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Do We Need Spiritual Teachers or Can We Learn On Our Own?

Posted: 08/01/10 09:02 AM ET


I was 10 years old when Maharishi Mahesh Yogi, a little-known Indian teacher who had founded the Spiritual Rejuvenation Movement back in 1959, gave a retreat in Bangor, Wales. That retreat, with its usual attendees from the metaphysical sub-sub-culture, would have gone completely unnoticed by the rest of the world were it not for the surprising attendance of four very influential people: John, Paul, George, and Ringo.

The Beatles had already been setting trends in fashion, music, haircuts, and lifestyle since the early 1960s. When they grew their hair longer into the "mop cut," it became the signature of the Beat generation in 1962. When they started to experiment with psychedelics, it took only a few months for many others to do the same, and it spawned the summer of love in 1967.

So when the Beatles went off to visit Maharishi Mahesh Yogi, first in Wales and then in Rishikesh, India, the number of people learning transcendental meditation went from a few hundred to millions within a year. When the Beatles went to India they were joined by Donovan, Mia Farrow, and a handful of other cultural icons. Swami Muktananda set up shop in South Fallsberg, New York, and also drew in a torrent of celebrities. Werner Erhard created est. By the early 1970s, the question on everyone's lips had shifted from "what's a guru?" to "who's your guru?" It seemed like everyone young and hip enough had a spiritual teacher they were following, and there were literally hundreds to choose from.

Many of those teachers were from India, Tibet, Japan, or China, and came from traditions where business and spirituality had no common ground. In the early 1970s, however, many of them developed huge organizations, quite commonly with assets in the millions, and generally with a burgeoning feudal structure, not dissimilar from the very Catholic Church many of them had only recently shunned.

The attraction to having a teacher at that time was extremely clear. Many of us were born in the years following the Second World War. Our parents were obviously confused about many things: gender roles, how to raise children, the purpose of being alive, to name just a few. They were, for the most part, adrift and unhappy. The religious traditions in which we grew up -- Protestantism, Catholicism and Judaism -- seemed to offer only the possibility that we could become like the generation that had reared us. So an Indian teacher, promising the giddy heights of enlightenment, appearing to be completely relaxed and confident, with an unambiguous and strong position around sexuality, money, and how to look after your body, often with a strict regimen of practices to follow, made life simple and easy. Back in the 70s, everyone thought their guru was The Way, and that Nirvana and Utopia were just a few years of meditation away.

It didn't take long for the illusion to be shattered for most of us. Some of these Oriental teachers were caught having sex with young women, or even young boys, when they had been teaching celibacy. In some organizations, evidence started to emerge of immense financial corruption. In many cases it was the feudality of the situation: the chosen few at the top living luxurious lives while the majority of the organization was carried by unpaid volunteers, that caused people to feel fed up. All the promises of enlightenment in a short period of time turned out to be very unreliable. To start with, no one seemed to agree on what the word "enlightenment" referred to. Even if you could get that far, it was clear that the promised timeline was very unreasonable.

Almost everyone I know who has been serious in their life about spiritual exploration has at some time been in relationship with a teacher, sometimes with many teachers, and has also felt some degree of betrayal and disappointment.

Today we can see the emergence of a whole new way of going about this. You can be profoundly focused and intent on genuine awakening without having allegiance to any one teacher or organization. Many people nowadays will attend retreats with Eckhart Tolle, Adya Shanti, Byron Katie, or the Dalai Lama. Many people have found they have to integrate more "spiritual" teachings with other methods to take care of their health, their finances, and their relationships. So today, if you walk into the house of a veteran of the spirit, you might find an altar with a handful of pictures on it. You might find their bookshelf populated by divergent points of view.

Others have discovered a way that, with the right disposition, the right openness, the right willingness to feel and to listen, life itself becomes a teacher in all of its multi-faceted appearances. A moment of disappointment or defeat, a feeling of rejection, even a serious illness, can become the "guru" if you allow it to.

Perhaps the most interesting development in this way is the possibility of "co-creative awakening." This means that we recognize that we are, all of us, in one dimension, already completely awake. And we are all also, all of us, just monkeys with no hair and a bunch of dysfunctional habits that don't seem to go away. We are all unavoidably human and unavoidably divine at the same time. And so there is the possibility that we can be teachers to each other, stepping into being the guide when it's called for, but also having the humility and the honesty to be guided, as well.

This is an extremely hot and juicy topic, and it's one about which there are multiple points of view. I've had endless delightful and fruitful conversations with many people about this over many years. Perhaps the most erudite and interesting person who has researched this is Mariana Caplan, the author of books like Halfway Up the Mountain, Do You need a Guru?, and, most recently, Eyes Wide Open, which won five national awards in the book publishing industry.

I had a wonderful dialog with Mariana Caplan about this subject on July 15. You can listen to the free replay here.

 
 
 

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I was 10 years old when Maharishi Mahesh Yogi, a little-known Indian teacher who had founded the Spiritual Rejuvenation Movement back in 1959, gave a retreat in Bangor, Wales. That retreat, with...
I was 10 years old when Maharishi Mahesh Yogi, a little-known Indian teacher who had founded the Spiritual Rejuvenation Movement back in 1959, gave a retreat in Bangor, Wales. That retreat, with...
 
 
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michelesda
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09:11 AM on 08/06/2010
"This is an extremely hot and juicy topic, and it's one about which there are multiple points of view."

The sixties spiritual bubble eventually burst, as bubbles always do, and in so doing probably gave rise to the current atheist bubble, but, as always, the true ground probably lies somewhere in between. What always bothered me was not just false leaders, but also false followers, those who call themselves perpetual "seekers" just to be in on the spiritual game du jour. I too was a seeker, but lucky enough to find not one of the famous leaders but an obscure but true guru to many of us, locally, who is gone now but without whom my own feet at least might never have found the path. As a consequence, today, and for many years now, I am no longer a "seeker," having found. I would probably not have found, however, were it not for my teacher's greatest wisdom of all, which was to keep my feet on the path by his inspiration, but let me walk it my own way.
11:44 AM on 08/05/2010
Having sex with young boys and children was known to me only about christian catholic priests. I never heard that about Indian Gurus. Two or three of them have been connected to conscentual sex. A big difference!
01:33 AM on 08/05/2010
Yes, but first we have to stop believing in ideas, in thought coverings. No, Guru's are only the middle man. The are un necessary, only necessary if your afraid of having a naked mind.
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PurpleTomato
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04:33 PM on 08/04/2010
Don't follow leaders,avoid the parking meters.
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08:50 PM on 08/03/2010
GOD has allowed for many paths, because, if there was only one, it would be rather crowded.
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07:46 PM on 08/03/2010
On the occasion of her birthday, my ex-sister-in law was depressed. "I never knew my father. I may never know where I come from." I told her, "It is not important where you came from; it is only important where you are going." You cannot choose your origin, but your destination. . .
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goldenchoirboy
04:46 PM on 08/03/2010
The true story about Maharishi & the Beatles, which the article should have told instead of buying into 1960s gossip, is here: www.beatlesinindia.com . Lennon apologized years later for writing Sexy Sadie, calling it an "error in judgment." The other Beatles never believed the rumors about Maharishi & all continued practicing Maharishi's technique (Transcendental Meditation). I was at Paul & Ringo's benefit concert last year at Radio City, done to raise money to teach TM to 1 million school kids. Yoko was there & said: 'If John were around, he'd be the first to be up there acknowledging what Maharishi has done for the world.' To practice meditation & learn from a great teacher doesn't make one a follower. Maharishi was once asked how many followers he had. He answered, "I have no followers. Everyone follows their own progress." Maharishi revived an effective, non-religious meditation technique that had been lost for centuries even in India. He systematized the practice so teachers could be trained in all languages & so the teachnique would consistently give results -- making TM's effects repeatable & testible for science. The technique's effectiveness is not based on faith in a guru. TM works because it's based on a comprehensive understanding about the natural mechanism of 'transcending.' Hundreds of scientific studies & the experiences of millions of people have verified that TM works regardless of what one believes about the practice, about Maharishi, or about the Vedic tradition where it came from.
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05:11 PM on 08/03/2010
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02:46 PM on 08/03/2010
It's a matter of perception. I believe we are all each other's teachers with different levels and different types of knowledge. Some are famous but most are not. The key is to be aware of and open to what we are being taught and to take right actions on what we've learned.
10:32 AM on 08/03/2010
When the student is ready,
the teacher will appear.
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rikster
buy the ticket-take the ride
08:10 PM on 08/03/2010
how true...
03:36 AM on 08/03/2010
Okay guys. If your truly want to find the truth, we must first as people seek to balance the sacred masculine (Consciousness) and the divine feminine (Spiritual energy) aspects of ourselves. I suggest anyone seeking the truth, read up on the "ancient mystery schools". Todays world has an imbalance of Sacred Masculne energies is heavily ruled by a patriarchal society (Sacred Masculine) that suppresses the divine feminine aspect of creation, leading to a lot of doubt in existence of God, wars over religions, repression of Sexuality, women, empty religious ceremonies, etc. Answer the stirrings of your soul Join the movement to restore the sacred feminine! Help humanity evolve! Do your own evolving, and learn to transform your awareness and consciousness. I suggest anyone interested to read the Gospel of Mary Magdalene(written in 150 A.D.) translated and with commentary by Jean Yves-Leloup. If you want to know the earliest non-sexist self-realization teachings of Yeshua and Mary Magdelene, teachings suppressed for centuries by the controlling, power-hungry sexually-dysfunctional church, you simply must read this book.
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spilkus
I'm in the art world, for Pete's sake.
06:19 PM on 08/03/2010
Its neat that you have found a spiritual path with which you resonate and that you've found a cause that you can champion and prosthelytize about. Good for you.
03:42 PM on 08/04/2010
I just think that for centuries we have been misinformed about the true teachings of these prophets and spiritual masters of the world (Buddha, Jesus, etc) and forced to believe what the priest say to control the masses, and I think that one day soon, people will come to realize that truth, without all of the fire and brimstone dogma that todays preachers go on and on about. Then we'll live happily ever after. lol. We can only realize truth ourselves, because that's where truth lies (Not in the limited perspective of some of todays preachers, popes, priests, and lamas, who "say that if you don't do this you're gonna go to hell,") . I'm not saying I know it all, but I'm learning. Thank you so much for your kind words. Namaste
02:56 AM on 08/03/2010
John Lennon lasted 2 months with the Maharishi.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-512747/Lennon-right-The-Giggling-Guru-shameless-old-fraud.html

The genius of Lennon is sadly missed.
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jeffhrsn
12:18 PM on 08/03/2010
And why, pray tell, is he the yardstick for spiritual awakening?
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Myoho Mod
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01:35 PM on 08/03/2010
George didn't last long either. BUT George became a Hare Krishna til the day he died.
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goldenchoirboy
04:56 PM on 08/03/2010
The Beatles all had their personal reasons for leaving Rishikesh when they did, and they left at different times. But they all reconnected with Maharishi as the years passed (even John), and continued practicing Maharishi's meditation technique. George did TM, along with whatever other interests in had in spiritual teachers, till the end. As Ringo says in his book, he still practices it and remembers his time with Maharishi as one of the best times of his life. Paul and Ringo are big supporters of getting TM in the schools. You can watch both Ringo and Paul in recent video interviews talking about Maharishi and meditation, here http://www.davidlynchfoundation.org/videos.html and here http://www.tm.org/videocafe
02:54 AM on 08/03/2010
Of course we can learn TM by ourselves.
http://www.caic.org.au/eastern/sydda/free-tm.htm

The issue is do we want to?
http://skepdic.com/tm.html
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goldenchoirboy
11:54 AM on 08/04/2010
Actually, Transcendental Meditation can be learned only from a professional, certified teacher, properly trained in the procedures of the Vedic Tradition. This techniuqe of 'effortless transcending' was long lost, even in India, but revived by Maharishi. Even though TM is easy, learning is a delicate process. Correct practice requires personal instruction and gaining a clear understanding. Even if you were able to find a mantra that you believed to be the right one for you (say, via some dubious Internet site like the one you linked to), another issue is how to use the mantra properly to transcend. There are innumerable forms of 'mantra' meditation, but TM is unlike all of them. For more about why learning TM requires personal instruction, I like this: http://meditationasheville.blogspot.com/2008/06/how-to-learn-transcendental-meditation.html If you want a shallow, distorted accessment of TM, the 'skeptics' site linked to above is as 'good' as any. If you want true critical thinking and a more fact-based approach, here's an excellent review of the Skeptics Dictionary on TM: http://skepticsontm.blogspot.com/2009/03/review-skeptics-dictionary.html You can't learn the TM mantras online, because the mantra is much more than just a transliterated sound on a screen. The effectiveness of the way TM has been taught for over 50 years is well established by science and validated in the lives of millions of people who have learned. I feel lucky that I'm one of them.
05:33 PM on 08/07/2010
TM is not "well established by science." Please cite the basis for your claim.

How does TM "validate" the lives of millions? What does "validate" mean in this context?

"There are innumerable forms of 'mantra' meditation, but TM is unlike all of them." Please support your statement with cites and an explanation of how they differ.

I tried it years ago. The instructions in my post were exact to my personal instructions.
My mantra was on the list, corresponding to my age. When I asked how and why is a mantra related to age, I did not get an adequate answer - just some mumbo jumbo. If you know the answer to this cosmic question, please provide it.

Glad it "works" for you.

The reason the giggling guru laughed often was that he knew that he was scamming.
05:49 PM on 08/07/2010
I recall reading that studies of mantra meditation with "coca-cola" produced the same results as TM.

What about levitation, and yogi-flying?

After 50 years one would think that TM, if it truly provides the purported benefits, would be diffused through out the world and offered as a panacea for our social conditions. It has not -- it has been discredited.

Time is not very kind to a pseudoscience.
AlPal3
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10:18 PM on 08/02/2010
It is what it is.
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MaryBethC3
06:33 PM on 08/02/2010
I think the question makes it an either/or when it needn't be. Personally, I have learned so very much from special people in my life who I attracted because they were more spiritually mature than I at the time, or they had some experience in life about something challenging I was now going through. Also, the many books I have read....I have learned so much! I can't imagine being born into the world without the benefit of the wisdom of my spiritual mothers and fathers~~teachers. However, I also think, ultimately, "on our own", is where the real learning happens. It's up to us to personally own what we have learned from the outside~or not.
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Elijah A Alexander Jr
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06:18 PM on 08/02/2010
My experience shows we need a spiritual teacher but inside of ourselves. Civilization teaches us our teachers are all external but spirituality opposes civilization's teachings.

All supposed spiritual teachers suggests it is within while demanding service for those instructions whereas spiritual guides, people having discovered spirituality, will sow their seeds of understanding without expecting any return except an increased understanding. They know spirituality require shedding material comforts and living harmoniously with nature.

Spiritual guides has testimony of growth in their ways, how they evolved from socialism to their paths. They teach "observation, participation and reasoning" are our instructors, meaning we are the subjects of our own experiments, not observing others in theirs. In other words, we educate ourselves through exploring what society disallows making interpreting life events our teacher aided by an internal guide.