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Bitchless Bride is a straightforward, foul-mouthed wedding planner emeritus. She has been in "the industry" for almost two decades and is tired of being nice. Tired of entitled brides getting a free pass to behave in a certain way because they are getting married. So, BB is sharing her point of view with an inside look at the bridal chaos we call a wedding.

Don't worry brideys, you will learn a tremendous amount about planning your wedding, but consider it to be free advice without the bullshit.

Entries by Bitchless Bride

7 Reasons Why Couples Divorce and How to Overcome Them...

(4) Comments | Posted February 8, 2016 | 9:50 PM

The other day, I ran into a groom whose wedding I had planned 8-9 years ago. Once it registered who I was, the first thing out of his mouth was, "Christin and I are still married!" After nearly choking on my gum, I said, "Good! You two were one of...

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5 Crucial Wedding Appointment Etiquette Guidelines

(0) Comments | Posted February 4, 2016 | 3:22 PM

I was having a rather heated conversation with an industry friend the other night, and a few cocktails later, we came to the conclusion that brides are just fucking rude when it comes to the unwritten rules of wedding planning. It's a touchy subject for the industry because...

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Help! I'm Not Excited for My Wedding

(3) Comments | Posted January 26, 2016 | 6:17 PM

My name is Bitchless Bride, and I was not excited for my wedding. Well, until I made some major adjustments to the wedding plans. Ultimately, my hus and I decided to elope, and no, that's not what I'm suggesting for you, bridey, I'm simply saying that...

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Which Came First, the Bride or the B*tch?

(0) Comments | Posted January 19, 2016 | 5:46 PM

Bridey, the timing of this article is not an accident. With stupid Valentine's Day just around the corner (not to mention the millions of girls who were engaged over the holidays), several once well-behaved girlfriends will turn into entitled, bitchy brides-to-be. I'm not quite sure where the transition...

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The BEST Advice from the BEST Wedding Vendors in Boston!

(0) Comments | Posted January 11, 2016 | 5:38 PM

Bridey, today's post is like hitting the jackpot of wedding planning. SERIOUSLY. If you are recently engaged or are in the midst of planning your wedding, stop what you're doing, and focus because you are about to be educated by the BEST in the wedding biz! I asked...

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Bridey, Five Ways Not to be a Nightmare Disguised as a Daydream

(0) Comments | Posted December 29, 2015 | 3:52 PM

Yup, I totally just stole a line from Taylor Swift, but why come up with another awesome line when one already exists? Right? Anyway, the point is, right now, so many of you are recently engaged (ahem... Christmas), and while I truly believe that you don't think you're a nightmare,...

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Bridey, Please Don't Throw an Engagement Party Only for the Presents...

(0) Comments | Posted December 15, 2015 | 3:31 PM

Not gonna lie... This story horrified me. Like H.O.R.R.I.F.I.E.D. me. One of my esteemed colleagues in the industry told me about a bride who actually asked her to help her plan an engagement party for the sole purpose of receiving presents from her guests. I know! WHAT the...

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Why Each Day After Your Wedding Is a Gift... Perspective Is a Bitch!

(0) Comments | Posted December 3, 2015 | 12:28 PM

I am absolutely heartbroken and angry as I read about the most current shooting in San Bernardino. Actually, more like fucking pissed off and on the verge of hysteria, and I know I'm not alone. The statistics are staggering, the loss of life, absolutely heart-wrenching. This type of shit is...

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Bridey, Don't Let the Bar Bill Drive You Ballistic... Budget Accordingly!

(0) Comments | Posted December 1, 2015 | 12:02 PM

Bridey, if you know me at all, then you know that I'm a huge fan of open bar at weddings. Don't get me wrong, I totally respect your budgetary restraints, however if you are able to provide cocktails for your guests, then do it! Because, I'm not the...

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Bridey, Don't Let Your Wedding Planning Become a Game of 'Monkey in the Middle'!

(0) Comments | Posted November 18, 2015 | 10:38 AM

Bridey, I gotta ask you a question... Who's in charge? Who's wearing the pants? And, I'm not talking about your relationship with your sig other. Not only is it none of my business, but I don't give a shit. (I mean... For the sake of womankind, I hope it's an...

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Why Finding the Right Venue Can Be as Difficult as Finding the Right Sig Other: 5 Ways to Overcome Venue Finding Hell

(1) Comments | Posted November 11, 2015 | 12:50 PM

Bridey, one of the most difficult parts of planning your wedding is choosing the right venue. I mean, there are so many factors to consider, and people to please that what used to be a fun experience has turned into more of a daunting task. Sorry, but true story! So,...

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10 Things I Hate About 'I Do'

(0) Comments | Posted October 28, 2015 | 12:59 PM

"Oh my God, you have the coolest job! I'm sure you could write a book about all of the stuff you see!" Since all of my non-wedding industry friends always seem to think that my job was nothing but rainbows and unicorns, I thought I would share ten...

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A Bride's Tale of a Sexless, Sh*tshow of a Marriage -- The Grey Area Between Cold Feet and Doubt

(0) Comments | Posted October 22, 2015 | 12:09 PM

Gimme my soapbox, because this girl is going to do a li'l bit of preaching today. And bridey, I'm not preaching about being a bitch while planning your wedding or the "five must-haves" for your perfect wedding day, because what I am about to share with you is much, much...

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What if Your Wedding Vendors Reviewed You, Bridey?

(12) Comments | Posted October 14, 2015 | 2:27 PM

Recently, I had the opportunity to work with a truly amazing bride. She was friendly, organized and considerate of every single person who had a hand in the wedding planning. This chick was even friendly to those who didn't have a hand in the wedding planning, but wished they did...

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It's Called Common Sense... 5 Super Obvious Tips for Wedding Guests that are Always Missed

(0) Comments | Posted July 30, 2013 | 3:31 PM

As I make my way to a wedding (that I am attending, not planning) I can't help but think about all the shit that really pisses me off about your wedding guests, bridey. Honestly, 90 percent of the people attending your wedding are shockingly stupid when it comes to proper...

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A Groom's Guide to Wedding Planning

(3) Comments | Posted June 3, 2013 | 7:45 PM

I love hearing stories about grooms that are wholeheartedly involved in the wedding planning. They attend the vendor appointments, pick out wedding colors, choose the music, taste the cake, etc. It's really nice to see such collaboration between the bride and groom. Because as we all know, a wedding is...

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10 Ways Your Mom Can Ruin Your Wedding Day

(22) Comments | Posted May 24, 2013 | 1:48 PM

I'm not a mother of the bride (MOB) hater, but even with that disclaimer, I guarantee that this article will not make me very popular amongst you moms. Actually, I'm pretty confident that after I spill these particular beans, I'm probably going to have every MOB emailing me messages stating...

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5 Ways to Beat the After Wedding Blues

(4) Comments | Posted March 23, 2013 | 2:18 PM

You can't eat, you can't sleep, you're super depressed and nothing can even come close to making you happy. No, you didn't just lose the love of your life -- you married him. So why so melancholy, bridey? Odds are you just put on a fabulous party and came home...

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Everything But The Groom

(26) Comments | Posted February 13, 2013 | 1:02 AM

I hate to admit it, but I am pro pre-engagement pinning. Just as I am pro engagement pinning. Seriously, as a wedding planner, I can't think of anything better than a prepared bride; one who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to make a decision. I love those brideys!...

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Don't Forget How to be a Friend Even While You Plan Your Wedding

(53) Comments | Posted January 4, 2013 | 1:01 AM

My best friend is having a double mastectomy tomorrow. Actually, she's CHOOSING to have a double mastectomy. And who could blame her? In September 2011, she found out that she was a BRCA-1 gene carrier, and that her chances of getting breast cancer are at about 87 percent....

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