Anne Dilenschneider has a doctoral degree in spirituality and leadership. She has spent eleven years serving as a consultant to non-profits and faith communities, assisting them in building teams of leaders and transformational programs. Anne is also a published, award-winning poet and essayist. She is currently completing her clinical psychology Ph.D. research on the ways women find meaning after relational trauma. Anne lives on the rural California coast near an historic lighthouse that has guided sailors on both the Atlantic and Pacific oceans.

Blog Entries by Anne Dilenschneider

Good King Wenceslas: What Will We Risk for Justice?

1 Comments | Posted December 27, 2009 | 12:47 PM (EST)


The Christmas carol we know as "Good King Wenceslas" is a translation of a poem written in 1847 by Czech poet Václav Alois Svoboda that was put to music by John Mason Neale in 1853. Neale was a British scholar and hymnwriter who knew about the real Wenceslas: Václav, the...

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This Is Blessed? The Dark Side of Christmas

5 Comments | Posted December 10, 2009 | 12:16 PM (EST)


I used to believe that being "blessed" was something that was always positive. That it meant a life full of good things -- food, clothing, shelter, love. I believed the contemporary understanding is that we are "blessed" when life is "good," when events unfold to fit our plans and...

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Spiritual Toolbox: Meditation, Including the Kitchen Sink

1 Comments | Posted July 24, 2009 | 11:46 AM (EST)


Today's blog is Part Two of a three-part "Spiritual Toolbox" series on simple, practical meditation exercises.

Have you heard about Sinkies? Sinkies are people who eat right over their sinks, especially when they're eating messy, dripping kinds of food. There's even an organization called Sinkie International -- "The International Association...

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Spiritual Toolbox: Meditation - Walking in the World

2 Comments | Posted July 19, 2009 | 11:05 PM (EST)


Today's blog is Part One of a three-part "Spiritual Toolbox" series on meditation.

When I told a friend that I was preparing this blog, she gave me a copy of The Time Paradox, a recent book by Stanford psychology professor Philip Zimbardo. My conversation with Dr. Zimbardo at the APA...

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Saying "Yes" Begins by Saying "No" -- The Datebook as a Tool for Spiritual Life

Posted July 15, 2009 | 01:37 AM (EST)


Over the next few weeks I am going to post excerpts from a course series I've led with my good friend Debra Satterwhite called "Spiritual Toolbox." Today's blog is Part Three of Saying "Yes" Begins by Saying "No".

The Datebook as a Tool for Spiritual Life

First, before you read...

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Saying "Yes" Begins by Saying "No" -- How to Conduct an Inventory

Posted July 9, 2009 | 11:40 AM (EST)


Over the next few weeks I am posting excerpts from a course series I've led with my good friend Debra Satterwhite called "Spiritual Toolbox." Today's blog is Part Two of "Saying 'Yes' Begins by Saying 'No.'"

"Yes" and "No" -- each day we are pulled in many directions. The ability...

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Spiritual Toolbox: "Yes" Begins by Saying "No"

Posted July 5, 2009 | 06:59 PM (EST)


Over the next few weeks I am going to post excerpts from a course series I've led with my good friend Debra Satterwhite called "Spiritual Toolbox." Today's blog is Part One of "Saying 'Yes' Begins by Saying 'No.'"


I keep a quotation taped to my bathroom mirror so...

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Marriage -- Not Just a "Gay Rights" Issue

35 Comments | Posted April 28, 2009 | 10:41 AM (EST)


For years I have puzzled over the curious mix of civil and religious traditions in the United States that currently require a clergyperson to serve as both an agent of the state and a representative of her/his religious tradition when presiding at a couple's marriage.

As current "religious"...

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Justice Is Essential for True Forgiveness

Posted April 24, 2009 | 04:57 PM (EST)


Regarding the discussion of whether to "forgive and forget" those who were "just following orders" to engage in illegal methods of torture, it is important to remember that the issue of power is central.

Studies have shown that bystanders tend to side with the perpetrator and blame those with less...

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The Eight Degrees Of Service

Posted March 31, 2009 | 10:23 AM (EST)


Over the years, I have found that the gift of service is that it challenges and changes me. When I lead workshops or retreats that include reflection on service, I share a number of exercises that have helped me frame and re-frame this topic over the years. Here are three...

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The Gentle Art Of Soul Care

Posted November 29, 2008 | 08:15 AM (EST)


Across time, the advice is constant: those engaged in the care for others must care for themselves. Indeed, caring for our own souls is how the gentle art of soul care is best learned. My work with well over a hundred artists has taught me that the basic requirements...

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