Last week, after talking with several Hillary Clinton supporters, I had an epiphany: that which I most dislike about the darker sides of her and her campaign is just what some people see in me. It's the worst feeling, to end up displaying traits you deplore, and I'd like to explore it a bit as we move to the general election.
I have never been as involved nor as invested in a political campaign as I have been this year. I've traveled to distant states, administered caucuses, knocked on doors, set up mixtapes, installed Internet access, raised and donated funds and rallied my wits and my keyboard in promotion and defense of a candidate I feel represents the best realistic shot at a national wake-up call that's long overdue.
Months of cable news and blog coverage later, I know more about superdelegate math, fundraising limits and John King's stupid interactive maps than I ever, ever wanted.
I've read entire biographies, full position papers and engaged in heated but productive conversations about deep policy matters on health care, energy, prisons, agriculture and Iraq. I got smarter.
Stepping down from the media noise machine has been the greatest gift, and in canvassing for Obama, I learned my most valuable lessons: that people are not as stupid nor as simple as their media portrayals, that it's a lot easier to write off entire blocs of voters from the comfort of my living room and that becoming president of a nation with such diverse people and demands as the USA is just short of impossible.
In all that on-the-ground work, I have and will continue to maintain that I've gotten much more out of this process than Obama has out of my work on his behalf. My level of involvement has allowed me to see the impact and power of citizen-initiated action when paired with technology, inspiration and urgent need. I've met some truly amazing people who've sacrificed even more than I. I've grown as a writer, a citizen and a human being.
At the other end of the spectrum, however, I have felt driven to lash out in ways that expose the limits of my own ability to communicate.
I never set out to hate Hillary Clinton or her supporters. I never thought I'd consider a vote for John McCain. I never thought I'd even jokingly threaten to burn down the city of Denver (sorry yall!). But that's exactly what I felt driven to at many moments during this season. Despite the positive lessons I learned, I have not always been able to take that high road.
At the heart of my own anger lay a sense of betrayal, paranoia and a feeling that I was trapped by a family I once held in high esteem and a media that denied the validity of my experience.
It began in January, shortly after Obama's Iowa victory. Many of us Obama supporters, especially black folks, were euphoric about his win in that state. On CNN I stated, "I felt like I won," after seeing the results come in. With that one victory, the world shook for a moment, and I could actually see new, previously unimaginable possibilities for the future.
Within weeks, however, a troubling pattern began to emerge from the Clinton campaign. It was as if the Iowa loss set off an explosion on a snowy mountain, and a political avalanche was unleashed. Obama was accused of being a potential drug dealer, secret Muslim, "cool black guy" and other derogatory things usually tied to his race.
When many of us black folks began pointing out these incidents, we were told that nothing nefarious was afoot, that we must be imagining it. There was little to no mainstream media coverage of what we were seeing. As any one who has been oppressed knows, the only thing worse than the oppression is the denial of that oppression by others, so we at JJP set up the Clinton Attacks Obama wiki in an effort to convince ourselves we weren't crazy and show the world, in a documented fashion, what distressed us.
Then came South Carolina. The black vote, which had been reliably behind Clinton, looked certain to move to Obama after his strong showings in Iowa and New Hampshire. Rather than stress the positive Clinton brand (if not results) among black voters, the Clintons decided to minimize the black vote and Obama's pending victory. There were the MLK comments and Bill Clinton's comparison of Obama to Jackson was the statement that finally put the media on to what many of us were seeing. The Clinton's star had fallen tragically and unnecessarily among black people.
It was in this environment that Jack & Jill Politics really got traction. Despite having been around since the summer of 2006, our traffic truly began to grow when we started articulating this growing sense of frustration and panic over the "color arousal" tactics and code-word-laden decisions of the Clinton campaign. In many ways, we just happened to be in the right place-time and shared a sense of mission with other black political blogs like African American Political Pundit and Field Negro, among many others.
Many new readers came here and found that they were not alone. The feeling was one of relief. It reminded me of finding that one other black kid in the white school. Even if you didn't talk, you could occasionally exchange knowing glances or a head nod when the teacher or a student said something racist.
Over the next months, the situation escalated. Geraldine Ferraro called Obama the affirmative action candidate. Clinton campaign officials sowed dangerous seeds of discord between black and Latino constituencies. And of course, there was Reverend Wright.
In most of these instances, I saw two battles. One was with a media ill-prepared to moderate a national discussion on race at any point, much less during a presidential election. Most of these organizations were unable to competently guide us through the decision to invade a country, so my expectations of their understanding of the black experience were low, and they met those expectations well.
But what came as a shock, yes an actual shock, to me was to witness Hillary Clinton and her campaign, time and again, join in the ugliness. From "he wouldn't have been my pastor" to "he's an out of touch elite" to "he only has two years of experience" to "he's not a muslim as far as I know," I was repeatedly disappointed by the decisions she and her campaign made. Each one seemed designed, not just to win, not just to hurt the other candidate, but to attack the very people who, through the darkest of hours, had stood by the Clinton family in the past.
As has been pointed out in the comments and as I've written before, I was so disappointed because this candidate, with all her brand name, money, establishment support and built-in advantages, so often rushed to the gutter for combat strategy.
After all this, we began hearing "well, it doesn't matter" and "blacks will vote for Hillary in the end," and that's when I really actually snapped. After that, the issue moved beyond what Hillary was saying to why so many so-called Democratic leaders sat idly by, doing nothing. It moved to black superdelegates who not only bucked the overwhelming will of their constituencies, but did so in the face of clear, undeniable and unnecessary racially charged tactics that undermined not just Obama but, as fellow blogger rikyrah has so perfectly put it, "any black politician with aspirations higher than a gerrymandered Congressional seat."
Most importantly, it became a test of the relationship between black voters and a Democratic party which for decades could rely on this demographic's loyalty beyond all others, despite the spotty record of actual results.
Hillary and Obama were the actors, but the play was much, much bigger than them.
Once this bridge was crossed, I fell into a heightened state of battle, and I saw everything through this lens. I became obsessed and I often became nasty. I found a community at JJP that often felt exactly as I did, and we supported each other in our justified outrage and incredulity.
So the name-calling escalated: Ice Queen, Borg Queen, Tonya Harding, and beyond. Many of these terms were used in jest. All were used out of frustration and a sense of absurd, tragic comedy. As Hillary escalated her claims and false calculations (Michigan, Florida, popular vote, sniper fire, Obama voters as delusional), there was very little room left for me to escalate on top of that. I was fueled by anger and sometimes hate. Proud of me Yoda would not have been.
Here's what I didn't realize. All the while I and many Obama supporters here were going through our trauma, many, but not all, Hillary supporters experienced their own version of the same.
While I haven't found evidence of Obama or his campaign being involved, it is clear that the media handled gender about as ignorantly and dangerously as it handled race. How else can you explain the comparisons to Hillary as your wife in probate court or a nagging mother? Why else would it be acceptable to compare Obama's "weakness" in military aggression to his "feminine" ways?
The hard part is that a) Hillary has often used the reality of sexism to shield herself from legitimate attacks, and b) by pretending this was a "horse race" for so long I believe the media helped her candidacy far more than it hurt it. She was given multiple stays of execution though she mathematically lost back in March.
Still, that doesn't mean the illegitimate media attacks didn't exist and broadly.
Many supporters saw the attacks on Hillary as more than that. They were saw them as attacks on women, and so, many women who might have been on the fence or only tepid Clinton supporters rushed to her in defense of themselves and their daughters, mothers and sisters. They may have seen the desperation in many of her tactics, but they also saw themselves under siege and could excuse much of that behavior as necessary to wage this worthy battle. (True, all of these supporters didn't rush to Michelle Obama's defense as she's been dragged through the fire, but again, we're not all perfect, and that's not an excuse).
I spent hours and days even, researching all the race-baiting and ugliness going on in the media and among Clinton folks, but I never bothered to try to find out what was driving some of Hillary's staunchest supporters.
That's not quite right. I found some justifications, but the most visible ones were easy to eliminate. I don't give any weight to "Obama is a muslim who will give all our money to Africa" or "Obama stole this from Hillary" wing of Clinton supporters. But I did completely miss the experience of Clinton-supporting women who wretched at the statements of Chris Matthews and others.
In hindsight, this was a failure on my part.
Here's a video that describes some of the incidents I know I missed:
I love the part of this job that involves policy research and genuine arguments about the future. I love the biting and satirical edge many of the posts here use. I love the raw honesty that lives here for a people who are too often told their experience doesn't matter. However, I know from experience that I caused collateral damage with the tone of many of my personality-driven posts and that my own failure to try understanding the experience of those I disagreed with did me few favors.
The sad part is that I had the model right there in front of me in two forms. The first was my own experience in canvassing, where you just can't start screaming at somebody when you're on their property. The second model is Obama himself. He has largely conducted himself and his campaign with admirable grace throughout even the hottest moments in this contest. I should have just asked, "What would Obama do?"
So that's the situation I find myself in now, wondering and watching, "what would Obama do?" And I see the same steady, confident and open attitude that drew me to his candidacy in the first place. His people are talking to Clinton people (because "we shouldn't negotiate out of fear, but we should never fear to negotiate"), and discussions are under way about debt retirement, campaign staffing and even cabinet positions.
I don't know how much credibility I have among the most intractable of Clinton supporters, but I know that my own inflammatory attacks against Clinton are useless and probably counterproductive at this point. I know that I'm interested in having this conversation beyond the group of people who already know where I'm coming from because it's those conversations that will help the healing process even if forgiveness is hard or impossible to come by.
This post is not a blanket apology for what this blog has become and my part in it. That's not at all what I'm saying. What we have here has grown into a truly amazing community of people fired up about much more than Obama, and I wouldn't change that for anything.
I'll always call out wrong where I see it, and I'm not saying a simple kiss and make-up will undo the damage that has been wrought. As CPL mentioned in a recent post, I think both the Clintons need to make a Herculean effort to begin the healing process. Whether by attacking MoveOn.org or dismissing the votes of entire caucus states or her remarks about RFK's assassination, the damage resulting from many of their tactics will not simply disappear without effort. As Ricky Ricardo would say, "they got some 'splainin to do," and I know I'll never look at them the same.
However, I think Obama and all of his supporters also have work to do, not in wiping the slate clean with Hillary Clinton but in really trying to understand the experience of reasonable Hillary supporters who felt they had to defend her because they were defending something much larger than her. As with all things large, we can start small. I started by talking to actual Clinton supporters I knew, and I urge any pro-Obama folk out there to do the same.
I've been making small changes to this post based on some comments from the Jack & Jill Politics fam, and I wanted to add one other point. If we are to actually succeed in changing this country, beyond the election of this particular politician, we (all people) need to at least try to see the world from the perspective of those we disagree with. Often such attempts will not be rewarded, but the attempt will reach some and, if nothing else, it will give us confidence that we've done everything possible to move forward.
I'm trying again to be the change I want to see.
Forever fired up!
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Baratunde Thurston is a conscious comic and vigilante pundit. He has volunteered extensively for Barack Obama and writes as "Jack Turner" at the black political blog Jack & Jill Politics. Those interested in following this discussion should check out the comments on this article over there.
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But let me be clear, their WAS an expectation of something better in this primary, and Clinton DID disappoint. But the truth is, that's the way I like it. That's why I supported Clinton. She's my kind of politician. She's not a wallflower Democrat like most are, unable to strongly and convincingly support their own positions. The "kitchen sink" strategy? Nothing more than something every politician should be prepared to defend against, which it appears Obama did. Credit to him for it. But to cry fould that it actually happened? Without sounding too rude, the children who ran to Mom to bawl about the tactics of the game should have known better that this is how it's played. This is an R-rated area of American life. If it makes you uncomfortable, then maybe you should reconsider your involvement.
This fiftyish white guy is chastened by the words that you so aptly used to illustrate how too over emotionally involved in political fights. I too have overdone and have been hateful, which has reflected poorly on who I thought I was. Thanks for letting me get it from you, I salute you!
Stop the hating!
I am a proud Obama supporter and I DO NOT like Hillary. That being said, there are many that are proud Hillary supporters and DO NOT like Obama. We all know this. I would have voted for Hillary had she won the nomination, no matter how much I personally don't like her as a person (or at least the public persona). A lot of the hate in this campaign has come from both sides on the comment boards. Depending on who you support, you're going to view this campaign differently and neither side will agree to the other. That being said, Obama has clinched the nomination and we NEED to keep John McCain out of the White House. Both sides NEED each other and we have to put our personal feelings aside and do what's best for the COUNTRY. It's the Supreme Court! If nothing else, think of your future or current daughters and granddaughters, and how their rights will be effected if McCain is in the big house.
UNITY 08.
Finally a young black male journalist who freely admits he and his pals egged on these type comments has arrived to explain how women may have feelings too! We women are so lucky that a male has arrived to make our outrage worthy of being considered.!
I've often quoted Shirley Chisholm who said, "Of my two 'handicaps' being female put more obstacles in my path than being black." She also said, "Racism is so universal in this country... that it is invisible because it is so normal." I would suggest that sexism is, still, as invisible because it is so normal.
I voted for Clinton because I thought she was the stronger candidate She was not. Obama is the leader we need and the face we must show to the world. But so often I feel compelled to defend a candidate I no longer entirely respect because of personal antipathy to comments about her (and, sometimes, yes, I feel "a sense of betrayal.. and a feeling that I was trapped by a family I once held in high esteem").
I thank you for your article, Mr. Thurston. Obama is our nominee and it's time to get behind this good man. I hope enough hurt feelings will heal to do what we all know needs to be done -- the taking back our country.
Hillary and her supporters must do some introspection and take responsibility for the things that her campaign just simply got all wrong. Such as inevitability, poor money management, poor post-Super Tuesday strategy, Bosnia, NAFTA, Bill Clinton/Mark Penn/Colombian Govt, Gas Tax Holiday, Iraq War vote, and so on.
Bittergate & Rev. Wright got way more media coverage.... Am I wrong on that?
And yes, she got much easier treatment, and her suporters saw a lot of nothing as sexism and called every honest occurence of racism "Obama playing the race card" when a) Obama never mention it, and b) it was a real racially bigoted comment or action.
But it really is an issue not of race or gender but of social experience. Basically it comes down to, outside of more important policy and character issues, the inability of the dominant or controlling social dynamic (white people) to comprehend the real griefs and slights of the rest.
Widely generalized, instead of looking for rational discourse about why every black woman believed (rightly, according to every study) that racism was more than an exponentially worse and more crippling problem to overcome than sexism, a bunch of the older white women supporting Hillary literally blew off the views of those who were best equipped to know which was worse because "they're just blacks, they don't REALLY know what we suffer."
And they're right. Anybody who has suffered far worse consistently can't truly comprehend how tremendous the minor pervasive sufferings of others accustomed to being priveleged can feel to them. But it's hard to remain civilized (obviously I don't even try) when people are honestly just being cry-babies and victims and bigots.
1.) Are Hillary supporters upset with Obama because he didn't speak out against the sexism in the media?
2.) On the other hand, could Hillary have done more to speak out against voters in TN, WV, KY and so on who blatantly said that they wouldn't vote for Obama because of his race?
3.) Should Obama have done a speech on sexism? Would they have been "just words"?
4.) Did Hillary sort of invite the undue scrutiny of her sex because she constantly talked about how historic her candidacy was because she was a woman, and she made direct appeals to women voters based on their shared identities?
5.) Did her sex have anything to do with the fact that she didn't have a strategy or money to compete beyond Super Tuesday, and consequently conceded 12 primaries and caucuses in a row?
6.) And didn't those string of losses make it impossible to ever catch Obama in the delegate count?
Obama got waaayyy more negative media coverage for "bittergate" and Rev. Wright, than ALL of Hillary's gaffes combined!
But there's been that nagging itch-- sexist slurs and innuendos by the media, even the "good" media such as the Gray Lady, inflamed in me such a rash of feelings I was driven stark mad. I didn't want her for president anymore, but I also didn't want to see her demise occur for sexist reasons. In the end, I agree with you: she and her people made such bad decisions it was clear she did herself in. And how could they continue to slur the long--supportive African Americans' constituency? Maddening! But that damned itch.
FINALLY someone has articulated this issue clearly. We can read it both in black and white AND yen and yang. Thanks for calling for us ALL to listen attentively to what's on our opponents' minds as a people. You're wrong on one count: possible rewards for listening: greater understanding among the populace...and more Rebublicans' support for Obama in November.
I hear about it all the time here and I believed it was in the media but you just don't know how bad it is until you see it.
Was I too surprised that most of those clips were from Fox News or conservative programs/commentators, though? No. Is Chris Matthews lonely or something? You can be polite without being inappropriate.