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12:10 PM on 08/07/2012
Every time I kiss my wife intimately she thinks I want sex with her. Not so. Some times I look at her and think how beautiful she still is and I just want to intimately kiss her on her mouth, cheeks, face and neck without wanting to run and get in bed or wherever. Then when I tell her I just wanted to kiss her and not have sex she thinks I am not turned on by her. Then it stops me from wanting to kiss her until I want sex. WTF. So now I just imagine kissing her when I only want a kiss. We still have sex 3-5 times a week so all is good. After 8 kids she is still lovely and she will always be the only love in my life. Kissing is awesome if you love the one your kissing.
01:51 PM on 08/07/2012
I salute you on how you still view your wife. What do you think might happen if you tell her what you think of her & how you feel toward her as you leave for work or as you fix her dessert or bring her a cup of tea or check to make sure the kids have completed to her standard a task they were assigned? (terrible run-on sentence but I think you get me) See how she responds to things like this sans kissing.

You might also want to share an intimate kiss with her as you're on your way to run an errand or on your way to work when sex is clearly not likely to occur at that time. I'd like to think at least two things are true; 3-5 times a week & 8 kids = she's into you AND that you must be doing something right. Wish you two the best!
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alantatanka
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06:25 PM on 08/07/2012
So many ways to look at this, but really, 3-5 times a week. I would have been happy with 3-5 times a year. Holding hands on a walk, brief spontaneous hugs, a soft massage of the shoulder/neck area. Talk with her not to her. Listen to her and make constructive comments but sometimes don't say anything, only listen. Look into her eyes when she is talking.
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JimAR
12:01 PM on 08/07/2012
Oh, no. Please God, not another "slide show." Why can't they just show me the article?
12:33 PM on 08/07/2012
Better than a video--i get soooo tired of thinking I will get an article & get a video. I never watch them.
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mymedicalcd
11:56 AM on 08/07/2012
my girl doesent like tongue kissing never had this before why
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11:40 AM on 08/07/2012
For years all that kissing , had to denture dip more often than before until we found it easier to remove them every time we engaged in hanky panky.
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beanbrain
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11:35 AM on 08/07/2012
looks pretty good to me, i never figured out why husbands seem to stop kissing, but still did everything else....... i think they are afraid of real intimacy.... kissing IS the most intimate thing you will do with your husband!
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Hamid Ashouri
11:09 AM on 08/07/2012
So far, I haven't kissed any girl in my life. I don't what people when they have oral connection?
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Hamid Ashouri
11:13 AM on 08/07/2012
“So far, I haven't kissed any girl in my life. I don't know what people feel when they have oral connection.

OOps in my previous comment I missed out two verbs.
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JimAR
12:03 PM on 08/07/2012
Sounds like you've missed more than grammar classes.
07:25 PM on 08/07/2012
Well don't know your age, but wait until you have the ultimate in kissing... Oral sex.
03:55 PM on 08/07/2012
I think that nasally inhaling as well as orally ingesting nonvolatile particulates around the mouth and neck, including but not limited to salivary origin, induce pair-bonding quicker and easier and stronger than any other method. So be careful: you might like her a lot more afterwards!
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BlackCloudDancir
10:47 AM on 08/07/2012
My husband and I don't French. We don't do "Operation Suck Face" as my dad calls it, and we don't kiss sounding like animals licking themselves. But we do kiss-before and after work, before bed, before either of us go anywhere without the other (even if he's just going outside with the kids and I'm staying inside), and any time we feel like it. Sometimes, sex in a marriage isn't everything, and there are other ways to please than just intercourse. Being cuddly, massages, naked-body cuddling (without sex), etc are all a part of being intimate. So many times I see in relationships that it's all about sex-there's no other affection or contact. Maybe people would stay together more if they were actually happy with the person they chose. My husband hadn't dated after his first wife passed away and I was a virgin but neither of us based our relationship (then marriage) on sex. We've just had our 14th Anniversary. Perhaps, putting more emphasis on the "other" things would be more helpful in finding a long term relationship/friend.
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beanbrain
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11:37 AM on 08/07/2012
but kising IS still important..... very intimate
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BlackCloudDancir
11:57 AM on 08/07/2012
That's what I'm saying-putting emphasis on "other" things-like kissing!
03:56 PM on 08/07/2012
Nuzzle. neck.
10:44 AM on 08/07/2012
...I tried it, but got divorced anyway....guess she wanted me to kiss HER...(oh well)...
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Silver Star
10:14 AM on 08/07/2012
Let's face it...after a number of years with the same person, kissing is not as exciting as it once was. Plus those everyday little annoyances make it hard to want to kiss their face! The last thing I wanted to do when I was with my husband was kiss him...he was such a gloomy Gus...he was lucky if I even wanted to talk to him. Nothing made him happy and it was a constant effort just to get him to smile. Yeah, I really wanted to kiss him...NOT! Even some of my so-called happily married friends have pretty much eased up on the kissing...the spark is no longer there for them. They are more like friends than lovers these days and a lot of them stay together for the sake of convenience.
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Mary Willingham Russell
10:30 AM on 08/07/2012
I can certainly agree to a point and I would rather be on my own. I am working on it!!!
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Silver Star
10:40 AM on 08/07/2012
I've been alone for about 11 years now and I love it. No having to look at his gloomy mug everyday or ask him what's wrong. I also don't have to cook if I don't feel like it and now that I don't have to make him meals, I have lost weight and feel great.
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beanbrain
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11:43 AM on 08/07/2012
kissing is NOT sex, kissing is intimacy.... when a couple quits kissing, they lose their intimacy.... if my husband stopped kissing me, i would wonder why..... kissing is good at ANY age.... people just get lazy.... kissing is the most intimate thing you will ever do with your husband!
10:08 AM on 08/07/2012
How about breath mints for her and a bottle of whiskey for me.
madeye1
I cahoot with no one.
12:20 AM on 08/08/2012
Or the other way around, works just as well.
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ebsb52
09:59 AM on 08/07/2012
Kissing is the way to the heart, all these years I thought BJ's were.
02:09 PM on 08/07/2012
BJ's are STILL the way to the heart-Don't listen to these fools --LOL
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lb44444
09:50 AM on 08/07/2012
Deep, intimate, passionate, soulful kissing, especially with eyes open (many people cannot handle the intimacy of that and kissing done the right way can be more intimate than intercourse sometimes....couples who have no problem having sex, but do not kiss alot while doing so have an intimacy problem. I've known that's when a relationship is over, being able to have sex with the person, but not wanting to kiss him, that's a sign for me it's over...good kissing is hugely, hugely important in a relationship..
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Ann Theresa
08:37 AM on 08/07/2012
If my husband would get his teeth cleaned, I'd kiss him ....he hasn't been to the dentist in over 15 years!!!
08:52 AM on 08/07/2012
good stuff lol
09:49 AM on 08/07/2012
Don't sweat the small stuff. That's not where he wants you to kiss him anyway... C'mon, Somebody had to tell her.
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beanbrain
God bless the USA
11:50 AM on 08/07/2012
how sad you miss the entire point..... bg's are not intimate, kissing is.... you would make one awful husband with your attitude.... bg's are the "small stuff" kissing is the key most important thing in any intimate relationship.....
08:29 AM on 08/07/2012
That is one way to get her to shut the f#*k up !!!
09:15 AM on 08/07/2012
Hey Mike - well, even if you're a crap kisser - at least you can win her over with that Jimmy Stewart like charm... Way to go Buddy!
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beanbrain
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11:52 AM on 08/07/2012
i think with his attitude, he must be crap at everything....
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beanbrain
God bless the USA
11:51 AM on 08/07/2012
why did you marry her? poor choice? your comment is so telling of what you are eek..
07:00 AM on 08/07/2012
I always enjoy it when my partner at the time strokes my tool through my pants while kissing me...a big turn on.
10:42 AM on 08/07/2012
ok. so whats the dog get out of it...