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'Nobody's Going to F-ing Die Because We're Poor!'

Posted: 04/27/2012 5:46 pm

Janice walked in carrying a huge new juicer -- a good one. One that probably cost a couple of hundred dollars that I'm pretty sure she had a hard time coming up with. She found the money somehow, though, because her sister Cheryl needs to stay healthy. "Nobody's going to f-ing die because we're poor!"

Cheryl's fighting cancer and good food helps. And that juicer has helped a lot. Between fresh juices every day, lots of supplements, vitamins and biweekly doses of chemo, the tumors are shrinking. She's got hope and so do we.

It makes sense -- clean, vitamin-packed fruits and vegetables are good for all of us, and they're especially good when you need to clear your system of poison. Cancer is poison.

So is poverty. It kills just as surely as cancer, if more insidiously.

So, here's the story. You could say that Cheryl and I grew up together. We lived next door to each other in an absolutely beautiful place in Hawai'i (we had Section 8, which helped us pay the rent). I'd moved there with a 3-year-old and a brand-new baby to try to find a better life after bouncing from one crappy job to another in California. What I found in our new life in Hawai'i was more poverty -- and an amazing best friend. Cheryl's mother was native Hawaiian and her father was white. She was raised Hawaiian. For those of you who have lived in Hawai'i, you know the significance of this. And you might know how hard it is for nonlocals -- haoles -- to fit in and make friends. I had a really, really hard time -- I was poor and isolated and desperately lonely. Cheryl took me under her wing and quite literally saved my life.

We helped each other with our kids. We found joy in our young womanhood. We shared laughter and tears during our pregnancies, fights with our husbands, and struggles to put food on the table. We loved each other then and we love each other now.

Cheryl is a wonderful person who has raised wonderful kids. She's had amazing experiences in life. She has also had some really horrible experiences -- all of which she has risen above. She is one of the wisest people I know. Today, she's battling cancer with grace, humor and courage. And along with millions of other people in America she's struggling financially. Here are some facts:

• 15.1 percent of the population in the U.S. in 2010 was below the poverty line.
• Infant mortality rate (2012 estimates): 5.98 deaths per 1,000 live births, which ranks the U.S. 48th in a list from best (Monaco and Japan) to worst (Afghanistan).
• In 2004, the U.S. had the third-highest poverty rate in 24 Organization for Economic Co-operation and Development (OECD) countries. By 2011, the U.S. had the fourth-highest inequality level in 34 OECD countries, following Chile, Mexico, and Turkey.
• U.S. income distribution is worse than nearly all of the 47 highly developed countries and economic regions identified by the United Nations.
• Poverty can be linked to poor health, including cancer, in a variety of ways, including how difficult it is to maintain a healthy diet with too-little income.

Is poverty a carcinogen, as Samuel Broder, director of the National Cancer Institute in 1989, suggested? It's much debated, but we know for sure that there's a correlation between socioeconomic status (SES) and access to education, health care and lifestyle choices that help -- or harm -- health. And in the U.S., SES is linked to race. According to a 2011 report by the American Cancer Society, "In 2007, about 164,000 men and women aged 25-64 years died of cancer in the US. More than 60,000 (37%) of these deaths could have been avoided if all segments of the population had the same cancer death rates as the most educated whites."

So, back to Cheryl's story. She is a beautiful woman. She's lean and toned from a lifetime of running and swimming. She beat the poverty odds and has stayed healthy much of the time. But that doesn't mean it's easy to get healthy now. She needs good food, expensive vitamins and supplements -- things that Medicaid won't pay for but that will help her stay on top of the disease. And then there's gas money for the many long trips from her town to the city for chemo. Being sick is expensive. Her family will do anything they possibly can to help her beat the thing. But it's almost impossible to find the money.

People do die because they're poor in the U.S. What the hell is wrong with us as a people that we turn a blind eye to this?

The U.S. falls behind other developed nations on so many measures of well-being. Our children are more obese. Adults, too. We're just average when it comes at teaching math and sciences and, in general, at educating our children. And that's not our teachers' faults. Drug and alcohol abuses are high here in America. Cruelty and neglect of children continues to be a huge problem, and every day three women are murdered by their husbands or boyfriends.

Of course, rich and middle-class people suffer from cancer and drug abuse, alcoholism, child and spouse abuse. All of these issues are complicated. So is poverty. But, when it comes right down to it, there is absolutely no reason for the kind of poverty we see in the U.S., other than the choices we have made as a nation and the cultural beliefs we hold that have at the center tolerance for inequity and the notion that poverty is a result of indolence. People aren't poor because they're lazy. It is much, much harder to be poor than it is to be financially comfortable. I know this from my own personal experience.

What's really hard is breaking free of poverty. It's almost like our entire system is geared toward keeping people exactly where they are -- fighting to get out becomes your problem. I spent many years fighting to get out of poverty. And yes, I and millions of other people benefit from programs like food stamps, welfare, housing assistance and government-funded education. Without these programs I wouldn't be where I am today. But if they were really working systemically, we simply wouldn't have so many people toiling under the yoke of poverty.

It shouldn't be this way. But changing how we view and deal with poverty will require that we all do something: help a friend in need, loan money for someone's college tuition, coach and mentor young people. Buy a juicer. And although we can't vote our way out of this problem, it's pretty clear where the lines are drawn in the debate. I will most certainly be voting for President Obama and others who will work to halt our slide into spiritual, as well as real, impoverishment as a nation.

This isn't some abstract conversation about poverty. My friend Cheryl, like millions of Americans, can't afford to buy basic things that will help her to get and stay healthy. And in a country as rich as ours, no one should f-ing die because they're poor.

 

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Janice walked in carrying a huge new juicer -- a good one. One that probably cost a couple of hundred dollars that I'm pretty sure she had a hard time coming up with. She found the money somehow, thou...
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07:40 PM on 05/05/2012
well written story, thank you

if keeping people healthy was profitable the mic would be churning out orange groves and juicers left and right, sadly death is the only thing profitable to those who hold the power.
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Nina Spencer
A Modicum Of Discernment..Please?
04:11 PM on 04/29/2012
Taking ideology completely out of the equation, there are millions of people surviving day to day on welfare checks, food stamps, medicaid and subsidized housing. The majority of those being children. Add to that the millions of elderly living month to month on Social Security checks with their only health care coming from Medicare and those living month to month on Social Security Disability checks. If the funding for these programs is ended are there actually people out there who believe that these millions of people are going to simply evaporate? I'm not asking for liberal or conservative opinions on the reasons for poverty or lack of care for the elderly. I simply want to know if ANYONE has taken the defunding of these programs all the way to the actual physical conclusions. Where are those children going to go? Where are those elderly going to go? Where are those too diabled to even work for minimum wage going to go? Is there anyone in this country actually believe that private charities are going to step up to provide food, housing, medical care for those millions? That private charities will even be ABLE to do so? Is this country perpared to watch children and old people starve and freeze and simply die in the streets? Again, I am NOT asking for opinions about the why of poverty or where the blame lies, I just want the above questions answered.
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splashy
Really?!?!!!
05:19 PM on 04/29/2012
That's what used to happen. It's WHY we have the social programs, along with the fact that the government pumping money to them leads to a better economy over all, because the poor can be depended on to spend their money. Every dime they spend is taxed, and a profit is made, as it trickles up to the wealthy. It's a dependable source of profit for millions, and taxes for the government.

I see it, from an economic standpoint, as the government being the heart of a body, pumping blood to all the cells that do the work - muscles, nerves, bones, internal organs - nourishing those cells. The cells transport the brain, feed the brain, do the work of the brain, and give the brain purpose. Without those cells doing all those things, the brain and body would die.

The poor and lower classes are the cells. They make up the vast majority of the population, and are the foundation of our economy. Without them pumping the money they get back into the economy, the rest would not be able to survive.

The poor and lower classes are the REAL job creators.
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Nina Spencer
A Modicum Of Discernment..Please?
06:43 PM on 04/29/2012
While I appreciate and agree with your opinion, I still would like just one person, especially someone who thinks there should be no social safety net to answer the basic question. Do they believe these millions of people are going to simply evaporate?
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splashy
Really?!?!!!
02:01 PM on 04/29/2012
Well said! You are very right, and most don't know that those programs that help the poor also help the economy to keep going. It's essential for the economy that the lower financial classes get money to spend, because by spending their money, which they will reliably do, they support all the businesses they patronize. They send the money upwards from the very bottom, with profits and taxes being taken at every step.

We NEED for them to have money to spend. Not as much as they need it, but for a thriving economy, we need them to spend.
oil patch
if you voted obama, you are to blame
10:55 AM on 04/29/2012
lord obama will give us what we need!
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splashy
Really?!?!!!
05:21 PM on 04/29/2012
Congress is the branch that makes the laws, Obama is the one that does the action. We need him there because he gets the reasons for the laws, farm more than ANY Republican, who can't see the big picture and that they are not the most important part of our economy or country.
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Louis Ruoti
Prejudices are what fools use for reason
07:20 PM on 04/28/2012
There are people capable of feeling another's pain, and all to many who can not, as evidenced by some of the comments on these pages.

If this country is to succeed in the future, an attitude of social caring must prevail. The countries which have adopted that structure are those in which the inhabitants are the happiest, and healthiest.

If Progressives gain one of the houses of Congress and the Presidency, this positive type of agenda is inevitable, and sorely needed. Once in place there will be no going back...No one will WANT to go back to Social Darwinism after experiencing the peace of mind and security social caring brings to a nation.

That is why the right is so desperate to succeed in November. This is their last chance to retain their status as a viable way of life - they are in a struggle to keep an agenda alive which benefits them, and them only. They don't care about the rest of us, and would prefer to see us subjugated.

That is why the vote you cast in November may very well be the most important one you cast in your lifetime...Get out there and do it.
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splashy
Really?!?!!!
05:24 PM on 04/29/2012
Agreed. They have been getting away with their long con for decades now. We really need to stop them.

Anyone that doesn't know about the long con, or wants to understand it better can read this article that explains it to you, in the words of the people that set up the con:
http://www.commondreams.org/view/2009/01/26-0
http://www.commondreams.org/view/2009/01/26-0
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06:39 PM on 04/28/2012
'Nobody's Going to F-ing Die Because We're Poor!'

I hate to break the news to you Annie but..............
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splashy
Really?!?!!!
05:25 PM on 04/29/2012
It's sad, isn't it. The wasted talent, intelligence, and living from our set up that hurts so many.
06:32 PM on 04/28/2012
Any major culture since antiquity has produced at least a few healthy people with happy circumstances and long peaceful lives. History will define us not by our highest standards of living, but our lowest. That is where we haved excelled in America. How we treat the poor, the sick, the mentally and physically disabled, will be our story. If we continue down this slippery slope of economic standard-lowering, historians are going to look back at us and wonder how such a resource-rich land got into such an inhumane mess. It makes NO SENSE WHATSOEVER to not care for the sick in an age when we can hypothetically give everyone good treatment. If we can't do that, I don't know what else this 'society' is good for.
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splashy
Really?!?!!!
05:26 PM on 04/29/2012
Good point. If the country, society, and government doesn't work for the vast majority of people, what is the point of even having it?

We need to take it back from the wealthy right wingers who only want welfare for themselves.
muckatuck
yeah, well, you know, thats just like uh, your opi
04:06 PM on 04/28/2012
the ultra rich want to turn this nation into a 3rd world country full of dependent citizens.simple as that.i could expound but we seem to have a bunch in here who are already 'cut from the know.' the reasons why this is happening are too many and too foul to be mentioned.i'd say use the power of your vote, but im beginning to wonder whether the process is purely symbolic these days.seems you oust one self serving politician and there are 3 more willing to take his/her place because it's such a 'cushy' gig in this country.'career politician' shouldn;t be a career.either they abide the same rules and live within the same means as their constituents, or seek other opportunities.term limits and salary caps w/o the ability to give themselves raises for starters.they pay for their own healthcare and retirement same as everyone else.if you are going to serve the public, then serve because you want to make a positive difference, not because the work schedule is ideal and the 'bennies' can't be beat, and hey, maybe do a little insider trading on the side to pay for that vacation house and yacht.
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splashy
Really?!?!!!
05:27 PM on 04/29/2012
We need to understand that if we don't vote in the elections, then we have no chance at all. The fewer people vote, the more the right wingers take over, and they want us all in poverty.
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03:04 PM on 04/28/2012
Tell that to the little kid in MD that died from an abcessed tooth that spread to his brain. Thousands of dentists in MD and yet not a one of them would leave there Severn River or Chesapeake Bay homes to help. This aint Mayberry anymore.
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Micheal Anderson
When the Rebels become the Tyrants
12:39 AM on 04/29/2012
I thought that happened in NY?
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fiLthyLiberaLdotcom
Yes, it's a website for liberals.
09:09 AM on 04/29/2012
Situations like that occur in every state.
02:52 PM on 04/28/2012
I think Obama has done many things but also don't just give him your vote, look at all the 3rd party candidates with comprehensive plans to address joblessness, food safety, environmental conditions which can all help those in poverty in our nation. Don't sell yourself or your country short by giving away your vote before you've looked at all your options. If we can elect a man of african american descent against the challenge that he is not from this country in 2008, then we can make 2012 the year of the 3rd parties if we choose too.
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Devil Dog 40
04:53 PM on 04/28/2012
Don't make the mistake of wasting your vote and giving the election away to the same selfserving right either.
11:43 PM on 04/28/2012
There is no third party and I would never vote for Romney. no matter how bad you think Obama is, Romney will only get votes because he is white not that he will ever do anything he is already rich and sure he is worried about the country , I mean the mormon church, where all his donations go.
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realitytrumpsbull
Two 'alves of coconut!
02:31 PM on 04/28/2012
Poverty is also relative. If you can afford a juicer, you're doing better financially than about oh, 1.5-2+ billion people in this world. Comma. Why do you need a machine to open an orange, instead of your fingers like everyone else that has had to learn how to use those given gifts in life? In our modern, western world, be blunt, and say we're spoiled. ROTTEN. Can you imagine trying to sell a diet book, in a 3rd-world country? People would laugh at you. Well, maybe they've got 3-4 fat people, but most are skinny as a rail. Why? They're not inundated with food. And, the food they DO eat, isn't like our diet. So, if you're getting really fat, and having those internal medicine-type problems, time to look in the mirror, and think about your um, 'lifestyle'. Because it might be a death-style. Sedentary Barcalounger-itis. So, as you're performing your daily entertainment/information center regimen, might want to think about what you're really doing, which is...nothing. Nothing that's going to work your muscles, nothing that's going to really challenge your mind, nothing that's really going to do much of anything for your future, except bring you painlessly one day closer to The End. How do you want to live? Maybe you need to remember how to peel an orange, do your own housework. Think about what you do, how you do it, what you eat, and count your blessings.
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Watching rock grow
FE = Iron, and Female = Iron Male :)
02:44 PM on 04/28/2012
The jucier was a gift for a sick family member. Sick people and people fighting cancer are usually sick don't need to be spending their time crushing fruits and veggies into easily digested forms. They need to be using their time and strength in love to encourage their fight to a successful end.
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jamenta
There are other human values besides greed.
02:50 PM on 04/28/2012
Yeah - tell an American who doesn't have a job or is working 2 jobs without health insurance poverty is "relative".

What's relative in the right-winger's philosophy is that they believe 1% of Americans should enjoy more wealth than 90% of all other Americans combined. That CEOs should make 350 to 400 times the amount an ordinary American worker makes - and that here in America, unlike every other advanced industrial "civilized" nation on the planet - if you get sick - there's going to be some CEO and corporation who will make sure you go bankrupt just so you can go see a doctor.

Oh no - let's all live like Africans in Somalia - and be happy. Who cares if this is America - where we all once were proud of being a society that gave everyone equal opportunity and an affordable education?

It's all relative Mr. trumpsbull here wants you to believe - just as long as the Wallstreet robber barons can continue making their billions on the backs of the rest of working Americans.
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MarcDel
thank G they'll blame you for everything
08:40 AM on 04/29/2012
Good point.......and let's not forget that over 40000 Americans die every year for lack of healthcare. These people are generally not the really poor who qualify for medicaid but the working poor who don't but can't afford healthcare. Comparing owning a juicer to being able to pay doctors bills for testing and treatment is ridiculous
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Hatty
A Billy Jack liberal
01:50 PM on 04/28/2012
I would argue that Obama's policies are as harmful as any of his predecessors....bad trade agreements, dropping to his knees whenever a banker or stockbroker walks by, and some silly executive orders designed to get headlines (and little else). Let Obama hang out with Clooney; real people need to concentrate on electing other real people to school boards, city councils, and legislatures. That is when the changes will begin.
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splashy
Really?!?!!!
05:32 PM on 04/29/2012
There are some things he has done that I didn't like, but compared to what the Republicans do/have done he's much much better.

I'm thinking that reading about the long con the Republicans have been running for decades now may help you understand what has been going on, and just how bad they are. Find it here, with the words of the people that set it up.
http://www.commondreams.org/view/2009/01/26-0
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Hatty
A Billy Jack liberal
08:17 PM on 04/29/2012
I am acutely aware of what this country is up against. I don't think Obama is remotely equipped to lead in a way that will change anything. He reminds me of a hospice nurse...making the patient comfortable until the end comes.
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cornel
wuf wuf
01:41 PM on 04/28/2012
We are going back to the time of the Robber Barons and their cheerleaders are the Republicans. I don't really know why the Republicans have become so out of touch after all their greatest President ever Theodore Roosevelt called these people the "malefactors of great wealth" ! We live in dangerous times, money is corrupting our democracy in a pretty blatant way and for all to see. OWS was just a small precursor of the unrest to come, I just hope the American spring is not going to be a repeat of the 14 July 1789 !
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Christopher Erwin Hogan
01:28 PM on 04/28/2012
I'll tell you exactly why there is increasing poverty and income inequality in America. For 30 years the richest bankers and wallstreet hedgefund managers have paid off politicians in exchange for tax cuts and deregulation, which in turn has made them richer (10 times richer), which in turn, has allowed them to buy even more politicians and the cycle repeats itself. The money had to come from somewhere and it came from the rest of us (pensions, benefits, jobs, house value). Elections are a mere formality now, since nothing really changes, no matter who is in office. Both parties serve the super rich, because only the super rich can finance their re-election campaigns. The irrelavency of the voters has been common knowledge to them for years. And democrats often collect MORE money from these clowns, because it takes more money to buy them off. If you think we live in representative government, you are living in a fantasy. We live in a plutocracy and have for years. The only way anything will change will be if we get money out of politics and make each politician run on an equal amount of PUBLIC CAMPAIGN money. Give them each some taxpayer funds, and say GO!
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MJinCanada
Safe from zombies until my 2nd cup of coffee
02:03 PM on 04/28/2012
And public funds for elections was exactly what we had in Canada until the Harper neocons (wannabe Republcans) got their majority. That was the very first thing they changed -- to put the money back into elections. I'm hoping it will backfire big time.
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Watching rock grow
FE = Iron, and Female = Iron Male :)
02:47 PM on 04/28/2012
I am hoping with you the best of luck in foiling those monsters up there!
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MarcDel
thank G they'll blame you for everything
08:43 AM on 04/29/2012
You should also add the demise of unions. Unions are much more powerful in other industrialized countries in the world such as Germany. They have not suffered the increased disparity in income we have. It all began in 1979. The book "Winner take all Politics" describes the entire political and economic process.
12:20 PM on 04/28/2012
Both my husband and I work. I'm insured through my job and my husband and two children are insured through his. We live from paycheck to paycheck, trying to stash a bit aside for college each month. When our daughter started having health issues earlier this year we found that conventional, allopathic medicine wasn't as helpful as naturopathic medicine. It became clear that our insurance is "medical insurance" rather than "health insurance." Between the amount we pay to have the insurance, the high deductibles, and the limitations of the insurance itself, we've had to put saving for college on hold. Our credit card debt has increased. I know our situation is not unique.

Over dinner the other night with six women we traded stories. One insured, pregnant woman was in a similar situation as me. One recovering from breast cancer depleted her life savings to cover healing options that weren't covered by insurance. One uninsured woman who has chronic health issues is putting her house on the market so that she and her husband and two kids can move to Canada (dual citizenship) if her condition worsens.

My point is that health care is a problem for those in poverty, and for those of us who are more middle income. It seems to not touch the ultra-rich, and they're the ones making the decisions for the rest of us.
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jamenta
There are other human values besides greed.
12:54 PM on 04/28/2012
The tragedy here is we Americans don't have to have a for-profit health care system, which is the #1 reason why ordinary Americans are going bankrupt. Our country is quite capable of running a single payer Universal health care system if there was a political will to make the change. And there is plenty of evidence to show that a Universal health care system is far superior to the for-profit system we now have. Also, an overwhelming majority of Americans support change to our current broken health care system. The public option - poll after poll - showed 2/3rds of Americans would have supported it. Universal single payer is widely popular among most ordinary Americans- and has already been implemented in the state of Vermont.

Really - it all boils down to the fact that Washington and our politicans there really no longer represent the interests of ordinary Americans. Big Money and the interests of Wallstreet and corporate America now take precedence over the very health of our country. Our politicians - so beholden to the wealthy and Big Business, no longer are able to do their jobs - to act on behalf of We the People in what is suppose to be an American democracy.
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morgantown
Jesus was a dark skinned liberal
03:11 PM on 04/28/2012
I was and still am for a single-payer universal healthcare system. It's a sin that the aynrandright get away with politicizing the health of every American.
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Devil Dog 40
04:57 PM on 04/28/2012
The GOP refused to pass the public option in the current health care act.
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BOBinPS
Really?
06:10 PM on 04/28/2012
"My point is that health care is a problem for those in poverty, and for those of us who are more middle income. It seems to not touch the ultra-rich, and they're the ones making the decisions for the rest of us."

Really? Didn't the ex Ms Edwards live in a 10k sq ft house and die of cancer? Maybe she couldn't afford vitamins. Or maybe she could afford them and chose them over western medicine. Maybe acupuncture would have cured her. Or yoga. Or yodeling. Do you really expect taxpayers to cover yodeling lessons whose affects are based upon junk science? Really?

The same thing with the above article. If you have a vitamin or mineral deficiency, if prescrbed by a MD Medicade will cover it. If you don't have a deficiency, expensive vitamins only provide you expensive urine. Another example of bad decision making. Kinda like not being able to hold a job in CA, but moving to HI where the COL is 2X. Great idea? Maybe, if HI gives the poor more free stuff than CA. That's hard to imagine.
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splashy
Really?!?!!!
05:35 PM on 04/29/2012
It looks like you have not seen the statistics on the differences between the poor and wealthy when it comes to health care.

For example, the life expectancy for the more well off has been steadily climbing, while for the poor it has held steady or gone down.