Wall Of College Rejection Letters: How Kids Cope

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boston.com   |  Peter Schworm   |   April 8, 2008 10:43 AM


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High school seniors everywhere have traditionally posted their rejection letters as an act of collective defiance against the high-pressure and hypercompetitive college admissions process. But this year, with top-tier colleges rejecting more applicants than ever before, dejected students say they are especially in need of what amounts to a group hug.

At Newton South, rejection letters from most of the country's most selective colleges, from Amherst to Wesleyan, from Bowdoin to the University of Southern California, tell the grim tale. A demographic bulge in the number of high school students, combined with a sharp rise in the number of colleges they apply to, has created a numbers crunch....

So in their moment of need, the reeling students rally together. By making a personal setback public, sharing the letters can be cathartic, students say. Instead of wallowing in self-pity, students find comfort in a communal, almost collegial, show of solidarity against an impersonal, seemingly arbitrary system.

When Sofya Rozenblat, 18, got the bad news from Dartmouth College, her first choice, she was crushed. She shed some tears. Stapling her letter on the wall the next morning, she recalled, started the healing process, she said...

At Newton, the Wall of Shame serves as kind of a water cooler for college-related gossip and reflection. Some sigh and shake their heads, muttering.

Some walk by and glance, then turn their head away in disgust, then reflexively snap it back, like a car crash. Some juniors walk by and gulp.

A few pore over them, reading each stock phrase of gentle letdown - "very real regret" (Duke), "sincere regret [Yale], "so sorry to tell you" [MIT], "I am sorry to bring you disappointing news" [Wesleyan], "careful and concerned consideration" [Brown], and "we wish you every success with your further education" [Georgetown].

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These kids have to take responsibility for their actions.

They could have decided to be born into wealth in affluent communities but instead chose a life on the other side of the tracks.

I, for one, was tempted to tell God; "Hey God! Give me poor parents so I can slack off and not go to college!" Instead, I maintained focus and sought discipline, decided to slide out of a rich womb and into a life of responsibility and greatness. If I can do it, - anyone can!

The less affluent will just have to own up to their own failures and bite the bullet.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:54 PM on 04/08/2008

First of all, every high school senior should take at least one year off after graduating so they can work, save some money, and get some real world experience.

Then, for those who's grades are not worthy of Yale or MIT, go to community college. Maybe for a year, or get your AA, then you can transfer to a good 4-year school with degree or good grades in hand. Plus you're supporting public education.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:46 PM on 04/08/2008

Mmmm....I love the way their salty little tears taste. Oh, cry me a river....

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:42 PM on 04/08/2008
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