This complaint-is-a-gift notion is not one that comes naturally to anyone. None of us like to hear negative feedback. But feedback is the breakfast of champions.
The goal of many dog owners is to be as wonderful as their dogs think they are. Annie Brody's story is one of love, companionship, personal challenges, and heroism. She was every bit as good a best friend to him as he was to her.
The fear of what others might think of us, the fear of failing, the fear of looking foolish or the fear of letting others down -- all these can keep us from taking chances to pursue what we really want.
"Wishing, waiting, and hoping -- that's the language of victims," Cathy asserts. "Those are all passive words. They're not active. If you want things to happen in your life, you have to get moving."
I always said that my work was about service and contribution -- and my mission statement said so, too. But it was only partially true. I did want to help others -- but I often wanted recognition and money even more.
My editors were skeptical when I told them I wanted to ask His Holiness the Dalai Lama for his help, in the form of a foreword for our Buddha book. "That's a real long shot," they said. "Not likely. Who else could you get?"
"You need to come home; Michael's been hurt," the voice on the other end of the phone said. It was my next-door neighbor, her voice frightened, but controlled.