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Barbara Greenberg is a clinical psychologist specializing in the treatment of children, teens and parents. She is the Adolescent Consultant for Silver Hill Hospital in New Canaan, CT. Dr. Greenberg frequently appears on national TV including shows such as ABC Good Morning America, Nightline and CNN. She is a parenting expert for GalTime -an online womens' magazine and is also The Teen Doctor for Psychology Today.

Visit her at her website.

Dr.Greenberg is also the author of 10 new e-books about raising teens which will make you laugh and learn. http://www.scribd.com/BarbaraGreenbergPhD

Entries by Barbara Greenberg

5 Ways to Deal With the College Kids Coming Home

(0) Comments | Posted December 16, 2014 | 11:52 AM

It's that remarkable time of year parents of college kids have been looking forward to with excitement and just a little bit of trepidation. While we can't wait to see our kids when they are home for holiday vacation, we are also not exactly clear what to expect, how they've...

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8 Ways to Raise Kids With Grit

(6) Comments | Posted December 10, 2014 | 2:39 PM

I've been working with kids and their parents for over three decades. It seems clear to me that while parents are becoming increasingly involved in their kids' lives there may be a counterproductive side to this trend. I am certainly not implying that parents are intentionally doing anything wrong. I...

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Is There An Upside to Bullying or Exclusion?

(0) Comments | Posted December 1, 2014 | 5:03 PM

I remember how in 7th grade, I would frantically chase after M.T., hoping that she would let me join her and her friends during recess. Something had changed during the preceding few weeks. I used to be a welcome and happy member of her little clique. Now, I was clearly...

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Is The Stepdaughter-Stepmother Relationship Doomed?

(0) Comments | Posted November 17, 2014 | 4:51 PM

Hi Dr.G,

I'm a 17-year-old female and nearing the end of my life as a child. My parents have been divorced for about four years now, which is for the better, but a year ago, my father married a woman I cannot bear to be around. She has no personality,...

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An Open Letter to Teens About Your Future High School Reunion

(0) Comments | Posted November 11, 2014 | 5:46 PM

Dear Teens of All Ages,

I work with you while you are teens and try to make high school, middle school and all of the accompanying stressors easier to deal with. I work with you on issues that are going on in the moment, because that is precisely what is...

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One Mother Wonders, 'Can There Be Love Without Sex?'

(0) Comments | Posted November 3, 2014 | 2:29 PM

Dear Dr. G.,

I think I may be making a fool of myself here, but I need your input. I'm wondering if every time someone says that they are in love that that means they are involved in a sexual relationship. I'm almost scared to hear the answer.

Here is...

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How the Judge Wrecked My Perfect Divorce Day

(150) Comments | Posted October 23, 2014 | 5:05 PM

I went into this marriage 17 years ago with the best of intentions. My now former spouse had similarly good intentions as far as I know. Hey, nobody goes into a marriage hoping for a divorce;right? Nonetheless, the seeds for divorce are planted on the same day that you say...

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When Should Kids Start Dating?

(0) Comments | Posted October 20, 2014 | 5:58 PM

Dear Dr. G.,

The time that I've dreaded has just arrived. My 12-yea- old daughter has asked me when she can start dating. I wasn't allowed to date until I was 18 because I had very strict parents. I didn't sneak around and date either, because I didn't want to...

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Sexy Tween and Teen Halloween Costumes? Let's Talk

(3) Comments | Posted October 15, 2014 | 4:26 PM

Halloween is almost here and I've had costumes, not candy, on my mind. Lots of parents have been asking me about the appropriateness of sexy costumes for their tween and teen daughters and I would like to address that with you today. I've been perusing the party stores and costume...

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High School Reunion

(0) Comments | Posted October 8, 2014 | 9:06 PM

My high school reunion is coming up in just about one month. Am I nervous? Not really. Since high school, I've matured, become a clinical psychologist and, in fact, have become somewhat of a media go-to person. I've changed. I'm not quite as quiet anymore. I'm not quite as private...

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My Mother Is More Popular Than Me

(0) Comments | Posted October 1, 2014 | 3:58 PM

Dear Dr. G.,

You might think that this is a weird question, but it has been bothering me for over two years since I started high school. By the way, I am a 16-year-old girl in my junior year of high school.
My problem is my mother. Usually I...

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10 Secrets Your Teens Want You to Know But Won't Tell You

(4) Comments | Posted September 26, 2014 | 3:23 PM

I have been talking to your teens for over two decades. Even though trends and styles may change, teens still have the same concerns and the same secrets that they would like you to know, but just don't feel comfortable telling you. Sharing concerns remains so non-teenage. That's where I...

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The Case Against Straight A's

(0) Comments | Posted September 16, 2014 | 4:36 PM

So, your teens are about three weeks into their school year by now and they are hustling. Let me tell you what they are hustling for. They are trying to keep up with their schoolwork, maintain friendships, keep up with their social activities and maintain their composure at the same...

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Everything You Need To Know About Teens and Sports

(2) Comments | Posted September 9, 2014 | 5:00 PM

High school has started for teens all over the country, and parents and teens are grappling with all sorts of issues around playing team sports. I know parents deal with all sorts of questions ranging from "should I call the coach?" to "should I let my kid quit the team?"...

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Helping Your Teens With Back-To-School Anxiety

(0) Comments | Posted September 4, 2014 | 7:21 PM

Remember those knots in the stomach, those headaches and those fears that you'd have no one to sit with at lunch at school? Yep. You remember. I feel your collective nod. None of us forget our back-to-school anxiety. I'm afraid, however, that we forget about the anxiety that our teens...

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5 Lessons About Parenting From the Movie Boyhood

(3) Comments | Posted August 26, 2014 | 3:28 PM

It's rare that I see a movie that brings me to tears. It even more rare for me to sit through a movie that is over two hours long and for me to remain riveted and on the edge of my chair. That's why I was so surprised that the...

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5 Things Not to Say to Parents of an Only Child

(10) Comments | Posted August 21, 2014 | 5:47 PM

I would like to start by saying that I have always had difficulty wrapping my head around the term "only child." You may have one child or a single child, but "only child" has a negative connotation; right? Those of us who have decided to have a single child or...

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Helping Your Teens Deal With 'Text Break-Ups'

(0) Comments | Posted August 15, 2014 | 5:31 PM

Dear Dr. G.,

I am an 18-year-old girl and I am going to college in three weeks. My boyfriend of nine months is going to a different college but I hoped that we were going to continue our relationship. Well, guess what happened yesterday. My boyfriend, who we can call...

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6 Daily Irritations We Don't Talk About

(15) Comments | Posted August 14, 2014 | 6:31 AM

In my practice as a clinical psychologist, as an observer of people and as a participant in everyday life I am aware of what makes people tick. I am aware of what makes you brighten up and have those pleasurable magic moments. I am also painfully aware of those little...

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10 Questions Your Daughters Should Be Asking

(0) Comments | Posted August 11, 2014 | 6:13 PM

Hi Parents,

It's Dr. Barbara here and I'm back with more information about your lovely young daughters. Once again, I am concerned that they are not taking good enough care of themselves, and you know how much that hurts me. I see an opportunity for you to intervene here and...

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