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Birth Control Battle: The Christian Stance Doesn't Make Sense

Posted: 02/17/2012 9:05 am

This may not apply to all people in the United States. Perhaps it's only among those people in power, whether it be the church or public office. These would be Catholic bishops, priests, or conservative policy makers. There has been a large outcry against Obama's healthcare mandate which has shot the actual use of contraception into the national spotlight. Rick Santorum also deserves credit for his emphasis on these social issues.

For the year, there has been movement by many pro-lifers to reverse the Supreme Court ruling Roe vs. Wade and striving to prevent Planned Parenthood from supplying abortion services. Virginia and Kansas are both battling over abortion, and recently the Susan G Komen Foundation debacle has caused reproductive issues to take the forefront.

Rick Santorum can be seen as the champion for the typical Christian ideology (though I understand many Christians do see him as radical). Santorum's entire campaign has been centered on his faith and living under God's law.

Santorum does not support abortion. He would allow states to ban birth control. He was also once heard saying Obama supports sexual education because he wants America to be poor. Santorum is representative of those religious zealots in power whom are all anti-choice, anti-contraception, and anti-sexual education. This doesn't make sense at all.

Anti-abortion and anti-prevention creates an unequal picture. You would believe that people who despise abortions would raise up prevention, but that's not quite the case. These people fight and argue to create the end that any unwanted pregnancies result in a child.

I sat through a sexual education program where a guest speaker spoke to us about abstinence. She used a piece of duct tape to represent a women's vagina. "Imagine the stickier the tape is, the better it feels." She gave a demonstration of continually putting the tape on various objects around the room. "The more you allow a man into your body; soon, it won't feel like anything." The tape couldn't stick anymore after a bout on the carpet. Afterwards, we were shown a video of various sexual diseases. I remember seeing a green penis.

Not once during the entire session was the subject of birth control pills chanced upon. Not once did I even hear the word condom. I was stuck listening to an analogy comparing a women's sexuality to a piece of tape.

What happens if abortion is no longer legal? What happens if planned parenthoods across the nation are shut down? What happens when students are continually subjected to abstinence-only education and people unable to receive contraception?

This isn't legislation for the life of the fetus. This isn't propaganda for the sake of the women's life. It's a pathetic attack by narrow field of religious zealots to impose their beliefs upon all women in the United States. Now people wish to use pregnancy and labor as punishment for sex. Policymakers use the politically-correct term "Suffer the consequences."

Those who do not support abortion and adamantly despise it should be at the front lines, battling for the use of birth control. The best way to stop abortions is to ensure no unwanted fetus is created. Those who do not support abortion should be crying out for true sexual education, not the useless dribble called abstinence-only. There would be no need to save the life of unborn babies if people are able to prevent a pregnancy.

I would question those who do not agree with my ideas. A paradox has been created with those who fight to stop both abortions and prevention. If you bring down abortion, prevention must be lifted up. If you bring down prevention, abortion must be lifted up... Or there's the off-chance these religious zealots can actually convince the people of the United States to not have sex...

 
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This may not apply to all people in the United States. Perhaps it's only among those people in power, whether it be the church or public office. These would be Catholic bishops, priests, or conservati...
This may not apply to all people in the United States. Perhaps it's only among those people in power, whether it be the church or public office. These would be Catholic bishops, priests, or conservati...
 
 
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12:55 AM on 03/11/2012
"Now people wish to use pregnancy and labor as punishment for sex." Are you SURE you learned about human sexuality? Pregnancy and labor are literally natural effects of having sex.

But this is all a distraction. The REAL issue is religious freedom. The HHS is requiring the Church to violate its conscience.
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08:53 PM on 03/10/2012
Of the many things I find disturbing about Mr. Lu's recount of the sex education class he sat through was the vagina-tape analogy. Apparently, the "woman" instructing the class must've been an etraterrestrial life form devoid of the organ to which she made the comparison.
04:19 PM on 03/10/2012
Makes sense, but it's not true. 50 years ago, one could understandably old this position. With 50 years of data and free condoms available at every college and free clinic in America, 99% of US women having used the Pill, and contraception being wildly popular for over two generations, we can check the hypothesis.
Widely available contraception does not decrease abortions. It increases them. And not just in the USA. Everywhere.
05:47 PM on 02/28/2012
A brilliant article. It shows a lot of good sense. :)
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12:15 AM on 02/23/2012
Excellent article. My friends and I have had some fun with duct tape tonight because what else is there to do with such an absurd analogy?

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ivanivonovich
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04:13 PM on 02/22/2012
It's funny that the politicians making the most noise about birth control / abortion are themselves the ones who are not the recipients of the consequences, i.e. the woman subjected to the hardship and dangers of child bearing. When it become the "Mans" job to carry and bear the child they most certainly will sing a different song.
By the way I am a male, and I believe the female is the one to make the final choice for herself.
11:10 AM on 02/22/2012
I understand people have a right to birth control, but what I do NOT understand is forcing the Catholic Church to go against their conscience. If people do not agree with the Catholic Church's beliefs then they can go work for an institution that isn't funded by the Catholic Church's money.

Even if a lot of Catholics disagree with the Catholic Church's stance on birth control, the Catholic Church has a right to self-determination. It is their money that funds Catholic hospitals, and universities, and their beliefs.

Don't agree? Go work one of the MANY places that has no problem providing birth control.
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11:22 AM on 02/22/2012
So by your logic I can opted out of Viagra payments, war payments, bank bailouts, kidneys for alcoholics, mental health hospitals and anything else I don't like on a given day? Well my first thought would be to stop tax breaks for Catholics. Is this really a road you want to go down?
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HockeyMom
I was here before SP and will be long after her.
11:34 AM on 02/22/2012
And just maybe, again by your logic, it's the Catholics who should leave if they don't like it here.
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Todd G Chavey
10:10 AM on 02/21/2012
You do not need deep thought or intellect to know what life is about or to live. You simply live by your moral guide and conscience.

If abortion was illegal, then maybe people would use this moral guide and concscience. Wow! Pretty simple, isn't it.
04:34 PM on 02/21/2012
Sorry you moral compass is not mine. My moral guide and conscience supports abortion. Your ideas on what life is about are your ideas not mine. You are welcome to make a choice to keep the child and as far as I am concerned you are also welcome to choose to have an abortion! Wow you are right, it's pretty simple all you have to do is mind your own business!
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Todd G Chavey
12:51 PM on 02/22/2012
Someday you will see the light and loose all ego and pride. You will then see mortality and what life is really about.
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HockeyMom
I was here before SP and will be long after her.
11:23 AM on 02/22/2012
Yes Todd for you it is pretty simple.
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Todd G Chavey
09:50 AM on 02/21/2012
You have a society out of control with its morals. If you hold love high in your morals, sexual intercourse without regard is part of a major problem. That is why there are abortions. Educate the people on the main purpose for sexual intercourse and it all comes clear. Kids and adults misuse this and end up pregnant and without a clue, they chose abortion to hide their mistake. Any attempt to put morals back into human society should be taken seriously and not fought like spoiled children.
I lived it, experienced it, so I can talk about it. I wanted a child, but had no choice. I helped create the child, but had no choice in the matter. Yeah, you want a choice, choose life, it is all you have.
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HockeyMom
I was here before SP and will be long after her.
11:24 AM on 02/22/2012
The operative part of your paragraph would be "with out a clue".
09:48 PM on 02/28/2012
What if a woman was raped, or never had proper sex education, or would have to raise a child in an unstable family, or would suffer considerable health issues from having the child? What then? That's not "hiding their mistake."
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emmeaki
03:06 PM on 02/20/2012
This young man has more sense than many people twice his age!
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04:04 PM on 02/19/2012
Back in the 60s when I was in high school, things made sense.
We had sex ed in health class, both the mechanics of it (eww) a film of a baby being born (EWWW) and how to prevent that from happening.

So I got the sex ed. In college, I went to Planned Parenthood for contraception. I don't have kids, I was never financially impacted by children and that's how I chose to live.

I can understand how people your age would be mystified by these illogical arguments.

If you ban birth control, it will lead to abortion. If abortion is illegal, women who would be in the workforce will be burdened with caring for unplanned babies instead of pursuing a fulfilling career before choosing to have a family.

Yep, makes no sense to me. I'm glad I'm old. The world is teetering on implosion and nobody seems to be addressing the issues of ecology, economics, overpopulation. BUT THEY SURE ARE OBSESSED WITH OUR REPRODUCTION!

I hope your generation marginalizes the power of religion in secular society even moreso than we're doing today. There's still a lot to do before potential leaders who invoke superstitious deities are laughed right off the podium, amirite?
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Cye
06:00 AM on 02/20/2012
I feel old too. I'm 37 and live in Australia. When I was a kid we had sex ed in primary school.

They taught us about our reproductive systems and also took us through the mechanics of pregnancy and different types of contraceptives: including natural methods such as withdrawal and the calendar method. It just wasn't a big deal. We had to get a note signed by a parent in order to attend the sex ed class, but that was just a formality.

In the US, its like the Earth will crumble into the sea if kids are given the information they need to think about sex in an informed manner. Its bizarre.

And you're correct: the utter obsession with sex demonstrated by politicians today is truly inexplicable.
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phal4875
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04:02 PM on 02/19/2012
Fanned, Mr. Lu. You write very well and make a great deal of sense. We are witnessing a political party that opposes both family planning and abortions. One might think that family planning would reduce the need for abortions, and it does. Family planning's downside, however, is that it reduces the number of new souls that might someday praise the Christian God. This is an insoluble conundrum for the most conservative Christians - because it makes absolutely no sense and never will.
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Kenneth Knapp III
06:11 AM on 02/19/2012
Actually, Alton, it makes perfect sense. The Catholic Church long ago figured out that religion is primarily handed down from parents to sons and daughters. Increase the number of sons and daughters, increase the money in the collection plate 20 years from now.
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Molly D
02:29 AM on 02/19/2012
Hi Alton. When I was in high school the day's burning issue was whether 19 year olds should continue to be drafted and shipped to Vietnam. You can imagine, with that as your future, it brought all youth vehemently into the political arena. The thoughts of the conservatives then? "I went to fight the Nazis, so now you can go fight the commies." They were hostile to young people. They acted like we ought to be exterminated.

The point here, is those people then, and their counterparts now are of a CLASS of Americans. They always have been here, and probably always will. Ignorance, unlimited self-righteousness, sanctimony, care for no one but themselves, and, sad to say, willingness to lie. Sorry to be ranting. I just want to say, the issue you discuss is allied with wanting or not wanting war, suppression of any kind of minority including women, ennobling ignorance, submission to authority, limitation of freedom, and denial of the pursuit of happiness. To me, Iran is no enemy. It is the authoritarians HERE where they can hurt me.
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02:11 AM on 02/19/2012
Morning announcement;

"The costs for each students to be here in school today is $352*, that is the cost per student per day, ( *Calculated )

Those paying the taxes hope you will learn as best you can so you will become an intelligent well rounded adult in the future who will be capable of being a useful, valuable member of society and help pay the taxes needed to educate the next generation.

If you don't take full advantage of this opportunity and goof off or get sexually active and mess up the process you may end up like a lot of others who thought they were to good or too well protected by their parents wealth to have to try the accepted, tried and tested methods to succeed in life and become a valuable useful member of society.

Prison, a life on welfare, an incurable disease or a sad, pathetic early death will not be as enjoyable as having the kind of good life that is within your grasp if you struggle.

We adults went through the youth you are going through now and have seen very intelligent, capable friends die because someone did not follow a good plan toward becoming a good decent, moral, responsible productive adult.

Please don't let your self down. Get your money's worth every day, work toward becoming a person you will be proud of, a person who will be respected by all who wave a good sense of right and wrong.
03:13 PM on 02/19/2012
If you want someone to be well-rounded, doesn't it make sense to teach ALL methods of birth control and not just abstinence? Also, don't try for a moment to convince me that teenagers of your generation (whatever generation tat might have been) weren't having sex just as much, if not moreso, than they are today. Teens will be teens no matter what we teach them, so the best option is to arm them with as much information as possible. Scare tactics just don't work, proven by the fact that states who have abstinence-only education are also the states with the highest teen pregnancy rates.
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07:04 PM on 02/19/2012
I don't know if earth will always have every every sort of deviate behavior, but I am now watching a Dr. Oz program that is telling me about some different sorts of deviates that I didn't know existed and I can see and hear an emphatic determination to justify what they are involved with while some others of them are admitting they know what they are doing is wrong. I do believe that children should be well educated on various aspects of protection from disease and pregnancy and should learn about sexual intimacy, however experience has taught me that there few humans who can be trusted to do anything of this nature in an appropriate manner. It would be my recommendation that a DVD be prepared that covers all appropriate information and be personally delivered to every parent for review and consideration so they could screen it with their children when they feel it is appropriate.