Caroline Presno, Ed.D., P.C.C., is a psychotherapist, doctor of education, and author of Profiling Your Date: A Smart Woman’s Guide to Evaluating a Man (St. Martin’s Press).

Presno is also a contributor to Yahoo! Personals/Front Page and FriendFinder.com. She often appears in publications such as Cosmopolitan and frequently does local and national radio and TV spots such as FOX's The Morning Show with Mike and Juliet, WGN News Chicago, FOX 19 Cincinnati, the CW's Daily Buzz, NPR's Topical Currents, and a two year “Dr. Caroline” spot on a local Clear Channel station.

Two of her TV interviews can be viewed at the following links:
www.myspace.com/profilingyourdate
http://www.mandjshow.com/videos/profiling-your-date

Blog Entries by Caroline Presno

10 Signs You're In A Commitment-Ready Relationship

Posted August 18, 2009 | 02:00 PM (EST)


Are you part of a relationship that is revved-up and ready to move forward?

Commitment means having the "intention to persist" in a relationship; being psychologically attached to each other; and developing a "cognitive orientation" that says, "Yes, we are in this for the long run," according to A Clinician's...

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Karl Rove Needs a Dictionary: Get Your Definition of Empathy Correct

17 Comments | Posted May 29, 2009 | 11:32 AM (EST)


Karl Rove is changing the definition of 'empathy' in order to lead the charge against Supreme Court nominee Sonia Sotomayor. But since the extreme Right is developing a penchant for objective truth at this time, it's important for them to get the objective definition of 'empathy' correct.

In his Wall...

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On The Bachelor: Good Guys Are In, Bad Boys Are Out

Posted February 24, 2009 | 01:22 PM (EST)


The Bachelor is experiencing a ratings renaissance. A few short seasons ago, it looked like The Bachelor/Bachelorette series wasn't going to get another rose from ABC. Then the producers decided to get real with the reality show. According to TVWeek, the show's creator and executive producer, Mike Fleiss said, "Rather...

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Top Poker Pros, Joseph Hachem, Chad Brown, and More Give Advice on the Game of Love

Posted January 28, 2009 | 04:36 PM (EST)


We all know the saying, "Lucky in cards; unlucky in love." But I got to thinking, good game in poker could translate into good game in love. As Valentine's Day approaches, I went to top poker pros including, 2005 World Series of Poker, Main Event winner, Joseph Hachem, and poker...

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The Fringe Right Bubble is Bursting

Posted October 27, 2008 | 03:49 PM (EST)


Americans are living though a new era of "pop" culture. First, the inflated financial bubble popped on Wall Street. Now the fringe Right bubble is bursting on main street.

During the Carter administration in which the economy suffered double digit inflation, the air was let out of old time...

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Five Reasons Why Obama Is Mr. Self-Actualized

Posted October 20, 2008 | 04:20 PM (EST)


It's a rare thing to be Mr. or Ms. Self-Actualized. Less than 1% of us will ever get there. According to psychologist Abraham Maslow, those who did include Abraham Lincoln, Thomas Jefferson, and Eleanor Roosevelt.

Throughout the '08 campaign, Barack Obama has given every indication that he is the...

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Behar Takes Heat on The View for Calling Palin's Statement Dumb

Posted October 1, 2008 | 02:45 PM (EST)


In reference to a joke Sarah Palin made about Joe Biden's age, Joy Behar began to say, "The fact that she's so dumb..." Behar was quickly met with boos from the audience and her co-hosts. She then changed her words to it's "politically unastute" to make a joke about someone's...

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Four Ways to Tell if You're Being Cheated On

Posted September 24, 2008 | 05:49 PM (EST)


Trust can be tricky--you want to have confidence in the fidelity of your partner, but sometimes you just can't. There's a nagging feeling in your gut that says, "I think I'm being cheated on." Here are four ways to tell if your hunches match reality:

1. Boredom
Cheaters are...

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Do Dems Need Swift Boat Strategy of Their Own?

Posted September 12, 2008 | 11:50 AM (EST)


The high road is beginning to look like the Bridge to Nowhere. The Democrats need an ad campaign that draws sharp contrasts and hits voters in their gut.

Democrats value inclusion, fairness, and being nonjudgmental, all of which lead to heavily nuanced arguments. After all, they want...

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Is Palin Afraid to Talk to the Press?

Posted September 9, 2008 | 04:39 PM (EST)


How can Sarah Palin stand up to terrorism if she can't stand up to Brokaw or Blitzer? Despite his name, I don't think Wolf bites.

It doesn't work to proclaim your fortitude in a speech; you have to prove it. So far, when it comes to the press, it...

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Top Poker Pros Talk Poker Strategy and Politics

Posted July 14, 2008 | 05:18 PM (EST)


As the players play down to the main event final table at the 2008 World Series of Poker in Las Vegas, I asked top pros what politicians can learn from the game.

The majority of poker pros I interviewed believe Obama's got "the nuts"-- meaning he's holding a better hand...

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How Did Anne Hathaway Get Duped by a Cad?

Posted July 2, 2008 | 06:54 PM (EST)


Whenever I see a bright, successful, beautiful woman dating a cad, there's a small part of me that still gets surprised even though I've seen it hundreds of times before in clients I counsel, with my friends and acquaintances -- and yes, before I was married, a cad or two...

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Obama Girl Set to Take On McCain Girl

Posted June 23, 2008 | 02:43 PM (EST)


Amber Lee Ettinger, a.k.a. Obama Girl, is a sexy symbol of the Internet's power in this election. She feels lucky that in a small way she's part of a bigger story -- "that the Internet is changing the way people can participate in politics."

My interview with Amber revealed that...

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Playmates on Politics: Q&A with Politically Savvy Bunnies

Posted June 9, 2008 | 03:25 PM (EST)


Sex and politics cross paths in our culture. So I decided to tie the two together by interviewing Playboy Playmates about this year's presidential election.

Five Playmates - one a former Miss USA and another a Playmate of the Year - opened up about their interest in politics, who they...

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Sex and the City Rewrites Cinderella

Posted May 30, 2008 | 05:27 PM (EST)


As much as I love Sex and the City, I came out of the movie feeling sad for the main character, Carrie, who had to beg, borrow, and practically steal to get her guy to commit.

The fairytale has been rewritten to have women accept whatever the man in...

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Election Mania

Posted May 16, 2008 | 05:45 PM (EST)


Voters are on an emotional rollercoaster with their candidates -- from the euphoria of incremental delegate gains one week to the dysphoria of gaffes and momentum shifts the next. Millions of voters are headed for a mood crash -- and we're not even out of primary season!

After an important...

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Could Obama Be the Next Postmodern Hero?

Posted May 13, 2008 | 05:04 PM (EST)


There's no sure career path, no sure relationship, no sure cure, no sure safe-haven, and basically no sure bet. The postmodern era is about shades of grey on a daily basis.

A postmodern hero knows how to traverse this grey zone with the skill of a master surfer cutting...

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