Tears are often the telescope by which men see far into heaven.
- Henry Ward Beecher
Did anyone ever tell you: Big boys/girls don't cry? Were you ever ashamed to show your feelings in public? Do you believe that tears are a sign of weakness? Are...
13 Comments | Posted January 9, 2012 | 1/9/12
Wealth is a difficult word these days because it seems we have been witnessing an abuse of our financial resources. Nevertheless, our experience of wealth goes way beyond money alone.
What does wealth mean for you, deep down? What is your intention for wealth now? Yes, you have basic...
Posted August 5, 2011 | 8/5/11
How do you think your intuition might be valuable to you in creating a healthier, wealthier, happier life? Do you already experience a "sixth sense" about what you need to do, the actions you need to take to fulfill an objective or goal in life? Have your found your inner...
Posted August 1, 2011 | 8/1/11
Do you ever see yourself as less than valuable and worthwhile? I am sure that many of us do. There has been a school of motivation -- not literally a school, perhaps, but a set of attitudes -- that beats you down so that you will fight back and bounce...
Posted July 29, 2011 | 7/29/11
In a comment to a recent post, regular reader, Bill, asked: "How do you get a clear intention?" It is one of those things you might think you should have, but how do you have an intention be really clear? After all, we have heard that the road to hell...
Posted July 9, 2011 | 7/9/11
Asked what she would like me to write about on the subject of "wealth," friend and regular reader of my Huffington Post articles, Anna, responded:
"A Wealth of 'Confidence,' with the ability to continue to use that strong intuition or instinct we all feel, and to trust it...
Posted July 2, 2011 | 7/2/11
"It takes courage for people to listen to their own goodness and act on it."
-- Pablo Casals
Do you ever lose sight of your own goodness? Were you ever encouraged when growing up to focus more on your faults and weaknesses, and less on your strengths and qualities?...
Posted June 25, 2011 | 6/25/11
When you make a positive choice by making room for others as well as yourself, you are casting yourself in a role that can lead you to wealth, inner and outer. Will things always be clear or logical? Rarely. As long as there are human beings around, we can usually...
Posted June 21, 2011 | 6/21/11
If the only prayer you ever say in your whole life is "thank you," that would suffice.
-- Meister Eckhart
You could say, all very well for Meister Eckhart. In his time, he probably did not have all the stress and difficulties you have in modern life. This is...
Posted June 12, 2011 | 6/12/11
Why am I not talking about making the big bucks in an article about wealth? After all, surely wealth is about money, isn't it? I am keen to explore the idea that wealth is not just about amassing material riches, such as living a celebrity lifestyle with all of the...
26 Comments | Posted June 4, 2011 | 6/4/11
Does having money in the bank help to make you feel secure? Then, the question might be how much money do you need to feel secure? What is "enough" for you?
What if having enough of anything does not make you feel secure? What, then, does?
On the American...
Posted May 28, 2011 | 5/28/11
In response to a recent blog, "Wealth School is Fun!" one reader commented: "Wealth School could give me lessons on altruism and spiritual awakening".
On Monday this week, I went to view the winner of the Palme d'Or at the Cannes Film Festival, "Tree of Life" which I...
Posted May 21, 2011 | 5/21/11
For many, times are hard. Wealth is something you might have known in the past. But there is less evidence of it now.
What about the innate wealth of an ordinary person? Not their possessions, lifestyle or money in the bank. The wealth of who they are, deep down. The...
Posted March 12, 2011 | 3/12/11
What purpose does forgiving serve? And how do you forgive? The "how" was what I asked myself some 16 years ago, as I went into my divorce feeling emotionally distraught.
We are well-educated in acquisition: Gaining knowledge and qualifications, getting a good job, finding a lifetime partner for marriage, buying...
Posted March 5, 2011 | 3/5/11
When couples come to me to create and officiate their wedding ceremony, they often ask that their occasion be "non-spiritual" or "non-religious." They are happy with a "celebration of love" as a theme. I am too, because I find that love is part of the fabric of any religion or...
Posted February 26, 2011 | 2/26/11
What would life be like without emotional burdens like anxiety, depression, guilt, rage, self-doubt and shame? What does it mean to be "emotionally free"? Is it possible? Is it even desirable?
Part of the tool kit with which we human beings are born are our emotions. They must serve a...
Posted February 19, 2011 | 2/19/11
Why smile? Because you can. I do not mean to be flippant. The better question might be, "Why would you want to smile?" -- especially if you are feeling sad, angry or frustrated. I will come to that. Read on.
This week saw the publication of Drs Ron and Mary...
Posted February 12, 2011 | 2/12/11
The intoxication of romance may bring a sense of the certainty that your loved one will be with you for eternity. Divorce statistics show otherwise. Romance does not guarantee longevity of partnership.
In fact, I have noticed that the more intense an attraction, the more likely it...
Posted February 5, 2011 | 2/5/11
Have you ever found yourself asking, "What is my purpose?" Or, "What is life all about?" Or, "Why am I here?" I believe there are as many ways to answer those questions as there are people who ask them.
An answer that I have found for myself has to do...
Posted January 29, 2011 | 1/29/11
Responding to my article last weekend,
Coping With Unexpected Challenges From My Elderly Parents one reader wrote of his experience with an elderly parent. He concluded:
I found out it really is true that if a tough experience doesn't kill you it will make you...

6 Comments | Posted February 8, 2012 | 2/8/12