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The Bible and Sexuality

Posted: 11/13/11 08:01 AM ET

The culture wars over family values have yet to reach détente and will not until the messiah comes (or returns, depending on the reader's affiliation). Battles continue over women's equality vs. a wife's graceful submission, no-fault divorce vs. attempts to strengthen marital bonds, the ordaining of gays and lesbians and the legalization of "gay marriage" vs. exhortations to "love the sinner but hate the sin," birth control and abortion, private sexual expression vs. public interest....

People who read the Bible often find themselves on the opposite sides of many of these issues. This does not mean that they are necessarily reading their texts incorrectly. Indeed, before we even ask, "What does the Bible say?" we need to ask, "Whose Bible?" Canons - and so, cannons - differ among various Christian churches as well as between Jews and Christians, as do translations. Moreover, the Bible is open to multiple interpretations: we need to determine what is metaphor and what is to be taken literally, what is case specific and what is timeless, what is a matter of personal choice and what should be legislated.

How then do we read in a manner that is grounded and thoughtful rather than uninformed or soporific? Here are five general guidelines.

One approach is to begin with the broad picture of what the Bible says about physical intimacy. Before addressing the various "Thou shalt nots," it is often salutary to look at the "Thou shalts" and the "Thou might want tos." For example, although traditionally read as a love song between God and Israel, or Christ and the Church, the Song of Solomon/Song of Songs celebrates physical intimacy between a man and a woman. Even Sarah, Abraham's menopausal wife, speaks of the pleasure she will have with her husband (Genesis 18:12, a verse easily remembered given the cannons in Tchaikovsky's 1812 overture). Ancient Hebrew women were not expected to lie back and think of Torah.

A second is to acknowledge that the Bible is often less a book of answers than a book that helps us ask the right questions. From the narratives of rape, we learn to listen for the voice of the victim; we find that sexual abuse happens in the best of families, including that of King David; we realize that revenge taken on the perpetrator of sexual abuse leads to more abuse, to war, to death; we discover that this crime, like that of adultery, impacts more than just the people directly involved: it impacts their extended families, and society as a whole. And it means knowing that the perpetrators as well as their families are also human beings, also in the image and likeness of the divine.

Third, we must read carefully. This means not simply looking at what the text says: it requires seeking accurate translation, knowing to the best of our ability why the text was written and what it meant to its original audience, determining how it has been interpreted over time and what other passages say concerning the same subject.

For example, the first interpreter of the story of Sodom and Gomorrah, the prophet Ezekiel, condemns Sodom not for homosexuality but for "pride, excess of food, and prosperous ease" and for failing to "aid the poor and needy" (Ezekiel 16:49). Nor does the story suggest that homosexuality is the problem. The Hebrew of Genesis 19 tells us that all the people of Sodom sought to "know" the two visitors: the people would have included the women, and they, like the men, died in the conflagration that destroyed their city. The problem is sexual violence, not homosexuality; attempted rape, not love.

As for the Levitical commandments typically cited as prohibiting homosexuality, the Hebrew is not as clear as some claim, and the historicizing rationales typically proposed for the injunctions - e.g., keeping up the birth rate, avoiding Canaanite practices -- lack foundation. Some readers even find the Levitical codes trumped by earlier pronouncements: given that Genesis 2:18 states that it is not good for the human being to be alone, they cannot support condemning gay people to lives of singleness and solitude.

Fourth, we do well to recognize that biblical standards are not always our standards, and nor should they be. The Bible makes adultery a capital crime; if that legislation were put into practice, we'd knock out a third of our population. King Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines; we become apoplectic over bigamy.

Fifth, we should continually reassess our views. If we ignore tradition, experience, science, and the personal testimony of our neighbors and look only to Scripture, we become bibliolators: we turn the Bible into an idol. And if we listen to those with whom we disagree rather than dismiss them as benighted literalists or atheistic relativists, then at the very least we might be able to avoid the demonization that usually comes with the culture wars.

 
 
 
The culture wars over family values have yet to reach détente and will not until the messiah comes (or returns, depending on the reader's affiliation). Battles continue over women's equality vs. a wi...
The culture wars over family values have yet to reach détente and will not until the messiah comes (or returns, depending on the reader's affiliation). Battles continue over women's equality vs. a wi...
 
 
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Karl Wilder
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01:42 PM on 12/28/2011
Here is the fundamental problem. Why on earth should any of us care WHAT the bible or the koran or any other old book written by men with an agenda says.
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crosshatchaz
The meaning of life is to give life meaning.
09:13 PM on 11/21/2011
How about I just skip all that and just be the most loving and forgiving person I can.

Yeah. That works.

The Sermon on the Mount by Emmet Fox was a wonderful book.
07:41 AM on 11/21/2011
You know, it could be true that biblical apologists are right about a handful of disputed bibilical passages, but EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM?!! Umm, sorry, but it doesn't work that way. You can't just go through the bible and reinterprite everything to fit your preconceived beliefs.
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DianaLynn1967
It's a great life if you don't weaken!
10:11 PM on 11/27/2011
Sure we can. People do it all the time.
04:39 PM on 11/19/2011
All I can say, in response to the many people looking for proof that my God exists and that the Bible is truth is read Josh McDowells book Evidence for Christianity.
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08:13 PM on 11/19/2011
There is no proof for any god let alone the one of Christianity, what ever McDowells says. This Judeo-Christian-Islamic god's existence is to be taken on faith alone.
If you wish, I would be happy to give you a reading reference myself and even demonstrate it for you here.
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01:10 PM on 11/19/2011
A lot of what is commented in such subjects as this, is argued through quotes of scriptures. The scriptures have never been corroborated. They are not historical references for anything; for example, there is not one verifiable and corroborated calender date in all of the scriptures.
As for scientific reference, archeology only shows that those who wrote them used the geographical contexts of their (various) times to place the events in a context.
The scriptures of any religion are to be taken on faith alone. They do not contain any absolute truths and they are not The Truth, or there would be only one true religion.
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GDWhiteman
Christian mystic iconoclast
12:09 PM on 11/19/2011
An exchange further down in here between 2 folks who both claim that the Bible is the inerrant Word of God and make their (differing) pronouncements claiming biblical authority appears to be a microcosmic display of how useful that belief is to dialog. I've asked Honor73 and BermudaBaby to let us know when they agree to which of them is correct.
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bermudababy
Left lane for passing only!!
04:09 PM on 11/19/2011
We do not need to 'agree' on this....I'll let the FACTS (scriptual and logical) speak for themselves.
Honest Hearted ones will see it clearly.
who made you the referee by the way?
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GDWhiteman
Christian mystic iconoclast
06:29 PM on 11/19/2011
Who said anything about referee? I asked you and Honor73 to let me know when you 2 had hashed out who's "right" and invited others to check out the spectacle. It seems interesting to me that 2 people who both say the Bible is inerrant would disagree. Doesn't that mean that one of you has to be mistaken?
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DianaLynn1967
It's a great life if you don't weaken!
10:13 PM on 11/27/2011
Wow. You were behind the barn when God was passing out senses of humor, weren't you?
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11:13 AM on 11/19/2011
Consider this; A sin by definition is a breach of a divine law. But if there was no god or divinity, there would be no divine laws and therefore, no laws to breach and no sins.
Besides, the so-called 'original sin' was one of disobedience rather than one of sex.
We have no original sin and we need to deliver ourselves from the concept of a god (of Abraham, or any other) that sets us up with Laws He knows we can't keep.
One of the most troubling passages of Genesis and of the whole Bible is the one where it is said that the biblical God chases Adam from the Garden of Eden to prevent him from “becoming one of us”; in other words a god and from living eternally.
Does that mean that He never intended for Adam to be eternally in the garden to start with? Is his command not to eat of the Tree but a trap, a set-up of sorts, a strategy that He knew would work on Eve?
If so, Adam’s disobedience can be seen as liberation from eternal slavery and from a despotic god who tricked him and lied to him and who was afraid to share his power with the one he called “his own image”. This biblical god’s intentions are unclear from the start and this is probably why the Bible is unclear also on so many other essential things.
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09:47 PM on 11/18/2011
To echo Christopher Hitchens: “I personally do not have the very extraordinary egocentrism to think that any mega-universal entity could really care about the particular destiny of a very imperfect microscopic grain of dust like myself lost in an ocean of other microscopic, imperfect grains of dust. Why would He care more about me than about entire galaxies that implode, explode, disappear, reappear constantly in an unfathomable universe.”
04:09 PM on 01/08/2012
So you expect us to believe Christopher Hitchens wasn't egocentric? Really?

Soda fide, bro. Sola fide.
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06:00 PM on 01/08/2012
You might be right but that is not the point. By the way, check out, on the Web, "Diet Soda Pope, made using only carbonated holy water. It really exists. :-)
06:22 PM on 11/17/2011
At this point in history, myth needs to be read for personal meaning, not societal regulation. We left that behind with the Enlightenment and the very evolved idea that we can be our own adults and make our own rules.

Biblical literalism is an anchor around the neck of society.
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bermudababy
Left lane for passing only!!
09:43 PM on 11/17/2011
Hey, Eve thought independence from God was kinda cool sounding too.
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10:46 AM on 11/18/2011
Think about it Bremudababy...without Satan's gift, Eve would not buy clothes and shoes!!! hehehe!!
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01:27 PM on 11/17/2011
I disagree. I confess that the Bible is the infallible word of God. Further, less clear passages are interpreted by application of the the more clear passages regarding the same subject. The commandments in LE 18:22 and 20:13 forbidding homosexual behaviour are very clear. In addition, these same admonitions are repeated in TI 1:10 and 1CO 6:9.
The purpose of the Old testament is to show us that we are indeed sinful people, and therefore in need of reconcilliation to a perfect God who created us perfectly, but against whom Adam (and Eve) sinned. This original sin rendered all Adam's progeny (all mankind) imperfect as a result of God's just curse, and therefore in need of reconcilliation to God. If we intentionally dilute and obfusacte God's Law to the point that the reality of sin in fallen humankind is a debatable matter, then there is little need for the redemptive work of Jesus Christ (on whom our faith is based) described and explained in the New Testament.
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GDWhiteman
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07:01 PM on 11/17/2011
I certainly hope you do abortions at your church as God commands in the Bible.
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09:21 PM on 11/17/2011
Jesus has summarized God's Law in MT 22:37-40 as: Love God and Love your neighbor. Murder by abortion or any other means is specifically prohibited.
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10:43 AM on 11/18/2011
God made a few typos. Sorry. Begats differ dramatically for Jesus from Matthew to Luke. Why? Different label over JesusCross on each of 4 Gospels. Why. Imperfection is Why. OhWell. We already knew God was Jealous, Tempts Mankind, Gets Angry. WATCH OUT!! Only a few of Beautiful Creation will go to BeautifulGoldStreetsHeaven. Most will be BurnedandTortured Ferever in Hella! Why? Ugly Plan. At least we were born in the WesternWorld where more are Xtians!! hehehe!!
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03:57 PM on 11/18/2011
Actually, everything is exactly as God planned it in the Bible. The important stories are told from defferent viewpoints so that nothing important to our salvation is missed. As Creater of all things, God is jealous. He gets miffed if we make the things He provides for us; money, cars, homes..., more important than Him in our lives.
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jwb2013
REAL EYES REALIZE REAL LIES.
08:04 AM on 11/17/2011
Sooooo many people who call themselves christian here who judge. LMAO! And most have nothing but excuses. And most act as if their god needs to be defended. weak...like sheep.
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04:00 PM on 11/18/2011
Yeah, I'm an sheep , and the Lord is my Shepherd.
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jwb2013
REAL EYES REALIZE REAL LIES.
04:04 PM on 11/18/2011
And I am happy for you.
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11:29 PM on 11/19/2011
YESsssssss......Wolves Need Sheepies!! YESsssssss...hehehe!!
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Nino Bookman
07:41 AM on 11/17/2011
Religious fervor, fanaticism, interpretation and calcitrant beliefs are the most flagrant causes of the wars and societal conflicts upon the earth. It's time to retire religion in it's past form and start to incorporate a more humanistic and realistic approach to serve-up spirituality. The Bible, and religious books in general, are works of fiction and have outlived their usefulness. They are interpretations of events as seen through the filters of ignorance - mankind's best guess based on limited knowledge of the sciences. The human experience has to evolve to survive...we are all human and that is the basic common thread - that's the source and the reason of and for spirituality.
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04:07 PM on 11/18/2011
Consider the view that is science is God's gift that enabeles us to better understand his creation.
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07:00 AM on 11/17/2011
it is strange that even after so much advancement in human awareness and knowledge - of science and yes yes, of so-called spirituality - man yet refers to the very simple ideas of origin, evolution and other events to Bible and indeed to Biblical (or other religious books) terms. While it all should be clear by now in the present terms as well because it happens actually at present or indeed at all times as well as I am showing in my post below.There is nothing presumptuous involved in this. As famous biologist-cum-author of The Ascent of Man J. Bronowski said, "knowledge is our destiny." Reaching our destiny is in no way presumptuous. Below I am explaining the "Adam eating forbidden Apple story" in simple present terms. It will make clear that Bible is just using symbolic language because of the times it was in and now it should be understood in our present simple jargon: http://www.bigtamasha.com/2011/11/adam-eve-apple-and-snake-bigtamashas.html I am not a Bible student otherwise I am sure all that is written there is happening here or now as well and can be explained in the same above way. Thanks.
10:12 AM on 11/17/2011
In the first place in the bible it is not said anything about an apple. it is said a fruit!!!
12:36 AM on 11/17/2011
It is a paradox that those who most loudly proclaim themselves to be Christian are the most likely to support war and least inclined to charity.
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04:14 PM on 11/18/2011
There are and have been many well known Christian charity organizations worldwide.
11:37 PM on 11/16/2011
The Birth of Jesus.Mat1:18.'Now the birth of Jesus took place in this way!
Jesus then revealed to Mary the circumstances in which he was born.'It was during the time of the Roman occupation of Israel and Enki decided it was time for him to provide an heir to rule heaven and Earth.Enki's father was coming to an end of his reign.Enki ,Enlil-Jehovah and their siblings had forfeitedtheir legal rights to kingship on their home planet.
'Enki confided in his sister Ninurti and they decided she would make the necessary arrangements,as they had done at the beginning to produce the human race.This time she would use her own ovum and Enki's semen.The only other thing required was a surrogate earthling female.Ninurti chose a young junior priestess,officiating in the temple of Jerusalem;her name was Mary.'When the news got out that she was pregnant,Mary vehemently denied that she had known a man(meaning, had sex) JESUS THE LAST NEPHILIM ISBN:978-1-84748-797-1
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04:17 PM on 11/18/2011
Just so others are not mislead, the only biblical part of your comment is the first line.