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A Refresher Course on the Etiquette of Booing, Part II: When Booing is Right

Posted: 06/08/2012 1:00 pm

A shower of sports crowd hisses and jeers can sometimes be a good thing. Indeed, it is upon occasion absolutely required of the responsible fan. On an individual basis.

The genesis of these articles was the reception given to Laker Metta World Peace on his first Oklahoma City appearance after elbowing the Thunder's James Harden. Just like that, the former Artest again became a poster child for unsportsmanlike behavior, which tops the list of things it is acceptable to boo.

1) Booing poor conduct and cheap shots is more than accepted -- it is encouraged. Today's star athletes have generally been able to get away with anything from the first moment that they showed exceptional talent as children. Too many coaches at all levels look the other way in pursuit of victories. And then we're surprised when millionaire professional athletes turn into maladjusted narcissists.

If people would boo the spoiled-rotten star running back in 7th grade, he might not end up in jail at 25. Most sports fans are happy to boo the bad hit -- when the other guy makes it. How about booing the local hero when he/she deserves it?

2) Cheating. Surely there is nothing worse in sports. (Short of a Bounty Gate that is so despicable as to be criminal -- and will undoubtedly in fact be officially criminal before all is done.)

Shame on Major League Baseball for banning the asterisks campaigns against Barry Bonds. That was an honest expression of fan disgust over what many believe to be one of the most egregiously unethical periods in the history of modern athletics. Cheering cheaters is anathema to sports. "Calling them on it" with crowd noise is a watchdog responsibility. Plus, it allows us to scratch that booing itch without being unsportsmanlike ourselves. It's a double win!

3) Off-the-field anti-social behavior. Sometimes schools and leagues discipline their own; sometimes they don't. If we don't want perpetrators of domestic violence, assault and public endangerment to be paid huge salaries while entertaining our families, then we have to embarrass them on the field of play. Home and visiting players alike bring this upon themselves.

Again, it's a chance to indulge in catharsis with a social conscience. When university or team economics turn a blind eye, we don't have to. This principle extends to any infractions for which normal people would lose their jobs. Or for being just plain tacky or even lacking any sense of fan appreciation. Let 'em have it.

4) Sitting politicians. They are even worse than professional athletes when it comes to being insulated from the consequences of their actions. So, boo away. Their position in public life is voluntary. Besides, if others in the stands wish to cheer them, they can make it their job to drown you out as everyone exercises the right to free speech -- or hiss as the case may be.

Note: The same does not apply to political spouses, family members or retired politicians appearing on behalf of any charitable or social cause. If they throw out the first pitch because they are promoting their new book, go for it. If they are there to support the veterans, zip it.

5) Owners. Probably not really fair on a human decency basis, but if you have the ego to put your face on a franchise you should probably be able to take what comes with it. (Virginia McCaskey is, of course, an exception unless you like screaming at little old ladies.)

6) Coaches. This is, ultimately, a matter of individual conscience. One hates to envision their kids getting teased in school. But since I have had my share of "My Fair Lady at the races" moments yelling at coaches I should probably take the fifth.

7) Current broadcaster who is a member of a former hated rival. Fair game -- they expect it.

8) Officials. Surely they consider this part of their job, right? Further, home crowds have the psychological advantage over the officials because it's been scientifically determined that they do tend a bit towards wanting to please the folks in the stands. So, heck yeah.

9) Cheerleaders. Amateur cheering can be a true athletic show in its own right. But there is something a little too "Mad Men" about a grown woman who takes money to dress like a stripper and behave as if her function in life is to jump around like an idiot celebrating the achievements of men she doesn't know. (In the interests of full disclosure I must confess that I do this -- but I am fully clothed and unpaid. And in my living room.)

10) Is it acceptable to boo if the protest is creative? A true dilemma. One has to admire the ingenuity of the fans who threw frozen waffles onto the ice to express displeasure with their Toronto Maple Leafs. Now that was funny. Once. Repeated performances started to mess with the players' heads.

11) Taking liberties with the National Anthem. Please, please boo people who insist on inserting extra notes, glissades, vibratos and general nonsense into this song. It's hard enough to sing and few enough people sing it well. Don't make it worse. And, just in case any of his representatives are considering this, if Ozzy Osbourne is booked to open any sporting even in this country I will personally fly in and lead the chorus of boos.

Bottom line, if you can easily explain to a six year old why you booed someone and the reason isn't, "Cause we hate the Giants' freaking guts," you are probably on safe ethical ground.

As for Mr. World Peace, he is apparently taking his medicine in stride:

"There's a lot of great-looking women in the stands booing," World Peace said, prompting a female Thunder employee recording the interview to roll her eyes. "I'm like 'Wow, you are beautiful.'"

Whatever gets you through the night, dude.

See Part I: When Booing is Wrong.

 

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A shower of sports crowd hisses and jeers can sometimes be a good thing. Indeed, it is upon occasion absolutely required of the responsible fan. On an individual basis. The genesis of these articles...
A shower of sports crowd hisses and jeers can sometimes be a good thing. Indeed, it is upon occasion absolutely required of the responsible fan. On an individual basis. The genesis of these articles...
 
 
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06:59 AM on 06/15/2012
I enjoyed your tongue-in-cheek take on when it's acceptable, even encouraged, to give the ol' Bronx cheer.
Messing up the National Anthem is one of my pet peeves, too.
I reserve the right to boo anything connected with the Dallas Cowboys!
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08:23 PM on 06/15/2012
The Dallas Cowboys -- do you think it would be acceptable for me to renig on everything I said in the first article about booing the opponent and say that the Cowboys are an exception???
Tempting, isn't it?

Thanks for reading and the compliment.
12:15 AM on 06/11/2012
If you were a true sports fanatic, you'd understand that booing has nothing to do with etiquette or manners, but rather passion and loyalty.
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09:02 PM on 06/11/2012
No it does not. It has to do with the safety of being mean while shielded by a mob.
That said, you see that I do, upon occasion, fall in with the mob and partake.
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03:12 PM on 06/08/2012
Once again, we disagree substantially:

1. Yes.
2. Yes again, but assuming that the fan knows cheating from trickery. There's a difference and some fans don't understand that just because something is unorthodox doesn't mean that it's cheating.
3. Do you believe everything that you read...especially concerning public figures like athletes? Until the jury reaches a verdict, judge not lest ye be judged.
4. Is calling the President of the United States a liar during the State of the Union OK with you? When does civility and respect trump a private opinion expressed in public? Always? Ever?
5. As a former Brooklyn Dodger fan, I'm a firm believer that booing owners is mandatory.
6. Yes.
7. Didn't you say in Part 1 that you shouldn't boo players who take advantage of free agency? Why are broadcasters different?
8. Yes.
9. It is NEVER proper to boo pretty women bouncing around in scanty clothing. NEVER. The practice is to be encouraged.
10. Are you saying that it's OK for fans to boo other fans? Of course it is. Especially if you're both drunk and have brought your young children with you.
11. No. No. No. You NEVER boo the National Anthem for any reason. Burn the singer's records - as if there were such things as records any more. Attack them on Twitter. Whatever. But DON'T boo the National Anthem. EVER. Period.
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05:39 PM on 06/08/2012
Thanks for reading Part II even though you disagree!
2. good point
3. innocent until proven guilty is a legal definition, not social - perhaps unfair but it is not the same thing. And even if something is not criminal it can be anti-social. Odd that you think it's okay to judge and boo on the basis of jersey color but not behavior.
4. The liar comment in Congress - very tacky and I don't consider it acceptable. But it isn't against the law. I would defend the person's right to do it - even though I think it's classless. I personally would not boo the President out of respect for the office. But this is the ugly side of democracy and they must expect to hear what their constituents think. It's the rules of America. And citizens expressing their opinion is different from booing an athlete.
5. I'm glad to hear you strongly come out in favor of owner booing - I sort of thought that might be a grey area :)
6. Because they aren't playing anymore. They are no longer athletes endangering themselves for our entertainment. And most of the time, booing a sportscaster is done with a sense of humor.
9. What can I say? LOL
11. Interesting. I see your point about not booing the anthem. I would never boo the anthem. I support booing of butchering the anthem.

Thanks!
02:17 PM on 06/08/2012
I, like all real fans, will boo whenever we want to. I suggest you direct your future writing to the hold-your-fork-in-the-proper-manner crowd.
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05:39 PM on 06/08/2012
I, like all real fans, will comment whenever I want to. But I thank you for reading it - even though you disagree.