The egregious mis-characterization of Obama's outlook has profound consequences for our nation's well-being. Three areas in particular warrant scrutiny.
Divorce does not have to destroy a child's life; it does not have to destroy their sense of safety, their relationships to either parent, or their chance for a happy, contented childhood or successful adulthood. Divorce is not death.
Since the civil rights era, most Americans would like to believe that public policy is no longer directed at perpetuating racism and, on the contrary, works to ameliorate it where it still exists. But policy instruments remain that deepen ethnic and racial differences.
Lillian made clear when she was younger that she didn't like us being in two houses. But since we knew we had to be in two houses, we tried to our best to make each of them home for her.