over 20 years to a man with the very same problems. It's hell living with these people. They are completely self-absorbed and self-centered. They don't give a damn about anyone else.
That's why I can't even bear to watch a Woody Allen movie. I can't stand his narcisscism and never-ending kvetching, worrying, complaining and whining.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:39 PM on 07/08/2008
- MaracaKabob See Profile I'm a Fan of MaracaKabob

I heard Jennifer Traig on NPR today, and I have to say, her voice sounded a little rough, like she may have throat cancer. She should really check that out.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:02 AM on 07/08/2008
- drakke See Profile I'm a Fan of drakke

Cute !! I don't know her birthdate, but she does have what i call "the suffering Virgo look". They are quite sincere in their dysfunction, and their busy minds drive them nuts. I have always found them appealing in a perverse sort of way -- i tried to help them mellow out a bit. I've since given that up. But Virgo women, generally, are quite complex and fascinating, i discovered over the decades -- and usually quite attractive :)

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:58 PM on 07/08/2008
- mijumom See Profile I'm a Fan of mijumom

Crap, you just nailed it. I'm a virgo and the "busy mind" thing is my worst ailment...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:24 PM on 07/08/2008
- chendri887 See Profile I'm a Fan of chendri887

Anxiety disorders stink. I've had one my whole life and it is the most debilitating thing imaginable. On top of that, many people think that those with anxiety disorders are just weak willed or need to "lighten up." I've certainly tried my share of natural, non-pharmaceutical approaches to dealing with my anxiety disorder, but nothing, except medication, works to deal with this horrible condition. Moreover, the medication does not work great and has many annoying side effects. My being a guy with this disorder is an added stigma, with many thinking that I'm "gay" "wimpy" or "not able to be a man" because of my disorder. In truth, I am not able to be the type of man I would like to be, but that is not for lack of trying. That Jennifer Traig found an productive outlet despite her condition is something to be applauded, not looked down upon.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:32 PM on 07/07/2008
- Theda See Profile I'm a Fan of Theda

Stop complaining! Stop being so self-absorbed.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:36 PM on 07/09/2008
- newjerseybadger See Profile I'm a Fan of newjerseybadger

Theda, if you're being funny, you're funny. If you're being serious, you're not funny.

Serious Hypochondria is a mental illness and chendri887 probably _can't_ stop the thought patterns. OCD and anxiety disorders are documented and real.

If you don't believe in them, frankly, I hope you get one, just for the educational value. Preferably one that responds to medication so that you aren't afflicted with it forever, just long enough to learn the necessary lesson.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:43 PM on 07/09/2008
- PhillyQuaker See Profile I'm a Fan of PhillyQuaker

Oh dear, what a terrible life this poor child must lead, constanly worrying about real and imagined ailments.
Cancer turned out to be ballpoint ink - wow, my friend just had to have two breasts removed due to cancer, I wish it had only been ballpoint ink.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:46 PM on 07/07/2008
- newjerseybadger See Profile I'm a Fan of newjerseybadger

If you're comparing scars, you win.

Frankly, I'd rather not have either illness, but there's room in my heart for sympathy for both victims.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:45 PM on 07/09/2008
- PhillyQuaker See Profile I'm a Fan of PhillyQuaker

Wasn't meant as sarcasm, this girl does have my sympathy.My friend's cancer is back in full force. Perhaps my comment came across as being a little unkind, not intentional. .

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:24 AM on 07/10/2008
- singermuse See Profile I'm a Fan of singermuse

this poor woman is a MESS!
Has she considered meditation or yoga or just LIGHTENING UP??
but then again....what would she write about?
She has apparently found a "product" she can sell and seems to be doing a good job of it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:39 PM on 07/07/2008
- newjerseybadger See Profile I'm a Fan of newjerseybadger

I suppose this is an improvement; people used to stone and shun lepers, I suppose mocking the mentally ill isn't quite as destructive. I hope you're never in the position of being caregiver for a mentally ill person. You'd suck at it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:47 PM on 07/09/2008
- oneviciouslife See Profile I'm a Fan of oneviciouslife

try struggling with a mental disorder before you tell someone to lighten up! don't you think she'd like to? It's hard fighting your own head, take it from someone who knows.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:03 PM on 07/08/2008
- Furby See Profile I'm a Fan of Furby

Not trying to be flippant but lightening up actually helps anxiety a lot. When I start having a panick attack, my friend starts a word game, or asks me some outrageous question, and suddenly my mind is working on something else than thinking about how anxious I feel. Might not work for everyone, but it does for me, way better than pills.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:47 PM on 07/08/2008
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