While I agree that the "mentally ill" have as many rights as those who are "well" (and the lines of those definitions are remarkably squiggly), it is extraordinarily painful to see a loved one descend into madness and not be able to do anything for them as long as they are "high functioning." My aunt insisted that the neighbors were sneaking into the house at night and shaving her eyebrows, cutting down her trees and grinding the stumps in the middle of the night, and installing cable against her will. But she could cash her SSI check and pay for her groceries and gin, so there was nothing my mother could do for her, despite the fact that she had what her doctor described as an easily treatable form of geriatric schizophrenia. She was killed by a motorist when she stepped defiantly off the curb into oncoming traffic.
So we feel badly for Brittany and her children. But the truth is, she is free to destroy her life if she chooses. Can she "choose" if she is incapacitated by drugs or alcohol or mental illness? That's a heavy philosophical question that most of us don't get asked, because we wear underwear and don't shave our heads. Usually.
What to do? I recommend two things. The first is, if you actually do care about Brittany, then refuse to buy any magazine with her on the cover. Take a minute and send the publisher a postcard, telling them of your decision. Enough people do that and the paparazzi will move on to some other victim. Who knows how her behavior will change without the stress/allure of the cameras?
Secondly, hold her accountable for her actions. You can't have it two ways: if you want the rights of a fully capable adult citizen, then you have the responsibility. Arrest her ass the very second she's caught driving while intoxicated or doing anything else to endanger the lives of others. Arrest her when she steals stuff from stores. Treat her like the rest of us. THEN we'll see what happens.




Posted February 7, 2008 | 04:02 PM (EST)