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How a Muslim Introduced Me to Humanism

Posted: 06/22/2012 3:47 pm

"What's a 'Humanist'?"

As a Humanist activist, it's a question I hear a lot. I'm not comfortable with the idea of trying to answer it on behalf of all Humanists, so I usually respond to the question by sharing the story of how I came to identify as a Humanist. And since yesterday was World Humanist Day, I got to thinking and I feel inspired to share just a small bit of it here. (There are many events that preceded this story but, well... I'll get to that later.)

The story of how I became a Humanist is a funny one to me in part because, after searching so long for an identity that affirmed my naturalistic worldview and compassionate ambitions, I found secular Humanism because of a Muslim.

After years of evading discussions about other people's religious identities or challenging religious dogma in my academic studies of religion, I faltered when it came to discerning how to identify myself. I used "atheist," "agnostic," "nonreligious," and "secular" interchangeably, but none of them really felt right; while each was accurate, they all seemed a bit inadequate -- more like descriptors than identities. None encapsulated how I saw the world; none felt like an affirmation of the values I held. So I just went about doing interfaith work without an affiliation, content to create opportunities for people of varying worldviews to engage with one another constructively. Still, I wasn't completely sure how to articulate my own perspective. I knew I didn't believe in God, but found the idea of declaring positive values much more daunting.

But through the process of doing interfaith work -- through building relationships of understanding and cooperation with religious people -- that began to change. Inspired by others' commitments to their varying worldviews, I began to more deeply consider my own. While interning at Interfaith Youth Core (IFYC), my friend Eboo Patel introduced me to Greg Epstein's Good Without God and the works of other contemporary Humanists. From there, I began to devour Humanist literature; Confucius, Epicurus and Renaissance Humanism, up to more recent Humanist thinkers like Robert G. Ingersoll and Paul Kurtz. I read the various editions of the Humanist Manifestos and jumped up excitedly to repeat their words aloud: "Humanism is a progressive philosophy of life that, without supernaturalism, affirms our ability and responsibility to lead ethical lives of personal fulfillment that aspire to the greater good of humanity." This was what I believed -- particularly its emphasis on taking personal responsibility for the greater good of all -- but another person had written it down.

Inspired by what I'd read, I decided to act. Along with a group of other atheist friends, my friend Erik and I started up a group we called the Secular Humanist Alliance of Chicago (SHAC), to construct an egalitarian community of like-minded individuals. We planned service projects, hosted dialogue events with members of Chicago's Muslim community, and wrote blog posts. But more than anything else, we were a community.

Encouraged by the books I read and the subsequent conversations I had with these friends, I started see my Humanism as not just something I thought about, but something I needed to act upon. The positive orientation of my Humanism allowed me to frame the world through a constructive, optimistic lens, and it became an expression of my greatest ambitions -- one that sought out and celebrated the good in everyone, and encouraged me to act with love and compassion whenever possible, seeking to understand instead of dismiss.

For the first time in as long as I could remember, I felt invested in a positive and deeply personal identity that pretty accurately mapped onto my own convictions. And, as is the case whenever I'm excited about something, I couldn't shut up about it.

So I started blogging at NonProphet Status (where this blog post originally appeared), then elsewhere (including here at HuffPost Religion), and then I started writing a book about the aforementioned "many events" -- about how I went from nonreligious to Evangelical Christian to openly gay atheist to Humanist and interfaith activist. That's coming out in November. I am also proud to work for a Humanist organization, the Humanist Community at Harvard, which works to provide resources for the nonreligious. After a year and a half as the organization's inaugural Interfaith and Community Service Fellow, I am transitioning into the role of Assistant Humanist Chaplain. Perhaps my favorite part of this job is getting to listen to Humanists talk about their stories, their values, and about how they understand Humanism -- and then moving, as a community, from talking about our values to putting them into action.

I keep talking and writing and listening and acting and asking about my and other people's Humanism because the idea of a nonreligious identity based in positive values gives me hope for our future -- a future in which everyone, nonreligious and religious alike, cares much more about the "good" than the "without (or with) God." Such a vision may sound overly optimistic to some, but if a devout Muslim can introduce an atheist like me to Humanism, then I believe anything is possible.

If you're a Humanist, please feel free to share the story of how you became one in the comments. If you're not, feel free to ask questions, or share a story about a Humanist that inspires you!

Want to get involved in Humanism? Check out the Humanist Community Project website for more!

 

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12:44 PM on 07/06/2012
I am not sure who your vision would sound "optimistic" to, but a world w/out God is a world far from good.
11:01 AM on 07/05/2012
"All the sects and peoples worship their own thought; they create a god in their own minds and acknowledge him to be the creator of all things, when that form is a superstition — thus people adore and worship imagination." - Baha'i Writings
03:10 PM on 07/02/2012
Thank you for sharing this wonderful article. As an Interfaith activist myself I feel your article really speaks to people of all (non) Faiths of the common humanity that binds us together and the ability to do good.

Many faith based people (including myself) are often hesitant to work with Humanists, as we often conflate New Atheism with Humanism. Your article did a great job in clearing up misconceptions and providing common ground where Humanists and those of other philosophies/religion can work together.
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04:04 PM on 06/25/2012
Question for humanists: why does the universe exist?
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Doug Sandlin
We See The World Not As It Is But As We Are
08:00 PM on 06/26/2012
You may not get many answers.

Humanists tend not to be real big on conceptual conjecture.

(Any answers you get to that question will, of course, simply be someone's opinion.)
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F-BVFF
10:27 AM on 06/27/2012
I figured! I suppose it's all going to be conjecture and opinion to some extent, even the axioms of mathematics are technically a conjecture and not proof :) I guess I was just hoping that they could have an answer for the ultimate basis of the their actions.
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06:23 PM on 06/30/2012
Why does an apple exist?
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mustbelove
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09:41 PM on 06/30/2012
for pie. :)
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09:47 AM on 07/02/2012
I couldn't say whether it exists or not or why; it's contingent on the answer for my question
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LittleFish31617
God shall be all in all.
02:46 PM on 06/25/2012
What I find interesting about Humanism is that it seems to attempt to appeal to a Universal Moral Law, yet often denies God.

For example, the most humanists would agree that the Golden Rule is a worthy and good thing. Yet when one traces the reasons for why this is so, without God, one winds up with various forms of self interest or herd instinct that just don't seem to completely justify the Golden Rule in and of themselves.
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04:03 PM on 06/25/2012
Hi! Completely agree. Have you ever pushed that point on people that discuss the Golden Rule, for example, asking why they know it to be true, etc, and then what their ultimate response is. In my experience, I've never received a straight answer, but rather that it is good for the survival of the species or that it makes them feel good, etc. What responses have you found?
07:34 AM on 06/30/2012
That's why many people are also agnostic, because if they acknowledge the existence of a few universal truths that value love and kindness towards other human beings -- these very general principles that are shared in many religions world wide -- it denies the validity of one specific religion.

It renders Christianity as a cultural historical invention, as it does with Buddhism, or any other religion.
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06:59 PM on 06/30/2012
It depends on the type of G_d; there are MANY

G_d could really just mean all of humanity realizing how we are interdependent and working together in harmony with us and reality = G_d. "to hold G_d above all else and to have no other G_ds before me" is to hold what I wrote in the first sentence to be absolutely true

In fact, I think Judaism tried to get people beyond the concept of G_d as some being outside of themselves that they can foist off responsibility to...

And as for G_d as creator...Physicists are the modern theologians of that idea now...they just don't call it G_d because it's not precise enough...

Also, religion I think is an art, where art is where we create meaning (which works well with science, because science is where we find out facts)...and meaning is vitally important...we've created amazing things like beauty, justice, mercy...

And different people find different things to be meaningful...the spice of life

What is happening now is that a Global Ethics is being hammered out that everyone is going to have to follow, regardless of personal religion, belief, worldview...

Or something like that
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03:30 PM on 06/24/2012
Other than Human Rights, what does a Humanist do?
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06:26 PM on 06/30/2012
Other than say they are an American, what does an American do?
04:12 AM on 06/23/2012
Humanists are atheists. Some like hanging out with theists so they can share their moral outlooks and thus feed each other's sense of being sharing, tolerant modern people.

As a Marxist, eco-pantheist I consider humanists to be conformist, legalistic and moderate to such a degree that they are incapable of having a radical thought.
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larry cifuentes
01:09 PM on 06/24/2012
Just unbelievable ! ?

A Marxist, whose mind be communist "must be stalled in thoughtless mechanical mode" to be calling his "mental cousin," the Humanist, "incapable of having a radical thought."
01:32 PM on 06/24/2012
Humanists have been cutting deals with theists since Julian Huxley was hanging on the coat-tails of 
 Teilhard de Chardin both agreeing that nature was a machine (gift from god or natural resources) to be exploited.
They shared an anthropocentric cosmic vision which perverts nature into an insignificant slave of their visions.
Also in collusion they redefine ideological worldviews as moral puzzles thus excluding any perspective which aims at overthrowing the status quo.
Humanism in collusion with theism is a form of bourgeois moderate reformism, an unwitting ally to theists in keeping a pantheistic vision at bay. A vision which which threatens their theistic anthropocentric absurdities and also the reductionist arrogance of the scientific humanists.
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04:05 PM on 06/25/2012
Hi! Could you share a little what it means to be a Marxist and eco-pantheist from your perspective? Those terms have been given so many associations that they've lost all meaning in my head.
09:12 PM on 06/25/2012
1. Theists and atheists reify concepts to create illusory constructs which allow them to rationalize rape of the planet.2. Faith and materialism present a false duality. This fraud inhibits development of a critique which to underpin what is as yet weak ideology of environmentalism.3. The fundamental principle of breaking through to a post-modern ideology is acknowledging that folk (past and present) who regard the Earth as sacred are right.4. Applying concept of synergy, the way to rescue humanity and other species from mass murder is to create many tens of millions of jobs around the world devoted to environmental recovery. Funds for these jobs must come from emergency taxation of global wealthy.5. Communistic eco-pantheism has roots in the Enlightenment and Romanticism, giving us the collocation ''egalitarian individualism.''6. Corporations can manage great complexity. They need political direction, no nationalization necessary. 7. The key to postmodern Marxism is the  political re-allocation of capital, not changing ownership of existing entities.
ThinkCreeps
Seriously, it's time.
01:52 AM on 06/23/2012
`Want to get involved in humanism?'

We're all involved in humanism, whether there is superstitious baggage to impede it or not.
08:57 PM on 06/22/2012
How I became a humanist? Having been raised in a non-religious home, I realized that I had grown into a caring, moral adult - all without the need for a belief in some supernatural lawgiver who governed which foods I ate on which days, what fibers my clothing was made out of, or how I cut my hair. It became painfully obvious that morality has absolutely nothing to do with religion....
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07:44 PM on 06/22/2012
Truths come in degrees of awareness; humanism is one path to greater awareness. As is Buddhism, Hinduism, Christianity, Islam, paganism, spiritualism, atheism, etc.

Religious institutions can learn much from humanists, but of course likewise, humanists can learn much from the great spiritual teachings of many but not all of their prophets. It won’t happen often, as the human ego on both sides wants to be known for knowing and special.

I am still waiting for humanists to explain dark matter and dark energy and to create in their labs enough vitality from stardust to keep one cell alive. Just one cell is that too much to ask. :-)

A humanist to me is saying, "throw the baby out with the bathwater" no one creates more atheists than the Catholics.

The human ego takes to guilt and culpability and blameworthiness like a duck takes to water. Religion depends on that human ego to keep their religious institutions intact.
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12:11 PM on 06/25/2012
Humanism is about believing in that which has the greatest chance of being true. I believe that scientists have the best understanding of what is true regarding the fields in which they study. Thus, I assign a greater probability of truth to their claims compared to those made by primitives who had no grasp of the inner workings of nature. That doesn't mean scientists aren't wrong about a lot of things. However, I choose not to waste time on improbable truths until evidence and reason suggest they are worth my time.
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04:06 PM on 06/25/2012
So you're saying that humanism = Judaism?
02:13 PM on 06/22/2012
From reading this article I think I'm a humanist too. I come from an evangelical Christian upbringing, but have lately considered myself an agnostic. I certainly don't have all the answers like I used to, but I still think in my current state of confusion that working to make the world a better place is the most important thing we can do. Treating each other with dignity and respect, bringing justice where there is no justice, raising up those in poverty, and getting food and water to those who are starving and dying of thirst is what we should be concerned about. I wish I did have the answers to why we are here on Earth, but in the meanwhile I think it is best to improve the lives of others.
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dschiff
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02:20 PM on 06/22/2012
Might I suggest www.reddit.com/r/atheism
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dschiff
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01:31 PM on 06/22/2012
A similar story here. I was an agnostic atheist, Jew, secularist, and so on. I started to identify more as an atheist than a Jew. I was starting a secular/atheist group in college, and realized that the humanist label really captures the positive moral vision more than atheism does (as a metaphysical, rather than moral position). The flourishing of humans is really central, and hence I started up a Humanist group at my college. On the other hand, I also value the flourishing of all other sentient creatures, so I worry that humanism is too narrow, at least nominally.
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Damn Damien
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12:40 PM on 06/22/2012
"Humanism is a progressive philosophy of life that, without supernaturalism, affirms our ability and responsibility to lead ethical lives of personal fulfillment that aspire to the greater good of humanity."

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It should read:

Humanism is a progressive philosophy of life that affirms our ability and responsibility to lead ethical lives of personal fulfillment that aspire to the greater good of humanity -- without recourse to supernaturalism.

Strictly speaking "humanism" is not a philosophy. It simply rejects the claim theistic claim that a code of ethics and self-evident truths require a higher sanction for validity.

"Ethical axioms are found and tested not very differently from the axioms of science. Truth is what stands the test of experience." -- Albert Einstein.
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06:29 PM on 06/30/2012
Albert Einstein also disliked being used by theists and atheists to support their positions
11:10 AM on 06/22/2012
I really think that an "humanist" is someone who think that human being is the centre of all things.
I mean by that, that human being is the greatest and honorable part of all in this world.
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Jelle NL
Unity in Diversity
10:39 AM on 06/22/2012
Every religion is intended to result in Humanism - love for mankind. When religion breeds enmity and hate, it’s preferable that religion does not exist.
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dschiff
Always learning
01:33 PM on 06/22/2012
Indeed, the real intersection of the interfaith movement is just around the non-supernatural. Humanism is their common element.
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F-BVFF
04:07 PM on 06/25/2012
However you'd agree that love for mankind may mean killing many, many people, if it came to that?
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06:31 PM on 06/30/2012
right now someone in the world is suffering because of something you did or didn't do...how are you going to deal with that?
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04:37 PM on 07/03/2012
You last wrote to me in this particular branch of this thread:

“Well in this case I thought we're talking about moral questions, of course there are other aspects to our actions.”

I posit that looking at actions only as right OR wrong doesn't fit or harmonize with actual empirical existence.

Here are some ferinstances:

A lioness' feeds her hungry cubs by killing a gazelle. She must, or the cubs will starve.

Nearly all life on Earth was wiped out by life as life itself started producing at toxic and corrosive gas, Oxygen.

WWII many, many people died. But out of that many technologies were made, including some of them from the Nazis, so now we can better save drowning victims...

If one thinks of these actions as right or wrong, there are two answers. If one can break free of that, then the possibilities open up wider, showing the actual contingent nature of existence...