"Wife Stands By Her Man"

Calling it a "private matter," New York's Governor Eliot Spitzer has stumbled into yet another screw-up - quite literally - since he took office and this one could be the death nail in his political coffin or maybe not.

This is American politics and just about any guy can survive anything if President Clinton can survive an impeachment after Lewinskygate, especially if his wife is standing beside him during his 'mea culpa' to the assembled New York press this afternoon.

Only alluding to being linked to a recent prostitution sting, Spitzer apologized to family and promised to "regain the trust of the public and do better."

"I have disappointed and failed to live up to the standard I expected of myself. I must now dedicate some time to regain the trust of my family."

But what exactly did he do?

According to FBI indictment, there was a wiretap with Spitzer's voice - known as Client 9 - confirming he hooked up with an 'escort' named Kristen and that she was paid $4300 for services rendered in a Washington DC hotel room number 871.

There was an Associated Press story several days ago, which I read in the Poughkeepsie Journal, about federal authorities arresting a man and three women who allegedly ran the Emperor's Club, an escort service catering to rich Europeans and Americans who can fork over from $1,000 to $5,500 for the services of scantily dressed escorts.

Arrested were: Mark Brener, 62, and Cecil Suwal, 23 from Cliffside Park, N.J. Tameka Rachelle Lewis, 32 from Brooklyn, and Rhinebeck resident, 36-year-old Tanya Hollander were apparently assigning women to their wealthy clients.

It was the Rhinebeck resident Tanya Hollander that caught my eye.

Rhinebeck is a small town located in the upstate New York, just a stone's throw away from my house, and I had to laugh when I read that Hollander lives "a quiet life," according to her New York City lawyer, Mary Mulligan.

What other life can you lead in Rhinebeck?

If you're a movie buff, you can take in the Upstate Theater, where Indie films are shown and sip the hottest red wine at Gigi's Restaurant across the street, where I've seen famous actors and actresses munching on Arugla salad, along with the other Manhattanites fond of horses and their weekend country estates.

I wondered how deep and wide the story's legs might reach, but even I was slightly surprised - but only slightly - when Eliot Spitzer admitted to his closest aides that he was "involved in a prostitution ring."

His involvement appears to be only as a client - a John - but for the man who made his reputation as the "Eliot Ness of Wall Street" and who once proudly crushed a prostitution ring as the state's Attorney General, this could spell trouble beyond the home front.

Naturally, Spitzer's wife, Silda Wall, was at his side, which seems to be de rigueur for these sorts of unsavory political sex stories.

A Harvard law graduate, as is her husband, Silda looked as if she was about to cry before Governor Spitzer began his prepared remarks. Actually, their arms were wrapped around each other! As Governor Spitzer read his prepared speech, her face turned a frozen, stoic mask. She looked intelligent. She looked hurt. Why do they do it?

This is the part that disgusts me.

The long list of women 'standing by their man' swept past me:

Larry Craig's wife. David Vitter's wife. Ted Kennedy's wife. Jim McGreevey's wife.

Maybe, Senator Clinton can clue us in on why they continue to "stick with their man" like an old Tammy Wynette song that long ago faded from the charts and yet, these women continue to play the sympathetic backdrop for their ambitious husband's political careers and worse yet, their self-destructive hypocrisy.


 
 

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I've already made my mind about Elliot Spitzer.

Hopefully, there won't be any criminal charges prosecuted. (It would be a hideous waste of tax payers money.)

And then, I would look forward for voting him back as NY AG! Less prostitution busts, more Wall Street crook busts. Yeah! Hope the office isn't term limited.

Mayor would be an *ulch*. He's too much like Guiliani. And from that vantage point, Wall Street is supposed to be your friend. He'd be perfect as the US AG, but there are too many stupid American who care more about blowjobs than well connected criminals ripping them off.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:43 PM on 03/13/2008

Why in the hell are we even writing about this?
While 500,000 people go bankrupt each year because of either no or inadequate health insurance
While mothers of young children are forced to farm them out for a minimum wage with no benefits, no sick leave and no vacation
While we have 1 in 100 adults in prison (our fabulous jobs program).
While a new born baby is diagnosed with sickle cell anemia and has no health insurance.
While there are no jobs for people
While the family jobs have all gone overseas
While Warren Buffet owes taxes of 655,000,000 and will pay it in 28 years with NO INTEREST payments...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:42 PM on 03/11/2008

GOV. SPITZER DESERVES A BENEFIT OF DOUBT AND FORGIVENESS

New Yorkers Should Not Rush To Judge Gov Spitzer

I have just heard the news of Gov. Elliot Spitzer being implicated in patronizing a prostitute.

This is one of the saddest news I have ever heard in New York besides the 9/11 tragedy.

However, New Yorkers should breathe a sigh of relief that the tryst involved a woman and not a man like the New Jersey case.

Besides the woman involved is not one of his staff! (Or an intern.)

Gov. Spitzer is among the most intelligent Americans.

And sometimes intelligent men can make serious errors.

Infact only very intelligent people are capable of making serious errors!

Can you imagine a moron making an error?

I do not think that having a tryst is a big crime, so the question of Gov Spitzer resigning should not arise.

What may annoy many people around the country is that as New York Attorney general, his cases included a few criminal prosecutions of prostitution network and tourism involving prostitutes.

In 2004, he was part of an investigation of an escort service racket in New York City that resulted in the arrest of 18 people on charges of promoting prostitution.

However, let me point out that there have been other political leaders, both Republican and Democratic who have had sex scandals.

Does anyone remember Gary Hart and Donna Rice scandal?

How about Sen. Larry Craig (R-ID) and Sen. David Vitter (R-LS),( the latter two known for their strong conservative politics and agenda of "family values.")?

Remember Bob Livingston, on the cusp of being named House Speaker in 1998, did not resign!

Remember Representative Barney Frank, who admitted to involvement with a male prostitute in 1989? He never resigned.

Millions of people all over America and the world visit and sleep with hookers and watch porn online.

Almost 60% of American women and girls are directly or indirectly involved in prostitution or porn.

Just Google for porn sites and see millions of porn sites and millions of porn Actresses who act in them and billions of porn movies.
(For general porn industry statistics, go to: http://familysafemedia.com/pornography_statistics.html#anchor4)

So, to the bull dogs, his detractors, anyone who has never had a tryst; anyone who has never slept with a hooker or watched a porn movie and who is very self righteous and who may want to pounce on Gov. Spitzer, I say take it easy and back off.

Let everybody remember that Slick Willie had some trysts including one in the White House, the highest office in the land and yet he was elected the President twice and never resigned.

Let everybody remember that he is alleged to have had a tryst.

He did not commit murder or send 19 yr old innocent children to go die in a senseless war oversea.

He did not blast a few ICBMs at an innocent country and killed innocent women and children just to cover up his wrong doing like some other elected officials have done.

He did not exchange arms for drugs and did not sell weapons to terrorists!

So, let us keep things in perspective.

This is about sex, yes, just sex.

And once in their lives, men are tempted to have trysts.
This is common among most men.

Men are tempted to have trysts due to many reasons that may include boredom, stress and frustrations.

And it is not only men who have trysts. Women have trysts too.

Gov Spitzer is a human being and he should be allowed to make a few mistakes and errors in judgment.

What elected officials do in their spare times including sexually, should not become issues for the public to discuss because elected officials are human beings too.

Gov. Spitzer had worked very had for New York for many years and helped many New Yorkers to fight injustice.

The state should give him a benefit of doubt and allow him to finish serving his term in office.

If all elected officials are systematically investigated, I am sure many would be found to have committed far more serious errors in judgment that would make Gov. Spitzer's mistake look like a joke.

I also urge Gov Spitzer's wife to be forgiving because it is unfair to judge a good man because he made just one mistake.

To err is human and to forgive is divine.

I ask her to be merciful and help her husband to examine their marriage and fix any areas where there might have been problems that they neglected.

It is unwise to allow one mistake to destroy a 21 yr happy marriage.

Besides, the Gov has apologized.

He did not try to deny it by saying "I met that woman but did not have sex with her".

Or "I slept with that woman but did not cuum, so I did not have any sex, so I did not break any law of my country"


The only reason why this may be a shocking news is that the Governor built his political career on aggressively investigating and prosecuting high profile media grabbing crimes.

He had been a relentless and uncompromising crusader for morals, ethics, principles, transparency and law-and-order.

Because of this scandal, surely, many liberals would feel disappointed because they had very high hopes for him as a rising star with a very bright future in national politics.

I am one of those who admired Gov. Spitzer and wished that someday he would end up in the White House!

I am not defending his error in judgment.

What I am saying is that he is human just like everyone else and he has made a mistake just like all of us do sometimes and should be forgiven.

I urge New Yorkers to overlook this and let us move on!

It could have been worse! scogostology.com

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:55 AM on 03/11/2008
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