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Amy Chan is a marketing executive and a relationship columnist for Vancouver’s 24 Hours Newspaper. In her spare time, when she's not making mix tapes or up to general do-gooding, she's an avid blogger (with the moniker AmyFabulous), food enthusiast and world traveler. To read her blogs, visit www.amyfabulous.com.

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5 Things to Give Up to Be Happy

(241) Comments | Posted May 18, 2012 | 7:50 AM

When we think about how to create more happiness, we typically look for things to achieve and add to our lives. However, sometimes the key to happiness is actually giving up certain perspectives and behaviors. Here are a few things to give up in order to become happier individuals.

Give...

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Breakups Are New Beginnings

(5) Comments | Posted April 5, 2012 | 4:24 PM

Reflecting back on my past relationships, I realize they have shaped me into the person that I am today. Certain people enter into your life and they can be a catalyst for personal change and growth. It's as if you attract a particular person because you needed to learn, grow...

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Can You Imagine?

(0) Comments | Posted March 7, 2012 | 5:44 PM

Imagine...

Imagine if we told our loved ones how much we appreciate them and expressed that gratitude on a regular basis. Imagine if instead of holding onto positive praises for some day in the future, we expressed our love today.

Imagine if we said sorry more, forgave more, accepted responsibility...

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Deepak Chopra Enlightens Vancouverites at Launch of the Chopra Yoga Center

(5) Comments | Posted February 28, 2012 | 1:16 PM

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Photo courtesy of Rhonda Dent Photography

World-renowned author and spirituality guru, Deepak Chopra leads a room packed with over 200 Vancouverites through a guided meditation. He is here for the official launch of the world's first

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Dating Advice: 3 Reasons You're Still Single

(201) Comments | Posted February 26, 2012 | 10:08 AM

Men want to sleep with you but don't want to date you. The cute guy you slept with from the bar still hasn't called. The guys that do contact you only text, (and only after midnight). You get asked out to meet for drinks but never for dinner. Any of...

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Closure After a Breakup

(1) Comments | Posted February 21, 2012 | 2:27 PM

When you go through a breakup, one of the ways to move forward is to find closure. Closure has different meanings for many, but to me, it is a process. In that process you allow your feelings, hurt and pain to surface. As much as those emotions are unpleasant to...

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Valentine's Day: What I Really Want This Year

(4) Comments | Posted February 14, 2012 | 11:15 AM

This Valentine's Day, forget the flowers, the chocolates, the fancy dinners or the lingerie. Forget the grand gestures. Forgo the typical.

This Valentine's Day, I want something different, something that takes a lot more effort and, most importantly, a daily choice.

This Valentine's Day, I want you to love me....

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Mistakes Can Make or Break You

(2) Comments | Posted February 3, 2012 | 3:29 PM

As I approach my next birthday, I've taken time to reflect how much has changed in my life in the last decade. During my 20s, I made so many mistakes, hurt people I loved, and behaved in ways that I can't say I'm proud of. However, as much as I...

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Are You Beautiful on the Inside or Only the Outside?

(6) Comments | Posted January 18, 2012 | 1:51 PM

There was once a time that if I heard any of the following: "Spirituality, inner peace, vegan, money doesn't buy happiness..." I'd nod my head while rolling my eyes thinking, "Enough of this new-age hippie stuff." I guess like most lessons in life, you don't really absorb information or wisdom...

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What is More Important - Love or Commitment?

(158) Comments | Posted January 10, 2012 | 2:13 PM

I used to be such a starry-eyed believer of love. I thought that love conquered all - and that as long as you shared that feeling with someone, it meant that the relationship would last. In the theory of fairytales and movies, this may be the case, but in North...

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10 Eats Under $10 You Must Try in Vancouver

(1) Comments | Posted January 5, 2012 | 4:59 PM

Sure, Vancouver is known for its polite Canucks and beautiful scenery. But the biggest reason to visit the city is its culturally diverse and delicious food. Here are 10 dishes under $10 that you must try in Vancouver.

Porchetta Sandwich at Meat and Bread.
This sandwich...

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Valuable Lessons of 2011

(0) Comments | Posted December 30, 2011 | 4:00 PM

Without a sound set of rules for yourself, a value system and a moral compass, you'll ultimately make decisions that will hurt yourself and others.

We exert energy and focus on our financial and business plans but don't devote the time to create a personal life plan. No, not...

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Unhappily Ever After

(3) Comments | Posted December 21, 2011 | 1:10 PM

There was once a point in time where you were deep in the throws of love, and it was as if your partner could do no wrong. You integrate into each others' lives, you laugh, you play... you love.

Then time goes by, and for whatever reason, the relationship...

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Letter To A Friend: How To Get Over A Breakup

(2) Comments | Posted December 12, 2011 | 2:00 PM

Breakups are never easy ... and even though you survived your first one a few years ago, for some reason, it doesn't get "easier" the next time it happens ... it's just different. You hurt just the same. In fact, the magnitude may feel even greater. Your heart feels like...

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Courage is Having the Strength to be Vulnerable

(6) Comments | Posted December 12, 2011 | 12:09 PM

If you've been following some of my recent blogs, you will know that in recent months, I've been thrown a few life challenges. To sum it up, I lost my job, my income, endured an abrupt and painful breakup, and lastly, lost my home. A lot to take at once,...

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Missrepresentation: Are You a Part of it?

(86) Comments | Posted December 6, 2011 | 12:03 PM

"In one week American teenagers spend 31 hours watching TV, 17 hours listening to music, 3 hours watching movies, 4 hours reading magazines, 10 hours online. That's 10 hours and 45 minutes of media consumption a day." - Miss Representation

The media is beyond powerful. It shapes our perceptions of...

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After a Breakup, Choose Integrity

(19) Comments | Posted November 16, 2011 | 4:15 AM

I've been blessed with a very fortunate life. But like everyone else out there, I've had my share of hardships and demons to battle with. I've been through the death of close friends, been bullied to the point of misery, hurt my self-esteem repeatedly, and endured other painful life events...

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After a Breakup, the Home Is Where the Heart Is

(5) Comments | Posted November 4, 2011 | 12:54 PM

After a breakup, you realize that on top of losing your romantic partner, you lose many other aspects of your life as well. Topping the list: community, family, companionship, security, stability, and the hardest one of them all -- your sense of home.

It's a scary feeling facing these losses...

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Who You Surround Yourself With, You Become

(2) Comments | Posted October 14, 2011 | 4:14 PM

During high school, we gravitated toward certain friends due to our aspirations and interests of our youth. BFF qualifiers included a shared love for basketball or underage drinking. But then, we grew up.

Fast forward a decade. You have changed your home, your values, your career, your life. But while...

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What is Love?

(0) Comments | Posted October 5, 2011 | 3:41 PM

Love is loving yourself first, because only then do you have the capability of loving another fully and truly.

Love is nourishing your body and making your health a priority. Because when you're sick, it's the people around you that suffer the most. Because you want to be able to...

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