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Bitchless Bride is a straightforward, foul-mouthed wedding planner emeritus. She has been in "the industry" for almost two decades and is tired of being nice. Tired of entitled brides getting a free pass to behave in a certain way because they are getting married. So, BB is sharing her point of view with an inside look at the bridal chaos we call a wedding.

Don't worry brideys, you will learn a tremendous amount about planning your wedding, but consider it to be free advice without the bullshit.

Entries by Bitchless Bride

Bridey, It's Time to STOP Apologizing! Except When You do These 10 Things...

(0) Comments | Posted May 17, 2016 | 9:50 AM

I've stopped apologizing. Seriously. I'm done apologizing for stupid shit. Sure, if I make a mistake or if I owe somebody an apology, then I will apologize to them, but other than that? I'm all done. I'm done apologizing when it's unnecessary. And you know what, bridey? You should be...

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Later to Launch? Why Couples Should Get Married Later...

(0) Comments | Posted May 2, 2016 | 7:47 PM

So, the other day, I felt like a total adult. Like, so adulty, that it made me feel uncomfortable. Why? Well, my hus and I took a long overdue trip to the attorney's office to sign our wills, health care proxies, and other important documents so that we could protect...

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Whose Wedding Is it Anyway?

(0) Comments | Posted April 13, 2016 | 4:42 PM

The other day, I received an email from a really cool, recently engaged bride. And as excited as she is about being engaged, she's totally lost and a bit discombobulated as she begins her wedding planning journey. Her main obstacles? Well, just like most newly engaged brides, she needs to...

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Bridal Party Etiquette ~ 5 Rules That Will Prevent You From Losing Your Friends After Your Wedding

(0) Comments | Posted March 29, 2016 | 10:02 AM

Bridey, so I know that you are the one getting married, and you are the one spending a ton of money on your big day, and that you are in charge of the building the perfect bridal party, but let's get one thing straight, okay? Don't be a...

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None and Done? Here's Why You Should Believe Your Significant Other When They Say They Don't Want Kids

(0) Comments | Posted March 22, 2016 | 6:32 PM

So, I had the pleasure of sitting next to a truly incredible man last night. Like a super gregarious, super funny and super full of life kind of dude. He's the kind of guy that sucks you into the vortex of his crazy little world, has his way with you,...

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How Your Psyche Can F*ck With Your Wedding Plans

(0) Comments | Posted March 8, 2016 | 3:13 PM

I've been busting some serious ass lately. Like, no bullshit, pushing myself HARD in every facet of my life. I've been killing myself at the gym (consistently), prospecting new clients at work, focusing on truly being present around my kids (as in, not having my head down in my phone)...

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10 Life Experiences More Stressful Than Planning a Wedding

(0) Comments | Posted February 29, 2016 | 8:35 PM

Bridey, I know that planning a wedding is stressful, and oftentimes, painstakingly brutal. So, today I thought I would open your eyes to ten life experiences more stressful than planning a wedding. Well, perhaps not more stressful, but definitely just as stressful for sure! And the crazy thing? Most of...

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Why Planning Your Wedding Actually IS a Full Time Job!

(0) Comments | Posted February 24, 2016 | 2:19 PM

You know that nagging feeling when when someone says something to you that you just can't shake? And, in the long run, you know it's not a big deal, but mentally, you can't let it go? Well, I am having one of those moments. Last month, I wrote, "

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7 Reasons Why Couples Divorce and How to Overcome Them...

(4) Comments | Posted February 8, 2016 | 8:50 PM

The other day, I ran into a groom whose wedding I had planned 8-9 years ago. Once it registered who I was, the first thing out of his mouth was, "Christin and I are still married!" After nearly choking on my gum, I said, "Good! You two were one of...

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5 Crucial Wedding Appointment Etiquette Guidelines

(0) Comments | Posted February 4, 2016 | 2:22 PM

I was having a rather heated conversation with an industry friend the other night, and a few cocktails later, we came to the conclusion that brides are just fucking rude when it comes to the unwritten rules of wedding planning. It's a touchy subject for the industry because...

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Help! I'm Not Excited for My Wedding

(3) Comments | Posted January 26, 2016 | 5:17 PM

My name is Bitchless Bride, and I was not excited for my wedding. Well, until I made some major adjustments to the wedding plans. Ultimately, my hus and I decided to elope, and no, that's not what I'm suggesting for you, bridey, I'm simply saying that...

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Which Came First, the Bride or the B*tch?

(0) Comments | Posted January 19, 2016 | 4:46 PM

Bridey, the timing of this article is not an accident. With stupid Valentine's Day just around the corner (not to mention the millions of girls who were engaged over the holidays), several once well-behaved girlfriends will turn into entitled, bitchy brides-to-be. I'm not quite sure where the transition...

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The BEST Advice from the BEST Wedding Vendors in Boston!

(0) Comments | Posted January 11, 2016 | 4:38 PM

Bridey, today's post is like hitting the jackpot of wedding planning. SERIOUSLY. If you are recently engaged or are in the midst of planning your wedding, stop what you're doing, and focus because you are about to be educated by the BEST in the wedding biz! I asked...

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Bridey, Five Ways Not to be a Nightmare Disguised as a Daydream

(0) Comments | Posted December 29, 2015 | 2:52 PM

Yup, I totally just stole a line from Taylor Swift, but why come up with another awesome line when one already exists? Right? Anyway, the point is, right now, so many of you are recently engaged (ahem... Christmas), and while I truly believe that you don't think you're a nightmare,...

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Bridey, Please Don't Throw an Engagement Party Only for the Presents...

(0) Comments | Posted December 15, 2015 | 2:31 PM

Not gonna lie... This story horrified me. Like H.O.R.R.I.F.I.E.D. me. One of my esteemed colleagues in the industry told me about a bride who actually asked her to help her plan an engagement party for the sole purpose of receiving presents from her guests. I know! WHAT the...

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Why Each Day After Your Wedding Is a Gift... Perspective Is a Bitch!

(0) Comments | Posted December 3, 2015 | 11:28 AM

I am absolutely heartbroken and angry as I read about the most current shooting in San Bernardino. Actually, more like fucking pissed off and on the verge of hysteria, and I know I'm not alone. The statistics are staggering, the loss of life, absolutely heart-wrenching. This type of shit is...

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Bridey, Don't Let the Bar Bill Drive You Ballistic... Budget Accordingly!

(0) Comments | Posted December 1, 2015 | 11:02 AM

Bridey, if you know me at all, then you know that I'm a huge fan of open bar at weddings. Don't get me wrong, I totally respect your budgetary restraints, however if you are able to provide cocktails for your guests, then do it! Because, I'm not the...

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Bridey, Don't Let Your Wedding Planning Become a Game of 'Monkey in the Middle'!

(0) Comments | Posted November 18, 2015 | 9:38 AM

Bridey, I gotta ask you a question... Who's in charge? Who's wearing the pants? And, I'm not talking about your relationship with your sig other. Not only is it none of my business, but I don't give a shit. (I mean... For the sake of womankind, I hope it's an...

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Why Finding the Right Venue Can Be as Difficult as Finding the Right Sig Other: 5 Ways to Overcome Venue Finding Hell

(1) Comments | Posted November 11, 2015 | 11:50 AM

Bridey, one of the most difficult parts of planning your wedding is choosing the right venue. I mean, there are so many factors to consider, and people to please that what used to be a fun experience has turned into more of a daunting task. Sorry, but true story! So,...

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10 Things I Hate About 'I Do'

(0) Comments | Posted October 28, 2015 | 11:59 AM

"Oh my God, you have the coolest job! I'm sure you could write a book about all of the stuff you see!" Since all of my non-wedding industry friends always seem to think that my job was nothing but rainbows and unicorns, I thought I would share ten...

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