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Top 10 Weight Loss Excuses and How to Beat Them

Posted: 08/17/2012 7:50 am

If there's an excuse out there, I've heard it. Here's a few that I hear all of the time:

1. I don't have time.
2. I can't afford to eat healthy or go to the gym.
3. It is too hard.
4. It is uncomfortable.
5. I love to eat.
6. I don't know what to do or where to start.
7. I don't have the willpower.
8. I don't have support from friends or family.
9. I have a medical condition (thyroid, disabled, food intolerance, and many more).
10. I have an injury to my (select all that apply) neck, shoulder, elbow, wrist, back, hips, knee, ankle, and/or baby toe.

There are a lot more, but you get the point. I'm here to tell you that not one, NOT ONE of these excuses has any power to stop your transformation. Each and every one of them can be overcome. Will some of them be difficult? You bet. But it can be done. For every excuse I have an answer. But it doesn't matter if I have the answer because, you have to believe it in your heart and be willing to let go of the excuses that only foster fear and failure. Are you ready to let go? Let's do this!

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  • 1. I Don't Have Time

    You'll never find the time, so you must CREATE the time. Wake up earlier (I know you're tired -- so am I in the mornings). Give up something that sucks your time (like TV or computer). As soon as you create the time to exercise you'll feel better, experience increased energy, and have more endurance. You'll be amazed the time you can create with increased energy!

  • 2. I Can't Afford To Eat Healthy Or Go To The Gym

    This is real. The numbers just don't work. I get it; however, I won't accept it. I have good news for you: You don't need to spend one dime on exercise equipment. Your home is filled with tools you can use. Things like canned goods or a gallon of water can be used as weights. Also, you have a body! Use it! Now, what about healthy food being so expensive? Look at what you're spending now. Things like soda, candy, chips, cookies, ice cream, and baked goods are expensive too. Did you know that produce is cheaper than ANY other food per serving? Did you know that healthy, lean protein sources like whey and eggs cost just pennies per serving? Eating healthy can actually be much more affordable than your current lifestyle! NOTE: Considering the long-term cost of heart disease, diabetes, stroke and cancer... you can't afford NOT to live a healthy lifestyle.

  • 3. It's Too Hard

    Isn't being overweight hard, too? It takes a toll on you physically, emotionally, financially, and spiritually every day. I know it does. Life is hard. Everyone's is. You've just got to choose which hard you want... obesity or transformation.

  • 4. It Is Uncomfortable

    Yep. But you are stronger than you think, and you can take more than you think. Believe it. Your life will change when you become comfortable with being uncomfortable.

  • 5. I Love To Eat

    So do I! I eat five times a day. If you want to lose weight you MUST EAT! And who says you can't eat the foods you like? The trick is all in timing, portioning, and combining. <em>Flickr photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/veganfeast/3303017408/" target="_hplink">Vegan Feast Catering</a></em>

  • 6. I Don't Know Where To Start

    Start with getting the right foods into your house and the wrong foods out. Next, just put your body in motion -- have fun and move! Still have questions? Ask a trusted source for answers. You can always check out my website (<a href="http://www.ChrisPowell.com" target="_hplink">www.ChrisPowell.com</a>) or find me on Facebook (<a href="http://www.facebook.com/realchrispowell" target="_hplink">www.facebook.com/realchrispowell</a>).

  • 7. I Don't Have The Willpower

    Want to bet? Losing weight is less about willpower and more about keeping promises to yourself, trying new things, and having faith in the journey. <em>Flickr photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/slightlyeverything/5102990047/" target="_hplink">slightly everything</a></em>

  • 8. I Don't Have Support From Friends Or Family

    Believe it or not, most people don't have the support from family or friends that they want or need. Find someone who will support you, like an online buddy, a friend from the gym, or someone from your church. And don't forget: You've always got me! <em>Flickr photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/fortrucker/6668023047/" target="_hplink">Fort Rucker</a></em>

  • 9. I Have A Medical Condition

    Okay, I'll admit this can be a challenge depending on your situation. Talk to your doctor first, but chances are there is SOMETHING you can still do to get healthy... and I'm sure your doc will jump on board with this goa. Notice that as your health improves, many of your medical conditions will likely disappear.

  • 10. I Have An Injury

    Your body is stronger than you think. With the help of your doctor or a physical therapist you can learn just how far you can push your body. Can't use your lower body? Use your upper body. Can't use your upper body? Use your lower body. If you want it bad enough, you will stay flexible and work around any injury. As you get stronger the injury will become less of an issue. Our bodies are amazing machines. They heal. They strengthen. They succeed.

Now, stop thinking about that one excuse that is unique to you that I have not listed and get over it. You can do this. You are stronger than you think. You have the power to transform your life. No one can do it for you. I can't wait for you to learn this for yourself! Believe. Just believe. Ready? Set? Go!

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If there's an excuse out there, I've heard it. Here's a few that I hear all of the time: 1. I don't have time. 2. I can't afford to eat healthy or go to the gym. 3. It is too hard. 4. It is uncomf...
If there's an excuse out there, I've heard it. Here's a few that I hear all of the time: 1. I don't have time. 2. I can't afford to eat healthy or go to the gym. 3. It is too hard. 4. It is uncomf...
 
 
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05:18 PM on 09/06/2012
I think many of these excuses show that weight loss really starts in the mind. You need a positive outlook and hope to lose weight. There are lots of ways to develop a good outlook. Support groups and journaling can help, as can guided meditation and yoga. Taking care of the emotional reasons for weight gain is important. After all, most of us know the basics of healthy eating and exercise – it’s about getting the mental fortitude to actually follow through.
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11:29 AM on 08/19/2012
The single best thing you can do for yourself is to stop eating "fast food". It may be difficult but it can be done. Then, build on that success and drop the sodas. Another difficult task but one that can be done. The greatest impediment to healthy eating for the bulk (pun intended) of America is the fact that the most unhealthy foods and drinks receive to greatest amount of subsidies and are thus the most profitable for the AgriCorporations to provide.
The "market" decides what gets produced and by that I don't mean what the citizens buy but what is most profitable to produce. Take away the ridiculous subsidies for the corn that is the basis for that ultimate food abomination, high fructose corn syrup, and distribute it instead to healthier varieties of food and this nation could see a health "revolution" that could make Universal Health Care so affordable that it might actually become a reality.
03:02 AM on 08/20/2012
"The single best thing you can do for yourself is to stop eating 'fast food'. It may be difficult but it can be done."

My wife and I recently moved to a town where there isn't much fast food available. Already I've lost five pounds and we've been here all of two weeks.
01:52 AM on 08/22/2012
TOTALLY could not agree more about dropping soda..But unlike most people, for whatever reason I cut my habit of daily soda consumption cold turkey and didn't miss it one bit! I admit up until a few days ago I hadn't had soda in 8 months, but at a friends birthday party the other day the only drinks they were serving were sodas in those cool old fashioned throw back glass bottles, and I didn't want to be rude and say "hey can you go get me a glass of water, I don't want pop" so I just drank the coke..Honestly, water has never tasted better to me than when I was drinking that coca cola. Best feeling in the world.
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Cathrun
Life's too short to drink bad wine.
11:10 PM on 08/18/2012
So many people on here talking about not having any time to exercise or eat well. Here's a thought: Step away from the computer and go for a walk. Rent an exercise DVD from the library. Do something to help yourselves. But most of all, quit putting so much crap in your mouths, Americans. You're fat and lazy. And you're making your kids the same way. And before you ask, I am a cancer survivor with plantar fascitis, asthma, four kids, and a job. Pushing 50 and about a year ago I realized the weight had crept on. NOT because of my health issues, or work, or my kids... but because I liked to eat crappy, fatty food. Because it tasted good. Cut out your carbs, your sugar, start putting calories into My Fitness Pal (it's free) and move it. I had to also find food that still tasted good, but was better for me.
08:12 PM on 08/19/2012
Great post. I had a similar experience. I was pushing 40 and 50 lbs overweight. I'm not sure what snapped but I decided this year was the year I'm going to lose weight. I've tried some other changes to my diet like eating more often or smaller meals. I'm an engineer so I know physics and I knew the key was to eat less calories. The question was how to do it? I found one online that went the opposite way one big meal a day. Since I'm a contrarian at heart I figured I'd try it. So I don't eat anything all day. I drink some coffee, tea, or water when I feel hungry. It's not that bad because I know for dinner I can eat whatever I want. I used my Fitness Pal to count calories and I would eat about 1600-2000 calories a day this way. I lost 45 lbs in 6 months so far.

Here is the key. IT SUCKED!!!! I was in serious pain for about 2 months. I was always hungry. But I knew that for dinner I could eat. For me this was better than eating 3 small meals because I knew I could never survive the rest of my life on those tiny meals. But if you save up all those calories for one nice meal I can do that.

Don't listen to anyone that says it will be easy. It won't be.
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Cathrun
Life's too short to drink bad wine.
10:49 PM on 08/19/2012
LOL...it does suck, doesn't it.Sometimes I think, the hell with it...I'd rather be fat because food just tastes sooo good. But then I realize that if I save up my cals for one really good glass of red wine a few times a week I can do it. It's whatever works for you. It isn't easy but you just have to make up your mind to do it and then stick with it. And forgive youself sometimes when you fail, but to get right back to it.
06:32 PM on 08/18/2012
We just finished week 2 of p90x. It is very difficult---we work 6o hour weeks and are both heavy with bad knees but we did the diet and the excercises (minus the plyometrics)....and we are starting to feel really strong and tight, not flabby. We both lost 6 pounds. We have committed to finishing the whole 90 day program and we watch Extreme Makeover Weightloss every Sunday to keep us going....sometimes we even sit thru and watch the Infomercials for p90x and Insanity, just to keep us motivated to continue.
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Life's too short to drink bad wine.
11:18 PM on 08/18/2012
Good for you!! Even with bad knees you guys are doing it....:)
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02:55 PM on 08/18/2012
So, what was the reason for not posting my comment telling you all the things that are wrong with me and asking for suggestions?
08:55 PM on 08/18/2012
Unless it's appeared in the last few minutes, one of my posts has gone missing here too.
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05:24 PM on 08/19/2012
Nope. It should have been among those on the first page when this first came out. I think he just was stumped because some people actually DO have legitimate reasons they cannot exercise and medications (including steroids for the MS) that make it just about impossible to keep a svelte figure, and he didn't want to admit it.
11:36 AM on 08/18/2012
I agree with this, its the diet that matters more. I never use to exercise before and I had bad eating habits.I was looking for a treadmill. I remember reading an article on http://treadmillshq.com mentioning this same topic about the diet being more important.I changed my eating habit, I started eating more green and less bread and exercised regularly. There has been a change. I remembered years ago having a membership to the gym and exercising 4 times a week. But I still kept the same eating poor eating habits.

It all starts in what you ingest..
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Cathrun
Life's too short to drink bad wine.
11:11 PM on 08/18/2012
75% of it is what you put in your mouth.
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05:55 AM on 08/18/2012
Overeating is an addiction, and it should be treated as such.

Unfortunately, it's the only addiction that cannot be quit cold turkey (pardon the poultry-related pun). Unlike smoking or alcohol or drugs or gambling or whatever, you can't just stop eating, which makes kicking that addiction all the more difficult. It's also one of the only addictions that is socially acceptable to wave in your face in almost every circumstance. An alcoholic can avoid bars, a problem gambler can avoid casinos...but a food addict can't avoid their coworker in the next cubicle who brings them a slice a birthday cake or a family member who makes unhealthy foods the center of every activity.

Not making excuses, just pointing out that a food addiction is extremely difficult to combat in a society where food is everywhere. If you are trying to kick a crack or heroin addiction, it's not like you see ads for those substances everytime you turn on your TV or have your mom telling to take another hit off the pipe before leaving the table.
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sabelmouse
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09:39 AM on 08/18/2012
absolutely. not to mention that as mothers/caregivers we have to fed others.
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Cathrun
Life's too short to drink bad wine.
10:54 PM on 08/18/2012
And as mothers it is our responsibility to teach our kids to eat the right way. Treats are great occassionally but a balanced diet, and exercise, that knowledge has to be passed down to our kids. And if we didn't learn it as kids, we need to educate ourselves to stop the cycle of "addiction".
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Irene Rubaum-Keller
author of the book Foodaholic, psychotherapist
07:47 PM on 08/18/2012
Exactly. It's the one addiction you have to learn to manage. You can't just stop.
12:51 PM on 08/21/2012
It is not just "overeating;" gorging is associated only with modern, processed, evolutionarily-unnatural foods. No goes around gorging on whole foods cooked in traditional fashion (grilled meats, eggs, sauteed veggies, apples, cheese, nuts,etc...you get the idea).

Overeating only occurs in the presence of processed, high-refined carb/sugar, fat foods that humans likely did not evolve to eat.

Portion control, over-eating, and obesity and diabetes reverse themselves if people stop eating processed foods, which includes sugar, high-fructose corn syrup, and, yes, wheat-based foods (including "whole grains"). FYI, wheat has amylopectin A which spikes blood sugar more than almost any other food (leading to blood sugar/insulin spikes and subsequent crash and hunger), gluten (which disturbs the GI system and may generate leptin/insulin resistance), and gliadin (and opiate-like substance that binds to our dopamine receptors, producing pleasure, which drives over-consumption).

All of these processed foods generate insulin/leptin resistance which prevents the hypothalmus from signalling appetite supression.

This is why people overeat.
05:34 AM on 08/18/2012
This is good advice and good motivation. I've found recently that, when I don't have time during the day, a little gentle yoga in the evenings does wonders for me. It really does make a difference just to get off the couch. I'm not overweight, but I struggle to stay in shape sometimes.
I-US
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11:40 PM on 08/17/2012
The comments here make me sad. People are registering frustration with how little time they have to exercise or to focus on eating well, but this is a vicious cycle. Eating has become, in this country, an unsustainable cultural activity; if you imagine that a good meal is Sunday dinner pot roast, or midweek meatloaf, or Thursday happy hour, might-as-well-stay-and-have-dinner at the local chain, or I'll-just-hit-the-drive-through for burgers before that meeting, then you've allowed yourself to be trapped by culture, and it might be time to ask yourself why? and for what purposes am I eating like this? You might also ask why does my plate look like this or my paper bag include--one protein, two sides (that's generous for the bag), one starch. And then ask, what's my reason for not thinking that one apple, an ounce of almonds, and a bowl of lentil, brown rice, carrot, and broccoli stalk soup can also be a meal?
08:57 PM on 08/18/2012
On occasion you could have a meal of lentils, brown rice, carrot, broccoli and apples and almonds, but basically that is an entire meal of CARBS with a few almonds.
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07:11 AM on 08/19/2012
And there is nothing wrong with complex carbohydrates from whole foods.
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08:56 AM on 08/19/2012
what I-US detailed is the basic winter food in mediterranean diet. stews lentils, chick peas and beans. fish three times a week, little meat.
I don't know whats the big deal with carbs, if they are not processed.
11:08 PM on 08/17/2012
The vast majority of health care professionals & plain, old Americans have little to no nutrition training. We super-size out of a sense of value - food is freaking expensive, fast-food or healthy. What we need here is education & reprioritizing of our lives. Personally, I don't respond well to the attitude of either the happy can-do author of this article or the busy moms & caregiver husbands below. Until nutritional education is a natural part of our lives, nothing is going to change.
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Cathrun
Life's too short to drink bad wine.
10:57 PM on 08/18/2012
So sick of hearing about nutritional education. Really? They teach it in school as part of the curriculum but still serve crap in the lunchroom.
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10:57 PM on 08/17/2012
The problem is that the nutritional advice given to people in this country for the past 50 years has only made the obesity epidemic worse. It is very hard to lose weight and have any energy to exercise if you are trying to cut calories and exercise more on a low-fat, high carbohydrate diet.
Determine your critical carb level (The New Atkins for a New You shows you how to do this), up your fat intake (which will give you lots of energy and leave you feeling satiated), and you won't have to worry about will power or lack of motivation. Your weight and health problems will normalize if you feed your body the nutrients it needs and evolved to utilize (whole foods such as well-marbled meats, eggs, full-fat dairy and green, non-starchy vegetables), not the "healthywholegrain" crap the medical establishment, government and media try to convince you to eat.
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It's like picking low hanging fruit.
05:33 PM on 08/18/2012
I became heavy after four kids, was dx'd with Metabolic Syndrome, and the standard weight loss program was a huge fail for me. I heartily agree with your post because the suggested food plan does not work for everyone at all stages of life.
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09:57 PM on 08/18/2012
It doesn't work for most people who actually have weight/metabolic issues. The naturally thin people are not insulin-resistant and do fine eating all the carby junk and try to convince those of us with real issues just to do what works for them. Low-carb is the only option for the vast majority of us with carb intolerance, which is genetic and actually the normal state for most human groups.Glad you found that out for yourself. I wish you good health.
08:58 PM on 08/18/2012
I think the bit that most people miss is the need to increase the fat intake. I missed that for YEARS. And it is just so crucial. Your advice is wonderful as always.
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J David Auner
08:15 PM on 08/17/2012
What about the excuse not on the above list. I lived in a poor area( or I ate lots of fries and cheap meat) and I am loaded with really bad quality fats which I am stuck with for the next 20 years or more. If I lose weight the bad oils concentrate. Cancer, clots, dementia, diabetes and other maladies happen to many people who lose weight - come to the Midwest and South to see the damage.
11:35 PM on 08/17/2012
Is this a joke? Gaining weight INCREASES your chance of cancer, clots, dementia, diabetes, etc. Losing weight LOWERS those chances. When you switch to heathy foods, not only will you lose weight but the vitamins and minerals in healthy foods actually nourish, clean, and detoxify the body of the junk thats in there.
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J David Auner
10:21 AM on 08/20/2012
Sorry. The bubble some people live in is only made of industrial oils and food brought at expiration to the "poor people" stores (the BPA really does dissolve off the can liner and into the food over time) The problems of Burger King etc and resulting obesity is true. The other problem of the cheap food contaminated with un-metabolizable oil is poisoning the poor who don't have access or can't afford real food. If they lose weight for any reason, these bad molecules are concentrated wreaking their havoc. The molecules consumed when the fryer vat oil is recycled through chicken, pork, shrimp etc is absorbed through pinocytosis but can't be metabolized and we don't excrete fat much (well not the gift for a healthy baby) I hope your world is not so toxic.
09:00 PM on 08/18/2012
People don't realise this. THIN does not necessarily equate with HEALTHY. And what you say is quite true, when I lost weight after my second child, using Weight Watchers, I was soon in emergency surgery having my gallbladder removed.
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Irene Rubaum-Keller
author of the book Foodaholic, psychotherapist
08:02 PM on 08/17/2012
Great article Chris. I cover all those excuses in my book. Bottom line is, you have to be ready. Until then "Oh, I broke a nail!" is enough of an excuse to not do the work. Readiness comes when the pain of being overweight outweighs the pleasure of the food, and not before.
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Progressive Party, NOW!!!
09:13 AM on 08/18/2012
Really - you commented to plug your book? Nice!
08:21 PM on 08/19/2012
I can verify this. That is exactly when I decided to lose the weight.
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07:32 PM on 08/17/2012
Been there,done that, you wanna lose weight, there's only one thing that works 100 percent of the time.
STOP shoving food down that hole under you're nose. Would help bring 90% of persons of size to become just persons
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wittyprof
Out of the binder and into the Senate!
07:03 PM on 08/17/2012
so my six knee surgeries just go away if i want them to?

what a stupid article. zero medical information, zero biochemistry, just one dumb platitude after another.
09:53 AM on 08/18/2012
Good thing the blade runner from the olympics didn't have you as a coach. Self pity is self defeating. Look for non weight bearing exercises. Or maybe even those that strengthen muscles surrounding your knees. I have had multiple back procedures and am now in the best shape of my life. Floor exercises, and weights work for me
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wittyprof
Out of the binder and into the Senate!
02:46 PM on 08/18/2012
olympic blade runner, not hyperbolic at all are you?

i stand by my original assessment of the article -- so much interesting work now on calories, fructose/glucose and biochemistry, but this article could have been written in 1976.
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sabelmouse
i love to tumble , ask me why .
10:42 AM on 08/18/2012
i know. i have arthritis and tendinitis and put on a lot of weight because i can't walk much anymore and chronic bronchitis stops me from swimming.all things i used to enjoy.