Bob Morris is a frequent contributor to the New York Times Sunday Styles section. He's been a commentator on National Public Radio's All Things Considered and a contributor to the New York Times Magazine, the New Yorker, Elle, and Travel + Leisure, among others. His memoir, Assisted Loving, won an American Library Association Stonewall Honor Book Award and is a Lambda Literary finalist. He recently collaborated with Diahann Carroll on her award winning memoir, The Legs are the Last To Go, and is currently writing a pilot for HBO.

Blog Entries by Bob Morris

Getting Over Shame for Father's Day

1 Comments | Posted June 17, 2009 | 01:39 PM (EST)


When I stopped by a bookstore outside of Santa Barbara at this time last year, the shelves had many titles of interest, except one - mine. My father and son memoir had just been published and it was nowhere in sight.

I had given a reading the day before...

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The Sleeping Prince and the Dream Hotel

Posted April 12, 2009 | 09:01 PM (EST)


The port city of Cochin, in the equatorial Kerala area of southwest India, has seen all kinds of foreign influences over the years. Vasco Da Gama, the Portuguese explorer was there, as were the Dutch, Jews and Chinese, all mixing into the spicy local curry of Hinduism and Islam. Still,...

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Double-Dating With Dad

Posted June 14, 2008 | 09:21 PM (EST)


It's a month after my mother has died, October 2002. My father and I have just pulled into the Mount Ararat Cemetery in Farmingdale, on the flat south shore of Long Island. We pass through iron gates under a Star of David and cruise past row after row of headstones...

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Pimp My Dad

Posted June 12, 2008 | 05:54 PM (EST)


What is it about fathers that make them so predictable? Father's Day lumbers up to your calendar and what do you buy the old man? What do you say to him? Dads just aren't as expressive as moms. They can be, heaven forbid, a little dull. That all changed for...

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