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How Young Is Too Young To Teach Kids About Money?

Posted: 03/15/2012 6:41 pm

Moms have been asking me this age-old question for years.

The short answer: start when your child is old enough to say, "Gimme!"

The long answer: Research shows that kids as young as three years old can learn about money. If it's hard to imagine your finger painting, peanut-butter eating little one calculating compound interest, fear not. Karen Holden, a professor at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, found that kids don't need math skills to build good financial habits. They just need to understand basic, but critical, concepts like waiting, making choices and developing values.

In fact, this idea was a starting point for Sesame Street's "For Me, for You, for Later," a financial education initiative entirely for preschool-age kids and for which Karen and I were advisors. I even got to star in the videos with Elmo!

Moms aren't the only ones who ask me how early to start teaching kids about money. Recently, I was tasked to answer this question by a very important dad: President Obama. As a member of the President's Advisory Council on Financial Capability, I'm developing an initiative for families called "Money Milestones," a set of 20 simple, age-appropriate key concepts for kids aged three to 23-plus.

Based on our draft, which is still in progress, here are the four milestones your 3 to 5-year-old should reach:

You need money to buy things.
To help your child achieve this milestone, try these activities:

  • Identify coins and their value.
  • Discuss how you may value something that is free, such as playing with a friend.
  • Identify items that cost money, such as ice cream, gas for the car, or clothes.

You earn money by working.
To help your child achieve this milestone, try these activities:

  • Describe your job to your child.
  • Walk through your neighborhood or town and point out people working, like the bus driver or the police officer.
  • Explain that some people start their own businesses, like clothing stores or restaurants, and those people are called entrepreneurs.
  • Encourage your child to think about how he could earn money by setting up a lemonade or cookie stand.

You may have to wait before you can buy something you want.
To help your child achieve this milestone, try these activities:

  • When your child is standing in line for a turn on the swings, or looking forward to her favorite holiday, point out that sometimes we have to wait for things we want.
  • Find three jars (or cans) and label one for saving, one for spending and one for sharing.
  • Suggest that your child put some of the money she gets into the saving jar, so she can buy a toy or treat when she has saved enough.

There's a difference between things you want and things you need.
To help your child achieve this milestone, try these activities:

  • When you are out shopping, point out essentials, like food and clothing, and ask your child to describe items that he may want but are optional.
  • Talk about how your family decides what to buy and what to pass up. Which is more important: Buying cookies or fresh fruit? Soda or milk?
  • Draw a circle and divide it into sections for food, rent or house payments, clothing and "optional items" to show that there is a finite amount of money to spend.

Have you tried any of these activities with your kids? If you give it a try, report back!

Beth Kobliner is a personal finance commentator and journalist, the author of the New York Times bestseller "Get a Financial Life: Personal Finance in Your Twenties and Thirties," and a member of the President's Advisory Council on Financial Capability. Visit her at bethkobliner.com, follow her on Twitter, and like her on Facebook.

This post was originally published on Mint.com.

 
 
 
 
 
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methodman
06:55 PM on 03/19/2012
Discovering what money is Is talking about conversion My payment to myself might be a ream of paper. What an awesome gift. It might be a calligraphy kit. It might be that $8 overpriced pixel graph paper. And my eyesight finds it insane to use. But those are examples of money. When I expose and write up a requirements list and get frustrated (my eye's blink non-regularly, my breathing is like I had a gigantic workout after 30 seconcs of an attempted sketch and I need to lay down and take a nap. I have made a purchase. There is a real block that is being encountered. These things explain and I express by writing a frustrating requirements list. Sorry I am bad at analogies and abstractions.
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mikeydjd83
09:36 PM on 03/18/2012
"The people sober might be trusted, but when they became drunk --- and history proved that they went on such binges with distressing frequency --- they behaved like tyrants. It was the peculiar merit of the Federal (US) Constitution … that under its benign auspices the people, even when they lost possession of their faculties, were constrained from running amuck."

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SingleMomBooks
Author, The Successful Single Mom book series
07:19 PM on 03/18/2012
I've taught my daughter to save 10% of everything she's earned (from helping me sell my books, sending out mailings and doing work for my businesses) and from gifts from her grandparents and Godmother. She will have more money invested at age 20 than I did at age 30, but she understands living on the other 90%, saving for things she wants, and that it's hard work that gets her what she wants. I've been an entrepreneur her entire life, and my husband also owns several companies, so that's the only model she's had ... until recently when she started visiting her biological father, who has a traditional 9-5, as does his fiancee. It's been interesting to explain the differences to her, which I do age-appropriately, but she gets it. I think she's always understood and her understanding expands as she gets older.

I believe the sooner we start to educate our kids about money, taxes, investments, business opportunities, how to be a great employee, etc., the better.

Honoree Corder
Author, The Successful Single Mom book series
03:51 PM on 03/17/2012
I was brought up in an entrepreneurial family. I was three years old when I first became aware of money. My brothers were bringing two-cent deposit soda bottles to the store to buy two-cent candy.

When I was four years old my two older brothers went to school. I could not cross the busy street myself but crossed the street anyway to get to my uncle’s restaurant that sold hot dogs, hamburgers, roast beef sandwiches and fries. I asked for a hot dog. My uncle asked me if I had any money. I said. "No".

He literally taught me that there is no free lunch. He folded up an apron many times until it fit. Put me on a milk crate so I could reach the cooking area and taught me how to "work". Business occurred when there was a mutual exchange of value. I got the hot dog, he got the entertainment value.

Earl Nightingale (google him) in his presentation “The Strangest Secret” said money is a measure of your value. You get paid what you are worth or what you will settle for if you do not know your value.

The mentors I have had over the years taught me that the merchant must have knowledge, serve, and give valuable advice. The value exchanged must be mutually agreeable and exchanged cheerfully. No one likes to be cheated or abused. That advice has been very profitable to me.
02:18 PM on 03/17/2012
My four year old grandson was visiting at my house when he suddenly walked up to me and said "Oma can I have a dollar?" I said "What for?" and he says, "Just because I want it." So I explained to him that if you want to have money, then you have to work for it. He said "How am I suppose to do that? I'm just a kid and can't get a job!" I told him he could help me with little things around the house and I would pay him according to how much work he did. I also explained how money was made-How his Opa and Daddy both went to work to earn money. He went right to work cleaning the floor, even taking wipes and cleaning the entire floor. I was proud and so was he and he saves every dollar! At 5 1/2 now he always does "work" and I'm so proud of him!
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sirbosk1
12:19 PM on 03/17/2012
It is never too young to teach.
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practicalnomad
Life can be stressful, organization helps.
11:41 AM on 03/17/2012
Every parent should teach their children about finance. You'd be surprised by the number of teens in high school, and those entering college who've no idea about the value of a dollar. You're doing your child a favor if you teach them, and a disservice if you don't.
11:05 AM on 03/17/2012
I'll start by letting you know I'm a democrat/liberal, gay, army veteran and a mom. I bought most of my daughter's clothes and toys second hand. When she was three she helped me collect coke cans to recycle for money. We sold stuff at flea markets and yardsales. Usually, if she wanted something , I could get it because it was so cheap and if I couldn't afford the item I told her we were poor and couldn't get the item. At age four she was saving her birthday money for a ticket to see "Swan Lake", she slept through most of it. Later she saved her money to go to the county fair. She would buy sticks of candy and sell it at school for five times the cost, 25 cents. In middle school she would buy a teen magazine and take out the pictures she wanted and sell the rest to other kids and pay for the next magazine. She's 34 now and she and her husband own a duplex and by renting out one half they almost make their morgage payment. Teach your childern about money and that they don't NEED everything.
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grundoboy
I aint scared of no ghost(writer)
10:53 AM on 03/17/2012
Ya better as obama has them taxed til death
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MarcEdward
likes all cats more than most people
12:25 PM on 03/17/2012
Silly - Obama has lowered taxes, not raised them.
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grundoboy
I aint scared of no ghost(writer)
10:36 AM on 03/18/2012
for the ones that don't pay them......
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ergoguru
10:38 AM on 03/17/2012
this matter really depends, if your a conservative you tech the child as soon as they recognize what money actually is, if your a liberal you never teach your children anything other than the government will take care of you forever
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emscrs
Rescue pets.
12:07 PM on 03/17/2012
That is untrue and offensive.
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silsez
Wait for it...
01:06 PM on 03/17/2012
I disagree. It reads pretty spot on to me.
noahmarder
Exposing the regressive lies, one by one
04:59 PM on 03/17/2012
If you're a conservative, you teach the child that it is okay to steal if you pay the authority figures to look the other way. If you're a liberal, you teach that people who are wealthy and lucky should help those who are less fortunate.

Whether liberal or conservative, all children should be taught how to write. I guess your parents and teachers never got the message.
09:50 AM on 03/17/2012
Can a toddler be taught about money? Why not! Most toddlers would be better at it than Obama. Emm emm emm
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bekakiraly
The Right thinks, the left feels.
10:24 AM on 03/17/2012
LOL!!! Good point.
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drewscustomcarts
09:48 AM on 03/17/2012
I showed our toddler how to inflate market value and leverage against it with low variable rate loans then spend that money on all the flash toys and when it crashes just walk away....
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LeslieTS1
Common Sense Person That Doesn't Read Replies
09:41 AM on 03/17/2012
Our kids saw us wanting to go on a great vacation or a new car but also saw how disappointed we were that we didn't have the money for it but how we never bought anything we wanted but didn't really need until we actually had the extra money for it. We always let our kids see our money problems. You know the real world and it paid off in their lives and values.
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LeslieTS1
Common Sense Person That Doesn't Read Replies
09:35 AM on 03/17/2012
You need to teach your children about the real world out there instead of trying to hide it from them but let them be kids also. They grow up very fast. I have 4 kids and 10 grand kids and they are all doing great and all still married. My oldest is coming up on 21 years of being married. So don't tell me I don't know what I'm talking about. Kids are smarter than you think.
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silsez
Wait for it...
09:10 AM on 03/17/2012
The only thing I taught my toddlers about money is that it doesn't belong in their mouths.
Let babies be babies for crying out loud. Pre-K or Kindergarten is young enough to start shoving the real world down their little throats.
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wadisplace
10:18 AM on 03/17/2012
Agreed.