As a reporter who covers LGBT activism, the other morning I received the following question in my oft-overstuffed inbox:
When the GLAAD awards start to resemble The Golden Globes and all other mainstream award shows does this mean?The e-mail came in response to the announcement that for the 25th year, in the middle of awards season, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) would host its annual media awards. The nominees read like a Who's Who gallimaufry of not only the Golden Globes, but also the Oscars, the SAG awards, the Emmys, the Tonys and every other celebrity television vehicle one could possible imagine. For the consideration of the gays, we have, among others, "The Kids Are All Right," the Ginsberg biopic "Howl," Fox's hit show "Glee" and "The Oprah Winfrey Show" for Ricky Martin's first televised interview. Aside from "Prodigal Sons," a transgender coming-home story, it's hardly a groundbreaking array.
- a) GLAAD is redundant?
- b) Queers have finally made it?
- c) GLAAD needs to revisit its mission statement?
- d) ___________ (your answer)
The author of the e-mail -- the founder of a popular lesbian website -- did not necessarily post to provoke, but to solicit feedback about whether her online magazine should cover the red carpet at the awards. "We've been doing this for almost 10 years now, and that is starting to feel like a very superficial reason," said Grace Moon of VelvetPark.
Don't get me wrong -- I enjoy my celebrity photos and red-carpet walking just as much as the next media gadfly. I also appreciate that the organizations representing my interests look and act modern, if not a little trendy. But Moon is right: Either she needs to rethink covering GLAAD, or GLAAD needs to rewrite its mission statement. Because when I consider GLAAD, I think of the things its celebrated oogling is costing LGBT people.
For starters, for the past two years, a backlash in the LGBT community has been taking place over the amount of money large LGBT organizations have been putting into fruitless lobbying and endless awards shows. They now seem to be filling in the many gaps GLAAD and others have left while chasing celebrities. One grassroots group coming out of the backlash, Queer Rising, conducted a "die-in" at Grand Central Terminal to protest the six LGBT bullying suicides last September. Despite its pledge to ensure that "the stories of LGBT people are heard through the media," GLAAD skipped the "die-in" as well as the other events that took place that awful week. Last summer, members of GetEQUAL, another new LGBT group, chained themselves to the White House fence to protest DADT. Even though its mission proclaims that GLAAD helps "grassroots organizations communicate effectively," not a single GLAAD rep came to DC that day. Finally, GLAAD's clear lack of pulse came shortly after the beating LGBT people took at the hands of anti-gay politicians and their religious fans (Carl Paladino, anyone?) in the November elections -- happily highlighted in all the right-leaning dailies. GLAAD remained mum, overlooking that pesky part of its mission statement about "holding the media accountable for the words and images they present." Member of GLAAD's Religion, Faith and Values team couldn't be bothered to attend a march led by LGBT-friendly ecumenical leaders in early December, either.
GLAAD and its media awards used to celebrate the "unsung heroes" -- the regular people writing about LGBT issues and putting their lives on the line to stand up to the mainstream. Even though GLAAD still invites "those people" to its show (Judy Shepherd -- bereaved mother of the slain Matthew -- might still make an appearance), it basically tramples over them to throw awards at the people who act as lesbian moms and gay poets in the movies.
So, in staying true to answering the question put before me last month, I have devised a new mission statement for GLAAD: "The Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) amplifies the voice of the LGBT community by empowering people to sit in offices in New York and L.A., watch TV and every now and then issue a report shaming "Saturday Night Live" over its drag skits or N.F.L. football commentators for making "Brokeback Mountain" jokes. The rest of the time, it prepares for a Media Awards show that hardly gets any coverage in the press anymore and celebrates the movies, TV shows and actors already honored by mainstream award shows.
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My overall point was that these types of "articles" come along every year around this time. Writers who can't be bothered to really educate themselves about GLAAD see the publicity around the Media Awards, find a few people who say "this is all they do" and then issue some pronouncement about GLAAD's mission. It's boring. And lazy.
The GLAAD Media Awards receive the most publicity because that is their intent. They are the big public event that GLAAD produces to raise money and give celebrities a platform to show their support for GLAAD (which needs to have the right amount of "glam"). They are not the "work" of GLAAD. 15 minutes on the GLAAD.org website (or perhaps actually calling GLAAD as a source since they're the subject of your article, Adrian) and you see what GLAAD does. Media monitoring, media training around some of the most contemporary of our community's interests, advocacy with TV & film to ensure inclusiveness, spanish language research, research on messaging to African-Americans, working with LGBT bloggers, and a TON of behind the scenes calls to media around problematic coverage. They are our community's media watchdog and they really do a great job.
This is a disappointing blog post, but these happen every year. If it gets people to think about GLAAD, there's some benefit.
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And not the "laughing with you" kind of jokes.
I'm not thin skinned about gay jokes, either. I love 'South Park', I hate '2 1/2 Men' but watch it sometimes and never am offended by the staple gay jokes.
WTF?
I am seriously thinking of starting a petition to get Ferguson to stop with the anti-gay stuff.
Many of us who do not live in California, New York or DC increasingly feel alienated from gay "leaders". As they pat themselves on the back for their victories where they live, they do less and less for the rest of us who live in the offensively-termed to as fly-over states.
However, they flood us with fundraising pleas to help them lobby for rights in the liberal states. The civil rights struggle had people taking their case to segregated south. When was the last time, GLAAD or HRC put boots on the ground in Arkansas, MIssouri or Oklahoma. How about GLAAD hold their annual suckup in North Dakota this year in solidarity of those who don't share all the same rights as they do?
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That said, I think this speaks to a larger issue in the LGBT movement (and many other movements, actually). GLAAD is just ONE organization, and their focus is clearly on media advocacy. They are not a lobbying organization, a political power, or grassroots organizers. I, for one, do not want to see a monolithic LGBT voice--I want there to be many organizations, who each have an area of specialty, and who work to complement each other's efforts by focusing on what they do well. I think we ultimately weaken our movement by expecting one organization to do everything--jack of all trades, master of none. Let's stop with the finger-pointing and kvetching, and instead get off our tails to do some work.
And a die-in? That's just embarrassing.
Nothing really matters as long as they can get their photo taken with whatever straight celeb they've gotten to host one of their benefits.