Jay Leno Apologizes For Gay Remarks

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US Weekly   |   April 1, 2008 10:10 PM


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After gay rights organization GLAAD urged Jay Leno to apologize for making derogatory remarks during a recent interview with actor Ryan Phillippe, the talk show host clarified his remarks in a statement.


"In talking about Ryan's first role, I realize that what I said came out wrong," Leno said. "I certainly didn't mean any malice. I agree it was a dumb thing to say, and I apologize."


The Tonight Show host, 57, teased Phillippe, 33, for landing his first role as a gay teen on the soap One Life to Live. He also asked Phillippe to give the camera his "gayest look."

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WTF was homophobic about this? If the guy is ashamed about doing gay roles then he shouldn't have done them. And what's so offensive about making a gay face. I do my gay face at lease three times a day.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:59 PM on 04/05/2008

Oh for God's sake. Worry about stuff worth worrying about.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:52 PM on 04/05/2008

Jay Leno should have realized that he shouldn't make those type of remarks without being shamed into an apology. As far as I'm concerned it adds to my disgust of most late night comedians.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:12 AM on 04/03/2008

Who the hell watches these late night shows anyway except retired insomniacs and the terminally bored? Read a book or better yet, just go to bed and get some sleep.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:57 AM on 04/03/2008

AMEN RAMAL. It is a total waste.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:49 PM on 04/03/2008

Another reason not to watch the Tonight Show. Bill Maher would have told GLAAD to bugger off.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:33 PM on 04/02/2008

I'm gay. I don't see the homophobia in this. WTF?
I'm glad I have already stopped supporting GLAAD

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:21 PM on 04/02/2008

Me, too. Me, too and me, too.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:33 PM on 04/02/2008

I have finally realized what really bothers me about all of this.

This is crying "wolf!"

And every time the professional victims at GLAAD can't help but make a statement because they can't resist the opportunity for media exposure and another chance to claim their victimhood, the fight for actual gay rights and respect loses a step.
GLAAD should save its energy for actual defamation, not just someone making a bad joke about soap opera acting that happened to involve queerdom.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:20 PM on 04/02/2008

I totally agree. I am gay, and I do become offended by some of the things I see on television, but this was not one of them. I think it's something we all wonder about the celebrities, especially if they've ever conquered a gay role, but really that does not mean that they are necessarily gay, or necassarily willing to talk about it on live television even if they are. I think Jay stepped over the line personally with Ryan, but not as far as offending me, nor should it have offended anyone else, people are too quick to cry "wolf" as Halfwit says, rather than save that energy to fight for things that really matter, for example domestic partnership health insurance, or marriage laws....I think we, as gays, have bigger fish to fry.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:30 AM on 04/03/2008

I wonder what Matt Drudge thinks about this, being gay himself.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:12 PM on 04/02/2008

too many damn people out there making a living being offended. Jay is a wuss for apologizing for nothing. these idiots who find offensive remarks when none are there should punch themselves in the face.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:35 PM on 04/02/2008

Joke telling is, and has always been around. It fosters camaderie between family, friends, co-workers and is a useful escape mechanism from the humdrum existance of so many of us. However, some folks have such an exaggerated sensitivity of self that they perceive jokes as a personal insult to their dignity, and haughtily chastise the joke-teller . Once these people are discovered, thereafter, they are generally excluded from many of the day-to-day pleasantries that the rest of their peer group enjoys, and descend even further into humorless misery. The old adage "Sticks and stones make break my bones, but names will never hurt me" does not apply to them.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:43 PM on 04/02/2008

Mr. Leno should have known there are only a few "groups" left you can poke fun at 1) blondes 2) Rednecks/hillbillies and 3) politcians caught in sexual pecadillos.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:29 PM on 04/02/2008

Americans laugh at everything, and often our sense of humor has a cruel even brutal attitude. Our laughter covers up the fact that we don't take seriously issues that need to be resolved. Those Americans who do take those issues seriously are especially considered a joke. In our march of folly we consider freedom of speech the right to ridicule. The sad thing is...so many issues are just not funny. Discrimination against gay people has its roots in irrational fear and often overwrought hatred. Gay people aren't "gay", they're just attempting to make the best of a difficult "calling" in life. All of us in whatever stereotype we are forced to fit are doing the same in whatever oppression we have to overcome for the future humans to have a better world. I think we could laugh our heads off with a good conscience if the butt of our jokes weren't also the butt of some repressive cultural force. Ha Ha. I made a gay joke. Sad.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:37 PM on 04/02/2008

And without irrational fear, comedy would be dead.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:05 PM on 04/02/2008

Freedom of speech absolutely includes the right to ridicule. There is much more to it than that, but yes, Americans should take freedom of speech as a right to ridicule.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:03 PM on 04/02/2008

Freedom of speech also includes the right to be disgusted by tasteless, humorless ridicule, and say so. Which is what we're doing here.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:28 PM on 04/02/2008

I fully agree.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:42 PM on 04/02/2008

homophobia is absolutely wrong.
any kind, by anybody.
why the discussion?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:32 PM on 04/02/2008

Because I, as a gay man, don't see anything slightly homophobic about what Jay Leno said.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:34 PM on 04/02/2008

Mutual Disdain: Sorry for the late reply. I don't work at HP. I have no idea why my post is a pick, other than I hope I presented my arguments intelligently. I don't like Jay Leno, but that's because I don't find him funny, not due to any ax to grind, politically or otherwise. Not a fan of Ryan Phillipe either: I thought he did a memorable job in Cruel Intentions, but otherwise I don't find him particularly compelling, and I like Reese Witherspoon a lot more. But I felt his reaction to Leno was understandable. Stop-Loss is a serious film with a message. Generally speaking in late night talk shows, the hosts give actors who are promoting such movies a chance profess their sincere intent as well as the watchability of the film. Doesn't matter if its this film or Passion of the Christ: otherwise why would talent come on these shows in the first place? As for transparency: I am not a plant. With no disrepect, you're entitled to your opinion of my motives or origins, but I don't really care.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:50 PM on 04/02/2008

The thing is, when you go on a talk show you always start off with things that are not about what you are promoting. Some light-hearted banter usually comes first. Leno was talking about the stupid looks soap actors are always having to do for the camera. Since this young man's experience was playing a gay guy, he couldn't very well say "look at the camera like you are on the soap and you are looking at a voluptuous brunette." He instead stuck with the truth of his past roll. If he had played a straight roll, would we be upset about Leno suggesting the voluptuous Brunette? No. And we shouldn't be upset about this either.
If you are trying to get your serious message about your movie go on the Today show. The Tonight Show is about comedy and entertainment.
I think Mr Philippe has a few insecurity issues. He was embarrassed by the naked commercial, too.
That seems odd considering he filmed it.
I think Jay Leno should not have had to apologize, but as long as my fellow gay men continue to cry "victim" at the drop of a hat and to take offense where no offense was given, there is not much I can do about that.
Once again, I find myself in the position of defaming GLAAD. They just keep deserving it with their reactionary victim mentality.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:30 PM on 04/02/2008

Ryan Philipoe has a few insecurity issues, and was embarrassed by the naked commercial? Gee, he stated that he did the commercial when he was 19 and he is now 33 and is trying to portray himself as a serious actor.. Not performing, on Leno's cue, to the role he had when he was 18 seemed mature rather than insecure.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:43 PM on 04/02/2008

I agree. Ryan's reaction was right on the money. I've never seen him as a person of substance until now. Impressive boundaries in not wanting to do something that would be offensive to some people.
a genuine mature response.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:52 AM on 04/03/2008

One of the greatest signs of maturity is being able to poke fun at your early years and career decisions. And, really, the Tonight show is not the place to portray oneself as a serious actor. The serious actors come on Leno to show they have a fun side. I don't think Mr Phillipe does.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:49 PM on 04/02/2008

WOW! That was, like, the WORST interview I've seen in years!

Who knew Jay Leno could be such an incompetent interviewer?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:21 PM on 04/02/2008

It's no different than always; and I think leno did OK

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:17 PM on 04/02/2008

Who knew Ryan Philippe could be such a bad interviewee.?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:54 PM on 04/02/2008

As a gay man I can only say, what's the big friggin deal? We already know American straight men are obsessed with homosexuality. We don't need shrieks of outrage from GLAAD or anybody else to protect us from their remarks.

I frankly prefer it when these straight bozos DON'T censor themselves. Put your prejudices out where we can see them, guys...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:01 PM on 04/02/2008

Leno's remarks wouldn't have been insensitive if he hadn't made a joke of the whole thing. It was either an ignorant series of questions or not clear enough that Leno was being satirical. Either way,Leno apologized.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:15 PM on 04/02/2008

Some of them actually make a choice not to be gay and "obessed" is more like amused. But that's ok, we can all be amused with each other. No big deal.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:19 PM on 04/02/2008

Here, here!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:55 PM on 04/02/2008

Like many clueless straight men (I didn't say ALL!), Leno just doesn't get how moronic he often comes across. It's like he's still 11 years old and wants to goof on Phillippe and others who played something different than themselves: "Ewww, you were GAY??? Do a GAY FACE! Snort, snort..." Leno has a world view that is heterocentric and extremely narrow and fear-based, so of course he's a Republican. He's just what the red states like: extremely nervous about anyone "different", staying well within their comfort zone, and ostracizing those who they don't understand. Do we wonder why Middle America loves this guy? He IS them! Thank God for Letterman.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:52 PM on 04/02/2008

I live in Middle America and I can't stand Jay Leno.
Granted, I'm not a Republican, either, or gay...people tend to be awful sensitive about certain crap, don't they?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:09 PM on 04/02/2008
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Whether or not Leno's relentless jabbing was homophobic -- seemed awfully close to the line -- it wasn't appropriate ( how many years ago was Phillipe in that soap?) and certainly not germane. Considering that Phillipe was there to promote "Stop-Loss", a topical, controversial and very serious-minded film, I think the actor was justified in being irritated by the weird and irrelevant tangent Leno chose to pursue. At best, Leno was accidently undermining Phillipe's attempt to promote the sincerity of the film and his role in it. At worst (and this view is admittedly conspiratorial), Leno was purposefully ridiculing the actor in a way calculated to damage Phillipe's credibility in the role of a soldier. Imagine Leno doing the same to Tommy Lee Jones (who had a major gay role in "JFK" years ago) if Jones was promoting "In the Valley of Elah" , and you can see how strange and disconcerting Leno's behavior appeared.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:43 PM on 04/02/2008

WAAAAAHHHHHHH!!!! Typical liberal cryface gibberish.........don't you guys ever get a bit sick of being ernest and humourless constantly? God, lighten the hell up.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:23 PM on 04/02/2008

Leno would have been afraid to try that on Tommy Lee Jones. For such a strenuously self-proclaimed straight man, Leno is a bit effeminate, you know.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:59 PM on 04/02/2008

Mr Norman Main's quasi epic "Stop Loss" is tanking at the box office, having taken in a paltry 4.5 million for the past week. If his modest goal was to promote this turkey, Phillipe failed on that account too. A fantastic opportunity was handed to him with Leno and he not only didn't grab the brass ring, he didn't even see it.. Like many in this town, he takes himself far too seriously.

As for Leno being homophobic, please. He tells an hysterical story about how he and Mavis accidentally ended up in the West Hollywood Gay Pride Parade one year. And how they loved it and had a great time. Some Gays have got to guit acting like silly love struck teenagers who have just discovered that the object of their attention has cheated on them. And the comments about GLAAD in the ensuing discussions are right on the money. These self appointed "Pillars of the Community" are representing no one but themselves.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:29 PM on 04/02/2008

Since this comment is your only comment on record, and it has been chosen as a pick, can we safely assume that you work at the HP? I don't mind you weighing in with your opinion here, or the fact that it was "picked", but I also wouldn't mind some transparency.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:23 PM on 04/02/2008

I'm not sure that I understand your reasoning. You're claiming that Leno was off limits to talk about a past role that an actor once had? You can't joke with Governor schwarzenegger about his roll as a terminator, or with Madonna about her role in Evita?

I can understand your reasoning if Phillipe asked that the role not be discussed beforehand, but that doesn't seem to be the case.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:09 PM on 04/02/2008

I think it was the "Pretend the camera is Billy Bob, your shirtless gay lover" bit that was borderline inappropriate. The fact that they wanted to talk about his past work isn't bad, but that they failed to focus on his present role, a very serious and politically-charged one, is disappointing to say the least.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:41 PM on 04/02/2008