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How Not To Break Up With A Credit Card

Posted: 04/ 7/2012 5:07 pm

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For some people having a credit card handy is like an alcoholic near an open bottle of booze--they just can't leave it alone. And while I like to think I have more restraint than Lindsay Lohan at an open bar, I have been known to go on shopping benders.

There was a period of time I was enjoying the high life: new gadgets, designer shoes, Mexico vacations, all paid for using borrowed money. Meanwhile, my total credit card balance crept up to almost $30,000 at its highest point.

Last month I finally got clean and credit sober. After several years of austerity and chipping away at my debt, I paid off my Bank of American Platinum MasterCard with a final push from my tax refund. And just like an ex-boozer clears all the liquor from his house, I decided to cancel the card to keep extra temptation to spend at bay. I have one other credit card from American Express--and for now that is enough.

I know, I know. All the rules say that it is important to have a good debt-to-credit ratio. In other words, I should have kept that additional line of credit open even after I paid off the bill. And no one said I had to actually carry the card in my wallet. But I wanted it gone.

It has not been easy breaking up with my old friend, MasterCard. Just this week the bank sent me an email to tempt me with 5 percent cash back on purchases. I resisted. Yet in the throes of getting clean, I learned a few more lessons about credit cards--and how to cancel them, which I share here below with you.

Lesson #1: Watch out for the balance after the balance.

That zero balance I was celebrating on March 9 quietly crept back up to $13.53 by March 19. When I saw those numbers, the part of my brain reserved for bank-fee-rage went Code Red. I called up Bank of America to find out why I still owed them more money. While I had paid off my balance nearly two weeks earlier, the bank had yet to post the interest accrued during the first part of the month. Those charges are not posted until the last day of the billing cycle. Hence, the new final balance.

Better advice: Before you close your account, call the bank and get the final total figure.

Lesson #2: Don't throw a break-up tantrum on the phone.

You probably have it too, that special tone of voice you reserve for calling the bank. The tone is polite and you enunciate words to avoid miscommunication; you might even banter a little. But then the conversation takes a turn. It typically happens around the point where the customer service representative won't stop trying to upsell you on yet another service.

When I called to inquire about my leftover balance, it started well enough. But then came the hard sell: the double rewards points and low-interest on new purchases for the next six months. No, no, and no. And it ended with me canceling my card in a tantrum--not the carefully planned detox process I had hoped it would be.

Better advice: Make two calls. In the first call, deal with the business transaction of making the final payment. Then take a deep breath and wait 24 hours and call back to cancel separately. Some credit card experts also advise writing a letter to the bank to confirm both that the account is closed and that you canceled the card--rather than bank revoking your credit.

Lesson #3: Redeem your points before you cancel the card.

During the call where I canceled my card, I asked the representative how long my rewards points were good for. She promised I had up to two weeks to redeem them. Immediately after canceling the card, I dialed up the rewards office and I cashed in my points for $250 in gift cards. Then there was a pause. A long one. The call center worker told me that my points had disappeared over the course of the call to to redeem them. He called it a "system error." I threw a second tantrum but to no avail. Bank of America sent me a letter two weeks later to let me know that in the small print it says rewards can only be redeemed by active customers. Not those that left five minutes ago. Meanwhile, the Bank continues to send me marketing and advertisements to get me spending again.

Better advice: Cash in all your rewards points long before you cancel the card.

Lesson #4: Your credit score might take a hit.

A big part of having a decent credit score is both the longevity of credit and a debit-utilization ratio. In other words, they look at how long you have had a certain card and how much of your available credit are you actually using. (Hint: Less debt, more credit is the best.)

So do as I say, not as I do: If you are trying to build or maintain credit, experts say canceling a long-standing card with more than 10 years of good-payment history and a healthy five-digit line of credit, like I had, is not such a great idea. For me, it's too soon to tell what the effect on my credit score will be. (I do check my credit report at www.annualcreditreport.com).

Better advice: If you're planning to make a purchase in the next year that requires a a high credit score, don't cancel a card--just keep it at zero and out of sight. Other experts say it's better to cancel newer cards first to minimize the impact on the "longevity" element in your credit part.

But despite having made all the wrong moves to get clean from my long-term credit card habit, do I have any regrets? Nope. Like a true addict, I was doomed as long as I spent money in my old patterns. Ultimately, I was giving this credit card far more than it was giving me in the end.

One day, I might open another credit card, but until that day comes I'm happy with my debit card and one AmEx that remains buried deep in a drawer.

 

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For some people having a credit card handy is like an alcoholic near an open bottle of booze--they just can't leave it alone. And while I like to think I have more restraint than Lindsay Lohan at a...
For some people having a credit card handy is like an alcoholic near an open bottle of booze--they just can't leave it alone. And while I like to think I have more restraint than Lindsay Lohan at a...
 
 
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AZreb
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12:18 PM on 04/12/2012
Now banks are enticing those with "risky" credit to take even more credit cards - promises of low interest rates, lots of goodies and credit up the wazoo. Here we go again!

I carry two credit cards - Discover, the one used most often and a Visa from my bank, used very seldom. Both are paid in full monthly and I know approximately what my utilities will be, what I will spend on miscellaneous items (cash) and can then figure out what I can buy on credit without breaking my budget. This month my credit card will be used for an umbrella clothesline and the fencing needed to surround it so the HOA will be happy. Any money left over at the end of the month goes directly into savings.
02:26 PM on 04/09/2012
What a funny coincidence. After reading this story and adding a comment, I get an email telling me Bank of America just billed me $90 for my annual Visa Signature fee. I haven't used this card in 3 years at a least, so I decided to call and cancel it. I have to say in all my experience of canceling credit cards and service, these guys were the easiest. No pressure at all. They said they were sorry to see me go, I was welcome back, and then cancelled the card. Gotta' give 'me credit for that.
02:00 PM on 04/09/2012
Good tips and advice.
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gayandmarried
11:54 AM on 04/09/2012
3 years ago, i had to retire from my job because of health reasons, and took that opportunity to walk away from 2 underwater mortgages,and an incredible amount of credit card debt,, i TRIED to file bankruptcy, but when the banks found out i was planning on doing that, they ALL wrote off the credit card debt to PREVENT me from qualifying for a chapter 7,, They thought that since i no longer qualified for a chapter 7, i would continue to be their money slave for life,, but what they DIDNT plan on, was me just saying, i will no longer pay you another dime as I am insolvent.! Yes, it ruined my credit score, but now i live on a cash basis,and am MUCH happier knowing I am no longer lining the pockets of these THIEVING banks who thought they were smarter than me by writing off credit card debt,, SO, the moral of the story is,, if you have a similar situation, DONT TELL THE BANKS you are going to be filing bankruptcy, just DO it and catch them off guard....
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SteveC 1979
Just...don't.
10:39 AM on 04/09/2012
I have an AmEx and use it maybe once a month for a hundred bucks or so, just to show good credit history. Pay it off right away. I could not imagine carrying thousands of dollars in credit card debt...unless for a true emergency, there is no excuse for that!
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bikelady1
Believe 1/2 of what u see, nothing of what u hear
09:11 AM on 04/09/2012
Maybe its just my life but since I cancelled my credit cards and now just using debit I am a happier person. Know this will not work for everyone, but its my 2Cents worth.
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alafonse
It's definitely a crap-shoot.
08:51 AM on 04/09/2012
My daughter has bought two houses without ever having a credit card in her life. Each time they denied her at first and when she persisted they came up with a fixed rate loan that was very reasonable. Each time the local bank carried the loan. Each time they used her payment history for her utility bills and rent as evidence of her credit history.
Buying a home without a credit account IS doable, but have to persist and not give up, and you have to pay your bills on time in order to do it that way.
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MarilynBB
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07:18 AM on 04/09/2012
I'll be happier with one less credit card as I spring clean my wallet. My cards are paid off monthly but my use of my cards has dwindled with the use of debit. I'll have to check the rewards status before cancelling the newest one though. A good piece of advice!
05:06 AM on 04/09/2012
credit cards can be a huge problem, i learned a long time ago one little thing"if i cant pay the purchase off in 30 days , i cant afford it" this keeps me in control.(with some exceptions)
11:01 PM on 04/08/2012
Yes, for many people today using a credit card produces the same chemicals in the brain as alcohol does. It's like free money until the bill comes due.
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John Shuck
Properly used, profanity is punctuation.
08:53 PM on 04/08/2012
Credit card debt takes a back seat to student loan debt. Talk about taking advantage of the unsophisticated credit seeker.
10:57 AM on 04/08/2012
The latest security breach involving credit-card data serves as an important reminder for cardholders to take precautions in order to protect their personal information.
10:56 AM on 04/08/2012
The hit on your FICO score shouldn't overide the sense of not having a large numbers of cards at your disposal. If a card has me fee, there's no reason not to keep the card. If there's a fee, and you don't use it, then get rid of it. American express is an exception in that I think you get great customer service for the fee you pay annually. I just got a cash back card from Amex in addition to my plain old green Amex card. If you need a bunch of cards to live day to day, you need to make more money, or spend less. I know in the current economy, a lot of people don't seem to have any other choices. For them, I suppose the debt is better than the alternative. Very sad.
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07:36 PM on 04/07/2012
Nothing is quite as sweet as the smell of debt F R E E D O M in the morning.
10:57 AM on 04/08/2012
You are SO right!
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cyndeewi
Here to save the day
05:23 AM on 04/09/2012
You are so right. I have 2 more cards to pay off. I can't wait.
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05:57 PM on 04/07/2012
Great post and very good info!