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Are You An Adult Picky Eater?

Posted: 08/17/11 09:16 AM ET

Everyone prefers some foods over others, but some adults take this tendency to an extreme. These people tend to prefer the kinds of bland food they may have enjoyed as children -- such as plain or buttered pasta, macaroni and cheese, cheese pizza, French fries and grilled cheese sandwiches -- and to restrict their eating to just a few dishes.

This condition is not officially recognized as an eating disorder in the current edition of the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders), the American Psychiatric Association's compendium of mental and emotional disorders. But it may be listed in the next one, under the title "selective eating disorder."

Researchers at Duke University and the University of Pittsburgh have established an online registry to learn more about the problem and determine how widespread it is. As I understand it, researchers haven't been able to say for certain whether extremely selective eating as an adult is an extension of childhood habits.

While we must wait for more data, I think it's likely that this will prove to be a largely American phenomenon tied to an unfortunate aspect of our food culture: nowhere else in the world is it so universally taken for granted that children should eat differently from adults. Our hypercommercialized society is the first -- and, I hope the last -- to create an entirely separate universe of child-specific foods and dishes. Most are overpriced, nutrient-poor assemblages of sugar, salt and fat, often garishly colored.

Pediatrician Alan Greene, M.D., points out that this perversion of whole foods for young people actually starts in infancy. His "White Out" campaign aims to stop the common practice of feeding white rice cereal to infants. As Dr. Greene puts it, this is essentially "processed white flour, and to a baby's metabolism, it's about the same as a spoonful of sugar."

These kinds of foods are just the opposite of what babies, children and adults need for optimum health. In fact, they are major drivers of the obesity and Type 2 diabetes epidemics. Unfortunately, I see much evidence that some degree of adult "selective eating disorder" has become widespread. While eating only five or six kinds of food is unusual,  millions of adult Americans now prefer bland, highly processed, nutrient-deficient foods, and eat them exclusively or nearly so.

It does not have to be this way. Most of us -- especially those who grew up before the children's food revolution -- can remember foods we hated as kids that, through repeated trials, we learned to enjoy or even count among our favorites as adults. It seems probable to me that a steady diet of child-centric processed foods may lock in unhealthy preferences for life in some susceptible people.

Sadly, I've read that among members of an online support group for adult picky eaters, there has only been one report of semi-successful treatment. We need to know a lot more about this problem before we can treat it successfully. It is probably not entirely cultural. In some cases it may be a manifestation of obsessive-compulsive or autistic spectrum disorder, or a residual phobia stemming from abusive parental treatment.

Until we know more, I urge parents to reject the entire world of overprocessed babies' and children's food as much as they possibly can. For infants, I am a great fan of portable, inexpensive, hand-cranked food mills that allow parents to grind fresh, wholesome foods into nutrient-rich purées. As children grow older, the only sensible concessions to make for their meals are to make sure bites are small and tender enough for them to chew properly and to back away from overuse of spices, which can be overwhelming to children's palates.

It does kids no favors, and sets them up for a potential lifetime of poor health and social embarrassment, to excuse them from family meals of real food. Everyone benefits from healthy eating, but it is particularly crucial at the beginning of life. Providing your children with a variety of healthy foods -- and gently but persistently continuing to offer them exclusively during a child's "picky" phase -- are among a parent's most important obligations.

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Everyone prefers some foods over others, but some adults take this tendency to an extreme. These people tend to prefer the kinds of bland food they may have enjoyed as children -- such as plain or but...
Everyone prefers some foods over others, but some adults take this tendency to an extreme. These people tend to prefer the kinds of bland food they may have enjoyed as children -- such as plain or but...
 
 
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professor
Correkt the Spelling and Pick on the Moniker
10:54 PM on 08/21/2011
Picky eaters are people who refuse to try anything new. They are the kind who watch nothing but what they are told to on TV, who hold the conventional wisdom opinions they are instructed to, who dress as much like everyone else as much as they possibly can, think shorts are appropriate attire for any occasion, and see nothing wrong with anything they do because they do it. Good logic.
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BevInSoCal
Worth the trouble
09:13 PM on 08/21/2011
I've been faking an allergy to spinach for 61 years. Don't tell my husband!
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Rasputin66
504 reppin and 504 steppin
07:15 PM on 08/21/2011
This explains so much about my boyfriend's eating habits. Growing up, I ate the same food as my parents, and now I am an adult and I eat food like a normal peson. I am constantly confused and frustrated by the habit of a 26-year-old man (!!!) picking the fresh vegetables out of his delicious goddamn food that I cook from scratch.
He's unhealthy-- very malnourished and has digestive problems. Is the article really saying that there's nothing to do about this but accept his awful food habits? We've identified the cause--- now what can be done about it?
06:49 PM on 08/23/2011
My best friend also suffers from SED, and its real eating disorder just like any other. And just like any other disorder, it CAN be worked through, but he literally needs professional help. What the disease is really about is texture. You might see a bowl of oatmeal, but to him its like you looking at a bowl of grass clippings and wondering how the hell is that going to be edible???

Most of it stems from poor food habits as children. In his case, his step father was one of those clean your plate or you get whipped. So, he got beaten, and his mother would comfort him with the foods he wanted when step dad wasn't around. So of course as a young child, she gave him mac and cheese, pasta, chicken nuggets...most stuff parents wouldn't feed their children on a daily basis, but she was doing it out of guilt. THIS is why forcing food habits on kids is such a bad idea, you are almost for sure going to create bad eating habits as adults.

The key is baby steps. Incorporate SMALL changes of similar foods into things he already likes. My friend eats pizza more then anything, so adding stuff to a pizza has really helped. Like BBQ chicken, or sausage.
06:52 PM on 08/23/2011
oh yea, and like any disorder he has to WANT to change. My friend got tired of being scared to eat out, especially when he started moving up the corporate ladder and had to go on company retreats, dinners with the CEO's, stuff like that. He also got tired of having to preview menus online before committing to eating out with friends. If your boyfriend WANTS to change, he can, but it takes years and he needs support, just like a teenage girl getting over anorexia. You are already showing you have a negative attitude towards his problem by negatively commenting on picking the fresh veggies out of "his delicious goddamn food that I cook". You are putting the blame ON him, and enabling him at the same time.
07:13 PM on 08/21/2011
We ate what Mom cooked and ate, or we went hungry.
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traveling1
50 states, 7 continents, 55 countries and counting
08:59 PM on 08/21/2011
Yes we had to, also. Green beans, beets, stew whatever. I did the same with my kids, and they are good eaters, and will try anything.
04:11 PM on 08/21/2011
I think it's primarily an emotional problem, but there IS sometimes a biological component. For example, a percentage of the population has a gene which causes cilantro to taste like soap to them. I don't mean sort of like soap, or vaguely reminiscent of soap. I mean LIKE SOAP.

I wonder if a lot of the typical "love it hate it" foods (Marmite, Brussels sprouts, and so on) might fall into this category.
07:54 PM on 08/21/2011
I wonder if it's the super tasters? I've known a few people who just really can't bear to eat anything more than meat, potatoes, rice, bread, with just salt, not too much black pepper and that's as spicy as they want. Even sour cream is too sour!

And then, there are the texture freaks -- some in my own family -- and there is no way around it. (Which, maybe I'm a bit of one, because years ago, a bite of sea urchin in a sushi restaurant sent me running for the restroom like I've never done in my life.)
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Mirabai305
Are you Jeff Vader?
08:59 PM on 08/21/2011
Oh my word. A few weeks ago I was in a Japanese restaurant having an amazing bowl of chirashi when I bit into a piece of mackerel and just about lost it!
06:54 PM on 08/23/2011
SED isn't as much about taste (or even at all) as it is about TEXURE. Whats smooth, and creamy and wonderful to you, is like a mouthful of gravel to an adult with SED
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elcerritan
My bio is not micro
01:09 AM on 08/22/2011
I have read that the human sense of taste is more variable from person to person, in the range that's considered "normal," than any of our other senses and it's pretty common for people to be able to taste (or not taste) flavors that others can't (or can).
01:19 PM on 08/22/2011
And of course enculturation has a lot to do with whether something tastes "right" or not, and with what "goes" with what. In our culture, for example, cinnamon is typically used to enhance the flavor of sweet dishes, while in India it's a common part of spice blends for a wide variety of savory dishes, and is an essential component of garam masala. To this day, I can't get my partner to eat pani puri because of the cinnamon content of the spice water - in his words, "cinnamon DOESN'T GO with potatoes and chickpeas".

Similarly, in our culture chocolate is for sweet dishes. But in Mexico, cocoa is often used in conjunction with hot peppers - something unheard of here - and is an essential ingredient in mole sauces for meat dishes.

I guess a lot of it is all just what you're used to. I try to broaden my appreciation of flavors from around the world, but I'm not going to try confine anyone who doesn't want to to a psychiatric ward! The only reason I have to opportunity to expand my tastes is because I live in an affluent society where foods from around the world are available. I'm sure a poor villager in India is probably not concerning him/herself with developing a taste for meatloaf and green bean casserole, nor would a poor villager in China make a priority of learning to appreciate Ethiopian zilzil wat.
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brooklyncitizen
Soror quaerens lucem
03:44 PM on 08/21/2011
I'm a vegan and maybe that is a type of pickiness....that aside I can say I just don't like wet foods. No dressing on salads, no mayo/letchup/mustard on sandwiches, nothing that makes food wet...unless it is its natural state like soup or smoothies.

But in spite of lifestyle choice I eat more variety of foods than the average omnivore.
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Dan Ferrisi
02:44 PM on 08/21/2011
Among the people in my life, I'm the pickiest eater:

* No vegetables.
* No whole fruits.
* No seafood.
* Nothing with cheese, except grilled cheese sandwiches.
* No chocolate.
* No pasta except plain spaghetti and tomato sauce.
* No veal or pork or lamb.
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Montana 123
Mama to Three Little Monkeys
08:56 PM on 08/21/2011
Dang! What the heck do you eat?
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Dan Ferrisi
11:17 PM on 08/21/2011
All varieties of chicken, except those that are stuffed or that have a cream sauce.

Turkey, and other poultry.

Hamburgers without a bun.

Hot dogs without a bun.

Spaghetti and tomato sauce.

For desserts, vanilla ice cream, pound cake or cheesecake.
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legaleagle4
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01:48 PM on 08/21/2011
I'm autistic. It's incredibly common for autistic people to have texture issues with food. I like the taste of tomatoes, for example, but to bite down and feel the squishy, gummy texture? Nauseating. I've been ill before trying to eat foods that have textures I find repulsive, regardless of taste. It doesn't make me a loser or someone with an automatically unhealthy diet. If its texture is offensive, I won't eat it. I don't care how healthy it is. But I still love to eat my vegetables (green peas are one of my favourite foods), get only whole grain pasta, organic skim milk, et cetera. This author is making the unfair leap that bland = unhealthy, and it's simply not so.
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jaredbrain
12:56 PM on 08/21/2011
Hey heres a comment describing how im a way healthier eater than the rest of you. Arent i great?
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sabelmouse
i love to tumble , ask me why .
12:31 PM on 08/21/2011
funnily my son was a picky eater who now has adjusted and my daughter who as an infant ate anything except sweets, yes, she hated sweets, has now become rather picky. but nothing as extreme as described above.
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3Nox
Turns into a hedgehog when messed with
11:34 AM on 08/21/2011
It seems like a lot of picky eaters here like carrots and corn. How funny!
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antaeus
Full-Cream Marriage Now
04:43 PM on 08/21/2011
Higher sugar content.
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Montana 123
Mama to Three Little Monkeys
08:58 PM on 08/21/2011
Exactly. I would imagine they would like squash which is also sweet. I love corn, but I am not a big fan of carrots. Unless they are cooked (steamed or stir-fry)
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11:26 AM on 08/21/2011
This sort of sounds related to OCDs.
06:57 PM on 08/23/2011
SED is a psychological eating disorder, just like anorexia. It IS a mental problem, and as such can be worked through with professional help. Its just now being recognized. Trust me, most people who suffer from this SUFFER. They are not happy about it, and it can lead to depression because they are not "normal"
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10:13 PM on 08/23/2011
I'm actually very well acquainted with OCD. I have a family member who very much suffers with it, has for many years, and will very likely never be 'normal'.
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RickO
Musician, Atheist
09:44 AM on 08/21/2011
I'll eat about anything digestible as long as it's considered food by some culture.
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Bea Johnson
Who? Me?
01:45 AM on 08/21/2011
LMAO, there's a DSM for it! Oh noes, get out me straight jacket, my tastes in food are a disorder! What won't they classify, lol? Wow... I don't eat green things, they don't smell right, make me nauseous. The sole exception is Romaine lettuce, no clue why. But I do eat my veggies, I'm healthy and happy. But green food makes me sad, I'd love to gnosh it and yet my body revolts. And I'm not walking around sick and hungry for anyone, lol.
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brooklyncitizen
Soror quaerens lucem
03:41 PM on 08/21/2011
romaine lettuce?
no greens?
that is unfortunate
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Bea Johnson
Who? Me?
03:48 PM on 08/21/2011
And why would it be? It is what it is. And I do eat vegetables, but I eat peas for no man, lol. My body, my business... as long as I'm healthy and I am, who cares? Don't you think it's a little ridiculous there's DSM's for everything? Is there any one of us who aren't mental in some way?
01:31 AM on 08/21/2011
Over the year's my taste's have expanded greatly, as have my kid's...now they are 18-22 but will eat a wide variety food's, the only thing's that get tossed in our house are sweet's, even birthday cakes are getting to be a thing of the past, we all have a sliver and the rest just sit's there. They will eat a plate of green bean's before they go for the cake..my wife on the other hand is the picky one of the family, no spicey stuff...at all, no seasoning on meat's, no red in her steak, pork chops better be over-cooked, veggies get cooked almost to a mush state...plus she can never order off a menu without substituting something, me on the other had usually doesn't change a thing, and I won't send stuff back unless they REALLY screw it up.
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Rasputin66
504 reppin and 504 steppin
07:16 PM on 08/21/2011
Please, please learn the difference between plural and possessive nouns!