Obama Calls Criticism Of Wife 'Infuriating'

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JULIE PACE | July 17, 2008 09:58 PM EST | AP

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Michelle Obama, wife of Democratic presidential candidate, Sen. Barack Obama, D-Ill., right, chats with Jim White, back left, of the Colorado branch of the Volunteers of America, and Colorado first lady Jeannie Ritter, after she arrived at Centennial Airport in the southeast Denver suburb of Centennial, Colo., Wednesday, July 16, 2008. (AP Photo/David Zalubowski)

WASHINGTON — What gets under Barack Obama's skin? Criticism of his wife, Michelle Obama.

In an interview with Glamour magazine, Obama said attacks on his wife are "infuriating." The likely Democratic presidential nominee blamed the conservative press for going after his wife as if she were the candidate.

"If they have a difference with me on policy, they should debate me. Not her," Obama told the magazine.

Michelle Obama has been highly active in her husband's campaign, appearing with him at events and by herself at other times in an effort to help tout his candidacy. She promotes his policy agenda at fundraisers and gives interviews to reporters in support of his views.

An Associated Press-Yahoo poll suggests Michelle Obama has higher favorable ratings than Cindy McCain, wife of presumptive Republican nominee John McCain. However, Michelle Obama's unfavorable ratings are also higher.

Michelle Obama came under fire in February when she said she was proud of her country for the first time in her adult life. She later clarified her remark, saying she has always been proud of her country and was particularly proud to see so many people involved in the political process.

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As Michelle Obama appeared Thursday in Seattle with Washington Gov. Chris Gregoire, the state Republican Party began airing a video that questioned Michelle Obama's patriotism. It was similar to one run by the Tennessee GOP, showing a clip of her February comments.

Obama's campaign denounced the ad for its "shameful attacks on the wife of a candidate." The state Republican Party countered that it was fair play because Michelle Obama is a surrogate who came to campaign with one of her husband's supporters.

In the magazine interview, Obama said the attacks are ironic because his wife is "the most quintessentially American woman I know."

Michelle Obama, 44, has worked as a lawyer and hospital executive. The couple have two daughters, Malia, 10, and Sasha, 7.

The Internet has been a double-edged sword for Obama's campaign. While it's allowed the campaign to organize supporters and raise millions of dollars, Obama said it's also provided a vehicle for rumors and myths to spread quickly.

"It's very hard to catch up," he said.

Glamour's editor-in-chief also interviewed McCain. Full interviews with both candidates were scheduled to appear in the magazine's October issue.

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Associated Press writer Rachel La Corte in Seattle contributed to this report.

 
 

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- Fair See Profile I'm a Fan of Fair

I was browsing the comments over at Glamour and one poster asked an excellent question.

Why has Galmour hired Far Rightie Amanda Carpenter as a blogger?

Perhaps we should all email Glaomour with that question.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:57 AM on 07/18/2008
- intelliwoman See Profile I'm a Fan of intelliwoman

Folks, we need to stop.

What needs to happen is that he needs to stop whining about it.

Unfortunately this is the state of politics in this country. If she's out there, she's subject to this, FAIR OR NOT.

She needs to stand up for herself, and he just needs to shut up about it. he sounds like a whining child, and its just further evidence for those who say he doesn't live in the real world

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:19 PM on 07/18/2008
- egal See Profile I'm a Fan of egal

Could you please stick to facts, since the MSM won't?

Michelle Obama never said she was proud of her country for the first time, but she DID say that she was REALLY proud of her country for the first time in her adult life. Repeating the flagrant lies--admitting a lack of patriotism where there was no such lack--just grants an unmerited victory to those who prefer attack mode to policy debate, and for those few who bother with semantics, it can subtly erode your own credibility.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:50 AM on 07/18/2008
- kellygrrrl See Profile I'm a Fan of kellygrrrl

clearly there are still a great many people in this nation who are scared of a strong woman

judging by all the emails floating around the country club set raving over what a "lady" CindyLou is, we can assume it's not just "low-education" voters who are not quite ready for MO

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:33 AM on 07/18/2008
- msirt See Profile I'm a Fan of msirt

AP article: "Michelle Obama came under fire in February when she said she was proud of her country for the first time in her adult life."

The News keeps reporting the Michelle quote inaccurately, and no matter how many times I try to correct the information, it still keeps getting reported wrongly, plus there is no great outcry in the comments. The actual quote changes the whole context, so I'll just have to bore everyone by reposting the truth of what she really said and what meaning can be drawn from it:

What she REALLY said was: "For the first time in my adult life I'm REALLY proud of my country".

"Really" is defined in two ways. One of the definitions (which seems clearly to be the intended usage because of the context) give a wholly different interpretation to Michelle's remarks.

Webster, on "really":
(2) truly; unquestionably, as an intensifier: e. g. "a REALLY fine day".

Michelle: "For the first time in my adult life I'm REALLY proud of my country".

In other words:

"I've never been prouder of my country as an adult".

That's not "I've never been proud of my country, until now" by a long shot.

So I'll just have to keep posting this correction ad nauseam, it seems, because it seems everyone has come to accept that Michelle has said what the AP says she said. Even progressive journalists sometimes spread this inaccuracy when they write on this subject.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:24 PM on 07/17/2008
- TJRich See Profile I'm a Fan of TJRich

It gets their goat that Michelle is beautiful, talented and successful and do family values better than anybody. They hate it. So they try to attack her, to drag down BO and exhibit their prejudices at the same time.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:28 PM on 07/17/2008
- iblis See Profile I'm a Fan of iblis

If Michelle Obama canvases on behalf of Obama, then she should face the heat in the kitchen. If she chooses not to(eg -sticking to her law practice), then ofcourse no one has the right to go after her.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:24 PM on 07/17/2008
- MadJeffersonian See Profile I'm a Fan of MadJeffersonian

So I guess we can start talking about Cindy's truthfulness and her stealing drugs from her own charity? I guess the saying is true, Charity does begin at home.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:49 PM on 07/17/2008
- joeyp404 See Profile I'm a Fan of joeyp404

Certainly you are not suggesting that BO is pimping his wife out, but doesn' want the flack that goes with it. Impossible that he wants it both ways. Right?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:23 PM on 07/17/2008
- Deeg See Profile I'm a Fan of Deeg

You mean kind of like how McConfused has it now?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:08 AM on 07/18/2008
- presto See Profile I'm a Fan of presto

She is being treated no differently that Teresa Kerry. Obama needs to stop complaining about every little thing.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:47 PM on 07/17/2008
- Deeg See Profile I'm a Fan of Deeg

If the liberal groups were constantly bringing up something far more explosive that Cindy Mc Cain did, you know stealing drugs from a charity, I'm sure the Mc Cain camp would be in an absolute uproar.

0bama is correct to denounce the attacking of his wife. Besides, he was asked a question, how should he answer it? Should he not defend his wife from baseless attacks?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:11 AM on 07/18/2008
- FatherWolf See Profile I'm a Fan of FatherWolf

Kerry lost in part because he didn't fight back. Looked like a wimp.

Obama needs to slam hard at every sleazy smear that the Republicans put out.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:07 PM on 07/17/2008
- StillIRise See Profile I'm a Fan of StillIRise

So are you suggesting that it was okay to treat Teresa Kerry that way?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:12 PM on 07/17/2008
- joeyp404 See Profile I'm a Fan of joeyp404

Probably suggesting that O stop making this an issue and get his message out.

Just messing with you, man.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:32 PM on 07/17/2008
- Bettysdad See Profile I'm a Fan of Bettysdad

When dealing with the vermin known as Republicans, nothing should be surprising and everything should be prepared for.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:31 PM on 07/17/2008
- awcbuddy8 See Profile I'm a Fan of awcbuddy8

Vermin? Thinking about a final solution there friend?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:59 PM on 07/17/2008
- Bettysdad See Profile I'm a Fan of Bettysdad

Of course not.

I suggest using Havahart traps, which don't injure the vermin and allow you to move them to a place they won't be bothersome.

Like Paraguay.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:09 AM on 07/18/2008
- indypete See Profile I'm a Fan of indypete

Very clever.... did you read anything other than the one word "vermin"?

Besides, final solutions are your side's tactics.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:21 PM on 07/17/2008
- genia See Profile I'm a Fan of genia

This is a republican thing, they exclusively organize to set out to destroy democratic women. Tipper Gore...Teresa Heinz Kerry, Hillary....now Michele.
It says something about the republicans...something ,....some problem with women I guess...lol
I don't know why the general population of repugs...the non sheeple... do not condemn this.??

Good Lord..look what they did to Cindy Sheehan...oh made my skin crawl. I mean...these asz wipes actually had themselves convinced that if her son could come back from the dead he would disown her...brrr ohhhhh....and yet...the sheep...they all go along with it. Amazing...no limits, no boundaries.
To appreciate these jerks one needs to go and read at a right wing firum for an hour or so....it will change your view of things...for sure.

A few nights ago I watch a special about Jackie Kennedy on PBS.....what a different time it was. What a special lady she was.......I kept thinking to myself....if it were all to happen today..my my...what they wouldn't do to her.
The smear campaign that they would have to have going ...um....um..um
Hang in there Michele...hang tuff!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:20 PM on 07/17/2008
- wutzhappn See Profile I'm a Fan of wutzhappn

The democrats did a damn good job of destroying Hillary Clinton on the campaign trail...yet was Obama "infuriated" by the blatant misogyny? No..... If his wife doesn't want to be criticized, she should refrain from making political statements and gaffes... otherwise, it's fair game, just like it's been with every other candidate's spouse who opens his or her mouth. Stop yer whining, Barack.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:24 PM on 07/17/2008
- Peteyman See Profile I'm a Fan of Peteyman

Really? How so? I guess you're one of those people who are still thinking Hill was somehow mistreated. I got some questions for you sister. Was Hillary ever "infuriated" by racism in the campaign? Did she EVER come out to defend Michelle Obama from right wing spin? Or did she actually use some of that spin for her own gains? Did Obama EVER jump on EVERY gaffe? Or did he just attack her one her policies? When did he EVER attack Hillary? And when did the DNC destroy Hillary?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:01 AM on 07/18/2008
- artgal See Profile I'm a Fan of artgal
Moderator's Pick

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Michele Obama joins Hillary Clinton, Teresa Heinz Kerry and Rosalyn Carter as women
who are not viewed favorably by a great deal of the public. I actually believe that a lot of opinions
are based upon looks - and then personality. All of them look like no-nonsense types
which in fact they are. That shouldnt be a bad thing - but I guess the public still
isnt ready for a certain type of first lady - Laura Bush, Pat Nixon, Barbara Bush, LadyBird Johnson and of course Jackie all seemed to have had the indefinable "it" that the public likes. A certain ladylike pose that for some reason the public feels befits the job of First Lady - non aggressive and not too interested in politics. Interesting how the U.S. public in general is behind many other smaller countries when it comes to their ideas about how women should behave.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:50 PM on 07/17/2008
- StillIRise See Profile I'm a Fan of StillIRise

What the general public seems to like in First Ladies is the "Stepford" wife. The quiet, demure, soft-spoken, unassertive, pleasing-to-the-eye, shallow ante-bellum type feminine fixture that is not threatening to the fragile ego of the man in charge, or men in general. They want a showpiece, a grown-up white Barbie doll.

As beautiful and intelligent as Michelle Obama is, she simply does not fit the paradigm of what many Americans think a First Lady should look like and be, just as Senator Obama does not fit the paradigm of what some think a President of the United States should look like and be. So rather than to try to examine and change their thinking, they simply reject Michelle and Barack Obama as "unfit" to occupy the White House. The Obamas will bring a new consciousness to our nation that all Americans and the world community will inevitably come to embrace. And by learning to embrace them, we will learn to embrace each other and the goodness within ourselves as well.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:41 PM on 07/17/2008
- dora_rice See Profile I'm a Fan of dora_rice

I agree with most of what you said. Having said that, No first lady ever said that it took her to mature adult hood before she could be proud of her country. It's not so much what she said, but it was startling enough to take a second look at her and analyze her some more. During the course of the second look at her, to much of her aggression and bitterness came to light. Obama can hide his problems with America better , she can't.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:44 PM on 07/17/2008
- Deeg See Profile I'm a Fan of Deeg

I still don't understand what's wrong with having problems with America. As our founding fathers saw it, critical dissent was one of the highest forms of patriotism. You're viewing the country through the Ultra-Nationalistic lens of the narrow minded right wing. The sort of thing that puts party and power above country and your fellow Americans. It's a dangerous perspective that offers to stagnate our national discourse and degrade our system to one of wedge issues and demonization of our political enemies.

You also have to understand things are very different coming from an American Black experience. As well, you also, as many do, choose to continually misquote Michelle 0bama. She said the first time she's 'REALLY' proud. That singular word makes the sentence mean something complete different.

On top of that dora_rice, how do you reconcile John Mc Cain saying he didn't love his country until he was a POW? How does that work? I'm sorrry but you can't have your cake and eat it too. Let's be fair.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:20 AM on 07/18/2008
- MadJeffersonian See Profile I'm a Fan of MadJeffersonian

Pay attention to what Michelle O actually said, "that for the first time she was REALLY proud ..." There is a difference, especially when you pay attention to the context within which she said it. Of course, semantics is lost on most people from the right. All they see is a "pissed off" black woman.

Let's also remember, too, that Teresa Heinz Kerry was attacked for saying "shove it" to some reporter whom she thought was taking her words out of context. Then we have Dick Cheney who was hailed by the right for telling Leahy "to go F himself" while both were in the Senate.

The rules are different for the left.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:10 AM on 07/18/2008
- TJRich See Profile I'm a Fan of TJRich

It would be nice if people repeating what Michelle said would include "for the first time in my adult life, I'm 'REALLY' proud of my country" as in I've never been more proud. But then, I think you already know that and prefer to mis-characterize.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:19 PM on 07/17/2008
- alexaii See Profile I'm a Fan of alexaii

I agree Dora. She should be so grateful to be in the position she's in. She may as well have slapped each and everyone of us in the face with her comments. Obama is no better than her. He's said some insulting things to us, also.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:07 PM on 07/17/2008
- ChicagoPunk See Profile I'm a Fan of ChicagoPunk

"What we have learned over this year is that hope is making a comeback. It is making a comeback. And let me tell you something -- for the first time in my adult lifetime, I am really proud of my country. And not just because Barack has done well, but because I think people are hungry for change. And I have been desperate to see our country moving in that direction and just not feeling so alone in my frustration and disappointment. I've seen people who are hungry to be unified around some basic common issues, and it's made me proud."

Yes, how terrible. Well, I guess if you're looking for a reason to trash someone anyway, anything will do.

There's no hate like conservative hate.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:21 PM on 07/17/2008
- DXP See Profile I'm a Fan of DXP

Interesting that he completely equates the right leaning MSM with the RNC and the republican candidates. It is the media that is hard on Michelle. But it is a slippery slope. Slippery all around.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:49 PM on 07/17/2008
- dumboldfarmer See Profile I'm a Fan of dumboldfarmer

It's just another prime example of where those political hacks have their minds. They are still in the gutter. One wonders if they live their lives the same way.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:54 PM on 07/17/2008
- corsair1917 See Profile I'm a Fan of corsair1917

This is what I thought Obama should have been most upset about in light of The New Yorker cover. The depiction of Michelle Obama in that "satirical" cartoon what was most upsetting to me. To have that ridiculous image of her with a machine gun in army fatigues like she is some radical militant (which I know was the whole point) was the most offensive. Think of her daughters seeing that depiction of their mother. She might be out on the campaign trail but that doesn't justify the treatment she has received.