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Why We All Need Working Parents

Posted: 06/17/2012 10:28 am

Twenty-six years ago, I graduated from Harvard Law School five months pregnant. After graduation, I clerked for a federal judge for a year and then applied to some of the big law firms in New York. The interviews would go well -- until I would tell them I had a 10-month-old toddler at home. Then, the interviews would stop. After three months of trying, I didn't have a single job offer.

Why did I tell the big firms that I had a 10-month-old at home, you might ask? My answer is simple: I was looking for the kind of workplace where I could be both the lawyer and the parent I wanted to be. It just never occurred to me that not a single large law firm would think that was achievable. I did not fit their profile of the ideal worker.

That experience shapes my work in the field of diversity and inclusion, including work/life integration. These issues are deeply personal -- to me, and to the millions who struggle to provide both financially and emotionally for their families. But now more than ever, the stakes are not just personal. In fact, the future of our country depends on all of us understanding that the ideal worker for the 21st century is a working parent.

Why do I say this? Because demographics is destiny.

Until about 2000, fertility rates declined as more women worked outside the home. But starting in 2000, fertility rates started to rise with women's labor force participation.

To quote the 2007 Goldman Sachs report, "Gender Inequality, Growth and Global Aging,"

... women in many countries have a choice of either working or having children. Faced with such a choice, fertility and employment rates both suffer. By contrast, in the countries where it is relatively easy to work and have children, female employment and fertility both tend to be higher.
In other words, when public policy supports working parents, men and women contribute to the economy both by working and by raising the next generation of workers. This is important for economic growth, a sustainable retirement system, and strong and secure families.

Let's take economic growth first. According to a McKinsey report, "Women Matter," the United States' GDP would be 25 percent smaller if women hadn't started entering the workforce in the late 1970s. Goldman Sachs has calculated that if women worked at the same rates as men, it would boost U.S. GDP by as much as 9 percent, Eurozone GDP by 13 percent and Japanese GDP by 16 percent.

This is because when women work for a paycheck, they spend that money. In fact, women are the biggest emerging market the world has ever seen. If you are a business looking for growth, you should want to encourage women -- 8 out of 10 of whom will become mothers -- to stay in the workplace.

Now let's turn to retirement. It's no coincidence that Spain and Japan have rapidly aging populations, a low number of women working for a paycheck, and among the lowest birth rates in the world. Beyond short term problems these countries have, the long term problem is that there are too few workers to sustain their retirement system as people age.

We in the United States could face this same demographic problem in the future. Although we have had relatively high birth rates and rates of women working for the last decade, both have stalled in recent years. In the meantime, an estimated 10,000 Baby Boomers retire every day. The aging workforce has been called a "demographic tsunami." We need more men and women to work and have families to avert long-term disaster. Public policy needs to recognize that working parents contribute to the long term viability of our retirement system, and provide support to allow them to work and have families.

But even if none of these economic benefits were true, I would argue that it is still the case that the ideal worker is a working parent, because... most of us already are both working and caring for a family member. It may not be a child, but an elderly parent or uncle, or sick sister or brother. In my experience, a workplace that is responsive to the needs of working parents is also one that is responsive to other caregiving needs. Decades of research by the Families and Work Institute shows that flexible work environments are just as, if not more, productive, and have lower health care and other costs than rigid workplaces. But perhaps even more importantly, the Institute's research has shown that families are stronger -- and less vulnerable to shifting economic tides -- when both parents provide for the family, both financially and emotionally.

To be sure, at the individual level, the issues around work and family will always feel deeply personal. The choices about whether to have kids at all, and whether to work full time or part time for a paycheck or not at all, are different for each one of us.

But that doesn't mean that there is no role for public policy to play in supporting working parents. The Pregnant Workers Fairness Act, introduced in Congress on May 8, is one such law. The Paid Family Leave Insurance Act, pending in New York State, is another. These laws reflect the new demographics of work and family -- which clearly show that supporting working parents is better for everyone. So instead of recognizing the contributions mothers and fathers make with one-day holidays in May and June, write your elected officials and tell them to vote for these bills. Because we need mothers and fathers working, for all our sakes.

 
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Twenty-six years ago, I graduated from Harvard Law School five months pregnant. After graduation, I clerked for a federal judge for a year and then applied to some of the big law firms in New York. Th...
Twenty-six years ago, I graduated from Harvard Law School five months pregnant. After graduation, I clerked for a federal judge for a year and then applied to some of the big law firms in New York. Th...
 
 
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10:36 AM on 06/20/2012
This piece is about working parents, not working mothers. The stay at home moms should not be so defensive. Some women choose to work, just as you choose to stay home. You don't know everyone's unique situation and you shouldn't judge people for the choices they make. This piece endorses working "parents" and says that legislation and workplaces should support them too, because working parents will have a positive effect on the economy. Nothing more than that...
03:42 PM on 06/18/2012
We have to stop making a distinction between working parents and non-working parents or care-givers. It is all work, however, some of us are earn money for it and the rest of us take our chances. That is not an ideal economic arrangement. Rather than campaigning for more working mothers it would be better to promote a "wage" for those who take on the very difficult role of social care-giver and child-rearer. This would grow the economy in the same way that non-family working does, and it would ensure that those who do this essential work are not disadvantaged economically or when they are old. Those who give care to others are workers too and need to be paid accordingly. It is unpaid labour that stunts the economy not stay at home carers. A wage for everyone or a wage for no-one. Again let's end the false distinctions that serve only to divide us. And a little more respect for those who presently are unpaid domestic carers - and also for children who will be subjected to high cortisol levels for life as a result of early daily separation from their parents. There is a public health cost to having children be reared by someone other than their parents and that had not factored into your economic arguments here.
11:37 PM on 06/17/2012
Why are feminists so dismissive of women who stay at home with heir children?

That counts as "work". Or perhaps in the elite radical left it doesn't. Only pampered lawyers making demands on the workplace and concerned only with their 'needs' are the 'real' workers.

As hostile as feminists are towards men, they are even more hostile to women who do not march in lockstep to THEIR tune.
08:34 PM on 06/17/2012
I love being a stay at home mom to my young son. I don't want to work outside of my home. I want to work on raising him. If mothers want to work, then that is their choice and I stand behind them. I have made a different choice. I really hope you are not implying that being a stay at home mom is not a valid parenting choice.
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06:34 PM on 06/17/2012
If you expect us at-home mothers to not shove study after study at you, "proving" that children with at-home moms are better off, please return the favor by not smugly assuring the world that life is better when women delegate child raising to someone else. The only way your arrangement works at all is if the vast majority of children are raised by women who are paid less than their mothers. In other words, if middle class babies are raised by working class women, and if rich babies are raised by middle class women. Do you know what "high quality" childcare is, by the way? It is childcare with a low staff turnover and low child-to-teacher ratios. In other words, the closer your daycare center is to a normal family situation, the "higher quality" it is. Doesn't a baby deserve the highest quality of care? Doesn't a middle class baby deserve access to his mother's time more than an employer deserves it? Personally, my time is not too valuable to be spent on my own children.
01:07 PM on 06/17/2012
Ideally, we all need parents with survivability skills that could come in many forms in varying human-experience eras. Ideally, both parents able to attend to their children over a 24-hour period, day after day until their children can do some things for themselves, would be wonderful. In this era, since for the most part we do not have several family members living in the same household or community to help take care of the baby the parents would have to have a bank balance to draw down from while both take turns with baby chores, for the duration.

Since there are basically only banks that cater to businesses and expect maximum returns in the form of interest rates for money loaned against collateral value as in cars or houses, the system needs a depository that caters to the needs of American families in their times of financial need. Imagine if a pro-families-only bank had $1.6Trillion, that’s $1,600,000,000,000 on hand, like the commercial banks now have, would there be a financial crisis that destroyed so many families as did the 2008 recession/depression?

So, this type of family funds depository would be complimentary to the current system and bolster economic viability when the business/commercial banks tank. The economic system would be ensured when families can continue to purchase those goods continually, regardless of the shortcomings and failures of the commercial banks.