Obama, Netanyahu, Two States for Spoiled Brats
Benjamin Netanyahu's visit to the Obama White House, the first such meeting since both men came to power, has been widely billed as a key indicator of the Obama administration's intentions in the realm of Mideast policy.
"What may be Israel's most intransigent government ever elected," The Economist suggested this week, "is scared stiff that an American administration may squeeze it until its pips squeak."
Fevered conjecture over the talks has tended to center on whether and how the prime minister will say aloud five of the world's most anemic magic words: two states for two peoples.
At the same time, even some of Netanyahu's more acerbic critics freely if ruefully concede that any Obama drive for a two-state solution has been sandbagged by the inability of the Palestinians to coalesce politically for the sake of that second state.
"The snag," continues The Economist in an editorial, "is that the two halves of the Palestinian movement are at daggers' drawn and have fluffed repeated opportunities to reconcile."
There is a lesson here for both sides, and it goes beyond what Barack Obama has in mind for them:
Over the years, Washington and the world have coddled both Israel and the Palestinians, whose behavior has come to resemble that of spoiled children.
Are they not deserving of sympathy? Of course they are. Never since the events of 1948 has the region seen a decade of such consistent violence, an extraordinarily high ratio of civilian casualties, and a universality of despair, as in the Second Intifada (2000-2004), the Second Lebanon War (2006) and the Gaza War (2008-9).
As with parents who become more and more indulgent the more clueless they realize they actually are -- and the more out of control their kids get -- Washington and the world have allowed Israel and the Palestinians to run off the rails in whatever direction they happen to see fit at the moment.
Why? For the same reason that bad parents spoil their children:
They're afraid of them.
For generations, both Israelis and Palestinians have been snowing their respective allies, who have been afraid, either electorally or physically, of being perceived as not loving them enough.
In the case of Israel, the White House has stood often on the sidelines, politically neutralized, as the Jewish state undertook initiatives, in particular, settlement construction, which have proven painfully costly, morally dubious, and otherwise harmful -- first of all, to Israel itself.
As the peace process unraveled in the late 1990s and then-prime minister Netanyahu burned through political capital in visits to Washington, senior Clinton administration Mideast official Aaron David Miller famously recalled that "all of us saw Bibi as a kind of speed bump that would have to be negotiated along the way until a new Israeli prime minister came along who was more serious about peace."
In Palestine's case that has yet to arise -- global donors who lavished hundreds of millions of dollars and euros in aid failed to require that the funds be spend on the needs of the needy, and the phantasmagoria of corruption that ensued led directly to the rise of Hamas, the crippling of Fatah, and the collapse of the peace process.
As in the case with spoiled children, as Israel and the Palestinians received more and more attention, they focused more completely on themselves, cataloguing, memorizing, publicizing and, frequently, exaggerating, every real and imagined injury, dismissing and ignoring damage and injustice done to the other.
Like spoiled children, hardliners on each sides spin a narrative in which the other side "started it," and bears sole responsibility for the entirety of the fighting which no one seems capable of stopping. Like brats, they have no room for another narrative, for someone else's distress, to feel remorse or extend sincere apologies to address wrongs they themselves have committed.
Like spoiled children, they have been treated all too often with excesses of sympathy and compensatory, largely unappreciated gifts, rather than the respect and honesty that would better have served them.
Like spoiled children, the hardliners demand to be allowed to continue whatever destructive behavior they choose, for the sake of fairness.
This behavior, in turn, engenders revulsion on the part of the neighbors (Israeli or Palestinian) who thus become favorably disposed -- or, at least, complicit -- when harsh punishments are heard being meted out in the neighboring household (air strikes, crippling aid embargos, rocket attacks).
The result, for Israel, has been an unaddressed clash with its own future, as the number of Arabs living in Israel and the West Bank continues to rise, and Gaza continues to seethe, with no solution remotely in sight.
The consequence, for Palestinians, has been the self-immolation of their movement for independent statehood, and, in blaming the occupation for all ills, an acquired, abject incapability to alter for the better a tragic present.
Small wonder, then, that this remains the most infuriating peace process in the world. For the present, you don't have far to look to see why the Obama administration may, in the end, decide instead to devote its energies to more promising pursuits.
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It is laughable to say the the United States is afraid of Palestine. It's absurd.
The Congress of the United States is afraid of AIPAC.
its funny how the latest spin for the israeli apologists is to equate palistinian behavior with israeli behavior. its kinda like equating the civil rights marchers behavior with george wallace's behavior so as to blame both of them for interfering with the passage of the civil rights act.
there is only one spoiled child here. its time for a prolonged time out.
You can be sure that if I were languishing in a concentration camp named Gaza - and I lost friends and family at checkpoints and by sniper fire .... I would spend the rest of my life - in the narrow pursuit of revenge.
I would be committed to killing any of the enemy - anywhere - any time - by any means - until my people and family were redeemed.
We all know who that enemy is - and they have a history of claiming victimization rather than owning up to the genocidal practices that led to this conflict.
You cannot stifle free debate - or muzzle first hand knowledge of the evil done to a people.
the best thing about the death of the Wall St Journal, WaPO or the NYT is redemption for the thousands and thousands of innocent Palestinians who have been ignored by these tools of oppression.
Internet news is the answer to American opinion on this highly censored subject.
The next fight is over chat rooms that continue to use one set of standards for vilification of all things Muslim - and quite another for criticism and downright hatred for all things Jewish.
Perfect.
Washington only coddled Israel. All Palestinians got was false promises.
well said Princeton123
The Palestinians did get Billions of Dollars in aid, which quickly found it's way into the pockets of Fatah officials. It's very difficult to say that Clinton didn't coddle Arafat. He bears as much responsibility for this mess as Netenyahu. It's impossible to just blame one side.
"Over the years, Washington and the world have coddled both Israel and the Palestinians, whose behavior has come to resemble that of spoiled children."
"The TRUTH shall make you free"
EXACTLY
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