My mother, Elli, passed away 12 years ago, but there's not a single day that I don't feel her presence with me, especially when I am in festive gatherings where there are people and food involved. She never missed a chance to celebrate life. She was the quintessential caretaker, an...
(22) Comments | Posted May 1, 2012 | 8:00 AM
I recently came back from Honolulu, where I was attending events that His Holiness the Dalai Lama spoke at. My heart is full and my spirit is high; I feel so validated by the message His Holiness shared, of warm heartedness as the key to inner peace and happiness.
...(71) Comments | Posted April 17, 2012 | 8:01 AM
This afternoon the Dalai Lama addressed the public at the Stand Sheriff stadium at the University of Hawaii. Introduced by Pierre Omidyer, who organized this event with his wife Pam, His Holiness talked about the spirit of Aloha that points the way towards making peace. It symbolizes the...
(21) Comments | Posted April 16, 2012 | 9:00 AM
They prepared the stage for His Holiness to arrive by filling it with break-dancing boys and girls dancing with gusto, playing guitars, and singing. We were in Honolulu, awaiting an appearance by the 14th Dalai Lama, spiritual head of Tibetan Buddhism and Nobel Peace Prize-winning activist, at an...
(23) Comments | Posted April 13, 2012 | 3:39 PM
I'm filled with excitement, since I'm about to leave for Honolulu to participate in the Pillars of Peace event. The focus will be on Building Peace, through the Foundation of Aloha and Educating the Heart, and they are expecting close to 18,000 people.
I had...
(280) Comments | Posted February 1, 2012 | 7:38 AM
It was on a beautiful spring afternoon in New York that a close friend introduced me to someone she thought would be the perfect man for me. He was creative, successful, soulful, sensual, and single, and he was into me.
I had lived in the city before, with my mother...
(10) Comments | Posted February 1, 2012 | 7:18 AM
I used to be one of those people whose happiness was dependent a lot on how good I made others feel. I think this pattern started a long time ago as a child, when I saw my parents fighting and having problems with each other, so I took it upon...
(71) Comments | Posted January 11, 2012 | 7:41 AM
Hurt Feelings. They're like noses. We all have them. They come in all shapes and sizes. They can come suddenly like a cloud and bring the rain or build up slowly and then consume us like a tornado. They can be so powerful that they can make us lose complete...
(15) Comments | Posted December 31, 2011 | 10:59 PM
I have a tradition for bringing the year to completion by attending a spiritual retreat called Living in Grace in Northern California every December. The best way to describe my experience there is like running a roto-rooter through my mind and emotions and clearing space for my spirit to become...
(38) Comments | Posted December 1, 2011 | 6:46 AM
In the theme of unbinding the heart, I have found that one of the most self-binding and defeating, hazardous habits that many of us have is the tendency to compare ourselves to others. These comparisons work on many levels: comparing our physical appearance, material possessions, personal life, romantic relationships, career...
(32) Comments | Posted November 17, 2011 | 6:50 AM
We hear a lot these days about "empowerment," people looking to find someone or something to help them realize their inner strength, or reach their hidden potential. But I would like to suggest a simpler and more immediate way, a sort of short cut to empowerment: rather than looking outside...
(37) Comments | Posted November 10, 2011 | 6:53 AM
For some people, loneliness comes and goes. For others, it is a chronic condition. I was talking to a good friend of mine, a successful businessman who travels extensively, and he confessed to me that he keeps himself busy every moment, because he cannot bear the thought of being alone....
(48) Comments | Posted October 26, 2011 | 3:38 AM
I woke up a few days ago with the sense that my life as I had known it had come to an end. What contributed to that feeling was the fact that I had completed a book that took me a year to write and a lifetime to experience.
...(20) Comments | Posted May 3, 2011 | 1:48 PM
I stayed up and watched the royal wedding. Originally, I wasn't planning to. I was just going to TiVo it, which I did, but as I turned on the TiVo I witnessed "the sea of people," as one of the commentators described it. I wanted to be a part of...
(25) Comments | Posted December 1, 2010 | 7:57 AM
"Nobody grows old merely by living a number of years. We grow old by deserting our ideals. Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul."
-- Samuel Ullman
I love the word enthusiasm. It is a Greek word that actually means "within God" (theos...
(39) Comments | Posted October 24, 2010 | 2:22 AM
On Nov. 6 and 7, I will be a speaker amongst many inspirational speakers in a conference called "Leaders Causing Leaders." Would you join us? Click here for more information.
When I spoke to the organizer Kenneth Schwenker, he told me that the mission of the conference is...
(42) Comments | Posted September 3, 2010 | 8:00 AM
I was recently out with some friends, and I found myself sitting next to an exuberant, wonderful woman who was visiting from Florida. We got to talking about the things that matter very quickly. She told me that she was divorced, had adult children and was running her own business...
(159) Comments | Posted June 6, 2010 | 8:00 AM
We all have habitual, negative thinking, feeling and doing patterns that sabotage our success, happiness and well-being. They become so ingrained that we think we have no power to change them. They simply become part of our daily life.
Being passionate about Greek mythology and archetypes, I thought of...
(93) Comments | Posted February 13, 2010 | 8:00 AM
I've had many conversations with the golden goddess of love, beauty, and archetypal femininity. I've actually had many conversations with all of the goddesses. I've written about them, I've spoken about them, I have performed them, and I have witnessed them all in the women around me. But, the goddess...
(2) Comments | Posted February 12, 2010 | 1:21 PM
So tell me about your beauty, your irresistible attraction.
All women are born beautiful.
Knowing that, however, is their choice!
All women are born deserving love.
Choosing that is up to them.
I have no bonds or boundaries;
I love...

(34) Comments | Posted May 13, 2012 | 1:32 AM