10 Signs Your Relationship Is Over

05/02/2015 10:30 am ET | Updated May 02, 2016

Sometimes it can be difficult to spot the signs that your relationship is over. Maybe things aren't as good as they used to be. Perhaps one of you has been unhappy recently and you can't figure out why. Here are 10 signs that your relationship is over.

1. Who Are You?
When you first started dating, there was no subject that was off-limits. You and your man could talk all day and all night long. He was your best friend and the person you called multiple times a day. Now, trying to have a conversation with him is worse than having your teeth pulled.

2. Bye Bye Sex
Has your man lost interest in sex... with you? You put on your sexiest lingerie, but just he isn't interested. Does he tell you that he's not in the mood or that he's tired or had a long day? If you can't remember the last time you got busy between the sheets, you're about to embark on a really long dry spell, which is one of the main signs that your relationship is over.

3. Orgasm Who?
When the relationship was just beginning, you were having orgasms around the clock. They were so frequent that you thought life couldn't get any better. You were literally in sex heaven. Now, you don't remember the last time you had one. An orgasm is a woman's way of connecting with her man. If there's no orgasm, there's no connection. Realize it might be time to say goodbye to your relationship.

4. Call Me!
The roles have reversed. In the beginning he used to call you, text you and send you cute love notes all the time. Now, you're the one constantly calling him. What happened? His heart just isn't in the relationship anymore.

5. Shower Time
Has your man been taking really long showers? He's in there for a while and you wonder what he could possibly be doing? If his long shower time has become a routine, he's probably not just rinsing off...

6. Where'd The Fun Go?
When you first met, your boyfriend was Mr. Romantic. He loved surprising you with home-cooked dinner nights and incredible vacations. Now, trying to get him to take you on a date is practically impossible.

7. Hey, Friends
Have you been spending a lot of extra time with your friends? Is your man busy that you haven't seen him in weeks? Red flag.

8. Work, Work, Work
Is your boyfriend turning into a workaholic? He always spent a lot of time at the office, but now he seems to have work events every other night. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it sounds like he's avoiding you.

9. Forget Me Not

Does he seem really absent-minded these days? Does he forget all special occasions like holidays and anniversaries? Perhaps he's trying to send you little subconscious hints that he doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore.

10. World War III
Does it feel like you're fighting a war in your personal life? If you and your partner are always at each other's throats, something is clearly wrong. It's common for couples to fight. If they didn't, make-up sex wouldn't be as much fun as it is. But there's a fine line between healthy fighting and fighting incessantly with no resolution.

If your life sounds anything like this article, it's time to make a change. You're too good to settle for anything but the best.


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