Jennifer Finney Boylan is the author of 13 books, including Stuck in the Middle With You, about the differences between motherhood and fatherhood, and She’s Not There: A Life in Two Genders. Both books are published by Crown/Random House. Boylan, the Anna Quindlen Writer in Residence at Barnard College of Columbia University, is national board co-chair of GLAAD and is a member of the board of trustees of the Kinsey Institute for Research on Sex, Gender, and Reproduction. Information on Boylan’s work, and other resources, are available at