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Amancay Tapia is a Film director and Writer.She is the Founder of the lifestyle and feminist blog The Lady of the World
Amancay is listed in "The International list of living women directors" and has directed over eight short films as well as the feature film Campo de Batalla (Battlefield). The film is set in Bolivia and it tells the story of five women trapped in a beauty salon during a social revolt in the streets of La Paz. "Campo de Batalla" was theatrically released in 2010 in Bolivia, Colombia and Spain. Her latest Short film Rescue Me, won the Golden Palm at the Mexico International film festival and was launched online by the main newspaper of Spain, El Pais. The film was front cover in the culture section of the paper for a few weeks due to its popularity.

Amancay is an ex-alumnus of the Berlinale Talent Campus. She has an M.A in screenwriting/directing from Goldsmiths College, University of London and a B.A in English Philology from the Universidad Autónoma de Madrid. Her work has featured in film festivals worldwide as well as main press and TV channels. Amancay studied piano and musical notation for 6 years.

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Don't Date People Just Because They Tick Boxes

(0) Comments | Posted May 24, 2016 | 3:20 PM

In the days of the online dating apps where the grass is always greener on the other side, where no one is that keen to commit in case something better comes along, there is also a new trend; people who only go out with people who tick a set of...

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Ageism:The Last Acceptable Form of Discrimination

(4) Comments | Posted September 25, 2015 | 5:01 PM

Inspirational Video on Ageing

Generations of people before us fought for our basic liberties and rights. In the UK, for example, women only achieved equal voting rights to men as recently as 1928. We have come a long way in terms of equality, freedom of expression and socio-economic human rights. Discriminating against someone on the basis of his/her color, race, religion or sexual orientation is now unthinkable and unacceptable. There is, however, one form of discrimination which is still practiced and openly so: Ageism.

It seems as though it has now become acceptable to discriminate against someone because of their age. Both men and women are affected by this, but somehow it is applied to the genders in different ways.

Men usually encounter ageism in the job market. Many companies are reluctant to hire people if they are past a certain age. Once someone is in their late fifties, employers tend to ignore the experience that an older person can bring to a role and revert to the old cliché of "you can't teach an old dog new tricks." Obviously, a grown individual is more difficult to manipulate than a young man who is fresh out of college and willing to establish himself. It is also difficult for many men to start all over again in a completely different career. If, at the age of 50, someone decides that his calling in life is to work in TV and has to start off as a runner, the chances are it will never happen. If it does, it's likely that he will be subjected to mockery because of his age; a runner at 50?

However, while both sexes may experience this problem of ageism in the workplace, men are hardly ever discriminated against on the basis of age-related looks. Women on the other hand, are not so lucky.

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Women have kept silent about this for years in fear or in the belief that getting older every year makes them less and less desirable to men and to society in general. The all-powerful beauty and fashion industries do play and gain a lot by feeding on women's anxiety that they must look a certain way by a certain age and that women in their 40s, 50s or 60s should try to appear younger at any cost necessary. We can often see the sad results of this when once-beautiful women ruin their faces with excessive plastic surgery.

It is up to us, women, to fight against this psychological form of discrimination by speaking about it, and by not trying to hide our ages if we look younger. We have to embrace our age whatever it is and stop thinking about it in terms that no longer cut it in our times. The women of 100 years ago are not the women of today in the way they think, act, dress, or look, and therefore, age should no longer be used to define someone. We cannot allow age-related insecurities to win over our own achievements as people. Men will not discard you when you no longer look young, and society will not discard you either. It is now up to us to stop ageism by embracing age as a marvelous wonder in the life of a person. It is important for us to start pointing out the offence whenever we hear a disparaging comment about someone because of their age. Together, we can make this form of discrimination unacceptable. Ageism embraces our throw away culture, it dictates the youth-obsessed societies we live in, and it assumes older people have nothing to offer to the world. It doesn't value the wisdom that comes with age nor the experience. Truly, there is nothing good about ageism.


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Older Woman/Younger Man and Why Age Has Nothing to Do With Love

(5) Comments | Posted March 9, 2015 | 5:49 PM

It was a party I didn't want to attend. Despite the nice summer evening, all I wanted to do was go home. But there I was, standing amongst a crowd of people feeling slightly alien. Forward a few hours later, and I'm dancing with a guy who not only could...

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What a Fisherman Can Teach the Alpha Male and Woman

(3) Comments | Posted November 11, 2014 | 2:33 PM

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Walk around some areas of Central London on a weekday and you will notice the alpha male and female. They are the people who give the impression of being extremely important and are so preoccupied with their own office sanctuaries that they resemble robots for whom it is a badge of honor to be busy, over-worked and stressed out. I often wonder what happiness is for them. We live in a society where who you are is no longer determined by who you are as a person but by what you do and what you have. London is becoming a city for the rich and powerful and, as a result, it runs the risk of losing its soul -- that much-needed balance that every big city needs. It is as if Central London is a place solely for those who are exceedingly and ostentatiously wealthy.

I was recently having dinner with a friend of mine, a successful lawyer in her early 30s. You could call her an alpha female. She works every hour of the day till she burns out, and she refuses to date outside her social circle. She also would not go out with someone who earned less than her and is still single, but that is not the issue. The point is that love is becoming a transaction. Love should be the one thing that is not defined by age, race, boundaries, and definitely not by a price tag. Unfortunately, for some alpha people, this is no longer the case. Love for them has a price tag and the status of their other half is just as important as having chemistry or a connection. Madness, yet very true.

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Giuseppe and me -- he is a local fisherman from Giardini Naxos

On a recent trip to Sicily, I met a local fisherman in the beautiful seaside resort of Giardini Naxos, which is situated next to famous Taormina. This man, Giuseppe, taught me a lot about happiness in his simplicity and in his unconditional love for the sea, for his part of the world, for his job and for his family. He made me see that life is so much simpler and happier, the less we obsess about what we want to achieve or possess or become. Maybe all these robotic people whom one meets around some parts of London just need to be a little less self-centered. Perhaps employers need to loosen up and create happy working environments where human beings can learn to respect and admire each other for who they are as people. Wherever one meets people, one should have the feeling of meeting another human being, not a "banker" or a "Buddhist," for example, because then, there are differences, which are secondary, but if we leave these differences aside, we could all communicate, exchange ideas and share experiences feeling at ease and creating a simple and direct connection with a fellow human being.

My friend and I had a very special moment with Giuseppe the fisherman on a Saturday night in Giardini Naxos, after I finished filming him on his boat. He invited us out for a few beers and taught us a few life lessons. He told us that happiness is appreciating what you already have, not yearning for what you don't. He was not preaching to us or telling us how to live our lives. He was just being himself; humble, wise, extremely sharp and with the confidence of a man of the sea. He lives with a sense of fulfillment and a serenity that are very uncommon. These are not qualities that he had set out to achieve; he just had them. He loves the sea and loves being a fisherman, as a result, he is utterly powerful, charismatic, and paradoxically, he truly is what an alpha male should be. To meet him, watch the video...

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iPhone 6 Launch: Are We Embracing Information Technology a Bit Too Much?

(0) Comments | Posted September 19, 2014 | 11:40 AM

This is the iPhone 6 and iPhone6 Plus video that may shed some light on our obsession with our smartphones. We live in a society that is dominated by information technology, but have we embraced this way of life a little bit too much?

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My Love Affair With the Cannes Film Festival

(0) Comments | Posted June 4, 2014 | 2:54 PM

The Cannes Film Festival is the best film festival in the world. It is where every director dreams of premiering his or her film one day. It is also the place where movie deals are made on a daily basis, and the place to be to sell your...

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All Women Have a Carmen Within

(0) Comments | Posted March 20, 2014 | 6:08 PM

"Carmen" by Georges Bizet is my favorite opera. I have lost count of how many times I have seen it. The movie adaptation by Carlos Saura is the version I like the most -- with its flamenco dancing, stunning mise-en-scène and the fact that it features the epitome of a Spanish maestro in the form of the legendary and recently-deceased guitarist Paco de Lucia. However, my fascination with the eponymous heroine and the opera itself started when I first saw it on stage at the grandiloquent "Teatro Real de Madrid." Magic happened the moment the lead soprano sang "La Habanera." That song taught me the first lesson in the game of love: Never chase or beg for it.


"Love is a rebellious bird that nobody can tame and you can call him quite in vain if it suits him not to come, nothing helps, neither threat nor prayer."

Ever since then, I have empathized with the main character's qualities and flaws to the point that I feel as though she is a part of me. I love the fact that she is the embodiment of a Spanish beauty with her seductive brunette looks and a spirited attitude when it comes to men. You may or may not identify with her, but I believe there is a "Carmen" lurking inside most of us and getting her out from time to time is particularly important in relationships, where we tend to see things with rose-colored glasses and ignore the red lights telling us to stop and change direction. When in doubt, I always ask myself what Carmen would do. The answer may not be the one that I want to hear, but it will be an answer that requires the courage and dignity to make the right decision. Carmen is the ultimate personification of an uncompromising, self-assured, fearless woman and when she makes a decision, you know there is no hesitation involved. She is not, as we would say in Spanish, "Carmencita" (little Carmen) -- someone who feels oppressed and settles for everything but common sense. Carmen represents passion, confidence, courage and a fiery spirit. What is not to like? Here we can leave aside the stage version of Carmen and focus on a real-life one; one who is vivacious, honest and loyal.

Relationships that exist on the surface of niceness where expressing your own vulnerable self could annoy your partner, are destructive in the long run and will lead to repression. So, love with style or don't love at all. If fiery Carmen needs to come out to make a point, unleash her. If your partner would rather have a geisha than a Carmen, then he is definitely not suited to the intensity required for any passionate relationship. To love, you need passion. Together with respect, it is the essence of long-lasting love. If a relationship can't handle the mere expression of your feelings, then you are too much of a Carmen and Carmen doesn't do cowards. She is assertive and would rather be herself at the risk of being alone forever, than settle for a stifling relationship that would oppress her and turn her into a lifeless version of her former self.

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The other thing that struck me about the character of Carmen was that while she gave Don José the purest form of love, she was also able to erase any feelings inside her the moment she was disappointed with deceit, lies or disrespect. Gone! Banished! Erased from dear memory! This may sound slightly melodramatic, but if you release the Carmen within you, you will feel empowered rather than fall to pieces when things don't work out. Instead of being the martyr, you will be the hero.

Relationships should be akin to the one that a bee has to a flower. A bee has the ability to extract the sweetness of a flower without harming her and transform it into honey. The Carmen inside you wants that bee/flower relationship and will guide you wisely when it comes to steering clear of the bee that will sting you instead of giving you honey. Through emulating Carmen, you will know how to avoid that kind of bee and release the essence to attract the right one. Then, and only then, can something more substantial be made.


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How to Move On After Every Failure

(0) Comments | Posted January 24, 2014 | 8:46 AM

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You can be unique just by being who you are

In life, there will be times when dreams get shattered. When that one thing you blindly believed...

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Making Your First Feature Film: Campo De Batalla

(0) Comments | Posted December 30, 2013 | 4:06 PM

Making your first feature film not only takes a lot of work, but endless energy and determination. The results may not be what you expected, but what you learn from the experience is priceless and part of your journey in a career that will invariably be full of ups and...

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The Invisible Woman Syndrome Is Just a State of Mind

(1) Comments | Posted December 16, 2013 | 5:13 PM

I'm really excited to be sharing two special films of mine with you -"The Invisible Woman" and "I Love You Not". I also star in these films, so you'll be able to put a face to my words. I hope these two films inspire you to...

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