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Billi Gordon, Ph.D.
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Grew up across from the city dump in a house without indoor plumbing, was a typical overweight, overachiever: 2 sport varsity letterman for 3 years, Student Body President, Homecoming King, on the honor roll, in every club, etc. Entered a Roman Catholic monastery; they said, "You have a calling but it is not religious... you're taxi is waiting and we will Fed-X your soul to hell." Went to the University Michigan to pursue new passions: cheerleading, drugs, and guys, which landed me in Hollywood, as an "elite escort." That evolved into a successful career as a "female" model, actress, author, and TV & film writer. If you've seen a tasteless greeting card, Coming To America, or Married With Children etc., you've seen me. Then, I traded my acrylic nails and hair weave in for a Ph.D. in neuroscience. Now, I conduct brain research at The David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA, in the Center for the Neurobiology of Stress, Ingestive Behaviors and Obesity Program. I have another blog on Psychology Today: Obesely-Speaking. I've been married 27 years (583.9 light years in gay marriage) to a former USC frat brat, which is why I know love, not marijuana, should be illegal.

Entries by Billi Gordon, Ph.D.

Turning the Lens on Langdon

(2) Comments | Posted September 20, 2014 | 12:29 AM

2014-09-17-Image_001.jpgQuestion: What do Angelina Jolie, Ryan Seacrest, Frank Sinatra, Serena Williams and I have in common? Answer: We have all been photographed by Harry Langdon, the Hollywood celebrity photographer. It's much easier to make a list of celebrities whom Langdon...

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As the Seasons Change

(0) Comments | Posted July 28, 2014 | 5:25 PM

When I was 19, a wise wino told me, "The truth only hurts for a minute." In September I will turn 60, and that truth hurts for more than a minute. The sad thing is that when (if) I am 70, I will be wishing I were 60, like I...

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Class Reunion: Facebook for Old Dudes

(1) Comments | Posted July 1, 2014 | 12:13 PM

When that high-school-reunion invitation arrives, it divides people into three groups: "I can't wait to go," "I so do not want to go, but I will," and "I wouldn't go on the Twilight Zone."

The first group would be your basic nerd who has a great job and a...

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Remembering Daddy

(8) Comments | Posted June 12, 2014 | 11:46 PM

People described my father as a "high-yellow, half-crazy, big, scary Negro," although my father was actually half-black and half-Cherokee, hence my childhood nickname, "Uncle Tomahawk." My father was very tall and definitely scary. When he was 19 he went to prison for killing his stepfather, who had beaten my grandmother...

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4 Questions About Sexless Marriages

(2) Comments | Posted June 11, 2014 | 3:44 PM

According to sex experts, millions of people all over the world are in sexless marriages. Many of those are in the United States. Here are some vital questions for those whom it may concern.

1. Why did we stop having sex?

There are many...

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Beauty: An Act of Courage

(1) Comments | Posted June 11, 2014 | 2:57 PM

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We live in a multiplex of curious "ocracies," e.g., sizeocracy and pigmentocracy. Men cannot be short, woman cannot be tall, nobody can be fat and you can never be too blonde. Thus, Madison Avenue tells us that fat is synonymous with ugly,...

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10 Ways to Love a Grieving Friend

(4) Comments | Posted June 9, 2014 | 12:53 PM

2014-06-04-005_CU_Tears.jpg Recently, one of my dear friends lost her husband in a freak accident, and then a month later a car crash killed her only sister and niece. It stunned our circle of friends. Nobody knew what to do or say. When tragedy enters...

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10 Pretty-Boy Problems

(14) Comments | Posted June 3, 2014 | 1:43 PM

After my May 28 post "12 Cold Facts About Being Super-Hot," some of my good-looking, male, professional friends said, "It is difficult being a hot professional guy too." These were their chief complaints.

1. Women are too easy. Noah, a young cardiac surgeon who looks like he...

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Delayed Gratification

(0) Comments | Posted May 29, 2014 | 5:23 PM

Consistently choosing immediate reward over delayed gratification is a common problem for compulsive overeaters. Scientists call this intertemporal choice (IC), meaning choices that differ in the timing of their consequences. Many believe the inability to choose the larger, but delayed, reward of weight reduction over the immediate gratification of fatty...

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12 Cold Facts About Being Super-Hot

(0) Comments | Posted May 28, 2014 | 5:26 PM

Pretty is a thing, whereas beauty is a force. Although we live in a world where physical appearance is a currency, a differential engine drives life, so I asked some models, centerfolds and traditional glamor girls if there are any downsides to being "super-hot-looking." Here's what they said.

1. Their...

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How a Habit Becomes a Cable

(0) Comments | Posted May 23, 2014 | 2:37 PM

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I am a morbidly obese black man with a Ph.D. in neuroscience, which is an elite group, but not by choice. Welcome to Largely Speaking. Here, I will speak from my head and my heart about overcoming compulsive overeating, obesity and its collateral...

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Hooked on Messy Love

(4) Comments | Posted May 23, 2014 | 1:10 PM

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We have all witnessed it, and many of us have experienced it. A person treats you well 80 percent of the time, but 20 percent of the time they treat you like a foot. Healthy people do not tolerate it and move on...

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