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Arianna Huffington: Threading Through Life's Labyrinth

Posted: 02/18/11 12:01 PM ET

The sale of The Huffington Post is a major development for not only the so-called new media, but also the mainstream media, for reasons that go well beyond business maneuvering and related industry dynamics. The jury, of course, is still out in terms of AOL's potential return on investment from its acquisition of HuffPost, which strategically is an integral and very important part of AOL's continuing efforts to reposition and reboot itself by expanding its holdings in the online media sector.

In my view, any references suggesting that Arianna Huffington may have "sold out" by agreeing to sell The Huffington Post to AOL are ill-founded and those critics don't understand or fully appreciate the intrinsic motivational base from which she operates. Indeed, although she may refer to herself as an ordinary "Greek peasant girl," Arianna Stassinopoulos Huffington is anything but ordinary! And readers of The Huffington Post should pay attention and display pride for what Arianna has accomplished so far and, perhaps more importantly, for what she still has yet to do in the future. Besides relying on what she calls her "Greekness" as a foundation for sustaining her during uncertain and/or challenging times, her uniquely Greek upbringing and value orientation are also essential parts of the engine that drives her to achieve.

Moreover, let me suggest that a large part of Arianna's well-deserved success is due to what I would characterize as not being a prisoner of her own thoughts. Instead, it is her innate ability to go with the flow, to be open to opportunities, to trust her intuition, to exercise the freedom to choose her attitude, and most importantly, to extend beyond herself by directing her attention and relating to something more than herself that has guided her through the "labyrinth of life," much like the Greek hero Theseus used the ball of thread given to him by King Minos' daughter, Ariadne, to find his way out of the Cretan Labyrinth after slaying the mythological Minotaur.

I started writing for The Huffington Post in August 2008. The invitation to do so came via an introduction by Arianna's sister, Agapi Stassinopoulos, who, in addition to being a well-established author and motivational speaker, as well as a HuffPost contributor, manifests the deeper meaning of her given Greek name with an ethics of authenticity that has a magnetic, meaning-focused quality. An expert on gods and goddesses (one of her books, not surprisingly, is entitled, "Gods and Goddesses in Love"), her empowering work includes helping teenagers build their self-esteem and realize their dreams. In addition to supporting and collaborating with her sister Arianna on various projects, Agapi was featured recently as a special guest in "Greece: Quest for the Gods," a public television special.

So I received the invitation via Agapi to contribute to The Huffington Post with enthusiasm and viewed it as an opportunity that shouldn't be missed. And I haven't been disappointed. Nor have I ever felt like a "galley slave" as some critics have alleged, especially in the aftermath of the recent AOL acquisition. If anything, I envision the new "partnership" as much a benefit to The Huffington Post's future as I do to AOL's future as a transformational leader in the online media industry. Of course, there are those on the Left side of the political spectrum who are concerned about this uncharted, merged future (i.e., will the HuffPost lose its liberal darling identity and have to sacrifice too much of what brought it to where it is today?) just like there are those on the Right who are concerned that the newly-endowed AOL media group will now have to follow HuffPost to the Left. After all, Arianna Huffington, widely recognized as the crowned Queen of New Media, has been named the leader of this conglomerate and it is even being called "The Huffington Post Media Group."

However, let me suggest that if The Huffington Post "goes" anywhere, it will be towards the middle or center of the spectrum. Now let me explain why I think that this will be the case. At this juncture, it is unlikely that The Huffington Post's direction can be unhooked from its founder and for good reason. Much like Oprah, Arianna has become a "brand" with an unmistaken identity. It would be foolish for Arianna to go in one direction and for HuffPost to go in another. I predict that Arianna will move to the center (although we may have to come up with a different word or label for this position), not only because of the AOL deal but because it is in her Greek DNA and in line with her spiritual purpose to do so. Importantly, Arianna knows in her heart and soul that "The Fourth Instinct" actually requires it!

What do I mean by this? Even though I've been associated with HuffPost only since 2008, I've been familiar with Arianna's work for many years, going back to her earliest writings. In particular, I was most struck by a book that she published in 1994 called "The Fourth Instinct: The Call of the Soul." This book was released around the same time that I was becoming actively involved -- and eventually became president of -- an international nonprofit group, Renaissance Business Associates, dedicated to advancing sound business ethics and elevating the human spirit at work and in the workplace. I also was passionately pursuing my own writing on the search for meaning, a topic that essentially framed what Arianna called "The Fourth Instinct," and it was not too much later that Viktor Frankl urged me to write my book, "Prisoners of Our Thoughts."

I don't believe that it was a coincidence that Arianna chose to begin "The Fourth Instinct" with a chapter entitled, "The Search for Meaning" either. In this chapter, Arianna underscored that:

The Fourth Instinct serves as our 'highest common denominator,' enabling us to overcome alienation and achieve community. It leads us to inner peace and outer harmony, reconciling our first three instincts with our spiritual purpose. To follow the Fourth Instinct is to obey the law of human development. It is a universal law, but it expresses itself differently in each individual. Indeed, there are as many paths to wholeness as there are those who would walk them, threads through the labyrinth of life that we can follow to the center of ourselves and of all existence.

In order to follow and leverage the Fourth Instinct in her own life, and thereby respond to the "call" of her own soul, Arianna will necessarily seek to lead others to inner peace and outer harmony, reconciling her spiritual purpose with the other basic human instincts (survival, sex and power). In this way, she'll not only be able to help transform the limiting effects of the other three instincts for herself and others but also help herself and others -- by providing threads like Ariadne -- through the labyrinth of life so that they can follow to the center of themselves and of all existence. This is not a Left or Right kind of challenge. Rather than being a polarizing force, it must involve reconciliation, cooperation, and collaboration. It must also provide for a common understanding through authentic dialogue; a process that can only be achieved successfully by being open to diversity of thought and by providing all sides to an issue in order to reach common ground by going to a higher ground. This is Arianna Huffington's manifest destiny and, ultimately, her legacy. It transcends anything that she's done before, including her megadeal with AOL, and I have no doubt that she's up to the task. Heck, how could the "fastest-rising Greek since Icarus" not be!

*A version of this post first appeared in my weekly column for The National Herald, the Nation's leading and oldest (since 1915) Greek-American newspaper.

You can find out more about Dr. Alex Pattakos, author of the internationally bestselling book "Prisoners of Our Thoughts," in his HuffPost bio. You can learn about his new initiative, the OPA! philosophy of living and working, as well as join the new OPA! Village and OPA! people at www.theopaway.com.

 
 
 

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The sale of The Huffington Post is a major development for not only the so-called new media, but also the mainstream media, for reasons that go well beyond business maneuvering and related industry dy...
The sale of The Huffington Post is a major development for not only the so-called new media, but also the mainstream media, for reasons that go well beyond business maneuvering and related industry dy...
 
 
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11:42 AM on 02/22/2011
wow only bloggers have posted. all the little plebs have had their posts removed. now doesnt that just bring it all to light?
to bad the plebs have no say sorta like Wisconsin.. but we keep speaking up anyway. the fact only bloggers have posts here just highlights how this is not a popular move, how the readers feel about it. and how you cant manipulate the minds of hp readers.
if you dont allow dissenting views to be voiced, you have no intellectual high ground.
http://www.filmsforaction.org/News/Huffingtons_Plunder/
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Alex Pattakos
03:30 PM on 02/24/2011
Oh my! My poor Pema! Although I want to thank you for posting your comment, I must ask you why you presumed that "all the little plebs have had their posts removed?!" Have you received such evidence from your many "fans?" And, by the way, you'll note that it is not true or accurate that all of the few comments posted here come from HP bloggers. More importantly, why do you think that YOUR comment past muster even though, as you presume, those offered by other did not?! Finally, I for one would really like all of us to be civil with each other--at least! Referring to people as "plebs" (I'm happy that you didn't refer to them as "slaves!") doesn't advance the cause of civility nor does it help to engage people in meaningful dialogue. Until I/we have evidence that dissenting views have not been voiced, it is highly inappropriate to suggest that The Huffington Post has "no intellectual high ground." Let me suggest further that you read my book, "Prisoners of Our Thoughts," which seems to be aptly titled in this particular case! And for those of you "out there" who may have tried in vain to voice your view to my post, feel free to email me directly at "alex@prisonersofourthoughts.com" and I'll see what I can do to help you seek redress of grievances for in Pema's schema I must be a "patrician!"
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05:53 PM on 02/24/2011
your cute when your mad...
i saw other pleb posts here as well as bloggers i saw their response. so i came back to see what others were saying and the posts by readers were gone, but not the bloggers, all the pleb posts were not complimentary of your article, the bloggers were, ed told me once that they choose what gets posted. so if it wasnt you then who? the only post here that isnt from a blogger is mine. i think of myself as a pleb. it just means common person, ...you yourself are a common person. you know, people could be a roman citizen a pleb yet not be a slave. i do so love roman history.....
why would i by your book? you attempt to ridicule me in your response... it doesn't give me a lot of confidence.
your worried about civility over honesty? its easy to be civil with people say oh thank you.your so right your smart. but when a person feels pushed. we see how long their civility lasts. it's not tea and crumpets, its about truly caring and giving dignity to the other.
oh last point. i dont think what i said was any different than the others. my first post was swept away too, so i posted a second time. that is the post your responding to.
anyway have a nice evening. good health and long life to you.
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Dr. Judith Rich
Rx For The Soul: www.judithrich.com
03:03 AM on 02/20/2011
Alex,

A beautiful summation of Arianna's point of view and "come from". Thanks so much for writing this.

People have been asking me what I think about the merger of AOL and HuffPost and am I concerned it will mean a rightward "drift" for the HuffPo. While I have no inside information or know anything beyond what I've read about this new alliance, my sense of Arianna is that she is beyond ideology. She doesn't view the world through "right" and "left" but just as you suggest, she sees the larger possibilities that connect the whole.

I've listened to Arianna with great interest since I began blogging here, the exact same time as you. Especially on KCRW's Left, Right and Center podcasts, she almost always represents a perspective that is inclusive, pointing towards solutions that allow for outcomes that transcend polarization.

I trust that Arianna will continue to be true to her soul's calling. It's what brought her this far.
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Alex Pattakos
05:55 PM on 02/21/2011
Thanks, Judith, for your comment! I'm glad to know that you agree with me that Arianna will remain true to her soul's calling. Imagine if we all would do the same! And if "inclusion" replaced "exclusion" as our guiding paradigm! What a wonderful world it could, maybe even would, be!
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MerrieWay
04:28 PM on 02/19/2011
Arianna has been a friend for years...a thought leader and doer. Change is at the root of our evolutionary process. Arianna invited me to blog before I knew what a blog was. As a filmmaker and child advocate I wanted to empower families to bond in healthy ways.

I have written many blogs as MerrieWay and now it is time for me step up on HP. Right, center, or left persuasion should not be an issue when it comes to our children. It is unity in community that will ultimately thrive and help to make peaceful transitions in our world.

I value HP's platform that gives Voice to optimum possibility, if we step up and speak out. Arianna is an inspirational example...on her journey to inform and to encourage us to do the same.
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Alex Pattakos
05:47 PM on 02/19/2011
Thanks, Merrie Lynn, for sharing such wonderful, supportive, and insightful comments! You are doing meaningful work. As I write in my book, Prisoners of Our Thoughts, "If you want things to stay the same, then something is going to have to change!" Being authentically committed to both "unity in community" and "peaceful transitions," along with other meaningful values and goals, should be a priority on our personal and collective agendas. This is what Viktor Frankl called the "will to meaning," which is an antidote to what he referred to as the "mass neurotic triad" (I call it the "psychological axis of evil")--aggression, addiction, and depression. These disease-like symptoms of our post-modern society transcend politics per se. Thanks again and keep stepping up and speaking out! Alex
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Mark Goulston, M.D.
01:21 PM on 02/19/2011
Hi Alex,

I echo Ed and Deb's thanks for your (as always) thoughtful and "meaningful" post and I also started blogging for Huff Post around the same time as you.

I also agree that Arianna is on a journey.

Hers often alternates between seeking the meaning of life and meaning in life and she is evolution mixed with revolution.

She has also become increasing articulate which been a pleasure to watch and emulate.

And I agree with your thoughts about Agapi who comes with and from a very special spiritual purity.

I think Arianna is very driven to make a difference and it wouldn't surprise me if she has frequent "Schindler (I could do so much more) moments" as do I.

One of the focuses of my Schindler moments is to help returning soldiers -- the all you gave some, and the families of the some who gave all -- transition back to civilian life, because I think the highest and most noble form of virtue is to put yourself in harm's way to fight for the freedom of people who don't even know. Giving them a round of applause and buying them a meal at the airport just isn't enough.

All the best,

Mark
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Alex Pattakos
02:37 PM on 02/19/2011
Hi Mark,

I'm glad that my post hit a meaningful cord with you! Besides repeating my reply to Ed and Deb and sounding like a "broken record" (how's that for revealing something about my age!), I also must say that I've admired your meaning-focused work for a long time. Moreover, as a Vietnam-era US Army veteran, I'm especially proud to hear about the focus of your "Schindler moments." I couldn't agree with--and support--more the work that you now are doing. Unfortunately in my day, my brothers/sisters and I didn't hear the words, "Thank You for Your Service." Politics aside, it's nice to know that this is no longer the case! Thanks again, Mark!
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
12:36 PM on 02/19/2011
Hi Alex - thank you for your informative post -

We also started blogging for the HuffPost August 08 & that is how we met you!

What I feel & have experienced is Arianna cares about people & the world and is passionate about things that many of us who write & read about do as well.

She has touched the pulse of what is meaningful & for that she is loved.

Joyfully,

Ed

P.S. Agapi is a wonderful lady. She must be a great sister to have.
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Alex Pattakos
02:25 PM on 02/19/2011
Thank you, Deb and Ed, for your very kind and thoughtful comment. It seems like we've known each other for a lot longer than since 2008! Indeed, this must be resonance theory working at its best! Blessings, Alex
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
09:40 AM on 02/20/2011
Yes Alex I agree!

Cheers, Ed