Bella DePaulo is the author of Singled Out: How Singles are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever After (St. Martin’s Press, 2006). You can read more about it at http://www.belladepaulo.com/singledout.htm.

She also writes the Living Single blog for Psychology Today.

In contributions to Alternet, and to the op-ed pages of Newsday, the San Francisco Chronicle, the Chronicle of Higher Education, and the New York Times, DePaulo has written about the place of singles in contemporary American society. She is a social psychologist (Ph.D., Harvard, 1979) who has published scientific papers on singlehood in professional journals.

Bella DePaulo is also an expert on the social psychology of deceiving and detecting deceit. She discussed her deception research on the Today show and on Anderson Cooper 360, and in previous years, on other programs such as NBC Nightly News, and the ABC and CBS morning shows.

DePaulo lives in Summerland, CA. For more information, visit her website at www.belladepaulo.com.

Blog Entries by Bella DePaulo

"Avoid Marriage," Advises Atlantic Writer

8 Comments | Posted June 26, 2009 | 06:22 AM (EST)


The Atlantic magazine has peddled its share of misguided matrimania and scolding of singles - both mothers and others - but not this month. Just look at this tease for a story by Sandra Tsing Loh: "The author is ending her marriage. Isn't it time you...

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For the Love of Blogging

Posted June 19, 2009 | 05:49 AM (EST)


When I first started blogging - more than a year ago at Psychology Today, and three years ago here at the Huffington Post -- I never imagined that it would become one of my favorite things to do. But I do (mostly) love it. Let me count the...

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More about Sonia Sotomayor, From Someone Who Knew Her at Yale

8 Comments | Posted May 26, 2009 | 09:05 PM (EST)


One of my collaborators in the study of people who are single and the place of friendship in their lives and all of our lives is a law professor, Rachel Moran. So as soon as I heard that Sonia Sotomayor was Obama's Supreme Court nominee, I...

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Susan Boyle: Lessons We Still Haven't Learned

16 Comments | Posted April 17, 2009 | 07:08 AM (EST)


Count me among the multitudes of the charmed. I, too, loved the story of the woman who walked on stage to the sound of snickering, only to shock and wow them all with the sound of her music. I heart Susan Boyle.

I've also been intrigued by the...

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Marriage Wars: The Real Fight is Over Moral Superiority

22 Comments | Posted April 12, 2009 | 04:12 PM (EST)


Have you seen the "Gathering Storm" ad? It is the latest from the anti-gay marriage machine. Set against a gray, lightening-pocked, ominous background, it begins with the words: "There's a storm gathering. The clouds are dark and the winds are strong and I am afraid." It continues with one...

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USA Today Reporter Responds to Blog Post

Posted February 24, 2009 | 05:23 PM (EST)


Last week, when USA Today ran a story titled, "Federally funded ad campaign holds up value of marriage," I immediately blogged about it here. The person who wrote that story, Sharon Jayson, called yesterday to talk to me about my post. So the first thing I want to...

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Promoting Marriage-Promotion with Dubious Scientific Claims: USA Today's Feature Story

Posted February 19, 2009 | 01:45 AM (EST)


USA Today is very excited about marriage. Splashed across the front page of the Health and Behavior section, set off by a colorful illustration, was this pom-pom raising headline: "Federally funded ad campaign holds up value of marriage."

You read that right - federal funds are being used in...

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Get Married, Live Longer? It's a Myth

Posted February 10, 2009 | 05:17 PM (EST)


Here's another myth about getting married that just won't die. Recently, the Washington Post teased its Valentine's Day story with this online headline: "Want to live longer? Try marriage."
Well, that's not exactly true. In fact, there is some evidence that people who stay single live as...

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The Unmarried Electorate: 60% Obama, 33% McCain

Posted October 26, 2008 | 06:12 AM (EST)


Want to see a landslide of truly historic proportions? Come November 4, 2008, let single people rule! Registered voters who are unmarried (divorced, widowed, or have always been single) favor Obama over McCain, 60% to 33%. Married people, in contrast, favor McCain, 50% to 43%.

But where is...

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What's With the Cat, and Other Questions about Singles and Their Pets

Posted October 22, 2008 | 05:31 AM (EST)


One time, a publication that interviewed me about Singled Out sent someone to take a picture of me at home. The photographer asked what my book was about, then stopped for a moment to think about how to set up the shot. Looking like he had just been struck...

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It's Singles Week - Someone Tell Newsweek There Are 100 Million of Us and We Vote

Posted September 22, 2008 | 01:13 AM (EST)


This week, September 21-27, is National Singles Week. If you think it is unnecessary to do a bit of consciousness-raising about people who are single - especially in their role as single voters - then consider recent issues of Newsweek and Time.

The September 22 issue of Newsweek...

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Like Your Time Alone? Then This Post is For You

Posted August 21, 2008 | 03:21 PM (EST)


I live in the most ordinary American household - I live alone. Knock on any door in the nation and you are more likely to find a household like mine than a household with mom, dad, and the kids, or a household with a married couple and no kids, or...

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John McCain as a Hood Ornament

Posted August 19, 2008 | 07:14 AM (EST)


The New York Times has William Kristol on its opinion page, and the Wall Street Journal now has Thomas Frank. What Kristol writes could be called scholarship only if Mary Matalin got to define the term; with Frank, his work is the real thing.

In a recent WSJ column,...

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True or False: Married People Healthiest, but Singles Catching Up

Posted August 16, 2008 | 02:13 AM (EST)


"Married adults report better health, but singles are catching up," proclaimed one of the many headlines touting the latest marital status study to make it into the media spotlight.

I'll give you my bottom line about this study first. Then I'll explain in greater detail.

BOTTOM LINE

Here's...

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BBC Claims Singles Are at Risk for Alzheimer's; I Think the BBC is Losing Its Mind

Posted August 1, 2008 | 05:17 AM (EST)


Say it ain't so, BBC! Did you really report the singles-bashing headline, "Singles face Alzheimer's risk"? I'd only call it singles-bashing if this turned out to be still another matrimanical scare story, with little basis in science. So let me explain, BBC, why even you have been mugged by...

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Paula Jones and Impeaching Bush: Equally Amusing Sideshows to CNN's Tom Foreman

Posted June 15, 2008 | 06:51 AM (EST)


Earlier this week, The Raw Story expressed exasperation at the MSM non-coverage of an impeachment story under the headline, "Mainstream Media Yawns as Kucinich Offers Impeachment." A yawn may look pretty good to Raw Story around now. On CNN's This Week in Politics, Tom Foreman demoted the news to...

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Single Boomers: Marketing Myths and Mistakes

Posted June 13, 2008 | 05:23 AM (EST)


One of the most significant demographic trends over the past half-century is the ascendence of people who are single. They have the power of numbers -- as a proportion of the adult population, they are closing in on people who are married. As householders, their place is dramatically different...

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Full-Page "Women Count" Ad for Hillary Excludes 28 Million Women

Posted May 24, 2008 | 05:29 AM (EST)


"We are the women of this nation," declared the ad that filled a full page of the New York Times and USA Today. "Hillary is OUR voice, and she is speaking for all of us."

I had heard about this ad, but I hadn't read it until sociologist

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Just in Time for Wedding Season: Love and Romance Break Free of their Contemporary Moorings

Posted May 11, 2008 | 09:37 PM (EST)


A few weeks ago, Ted Sorensen - husband, father, and renowned speechwriter for President John F. Kennedy - was interviewed by Deborah Solomon of the New York Times. Consider this excerpt:

NY Times: "Was your working relationship with J.F.K. the great love affair of your life?"

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Anyone Want a Few Million More Votes?

Posted May 5, 2008 | 02:56 PM (EST)


They are a Democratic candidate's demographic dream:

• Already, there are tens of millions of them, and each time the Census Bureau issues a new report, we learn that their numbers have swelled still again.

• Their voting potential is not fully tapped. Far from it. Millions among them...

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