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The Shame of Celibacy

Posted: 01/10/2012 4:00 pm

I was saddened to learn of the resignation this week of Gabino Zavala, Auxiliary Bishop of the Los Angeles Roman Catholic Archdiocese.

This is not another sexual abuse case involving a priest. Like many, I am skeptical of the Catholic Church. It's a sketchy place. And yet, as a resident of Los Angeles, I benefit from the Church's moral and financial presence here -- a presence that lifts up entire sections of the city. This is particularly the case in Latino communities, which make up 65 percent of the 5 million Catholics living in Los Angeles. The strength of these communities is the strength of LA.

By all accounts, Gavino Zavala is not just one of the good guys, he's one of the very best guys. One who has served the tragically underserved Latino community of East LA for 35 years. One who has been an outspoken advocate for immigration rights. One who is largely responsible for widespread prison reform. One who has worked tirelessly to improve conditions for the working poor.

It turns out, like billions of people, he is also a parent. And because of this, he is no longer a priest.

Speaking for the Church, in response to Zavala's resignation, Archbishop Jose Gomez writes, "The archdiocese has reached out to the mother and children to provide spiritual care as well as funding to assist the children with college costs." What is considered standard procedure by corporations and small businesses in this country is regaled as benevolence by the Catholic Church. A condolence package for its dishonorably discharged. A kind gesture to its non-celibate, mortal sinners.

Of which over half of Catholic priests are.

According to A.W. Richard Sipe, a former Benedictine monk and retired psychotherapist who spent 25 years recording clerical sexual practices, "At any one time, no more than fifty percent of Catholic clergy professing celibacy are actually practicing sexual abstinence." A similar study by Father Victor Kotze puts the number at 45 percent. The Vatican does not dispute this. In 1993, when presented with these findings by the BBC, Cardinal Jose Sanchez stated, "I have no reason to doubt the accuracy of those figures."

The fact is, if all bishops and priests who are presently engaged in consensual sexual relations with adults were to resign, the hierarchy of the Catholic Church would be decimated.

Why, then, doesn't the Vatican simply change the rule? According to Sipe, it comes down to money:

It's in the financial interest of the Church to uphold celibacy doctrines because it doesn't take as much money to supply the life's care of a priest or a nun as it would with an entire family. So the Church controls the system through guilt. Sin is their bailiwick. It sets up the guilt and then the forgiveness. For example, the most common sexual practice among young priests is masturbation. The church teaches that this is a mortal sin, so priests are immediately caught in a cycle of guilt and confession and guilt and confession. Many also have sex, another clerical sin. And who has charge of forgiving these sins? The Church. Control a person's sexual practice, and you control the person.

"Let the person among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone." --John 8:7

 

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12:22 PM on 01/23/2012
From an April 2006 press conference Bishop Zavala was holding at the Downtown LA Cathedral:

“ The bishop explained that on May 1, ‘International Worker’s Day,’ the Archdiocese of Los Angeles would instruct its parishes to ring their church bells at 5 p. m. ‘ as a symbol of solidarity’ with workers and immigrants.

“ ‘Bishop,’ I asked respectfully, ‘what do you say to those Catho­lics troubled by your alliance with these left-leaning groups given their historic affection for abortion rights?’ “The bishop looked at me as if I had just peed on his shoes. ‘What are you talking about?’ he scoffed. ‘This isn’t about left or right. This is about justice.’ “ ‘Bishop,’ I smiled, ‘May 1st? In­ternational Worker’s Day?’ “A few months later the unions repaid the Catholic Church for its support. The Los Angeles Times
summarized the issue succinctly enough: “ ‘ California’s leading union or­ganization, bucking organized la­bor’s longstanding neutrality on the issue of abortion, is for the first time taking a strong stand in favor of abortion rights.’ “ Specifically, the union asked its 2.1 million members to reject Proposition 85. This initiative would merely have required abor­tionists to honor the standards of ear- piercers and aspirin dispensers and get parents’ permission before going to work on their daughters.
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julbar
04:13 PM on 01/14/2012
Jesus may very well have had a wife, typical for those days.. However, if he had chosen to be an Essene, a celbate sect, he would have chosen celibacy.. No one knows.
10:48 AM on 01/12/2012
The author would have a point about about celibacy IF sex were the greatest and best source of fulfillment or even a necessary source of fulfillment for a joyful life. Or even if sexual gratification were a basic human life. But none of these is true.

Worship/communion with G-D is actually the basic human necessity (Luke 10:42) and greatest source of peace and joy that humans can know. The only true and eternal Peace and Joy.
03:57 PM on 01/12/2012
Really? I would talk to a healthy 14 year old about what he is doing in the bathroom all the time. It will put Luke in perspective. Hint: he is not praying.
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julbar
04:09 PM on 01/14/2012
It is nothing short of absurd to have celibacy as a condition for preisthood. High and mighty as it feels its collective self is, I think it is quite clear, in the great majority of cases, the church is not recruiting spiritually gifted human beings but ordinary nice guys who want to serve god.. Why on this green earth, should celibacy have anything to do with it?

You can't have every other human emotion available to counsel constituents and quash this one .. It has proven only a hindrance to these young men and btw, empty seminaries speak volumes...

Catholics should besiege the church on this issue as should priests everywhere. This nutty law has ruined the church on so many levels.
been2there
Facts have a liberal bias.
11:02 PM on 01/11/2012
Money is the reason celibacy was first mandated--if priests had family, that family could inherit. Can't have that.
03:47 PM on 01/11/2012
I think a religion like Mormonism that teaches the sanctity of the male/female union s more logical and potent than theologies that teach us to eschew that bond and the yin/yang synergy inherent in it.
03:58 PM on 01/12/2012
Hmmm... you might want to chose a different example than Mormons... for well known reasons.
11:13 AM on 01/11/2012
Professors who have sex with their students and supervisors who have sex with their employees are subject to disciplinary action. A priest who's having sex with one of his congregation should be no different. It's the imbalance of power that causes problems.

A priest having a relationship with someone outside the church should be okay, but then they'd have different problems, like why is a Catholic priest with someone who's not Catholic. Just can't win.
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raker
08:46 AM on 01/11/2012
The celibacy problem is not only easy to remedy, it is entirely avoidable: don't become a catholic priest. I'd go further and recommend churchgoers shun a church that requires its priests to swear off sex.

The "sin," the transgression is not the sex per se, it's the breaking a promise never to have sex. That's a crazy promise to make. It's no wonder so few keep it. Being sexual is healthy; being celibate is aberrant.
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phal4875
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02:34 PM on 01/11/2012
I could not agree more. I think your statement reveals a lot about Christianity. It was created by a man, the Apostle Paul, who found both homosexual and heterosexual relations to be disgusting. He said that he wished all could be celibate, as he was.

Before the appearance of Paul, Christianity was a modified version of Judaism. Paul changed that by concentrating on Gentiles, not lapsed Jews, as Jesus had done.
09:41 AM on 01/18/2012
The Catechism explains:

All the ordained ministers of the Latin Church, with the exception of permanent deacons, are normally chosen from among men of faith who live a celibate life and who intend to remain celibate "for the sake of the kingdom of heaven." Called to consecrate themselves with undivided heart to the Lord and to "the affairs of the Lord," they give themselves entirely to God and to men. Celibacy is a sign of this new life to the service of which the Church's minister is consecrated; accepted with a joyous heart celibacy radiantly proclaims the Reign of God.

In the Eastern Churches a different discipline has been in force for many centuries: while bishops are chosen solely from among celibates, married men can be ordained as deacons and priests. This practice has long been considered legitimate; these priests exercise a fruitful ministry within their communities. Moreover, priestly celibacy is held in great honor in the Eastern Churches and many priests have freely chosen it for the sake of the Kingdom of God. In the East as in the West a man who has already received the sacrament of Holy Orders can no longer marry. (pars 1579-80)
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onlyThis
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08:40 AM on 01/11/2012
What can one expect when we expect priests and nuns to live their entire lives with no human intimacy (not just talking about sex). No wonder alcoholism and sexual deviancy are so rampant in the RCC. Imagine living your whole life never being allowed to really touch someone or to be touched in an intimate way. Imagine never being allowed to be in love with someone. Never being allowed to tell someone that you love them in an intimate way. How can one live a life of wholeness is you have to cut off a major and integral part of your emotional life?
10:53 PM on 01/10/2012
It's not secret that a big reason to keep celibacy around is the financial sense of it. Catholic priests are juggled around parishes all the time, sometimes 3 or 4 times in a decade. Anyone who has a job in the State Department or a international company knows this isn't a good mix for families, especially when a local diocese doesn't have as much money as the two mentioned. Financially it's much easier to support a single guy and all the many perks Catholic priests have (healthcare, food, housing) than it is an entire family.

I also think the blogger has misinterpreted the studies findings. A sin against a vow of celibacy can be anything from watching porn to masturbation to an actual sexual relationship with an adult. It doesn't mean that 50% of all Catholic priests are having sex.

Believe it or not the priesthood is a vocation from God, not just another job like a lawyer or a electrician. Men who are called to be priests give up a lot in order to serve the flock better, including a loving family.
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Rayosun
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11:24 PM on 01/10/2012
People who say "Believe it or not the priesthood is a vocation from God," are likely to also believe that it's God's "Holy Spirit" that selects popes in the papal consisteries. If THAT's the case, read http://JesusWouldBeFurious.Org/PopesvsChrist.html to see what a royal screw-up that "Holy Spirit" has proven himself to be over the course of papal history!
03:40 AM on 01/11/2012
Gee wiz, so you're telling me that the Church has had quite a few bad popes? You mean, not every pope has been an honest and holy man? Woah stop the presses!

In all seriousness, the medieval popes so denounced in your highly credible and researched link have all their reigns modeled after a 12th century monarchy. The papacy owned land, levied taxes, and raised armies. If you look at it through the lens of a monarchy and not as a gentle shepherd of souls, you'll begin to understand why so many horrible things have been committed by the papacy.

By the way, I really hope you don't think that link is credible.
10:46 PM on 01/10/2012
Their are plenty of denominations that allow Clergy to marry. The RCC does not. It would seem a simple matter fo anyone who wishes not to be celibate to seek a place in another denomination.
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Cye
09:35 PM on 01/11/2012
Thats a bit tricky. If you really think and feel that the RCC's doctrines are right, then its not just a simple matter of switching religions as if they were all the same.
12:46 PM on 01/12/2012
If you really think and feel that the RCC is not right in the celibacy requirement, it would seem a simple matter for anyone who wishes not to be celibate to seek a place in another denomination.

Better?
09:11 PM on 01/10/2012
The Catholic Church would have more members if people stopped living like animals and doing whatever they wanted. It's called self-control. Not being "controlled" by a religion.
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phal4875
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02:36 PM on 01/11/2012
It is safe to say that many people are not "living like animals." Going against natural feelings and self-control are two different concepts.
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08:50 PM on 01/10/2012
I"m not throwing any stones...good points
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08:25 PM on 01/10/2012
Not even I can be that cynical. This reminds me of a bizarre conversation with a co-worker, who seriously argued that gay marriage was actually being fought because spouse benefits would be too costly. I was so flabbergasted by it, I was speechless. That might make some really obscure correlated reasoning, but I find it hard to believe anyone actually buys that argument.
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C. Brian Smith
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02:36 PM on 01/11/2012
I don't think your coworker was entirely mistaken, actually.
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08:39 PM on 01/11/2012
I'm not that cynical. That would be like saying slavery shouldn't be outlawed, because it might raise the cost of my clothes. It isn't just failing to grasp the human rights issue, it is literally immoral.
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Claude Hosch
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07:33 PM on 01/10/2012
Priests should read 1Ti.3:1-7, and tell the Pope the Bible says it ok to have a wife.
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SGGardner
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06:41 PM on 01/10/2012
As if the Catholic church needed even more hypocrisy, due to their declining numbers, they have begin soliciting Episcopal ministers (married with or without children) to take over existing Catholic churches that they cannot fill with their own.

Absolutely amazing.
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phal4875
The world is run by cats; we just feed them.
02:39 PM on 01/11/2012
It is puzzling why Episcopal ministers or priests would become Roman Catholic priests. The main difference seems to be allegiance to the Pope in the Catholic Church. Why would a person not controlled by a Pope in the Episcopal Church decide he prefers Papal control?