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Karen Armstrong's 12 Steps of Compassion to Change the World

Posted: 01/28/2011 7:40 pm

Karen Armstrong began her recent talk at the New York Public Library by illustrating the centrality of the Golden Rule in the Abrahamic faiths with a traditional story of Rabbi Hillel.

When asked by a Gentile to explain the entirety of the Torah while standing on one foot, the rabbi readily assented and gave the response, "What is hateful to you, do not do to your fellow. The rest is just commentary. Now go and learn."

With a new book, 12 Steps to a Compassionate Life, Armstrong continues her efforts to work toward a world that honors this great idea.

Nearly three years ago, in February of 2008, Karen Armstrong was awarded the TED Prize for her comprehensive scholarship of world religions and her groundbreaking work in interfaith understanding. Granted the opportunity to fulfill one wish, Armstrong asked the organization to help her, "Create, launch and propagate a Charter for Compassion, crafted by a group of leading inspirational thinkers from the three Abrahamic traditions of Judaism, Christianity and Islam and based on the fundamental principles of universal justice and respect."

While Armstrong did not know exactly what this charter would say, she knew her study of the world's religious traditions had revealed a common thread that emphasized selflessness, empathy and community. Literally every single religion supported a core value that was commonly known as the Golden Rule: treat others in the way you would like to be treated. In a single word: compassion. All too frequently, this was and is a thread that has ceased to become the focus of religion. A circumstance is created in which religious believers often act in opposition to the core message of their faiths and nonbelievers vilify religion as the source of many of the world's problems.

A year and a half later, November of 2009, the Charter for Compassion was revealed. The creation process included the contributions of more than 150,000 people around the world who submitted their thoughts online. The ideas were then refined into a final draft by a panel of leading religious thinkers.

Yet the completion of the Charter was just another beginning for Armstrong, who stated in her original TED talk that she wished to "create a movement."

Fast-forward another year to the beginning of 2011. The Charter for Compassion has been affirmed online by more than 64,000 signatories. Seattle has become the first member of the Charter's cities program with several other cities around the world set to join in official support of the Charter's ideals.

A 12-Step Program

Armstrong continues to work dilligently in support of the Charter, traveling the world in order to work with religious institutions, local governments, educational programs and business leaders along with her frequent public speaking engagements. By writing 12 Steps to A Compassionate Life, she has articulated her vision of how the movement toward compassion can be manifest in the daily lives and interpersonal relations of individuals.

On Jan. 11, Armstrong appeared at the New York Public Library in conjunction with their Three Faiths exhibition to talk about this latest work and its role in her vision of a more compassionate world. (A complete video of her talk is now available here.)

The concept behind the book and the usage of the "12 Step" format is an intentional nod to the well-known Alcoholics Anonymous program for recovery from addiction, she told the crowd. This is because, in many ways, acting selfishly and with prejudice is an addiction. By affirming one's own beliefs, choices or status and degrading the "other," we get a buzz of sorts -- a buzz that is in direct contradiction with the spirit of the Golden Rule.

12 Steps to A Compassionate Life proceeds to break down the barriers to living compassionately in a way that forces readers into a brutally honest self-examination. In the introduction, Armstrong warns readers that the process will not be easy and reorienting oneself to living compassionately is not like a television makeover show in which a subject is radically transformed in a matter of a few days.

She made a key clarification to the audience at the library when she explained that our modern understanding and usage of the word "compassion" is frequently watered down to merely mean feeling pity and sadness at the suffering of others. In fact, the Latin etymology of the word, com pati, means "to suffer with": to actively participate and share in the suffering of others.

Reiterating an idea that she touched on in her acceptance of the TED Prize, Armstrong stated that compassion, living according to the Golden Rule, requires "removing oneself from the center of existence and placing others in that spot."

Of course, one of the major challenges for Armstrong is convincing people who have religious ideas that are vastly different on the surface that their core beliefs are actually quite similar. Despite the ever-shrinking nature of the world, there is widespread hatred that is based purely on misinformation and fear of those who are different. 12 Steps to a Compassionate Life is packed with scriptural examples from every major tradition to reinforce Armstrong's major premise; that the Golden Rule is universal.

Even with an expansive knowledge of world religions, Armstrong recognizes that there will always be people and things that cannot be understood. Thus, a major component of the "12 Steps" is to recognize and accept the limits of one's own ideas and knowledge. Individual steps with names like "Look at Your Own World," "Mindfulness," "How Little We Know" and "Knowledge" hammer home the importance of accepting the fact that no individual possesses absolute wisdom.

This issue is only exacerbated by our current mode of "dialogue," which consists of, as Armstrong says, "bludgeoning" our opponents into submitting to our position. This represents a stark contrast with the Socratic understanding of the method that placed an emphasis on inquiry and exploration in order to further understanding for all parties.

In some ways, the seeking of knowledge can be a religious pursuit unto itself. Asked by a questioner at the event about the current standing of her own religious beliefs, Armstrong replied that she now finds the greatest meaning in her own scholarly quest to explore and understand the world's faith traditions.

Carrying the Charter Forward, Into Pakistan

When I called Armstrong a few days later to talk further about her appearance and discuss the future of the Charter for Compassion, she spoke enthusiastically about three areas in which she and her allies hope to focus their efforts in the coming year: Youth, developing a curriculum for interfaith relations to be used in schools, colleges and places of worship and the expansion of the cities program to garner the support of municipalities around the world.

Her immediate plans include an upcoming trip to Pakistan, a nation to which she has previously visited and possesses great optimism for the implementation of the Charter's tenets.

"What a wonderful thing it would be, to have this message of compassion coming out of a country that is absolutely on the front line of some of our major problems," she told me.

With so much focus on the War on Terror, the conflict with India and the recent assassination of Salman Taseer, the Western media paints a picture of Pakistan as a religiously polarized and hopelessly divided country. According to Armstrong this is far from the case -- a product of poor reporting and a fascination with the rise of fundamentalist Islam by the rest of the world. When Armstrong goes there next month, she will work closely with allies, primarily in the world of business, who are helping to establish mechanisms that will support the central ideas of the Charter, not only within Pakistan but also across the Pakistan-India border.

"Businessmen want peace, whereas politicians, frankly I don't hold that much hope for them," she said. "Businessmen are working as leaders of civil society in the cause of peace between these two countries."

She also spoke at length about the many youth measures that the Charter is now focusing on. The Charter organization is working to develop curriculums to help schools and universities in Pakistan and elsewhere to broach the topic of religion in a fair and respectful way.

To aid in her efforts, Armstrong has adapted 12 Steps and created a specifically Islamic commentary called A Letter to Pakistan. The letter is going to be printed and sold at the lowest cost possible by Oxford University Press to enable widespread distribution and, keeping in line with her own assertion that a dialogue must be an exploration rather than a lecture, includes responses from Pakistani imams.

She described this work by saying, "The conversation is beginning. It's not that I am dictating 'here is what you must say.' This is something just to start the ball rolling."

By far the most amazing takeaway from 12 Steps to a Compassionate Life, and by extension Karen Armstrong, is the enduring optimism of the message. Here is someone who knows more about the history of the world's religions than just about anyone else on the planet, and she is working tirelessly to emphasize the innate goodness of those traditions. In the face of governments and countries that are plagued by a seemingly hopeless cycle of conflict and intolerance, Armstrong reminds us that religion is a deeply individual pursuit. A pursuit that, regardless of tradition or beliefs, can include dedicating oneself to the core value of religion -- the lesson of Rabbi Hillel.

 

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Karen Armstrong began her recent talk at the New York Public Library by illustrating the centrality of the Golden Rule in the Abrahamic faiths with a traditional story of Rabbi Hillel. When asked by...
Karen Armstrong began her recent talk at the New York Public Library by illustrating the centrality of the Golden Rule in the Abrahamic faiths with a traditional story of Rabbi Hillel. When asked by...
 
 
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09:41 PM on 01/31/2011
Great illumination - it's that simple and that difficult and enough challenge for a lifetime. Do unto others. Compassion for others AND for yourself. It's an opportunity to explore the potential that we have as a whole instead of a sum of the parts. Thank-you.
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MohammedAbbasi
Co-Director, Association of British Muslims
07:09 AM on 01/31/2011
Good message - sharing this :)
06:22 AM on 01/31/2011
Armstrong has my attention. I'm reading "The History of God" right now, very good. Blending 12 step with Golden Rule....not bad idea.
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Joye
05:17 AM on 01/31/2011
More people should be compassionate towards others.
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FreedToChoose
...lest my wife says I'm not.
07:28 PM on 01/31/2011
Actually they usually are. Those who aren't are the exception... if we start with compassion, it is invariably returned.
01:28 AM on 01/31/2011
More than any other writer of religious books that I have read in my lifetime, Karen Armstrong has had the most profound effect on my ministerial life. She reminds us that no one individual possesses absolute wisdom , but she comes the closest. I highly reccommend her books, THE BATTLE FOR GOD and A HISTORY OF GOD.
03:36 PM on 01/30/2011
Another 12-step program. Oh no!
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FreedToChoose
...lest my wife says I'm not.
07:28 PM on 01/31/2011
Actually it's thirteen. The first step is to begin.
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Steve McSwain
Author; speaker; spiritual teacher
03:21 PM on 01/30/2011
It is true that the Old and New Testament is full of violence and prejudice in varied and disturbing forms. But, in the teachings of Jesus there is familiarity with all great spiritual masters who taught justice to all, peace, love and a selfless giving of oneself in the service of humanity. Karen Armstrong is a voice in a wilderness of religious madness and I commend you and support your efforts to create a more conscious, compassionate, cooperative, and charitable world.
03:18 PM on 01/30/2011
this is a comment to gates foundation [hopefully relevent]:in religious festivals we are asked to remember the good in order to increase the good

His Holiness maharishi mahesh yogi being a quantum physicist [ quantum attention theory in this connection­]and deeply conscious of vedic literature taught " whatever w eput our attention on grows stronger in our life "

in the field of health this means prevention [[[ but not vaccinatio­n ]]]

of all the details in this field aspects of mental and physical health and ecological or habitat health
from western and eastern perspectiv­e including meditation to strengthen immune function

the most complete knowledge is in maharishi ayur veda , transcende­ntal meditation­(TM) , maharishi sthapatya veda [ green architectu­re in accord with natural law or cosmic law] vedic organic agricultur­e [ all the better diet matters to balance immune function] maahrishi jyotish and yagya [ the highest level of prevention­] maharishi gandharva veda music

a good spiritual practice [ which strengthen­s mental physical emotional health and well being] is to remember all the good today ... again at the most complete level of all the things peopel can do, is vedic calender day celebratio­n http://cal­endars.glo­balgoodnew­s.com/vedi­c/10.html

to enliven the devata of the day in our consciousn­ess and physiology

so this is a brief survey of natural an dspiritual alternativ­es to vaccinatio­ns which unlike vaccines do not only protect against infection but also enliven an dstrengthe­n all aspects of mind body soul and habitat
12:46 PM on 01/30/2011
Why are Karen Armstrong's 12 steps a nonsense? For the very same reason that religious ideas have so little progressive impact on the modern world, and are too often corrupted into the very opposite of what they should be. Thus "the path to hell is paved with good intentions." The religious mind begins with a dishonest view of the character and potential of human nature itself and the ability of reason to internalize higher values as moral conduct. So however one may empathize with her aspirational elements, which are hardly new, she will change nothing. She only reminds us once again that the path of realization to those higher ideals continues to remain outside natural reason and theology. And to pretend otherwise is just human pretension and vanity. All is chasing after wind. When and if such a means to ends is ever revealed, true religion will have begun. http://www.energon.org.uk
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09:25 AM on 01/30/2011
It's amusing to me that righteous, kind-hearted believers tell us that the stories of the bible embellish a central lesson of compassion and kindness toward our fellow humans. But to arrive at that conclusion, you'd have to throw away virtually all of the Old Testament and most of the New and replace them with Sunday school bromides about how god torments us because he loves us, that god's petty narcissism is love and his vengeance is kindness.

The unmistakable fundamental message of the bible is this: I am god, the boss, and you are nothing. If you sin against me, I will torture and kill you, in fact, I may torture and kill you anyway just for my amusement. While I am busy elsewhere, I expect you to torture and kill each other in my absence. And you should know that I am impossible to please but I demand that you devote your lives to trying anyway.

Religion's most despised enemies are kindness and compassion. If kindness and compassion were to thrive among all people, religion would die. Here's to the golden rule.
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FreedToChoose
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10:05 AM on 01/30/2011
The golden rule, a.k.a. the ethic of reciprocity, is the tap root of compassion and evident in every religion and positive morality. See it in its many forms at

http://www.religioustolerance.org/reciproc.htm
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raker
10:37 AM on 01/30/2011
Religion's opinion of itself is often out of sync with religion's practices. Religion builds walls and calls it breaking down walls. I think the evidence shows that people behave ethically and morally despite religion, not because of it.
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FreedToChoose
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09:23 AM on 01/30/2011
I am reading it and am impressed at her careful, intelligent,methodical assessment of the situation we face, each of us. It's a question of whether we will live a life born of primitive emotions including fear and fighting or use our cognitive endowments of thinking and reason to transcend fear and live as the sages--especially Socrates, Buddha, Confucius/Lao-Tzu and Jesus--encouraged.

Unlike too many others, she poses the issue as a question and opportunity. Of course I am prejudiced as I have enjoyed her writing since the beginning, especially The Great Transformation which may be the foundation work for this practicum.
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khanti
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09:21 AM on 01/30/2011
You have compassion and then you have Compassion. One with a tinge of selfishness and the other one unselfish/selfless. Selective compassion are thoese practice geared to certain people you like, your children and wife for example or just for those with similar faith to you. The other Compassion is universal compassion which covers all beings seen or unsen. From ants to humans even to god(s) and spirits to tjhose born in the lower realms like hell states. Compassion is awaken at the sight of sufferings and is spontaneous.
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ninetailedfox
banning people.....so childish
08:23 PM on 01/29/2011
Karen Armstrong's approach to religious tolerance has to extend beyond the Abrahamic three, otherwise its just a bunch of nice sentiments, but nothing more. Of course Most monotheistic faiths dont acknowledge Pagans, Buddhists, Shintos, Hindus, and other beliefs that most have never considered.
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FreedToChoose
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10:11 AM on 01/30/2011
And it does. If you read both The Great Transformation--an assessment of what was happening with Socrates, Buddha, Confucius and in Judaism through Jesus--and The 12 Steps, you will find a broad view. Her "God" books ignored non-monotheist faiths because they weren't germane to the subject.
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FreedToChoose
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04:27 PM on 02/02/2011
I am far enough into "Twelve Steps" to know she is quite balanced in her inclusion of Buddhist and Confucian references, possibly more so than Judeo/Christian/Islamic ones.
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sydneymoon
Dismiss what insults your own soul - WW
08:14 PM on 01/29/2011
"The History of God" and "The Battle for God' are both great reading.
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messy
artist, writer, adventurer
04:42 PM on 01/29/2011
I remember how Armstrong said how wonderful Jerusalem was when there weren't any Jews allowed there.
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bryanzth
Honest to Goodness USA Patriot!
07:47 PM on 01/29/2011
Well, can you think why? And I don't mean this as any anti-you-know-who thing, but rather, if a neighborhood is calm, and the neighbors are clean, industrious and friendly, and then the neighborhood is invaded, which causes all kinds of trouble and then neighbors start disappearing? What would you think?

BZ.
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gibranII
seeking peace through equality
01:27 AM on 02/01/2011
when did she say that ... citation
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messy
artist, writer, adventurer
08:01 AM on 02/01/2011
Several chapters in her history of Jerusalem. Dozens of pages about how what a wonderful place East Jerusalem was when it was under Jordanian control.