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A Fertile Summer for Violence

Posted: 08/08/2012 1:36 pm

It's been a bad summer for corn, and a fertile summer for violence.

It sprouted unexpectedly in Colorado in a movie theatre. It just shot up in Wisconsin in a Sikh house of worship. Then there's the violence that hardly gets reported from the mean streets of the neighborhoods abandoned by much of government, media and the faith community. There, we've come to accept the unacceptable as normal.

Guru Nanak, the founder of Sikhism, said, "That one plant should be sown and another be produced cannot happen; whatever seed is sown, a plant of that kind even comes forth." Jesus made the same point using a tree and fruit, and Paul made a similar statement: Whatever we sow we will reap.

If they're right, we Americans have a question to ask ourselves: What seeds have we been planting to produce this bloody harvest?

Whether in the fields of politics, race or religion, there is one under-appreciated seed that deserves our attention: identity -- identity that tells us who we are based on whom we're hostile toward.

In my upcoming book, "Why Did Jesus, Moses, the Buddha, and Mohammed Cross the Road? (Christian Identity in a Multi-Faith World)," I talk about how many of us are suffering from CRIS -- Conflicted Religious Identity Syndrome:

Whether we realize it or not, most of us who suffer from CRIS are trying to distance ourselves from religious hostility. By hostility I mean opposition, the sense that the other is the enemy. Hostility makes one unwilling to be a host (the two words are historically related). The other must be turned away, kept at a distance as an unwanted outsider, not welcomed in hospitality as a guest or friend.

Hostility is an attitude of exclusion, not embrace; of repugnance, not respect; of suspicion, not extending the benefit of the doubt; of conflict, not conviviality.


I'm sure there are parallel versions of CRIS we could call CPIS (and CEIS) -- Conflicted Political (and Ethnic) Identity Syndrome. Yes, I'm a Democrat (or Republican, or Libertarian, or Socialist), but I don't want to be associated with my fellow Democrats (or Republicans, etc.) who demonstrate hostility to their counterparts. Yes, I'm white (or African American, or Latino, etc.), but I don't see ethnic identity as a reason to be hostile toward anyone who isn't.

Hostility is a great short-cut to building identity. If we know whom we hate, whom we fear, whom we resent, whom we consider inferior, whose wrongs we will never forget, we know -- or we feel we know -- who we are. Religious and political leaders routinely build identity this way. Even parents and grandparents do it, albeit unwittingly. Because it works. And fast.

But when you plant hostility in the field of identity, the seeds will grow. And you get shooters in Colorado, shooters in Wisconsin, shooters in [insert next site of violence here].

When we realize how our leaders are stirring up hostility against "them" to create a sense of identity and solidarity among "us," we call them demagogues. And we withdraw our support. But when we don't realize what they're doing -- and we usually don't -- we keep voting for them, donating to them, revering them, defending them and imitating them. And seeds of violence sprout and grow.

In researching my book, I came to an unexpected conclusion: "The tensions between our conflicted religions arise not from our differences, but from one thing we all hold in common: an oppositional religious identity that draws strength from hostility."

If we want to stop shootings in theaters and houses of worship, we'd better start paying attention to the seeds of hostility we're sowing in our theaters and houses of worship -- and in our political speeches, on our cable news shows, in our blogs (and comment sections), and even around our dinner tables.

I reached another conclusion as I researched my book, one with which I think Jesus, Moses, the Buddha, Muhammad and Nanak -- and maybe you? -- would agree: We are increasingly faced with a choice, I believe, not between kindness and hostility, but between kindness and nonexistence.

 
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11:53 AM on 08/11/2012
"...What seeds have we been planting to produce this bloody harvest?"

We plant a seed every time we refuse to speak up when we witness an injustice.
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Kevin Miller
11:36 AM on 08/10/2012
Fantastic piece, Brian. You build a powerful metaphor here with the idea of "seeds of hostility being planted in the field of identity." Can't wait to read the new book!
05:17 AM on 08/10/2012
In some ways, this article attempts to make all of us complicit in the acts of sick, twisted minds. It is sad enough that we share in the grief of those who have suffered at the hands of killers this summer. But, it is wrong in making us share in the guilt of those who committed those crimes.

There are many, many things which separates us as a people, (e.g., race, religion, politics, etc.). Yet, I can't help but feel there are many, many things which unites us as a people. And, this article in its own way is more of a catalyst for separation than unification.

This is not to say that we need to deny "cause an effect". It is only to say that we need to place the blame clearly on those responsible for the crimes and not cast shadows on the rest of us.
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Brian D. McLaren
12:04 PM on 08/10/2012
Hi, Nephew - You're right: people must bear responsibilities for their actions. I can't help but think, though, that if we pump hostility into our social systems, that action has consequences, even if they are unintended or unanticipated. If that's the case, we who pump the hostility must bear some of the responsibility for the consequences.
01:03 AM on 08/12/2012
Absolutely, those who pump hostility into society should bear in the responsibility of its actions. And, unbeknownst to them they actually do suffer the consequences either directly or indirectly.
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Kevin Miller
10:52 AM on 08/11/2012
I disagree, Nephew. Sick people are symptomatic of sick systems. I'm quite familiar with family systems therapy, and the research bears this out. Energy flows through a family the same way it flows through a community. If there's a dysfunction in the system, individuals most susceptible to that dysfunction will act out in inappropriate ways. Often, this individual is scapegoated as the cause of the problem, but that is rarely true. Rather, they are manifesting a communal problem. And until that larger problem is dealt with, the dysfunction will continue to manifest, possibly leading to the dissolution of the family.

While I agree that those individuals directly involved in evil acts bear the most blame, none of us can absolve ourselves of responsibility. Because at some point, the chain of love, accountability and community has broken down. Rather than point fingers at those who act out, it behooves all of us to examine ourselves to see how we failed this person. In the case of James Eagan Holmes, for example, there were clear warning signs that he was struggling, but authorities failed to act on them in time.

This also points to a fundamental problem with our entire justice system--it takes an individualistic approach to crime rather than a communal approach, which essentially turns it into an institutionalized form of scapegoating. As long as we cling to this individualistic view--treating the symptom rather than the underlying communal problem--we can look forward to more acts of this kind.
10:11 PM on 08/09/2012
Has McLaren ever really read the Bible? Horrific violence, hostility and hatred have been around since Cain and Abel - well before McLaren's brilliantly researched causes of threaters, houses of worship, political speeches and cable news shows. The evils of violence and hatred stem from a sinful heart - not from social causes. McLaren questions the existence of evil and Hell, both of which Jesus (apparently one of McLaren's heroes along with those other guys) explicitly taught about, fought against, and overcame with his death and resurrection. It's no surprise a heretic like Mr. McLaren would try to look for answers elsewhere and attempt to promote himself as some sort of enlightened, new age thinker and crusader against some kooky, made up syndrome.
12:29 PM on 08/09/2012
If we want to stop shootings in theaters and houses of worship, we'd better start paying attention to the seeds of hostility we're sowing in our theaters and houses of worship -- and in our political speeches, on our cable news shows, in our blogs (and comment sections), and even around our dinner tables. We need to ask God to cleanse our hearts of everything contrary to His character of love. How did Jesus treat the woman at the well? How did Jesus treat the woman taken in adultery? Remember the story of the good Samaritan? If we truly treated people of other faiths, ethnicities, etc. the way that Jesus Himself treated them (rather than many professing "Christians" would have us treat them), we would be better witnesses for Christ and the world would be a much better place.
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Brian D. McLaren
12:09 PM on 08/10/2012
Well said, Lewis. Thanks.
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notanaxkiller
Athiests are Godless
09:06 AM on 08/09/2012
If you seek an answer for our violence, look to our representatives in washington. Look to violent video games, and music. Look to children being taught to kill, and then returned home. Look for the values, and morals of God being removed from our lives. Don't look at religion. It is the last fort of hope.
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Brian D. McLaren
12:10 PM on 08/10/2012
Thanks, Notanaxkiller - I agree with you that religion holds hope, but I have to acknowledge that religion can also hold danger masquerading as hope. I hope you'll take a look at my upcoming book which explores this theme. I believe we have to work together to be sure that religion becomes more of a force for peace and reconciliation and less a force for hostility and violence in our world.
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notanaxkiller
Athiests are Godless
02:25 PM on 08/10/2012
I agree completely. Thanks for your response. I'll look for your book.
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10:30 PM on 08/08/2012
"...one thing we all hold in common: an oppositional religious identity that draws strength from hostility."

Yes, unless religious practice addresses that specific and particular temptation (and the Declaration of Independence's "all men are created equal" offers guidance) it is highly likely that it will infect any community. However, the risks are much greater for those who practice evangelism. Therefore it is only in the spirit of love that one ought to offer admonitions to anyone who has not requested them.

Nothing is harder to do than to help someone else. Consequently it should be offered only as asked for. And if asked for, it should be granted.
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Brian D. McLaren
12:12 PM on 08/10/2012
Well said, January. You're echoing the sentiments of the great Danish philosopher Soren Kierkegaard, in his posthumous work, "The Point of View or my Work as an Author."
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Frank Schaeffer
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08:50 PM on 08/08/2012
Brian writes: "We are increasingly faced with a choice, I believe, not between kindness and hostility, but between kindness and nonexistence." Too true. And people like me who believe in fighting for good causes need to remember not to do that in a bad way. Thanks for the timely reminder Brian.
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Brian D. McLaren
12:12 PM on 08/10/2012
Thanks, Frank - and thanks for your excellent article on a similar theme! Well said, as usual.
04:21 PM on 08/08/2012
I think many Americans have inadvertently chosen nonexistence. A republic built on firm secular principles while giving fertile ground to the practice of religion is slowly eroding to a fearful theocracy. Eventually, those Americans who want "our America back" will find they have lost everything. Americans need a world view based in kindness not just tolerance. All human beings have a right to life; this right trumps the Second Amendment.
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Brian D. McLaren
12:14 PM on 08/10/2012
William - this is why voices for reconciliation and kindness must not be intimidated into silence, or discouraged by louder and more angry voices. Thanks for speaking up.