Paul McCartney Remembers Linda In His Own Words

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The Times   |  Paul McCartney   |   April 5, 2008 11:24 PM


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So much of my life with Linda, and our family, was spent just hanging out either at home or on holiday. The picture on this page is just a simple holiday snap. It was just one of those shots, a photograph of me in Jamaica relaxing in the afternoon. As a photographer, Linda had the freedom to take great family snapshots. She had that knack: when she was taking pictures, she managed to get us all to ignore her, totally.

She could take pictures of pretty much anything and we knew that we could trust her. We knew she'd only take pictures of stuff that she thought was worthy and not too private.

We were made to feel at home. I suppose we were, after all. When I first met her, I realised that as a photographer she was very sympathetic. It's now 10 years since she died and probably 40 years since we first met. I can still recall our first meeting. It was at a London club, the Bag O' Nails, when Georgie Fame and the Blue Flames were playing one night. Across a crowded room, as they say, our eyes met and the violins started playing - but they were drowned out by, of all people, Georgie Fame. Another northerner.

There was an immediate attraction between us. As she was leaving - she was with the group the Animals, whom she'd been photographing - I saw an obvious opportunity. I said: "My name's Paul. What's yours?" I think she probably recognised me.

It was so corny, but I told the kids later that, had it not been for that moment, none of them would be here. Later that night, we went on together to another club, the Speakeasy. It was our first date and I remember I heard Procol Harum's A Whiter Shade of Pale for the first time. It became our song.

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So many posters seem to be missing the point of this. By remembering his family life with Linda, Paul is confirming the possibility that she may have been the love of his life and was irreplaceable. And by looking back, he pays spiritual homage to what he once had. I don't think he'll ever find it again. If you have had one great love in life, you've been a rich man. For mate magic comes only once per lifetime.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:39 AM on 04/07/2008


"Beg to disagree. Maca is using his dead wife image to re-invent himself after that debacle with Healther Mills. Now that is sooooooooo low ! He continues to use women for his selfish, shallow and egotistical way.

Maybe you are blinded by the "Sir Paul" image - he was cavorting with that Nancy whatever her name is while the press is on fire about his pending divorce. Then he swayed the press attention by publicly smooching with Arquette and other celebrites . Now that the divorce is over, he back with that woman Nancy.

May be it's you who can't connect the dots. I get it - you're just another DODO.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:03 PM on 04/07/2008

in my reply to ang4ever, I meant to say shallow not shall.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:59 PM on 04/06/2008


That's fine. I understood it perfectly and no need to explain.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:05 PM on 04/07/2008

What a ^%$&$%$ man!! The magazine WEALTHY GOSSIP
reported he joined the rich men seeking sugar babies site
sugardaddylove.c om and he is mentioned to find his sugar
girl there! the magazine foolx he?? or fools us.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:27 PM on 04/06/2008

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P.S. If anyone can tell me where one signs up to get paid to spam websites with porn-peddling comments, I'd greatly appreciate it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:39 PM on 04/07/2008

oh buzz off.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:42 PM on 04/06/2008

i mean the one with the porn gossip, not goreyFantod

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:28 AM on 04/08/2008

The McCartneys had an enduring love affair and strove to have as normal a family life as was possible under the circumstances. Since his children seem to adore him, I don't believe he was an abusive husband. Was their marriage perfect? Whose is? But the bond between them must have been strong, since they stayed together until Linda's death.

I remain an avowed Beatlemaniac, but have to admit I never much cared for Wings ... too sappy. I do, however, appreciate that Linda was a great wife and mother, an animal rights activist, and a gifted photographer. Paul was lucky to have found his soul mate. I hope his second attempt at marriage didn't sour him on finding love again ... it took me three tries to get it right!

Live long and prosper, Paul ... and keep your heart open.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:46 PM on 04/06/2008

Sir Paul, still a doll baby!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:52 PM on 04/06/2008

My appreciation of Ringo as a great drummer took me years. But about twenty years ago, I started really listening and I realized how much his drumming drove the beat on songs like I Saw Her Standing There and Twist and Shout. He says his best is on Rain. Ringo was not the bit player he is portrayed as. They would have obviously made it without him, but he was the frosting on the cake. Paul drums on Ballad of John and Yoko. My other fav is Stewart Copeland of the Police.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:17 PM on 04/06/2008

on Larry King LIve, on the first anniversary of LOVE: Cirque de Soleil, both Ringo and Paul talk about how much better the songs are in 5.1 surround sound--Paul said "You can really hear Ringo's drums--he held us together, without him, the songs would not have held up!" Ringo talked about how he loves listening to the songs in 5.1. I am so excited, I get to go see Ringo on July 11 near Minneapolis, MN in concert! Paul's drumming on Ballad of John and Yoko is great as well and Paul drums on many of his solo recordings. He says he learned a lot from Ringo. Not so egotistical as ang4ever would think!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:53 AM on 04/07/2008

Michie62 - that should be put in perspective. Maca is re-inventing his image. It was clear that he needs to tone down that egotistical image !

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:08 PM on 04/07/2008

he does not have to re-invent his image. He is going to be 66 years old. You don't like him.
We get it, loud and clear.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:07 PM on 04/07/2008


I rew up listening the Beatles' records. Mom and Dad were a die hard fans. I'm not, specially not Paul MC. I can still remember my Dad barking his head off to the tune of " I wanna hold your hand, or She loves you yeah, yeah, yeah - senseless and stupid songs. In the morning Mom carries her attache and case files to court with the Beatles "Greatest Hits, and Dad is still barking his head. And I am still shaking !

At mid-fifties, they still slow dance and get lovie-dovie-silly when they play "The Long and Winding Road". My brother Travis tells them to get a room please! On their 30th wedding anniversary this year, Mom and Dad slow dance to that same song, then rock the hall all night with " I wanna Hold Your Hand" and " I Saw Her Standing There". Their old-equally-nuts-Yale classmates Yale rock and roll all night long.

Ohhh - what a story they tell about the Beatles, and what a generation ! I will give Paul a pass this time. The next day, I bought the The Beatles Greatest Song Volumes and listen to "The Long and Winding Road". Good song. And what a surprise - knuckle head Paul wrote the song ! That must be some printing error. This shallow-egotistical man couldnt have written that song !

M

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:43 PM on 04/06/2008

ang4ever, if you'd been 12 when the Beatles came to America, you'd feel much differently. But, of course, every generation has its own preferences. The Beatles and the ensuing "British Invasion" changed everything from musical styles, to fashion, to language, to a whole new youth culture. I'm grateful to have been young then because nothing has ever happened like that since.

Before the Beatles, popular music was divided into two basic catagories: Sinatra and other "old people's music" and "black music" which for the prevailing white culture of America was a combination of the old Delta blues, some country, and early rock which was first called "rockabilly" and later called "rock & roll" (blues term for having sex).

(continuing... )

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:52 PM on 04/10/2008

Elvis was the first white man to bring R&R to white America. He was fantastic in the late '50s, but had totally changed when he came back from being in the army. He'd lost "it". He still had hits, but wanted to be taken seriously as an actor. Unfortunately he trusted his Svengali, Colonel Parker, to make career decisions for him and he ended up being turned into a joke in ridiculous early to mid-'60s movies and then into the caricature of himself as the Vegas Elvis.

In the late '50s, R&R was considered subversive "negro music". There were teenage riots; kids demanding to be able to hear "their" music. Record companies tried to feed the kids crap like Pat Boone singing "Be Bop A Lula", a wild Little Richard song, in a sappy, syrupy manner. (see the original John Waters movie "Hairspray".)

There were other good Top 40 acts before Joke Elvis.... Roy Orbison, the Everly Brothers among others, but basically the radio offered "old people's music" and Top 40, some good/some bad and a lot of country. There wasn't the variety of categories of musical styles to choose from.

The Beatles came along and they actually wrote their own songs and played their own instruments! This was completely different from most recording stars who were merely singers.

(sorry, still too wordy)

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:17 PM on 04/10/2008

(the end, really)

Ok, enough history. You should have been there, ang4ever. If sounds as if you are quite young. Regardless, you should be very happy that you have parents who love each other. If they sing, slow dance, and reminisce together and with their friends. You are extremely lucky. Just writing this last part to you has brought tears to my eyes because although my parents are still alive and together, I have never seen any love.

Count your blessings and be grateful for what you have. Laugh at them, roll your eyes, but realize how fortunate you are. Seriously.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:26 PM on 04/10/2008

Listen to who sings lead. Yeah, I can tell. In general that will tell you who wrote the song, although not always. On the early stuff, a lot of it is early rockers, Chuck Berry -Rock and Roll Music, Buddy Holly -Words of Love. Paul said he wrote I'll Follow The Sun at 16, which amazed me because it has fairly sophisticated lyrics.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:31 PM on 04/06/2008


Gasparilla - I must admit that the lyrics of Long and Winding Road is way too deep. He took credit for someone' else. Maca couldn't have written that song. There is a post here that says, he wrote the song 2 years after his Mom died and that his "pain" may have inspired him to write that song. He must have been 16 at that time.

But the lyrics is not meant for a mother's loss. I does not connect. I don't believe that poster !

The vocal is good, and if that was really Paul, then I give him credit. But the lyrics nor the arrangement could have not been his. My guts says so - I am dead sure !

"Still don't like him one bit.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:24 PM on 04/07/2008

hello , he wrote "I'll Follow the Sun" at age 15. the Long and winding road he wrote in 1969 . On Let it Be, the original album, the arrangement was raped by a guy named Phil Spector. I suggest you listen to Let it Be Naked released a few years ago or any of Paul's live albums/cds. You do not know much, but you can shoot your mouth off here on this blog. You do not have to like Paul, but stop insulting him. What hit record have you arranged? However, at the time of the writing of The Long and Winding Road, Lennon and McCartney were NOT writing together and Paul McCartney did indeed write this song. If you had any understanding of how many years The Beatles had been together when that song was written, and how much the four had been through, yes Macca could be deep. I am a sociologist and I did quite a bit of research for a class called
sociology of the performing arts--did a 25 page research paper on the Beatles in 1984 and have studied not only their music, but sociological influence on the world for years. I can go to valid sources of research about what I write--The Beatles Anthology the most valid of all, . Research done by the late Neil Aspinall over a lifetime and he knew Paul McCartney before Paul's mother died in 1956.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:06 PM on 04/07/2008

Paul wrote it on the two year anniversary of his mother's death from breast cancer. He may come off as shallow or egotistical, but he grew up with much pain in his life. HIs mother was a mid-wife and hid her cancer from the family. Paul, his brother and dad saw her for the last time a few hours before she died--on Halloween, 1956. She was the main economic support of the family, and like any 14 year old, Paul was devastated. He is no knucklehead. Had he not sued the other three and Allen Klein in 1970, the four of the beatles would have been dead broke. And all three thanked him for saving their money, btw. whoever ang4ever is, grow up. Just because someone doesn't bawl all over their sleeve does not make them either shall or egotistical. And btw, at least McCartney has many valid reasons to have an ego!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:57 PM on 04/06/2008

I'll Follow the Sun written at age 15. Not Long and Winding Road.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:11 PM on 04/07/2008

I knew about his mom but did not know that song was about her.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:14 AM on 04/07/2008

Being in the Beatles opened so many doors to these people, some not so good, most really good. Paul is a sincere guy and deserves a great life. Linda was really good as a wife, photographer and accompanying band member.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:34 PM on 04/06/2008

Whatever you think of Sir Paul - whatever you may have thought of Linda - this was still touching. His emotions seem quite similar to my mother's as she struggles to cope with losing my dad after 58 years of marriage.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:11 PM on 04/06/2008

dear debwarot--my thoughts are with you and your mom. I lost my grandpa, who raised me, sixteen months ago. It is such a hard struggle, he lived without my grandma for 11 years, after 49 years of marriage. Give your mom a hug from me, michie62. It will be hard, but she can make it--he is still loving her from where his spirit is!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:49 AM on 04/07/2008

What a manipulator...
Sad,sad, sad.
And you fell for it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:56 AM on 04/06/2008

We all want to experience that kind of love and dedication. My heart hurts for Paul. Even with another marriage, (that failed) and new daughter, I can't imagine that his heart has completely healed. Since Heather turned out to be such a bitch, and the antithesis of Linda, I bet it makes him miss her even more.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:56 AM on 04/06/2008

Simple words expressing his love for her which I'm sure he will feel deeply, until he dies.
It's great to be loved. Sorry for your pain Paul.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:52 AM on 04/06/2008

When I read this I felt somewhat emotional... and I'm only 30. I remember when she died. It was sad to me. My girlfriend at the time didn't care, though.

McCartney reminds us -- maybe he is trying to remind himself-- that not all women are gold-digging, bitter bitches... I hope.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:33 AM on 04/06/2008

Wings had a great song on Londontown called "don't let it bring you down". On Friday morning April 17, 1998, I was listening to that song that had brought me through many down times, including the death of my best friend in sept. 1978--just months after the song came out. Linda died early that Friday am in April 98. Two days later, when it was publicly announced she had died, the signifigance of me listening to that song the morning she got her real angel wings caused me to weep endlessly. I called my grandpa to see if he'd heard the news and I wept uncontrolablly. Everytime someone from the Beatles or the Beatles family passes, I weep as if it were one of my own family. Grandpa told me not to cry, she was not sick anymore. Like I said in the earlier blog, I hope Linda and my grandparents have lots of fun in the great beyond. Grams and Gramps loved the song a big songwriter in the 40's had written for linda as a gift for linda's dad, entertainment attorney Lee Eastman. Rest in peace, the lovely Lady Linda Eastman McCartney, your style and grace shall not be seen here on Earth again--excepting in your children Heather See McCartney, Mary McCartney, Stella McCartney and James Louis McCartney! Sweet thoughts and prayers to them and Sir Paul during this tenth anniversary time. Keep on loving yourselves and one another--just like Lady Linda did and does!!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:45 AM on 04/07/2008

"a photograph of me in Jamaica relaxing in the afternoon"

With a giant spliff in my hand... yah maan!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:47 AM on 04/06/2008

Great article. No woman could ever replace Linda, especially not Heather Mills. Stay single Paul. Focus on the music and playing and forget about finding someone who can compare to Linda. You had the best. It only happens once my friend.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:55 AM on 04/06/2008

Dear Sir Paul: Thank you for sharing this personal and wonderfully historical part of your family at the decade point of the death of your lovely Linda. I eat more healthfully today because of her cookbooks and though i am not a total veggie, her food products have helped! Her photography was always impressive and I am pulling for you during this really hard anniversary time. The thing that keeps you going I am sure is that she is always in your heart, as well as your children's hearts. When my grandma died, after 49 years of marriage, my grandpa described their meeting--kind of like how you and Linda met--in a club in 1945--"we literally ran into each other and seeing this beautiful woman, I asked her to dance, a minute early or later we would have missed each other. Fate brought us together." Yours was Georgie Fame's, theirs was some Glen Miller type band. Both of my grandparents are gone and I hope they have met Linda in the great beyond. Love and peace to you and yours, sir Paul. Come tour over here in Minnesota soon. Would love to see you in concert a third time--saw you in 93 with LInda in Minneapolis and in 02 in Milwaukee WI.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:29 AM on 04/06/2008

I remember how Linda was always so berated as the tambourine player, but even now, when I think of Paul's voice I can still hear hear her's. I read the article and felt myself tearing up. It's wonderful to have had real love in your life. Keep the memories, Paul. No matter what else happens in life you have them.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:44 AM on 04/06/2008

seeing them together in concert in 1993 in the Metrodome, Minneapolis, MN, was an experience of two people deeply in love and enjoying being together on stage.
A full three hour show with one fifteen minute break. She might not have had the best voice, but she did learn the keyboards well. Wix Wickens still uses some of the keyboard things she recorded when Paul tours. And at any rate she still sang better than Yoko ever will. It was a lonesome concert without her(Linda) when my friends and I saw him in 2002. I think her spirit was there as well as her keyboard recordings.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:03 AM on 04/07/2008
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