07/16/2012 01:05 pm ET | Updated Sep 15, 2012

Obama, Romney and the Kingdom of God

Twenty years ago, author and psychiatrist M. Scott Peck gave a lecture in which he asserted that the biblical phrase "The Kingdom of God is within you" has been mistranslated and misunderstood throughout history. Dr. Peck said that if you go back to the original Aramaic, in which that piece of Scripture is written, what it actually says is: "The Kingdom of God is AMONG you." That is, the Kingdom of God is in community. Wherever two or more are gathered, God is there.

As I listen to the campaign speeches of President Obama and Gov. Romney -- each outlining his view for the future of America -- it seems to me that it boils down to this central question: Which do we want ... "every person for him/herself" OR "we're all in this together"?

Do we vote for the ethos of individualism: the independent citizen, the rugged individual, the lone ranger who goes it alone? Or do we vote for the ethos of community: the interdependent gathering of folks who know that "it takes a village" to raise a barn, raise kids and raise a nation to greatness?

After listening to Dr. Peck's lecture, I did some research on the Kingdom of God and discovered that scholars don't agree on how to interpret the biblical phrase. Some insist that the Kingdom of God is "within you," while others assert that the Kingdom of God is "among you."

It looks to me like America's political leaders have the same disagreement. Mitt Romney and his GOP cohorts have complete faith in the ability of individuals to take care of themselves: citizens can save for their own retirement, pay for their own health care, get a good education, and fail or succeed at business all on their own. They believe in personal accountability and that poor people should pull themselves up by their own bootstraps. Their motto is: "I am not my brother's keeper."

President Obama and the Democrats have complete faith in community. They believe that "no man is an island" and that individuals' actions almost always affect others. They understand that human beings are social creatures -- like dolphins, lions, elephants, ants, geese, penguins, monkeys, dogs and myriad other social animals, fish and birds. We thrive when we live in healthy interdependence with one another. We are built for community, collaboration and cooperation. Regarding the poor, the Dems agree with Justice Thurgood Marshall: "None of us got where we are solely by pulling ourselves up by our bootstraps. We got here because somebody -- a parent, a teacher, an Ivy League crony, or a few nuns -- bent down and helped us pick up our boots." The Democrats' motto is: "We're all in this together."

I am reminded of an old allegory that illustrates the difference between Romney's vision and Obama's vision for America:

A holy man was having a conversation with the Lord one day and said, "Lord, I would like to know what Heaven and Hell are like."

The Lord led the holy man to two doors. He opened one of the doors for the holy man to peer inside. In the middle of the room was a large round table, in the middle of which was a huge pot of stew that smelled delicious. But the people sitting around the table were emaciated, pale and sickly. They appeared to be famished. They each had spoons with very long handles splinted to their arms, but each found it impossible to reach into the pot of stew and take a spoonful because they could not get the long-handled spoons to their mouths. The holy man shuddered at the sight of their misery and suffering. The Lord said, "You have seen Hell."

The Lord took the holy man to the next room and opened the door. It was exactly the same as the first one, with a large round table, in the middle of which was a huge pot of stew that smelled delicious. The people's arms were splinted with the same long-handled spoons as the other room, but in this room, the people were well-nourished and healthy. They were all laughing and talking, as they took turns scooping up big spoonfuls of stew and then feeding each other.

The holy man turned to the Lord and said, "Oh, now I see the difference."

"Yes," said the Lord, "Here in Heaven, people have learned to feed each other ... while in Hell, people think only of themselves."